Ceremonies by Bethel

Hiring Bethel to officiate our wedding was the best decision we made in preparing for our big day. Bethel's pre ceremony exercises gave us the opportunity to reflect on our love, remind us of why we chose to get married, and why this was a day to celebrate. She helped us form an even tighter bond in what can be a very stressful time leading up to the wedding. The ceremony was perfect, our guest were in awe of her ability to write such a beautiful and captivating script, sharing just the right amount of intimate details of our relationship. There is a reason that Bethel is awarded the best officiant in Southern California. She is the best of the best!

My favorite part about my wedding was the ceremony and I’m glad I’m able to associate such a special moment with happiness and laughter. I honestly think it’s all because of Bethel. Bethel just has a way of structuring the ceremony so people can really see how you are as a couple (with the help of some homework). It was like the people we love and care about were able to look through a window into our relationship. They could see how beautiful the love we have is and how in sync we are even when we don’t even try. I’m happy Bethel was able to bring that out for everyone to see. I feel like people tend to not prioritize officiants, but I think it’s so important. You’ll constantly look back at your ceremony because it’s where you’re promising forever with your partner whether it’s just the two of you or in front of loved ones. Bethel made our wedding lighthearted, fun, and memorable. Don’t settle for anything less on your wedding- go with Bethel. I absolutely can’t recommend Bethel enough.

This is a long time coming but very much deserved. Bethel was first a friendor as we worked many weddings together, prior to her officiated my wedding. She is kind, thoughtful, inclusive, loving, respectful and above all else a true professional of her craft. She creatively writes the most beautiful, personal and special ceremonies for couples and when it came to my own wedding she was not only flexible and understanding of us having to move the date (2020) but she wrote the most beautiful ceremony for us and helped us craft our vows with great prompts and made us feel heard. We love Bethel and I recommend her to all my wedding clients.

We all know weddings are stressful, even with coordinators and the bridal party but in walks this bright eyed, smiling, peaceful woman and instantly I feel a sense of relief- and guys I’m not even the bride! Bethel is an angle disguised as an officiant. Prior to the ceremony things were in disarray and Bethel literally stepped in to help coordinate, above and beyond her duties. She also gave us (the bridal party) one of the most crucial tips- don’t lock your knees. Prior to the ceremony I knew the love story of my best friend and her fiancé but Bethels words gave such a visual to bond that the bride and groom had. I was balling. It was so touching and so personal. I was in another wedding only a couple weeks later and oh my gosh ! What a difference and not in a good way. I get it, to each their own but this priest, one didn’t even pronounce the last name correctly and 2 even kicked the brides veil from off his foot. I couldn’t even believe the difference not even just from unparalleled originality but differences in professionalism. I was single at the time but I told my bride, best friend that when I do get engaged, Bethel is a non negotiable. About 3 years later I was engaged and we interviewed with Bethel and she was officially our officiant. I never really thought about what it took for bethel to create such beautiful ceremonies but I learned through our homework how she was really able to embody both partners. She did such an amazing job with our wedding I’ve referred to all who will listen and now I’ve been to 3 bethel ceremonies. Ceremonies can be cookie cutter but they can also be something you and your guests never forget. Let your guests not only see your love but feel it too.

There are not enough effusive words in the world to describe how wonderful Bethel is! I am lucky enough to know Bethel from my previous career as a Wedding Planner and to be able to call her my friend. And when my partner proposed, I knew that Bethel was our only option for an officiant. During our engagement, Bethel checked in on us, asked us to work on assignments, and reminded us what the wedding was all about our marriage. Bethel understood our need for humor and ensured we did not have any words that reflected god or church, as we are staunch atheists. We know we are not for everyone, and we love that about one another, and she emphasized that for us. She has fantastic insight and can genuinely see how much love a couple has for one another but also how that love affects others around them. Our ceremony was a perfect marriage (no pun intended) of what we said in our assignments about each other, our love for one another, and beautiful words from Bethel. She absolutely killed it. It was the best way to start our marriage and continue our lives together. If Bethel is available for your wedding date, book her. She is an amazing human and an epic officiant!

I cannot say enough about Bethel. She was outstanding from day one. Her writing and reading of the ceremony were perfect. She made the process fun for us, gave us ideas to make us more comfortable and captured everything we wanted in a ceremony. Most of our friends who were recently married did so with a friend or family member as the officiant but didn't want our friends to have any jobs at the wedding. I am so glad we went the route we did. After the ceremony our friends and family were raving about her - she had so many compliments. She made us feel like she was part of our relationship from day 1, she gave advice and our day wouldn't have been as perfect if we went with anyone else. Highly recommend.

Having an officient that gets so involved with their couples is the HUGE difference between a happy occasion and a magical event! And that is EXACTLY what Bethel did for us! She asks questions, inspires deep and thoughtful responses and then sprinkles in her own touch to create a ceremony tailor made for her couples. And it does not stop at the wedding! As a bride who will be taking my husband's name - post-wedding, Bethel provided links to kits that will help navigate the labrynth of those facing the challenge of name change!! We are so happy and do very, deeply thankful that we chose Bethel - and you will be too!!!!

As a wedding florist and venue owner for 15 years, I have seen it ALL. So when I had to find vendors for my own wedding that met my very high standards, it was not an easy task. Bethel made it so easy! Bethel was the definition of professionalism. I could not have asked for a better officiant who worked hard to get to know my husband and I and give us a ceremony to remember! Hire Bethel, you won't regret it!

Bethel was an absolute joy to work with for our wedding! My husband and I were a bit stuck trying to sort out how we wanted the ceremony to go. Bethel swooped in with recommendations and ideas, as well as wonderful homework assignments that helped us to remember exactly why we were so excited for our wedding. The day of went so smoothly with Bethel providing clear and helpful direction. She really thinks of everything and makes the ceremony so personal and meaningful!

Bethel was our officiant for our January 13 wedding at the San Diego Safari Park. We absolutely LOVED working with her, she is the BEST. If anyone is getting married in the San Diego area, I highly recommend booking with her as soon as possible. She made our ceremony magical and we couldn’t imagine having anyone else be our officiant, the wedding just wouldn’t have been the same. First we met her over zoom and immediately knew she was the perfect officiant for us. She had us each fill out questions without the other person seeing what we wrote and had us send them to us individually. We also met and talked about what we wanted in our ceremony, and she sent us tons of ideas. This helped us so much with figuring out what to do in our ceremony and even what kind of vows we wanted to do for the ceremony. We are so blessed that we were able to have Bethel marry us on the most special day of our lives, and we truly believe we have found a wonderful friend through this. Bethel goes above and beyond for everyone and truly gets to know the couple and the relationship. We even were able to send her love letters to each other before the wedding, and she mailed them to us along with everything in the ceremony and our own “marriage certificate” where we selected our wedding party to sign.

Bethel was phenomenal to work with! From the very beginning of our engagement, she walked us through all the steps to plan a wedding ceremony, thought of tons of considerations we never would have, gave us tons of valuable materials to streamline the planning process, and delivered a knockout performance on our big day. She had everyone in tears with the raw emotion of the ceremony. Everyone who came up to me throughout the night specifically mentioned how moving the ceremony was, thanks to Bethel! The secret sauce that made the ceremony great was in how Bethel communicated with us throughout the months leading up to the wedding. She would have a video call with us on occasion and emails to explain next steps, share helpful examples and resources to guide us through making decisions on the ceremony that would ensure it was a good fit for us, our value systems, and our relationship. She would always share more ideas if we needed them. She walked us guided sets of questions to source the material that would shape the ceremony. In the end, she weaved together all the inputs we gave into such an artful telling of our story and the history and vibe of our relationship in a beautiful way. She really has a special talent for storytelling. On top of all of this, she stayed on top of all the paperwork necessary to make sure we actually ended up legally married, which can be a lot to keep track of. She made all of this super easy for us, so we didn't have to give it a thought on our wedding day. Bethel gets my top recommendation, the best wedding officiant I've ever seen.

Bethel was the absolute BEST! She made us feel so special and was so attuned to everything that makes us a couple. So many of our family members and friends who attended our wedding have been asking about her and we cannot recommend her enough! Bethel has the most calming and endearing presence that helps you to feel comfortable, calm, and ready to dive into the next chapter with your partner! She was so welcoming and so dear and we absolutely loved the homework she gave us in the time leading up to our wedding. Cannot thank her enough for making our ceremony so special and for taking such love and care to ensure we had the most perfect ceremony!

Bethel was the perfect officiant for our special day! She thought of things that I never knew I wanted to have, but now that she captured all of that for our wedding - I can’t imagine having it any other way! From the thoughtful and thorough homework assignments, her checking in on us throughout the planning process to see if we needed more support, and her unique list of options for a unifying ceremony (we did a chocolate tasting during our ceremony!) - she helped to create such a personal and unique wedding ceremony for not only us, but also for our family and friends to experience! She really puts her couples first and crafted such a great wedding ceremony around us. We got so many compliments from our guests about Bethel’s work, her amazing words, and the beautiful ceremony she gave us. We couldn’t have asked for anyone better to marry us and to have as part of our wedding day! (PS - she books up fast, and for good reason! so be sure to contact her as soon as you find her, for your best chance at getting her booked for your date!!) …and don’t worry we got the classic Bethel selfie too, so she’s captured in our day of memories forever! Thank you Bethel!! Love, Lauren and Doug

Bethel is an excellent officiant and the ceremony she prepared for our wedding was perfect. Choosing Bethel was easily one of the best decisions we made and we are beyond lucky to have worked with her. From the beginning, Bethel was professional, sweet, and kind. We didn’t know exactly what we wanted in a ceremony, but Bethel patiently listened as we talked through all our wishes and ideas. She then diligently walked us through all the different options and ultimately created a beautiful custom ceremony that was truly one of a kind. Bethel also took the time to learn about the details of our relationship and incorporated these into the ceremony. This made our ceremony feel even more intimate and special. Simply put - Bethel is an amazing officiant who will give your ceremony the attention it deserves and make your wedding day amazing!

Our wedding ceremony was hands down, the best one we’ve ever attended - & we’ve been to a lot! Bethel was recommended to us by our wedding planner & she was simply amazing. She had an initial video call with us & just had this amazing positive energy that just drew us in. And she will give you all the tools you will ever need for anything ceremony related! We had plenty of styles, quotes, short readings, ceremony ideas, ring ceremony wording ideas, and vows to read though. We sifted through them all and chose what spoke to us & sent it back & she created the most beautiful ceremony for us! She even had the sweetest idea of drafting a love letter for each other (before the wedding) to read to one another on all our anniversaries in the years ahead (or birthdays or valentines days, etc. ) <3 After our wedding, she sent us the actual cards we read our vows from on our wedding day! And she has all the information you’d ever need on obtaining your marriage license, name changes, and all the tips for everything in between. She really does love her job! She is so invested in her couples & is the ray of sunshine guiding you to the *most* important part of your wedding day. We’ve kept in touch with her & will continue to do so as the years pass by. She truly is a gem in this world of revolving door interactions & you will not be disappointed!

Bethel is the best in the business and has the most loving, kind, genuine, and thoughtful heart. She is the vendor I received the most complements and praise towards after the ceremony! Bethel is so special and rare; she truly cares so deeply about her couples and has a magical way of capturing who they are and reflecting that in her ceremonies. I was so nervous to read my vows, and her calming and loving aura she creates made my nerves go away completely. She made writing the ceremony a very easy process, through asking my husband and I different questions about our relationship to get to know us better. She is compassionate and understanding towards family dynamics and makes everyone feel important. I love you Bethel, thank you for making me and Nick feel supported, comfortable, and loved during our ceremony. If you are looking for an officiant, do not look any further and book Bethel immediately. She is truly an incredible soul and a gift and treasure to those around her.

Oh Bethel - I don’t even know where to start. I spent hours upon hours looking for an officiant. I had two requirements: they could actually speak in front of a crowd, and they could write us a ceremony that meant something. I thought about having a friend or family member do it, but nothing ever felt “right” — and then I found you. It was sort of like meeting my other soulmate. From the very second we first spoke, I knew this was a great fit. She took care of nearly everything for the ceremony, and our marriage license- and it truly eliminated so much stress from our day. She knew what to say, and when to say it. Not to mention, our ceremony was completely customized to us. There was not a single dry eye in the crowd. Bethel- thank you will never be enough for giving us this day. You wrote and delivered a ceremony that truly we will hold close to our hearts for the rest of our lives. 💕

Wow, Bethel gives the most sincere, thoughtful, happy and professional ceremonies ever. We could not be happier with what she did for us for both our ceremonies given we had a small intimate one during the pandemic on our initial date on 10/10/20 and the full ceremony on 10/8/22. Bethel incorporated information in both ceremonies. She’s extremely excellent and a true professional!!

Bethel is seriously AMAZING!!! My husband and I were planning a destination wedding in San Diego, and since we are from the opposite side of the country, we had no clue where to find a ceremony officiant. Lucky for us, we found Bethel! She is super friendly, organized, and professional. She really took the time to get to know us over Zoom and through emails so that she could create the most beautiful and personal wedding ceremony for us. When we met her in person for the first time on our wedding day, it felt as if she was an old friend we had known for years! She paid attention to all the little details so that everything went smoothly during the ceremony, and she made us feel so comfortable up there! We had TONS of guests telling us that it was the sweetest, most personal wedding ceremony that they had ever witnessed. Thank you for everything, Bethel!

My wife Karli and I loved absolutely everything about working with Bethel. Even after just meeting her at the initial consultation, we felt like she was an old friend. She's gifted at connecting with people this way. She has a wonderful process to get to know us as a couple & what our relationship is like. During our ceremony, there was not a dry eye in the house. Everything was meaningful, touching, and captured all the emotions that my wife and I feel for each other. Many people told us that it was the best wedding ceremony they had ever witnessed. Bethel also wonderful to communicate with, and advises on all the details surrounding the ceremony & marriage license (she even had resources for my name change). I would highly recommend Bethel as a wonderful officiant!

Bethel was the perfect officiant for our big day! We found her via our venue and were lucky we did! She puts a lot of effort into crafting the perfect ceremony for couples, while also giving them a lot of autonomy on what is said/done during the ceremony. She walked us through every step of the process, including the marriage license, and took care of mailing the license back so we could relax post wedding. She made the ceremony special and gave us some words of wisdom post ceremony. She is awesome and would recommend her to any couple looking for an officiant!

We had such a beautiful wedding and Bethel as our officiant was certainly a huge part of it. She got to thoroughly know us as a couple and our friends and family thought she was a close friend of ours because of how warmly she spoke of us. We are so happy that we decided to go with Bethel, over the months leading up to the wedding she also prepped us to write our vows and love letters to each other that we received just a few days after our wedding day. She also sent me an email with all the details to get the marriage license and change my name which was SO HELPFUL because that can seem really daunting. Thank you for everything Bethel!

Bethel was absolutely amazing!! The work she put in to learning about us, and the ceremony we wanted was outstanding. She made the ceremony so special. We had many guests compliment us on how beautiful the ceremony was, and how great she was. We are so happy to have met her and had her be part of our special day. Thank you Bethel!!

We hired and worked with Ceremonies by Bethel for our San Diego wedding. We must say that we are glad we did. Bethel has been professional, personable, endearing, supportive, and warm hearted since the beginning. She dedicates effort and thoughtfulness in her craft in making ceremonies that much more memorable and special. She talked us through the timeline of the ceremony and we appreciated her input on how receptions typically play out the day of. I had a panic attack from misplacing our dog leash that had our wedding rings a moment before the ceremony. Bethel calmly talked me down and offered me a Halls candy to help redirect my attention. She was loving and sweet to us throughout the ceremony when there were times I felt like I wanted to run and hide. She reminded me of all the hard work we put into our special moment and wedding day and we were just going to share that with our loved ones. That was all. She made our wedding day special and memorable. I would highly recommend Ceremonies by Bethel to anyone looking for the perfect officiant to celebrate them. You will not be disappointed.

We eloped just the 2 of us (plus Bethel and photographers) and we are SO glad we did! Bethel made the ceremony so sweet and intimate and worked really hard to make it feel like who we are as a couple. The homework she gave us really helped us think about our vows and wedding in a new way and I don’t think the experience could have been the same without her. I truly can’t recommend her highly enough!

My husband and I hired Bethel to officiate our wedding and we are so grateful that we did! From the first conversation we had with Bethel we felt comfortable and knew that she would be able to capture our love. Using the homework assignments that she gave us, she was able to draft a beautiful ceremony. We weren’t sure what we wanted in our ceremony, but Bethel provided so many documents with examples of vows, rituals, ring exchanges, readings, etc, that gave us so many ideas. We originally considered having a friend officiate our ceremony, but looking back - I am so grateful we went with Bethel. She made the entire process stress-free. I can’t even begin to count the amount of people who asked us how we found Bethel, told us how much they loved the ceremony, and just raved about Bethel. Hire Bethel - I promise you will be so grateful that you did!

Working with Bethel was amazing and we really appreciate all the details she put into creating our ceremony. We were recommended Ceremonies by Bethel as an officiant and are super glad we decided to work with her. We answered separate questionnaires about our relationship, Bethel walked us through the marriage license process, offered us lots of options for different parts of the ceremony, and asked for clarification when needed. We also had a ketubah, a Jewish marriage license, which Bethel beautifully walked us and our witnesses through the process of signing while explaining the importance. We would highly recommend Bethel as an officiant!

My husband and I loved working with Bethel. What initially drew us to her was that she officiated weddings for such diverse couples and she incorporated various traditions. Throughout the planning process, she guided us and provided ample opportunities to personalize our ceremony. On our wedding day, she was attentive, kind, generous, and gracious. At first, my family was reticent of my husband and I not having a traditional Catholic wedding but after the ceremony they told us that Bethel did an amazing job to both respectfully and appropriately incorporate a few of our Filipino traditions, as well as integrate personal statements from my husband and me. We are so happy Bethel officiated our wedding.

Where to even begin. Bethel was referred to us as the best of the best, and once we met with her, we understood why. We considered having a close friend marry us, but after speaking with Bethel and working with her, I am confident in saying: hiring someone who does this not only professionally, but with passion and joy, was the best decision we made throughout our entire wedding planning process. While the cost was something to consider at first, looking back, I would cut out or cut back on anything to make a budget for her to preside. To start, Bethel is kind. Genuinely, radiantly, kind. She is an excellent listener. She is creative, fun, and a joy to work with. Bethel provided the structure that we needed to actually pull this wedding off. She gave us deadlines. She got super creative with us to help make a meaningful ceremony that would give everyone in attendance a perception of what they needed. (Ex: We are not religious and didn't care to have any religion in our ceremony. On the contrary, we had a parent who flat out said they could not honor our commitment/marriage and wedding if it wasn't done by 'clergy' or in a church, but Bethel was so legit, we won them over on the beach. She created areas for them to say their prayers/blessing/wishes which didn't feel inauthentic to us. She made it meaningful and personal for everyone!) She gets to know you and your partner and your relationship. She has you do homework which forces you to think deeply into your marriage, your partner, and why you chose them. It was everything that we needed and truly made getting married that much more special. She also gives you tons of options for vows, fun ceremony add-ins/ideas. She walks you through the marriage license process, She does SO MUCH!!! Also- she's an efficient and fast communicator, which I so appreciate. She makes the whole process fun, celebratory, exciting, and meaningful. We both agree that she was the best decision that we made and if we ever renew our vows- Bethel, you'll be there!! Our advice is - if you're debating it, stop- immediately sign the paperwork. You will not regret working with this incredible professional!

My wife and I, cannot express how great Bethel was prior to, during, and after our wedding day. We found Bethel through the Knot and saw all of the great reviews, the great photos with happy couples on her Instagram, and were very happy from the moment we were able to speak with her via zoom. She provided us with our "homework" to get to know us better and made sure that our ceremony was tailored perfectly for our big day. The information, creativity, and guidance that Bethel provided from the first meeting to the follow-ups were absolutely priceless. She really helps to make the planning easier, helps you fine-tune all the details, and provides a great process to work through from the sentimental to the more procedural/administrative side of getting married. All of our guests said the ceremony was absolutely perfect and there was not a dry eye in the house. If you are looking for a great officiant that can not only adapt to your particular style but enhance every detail while helping you feel more at ease, then reach out to Bethel and get to know her. You and your significant other will not be disappointed. Bethel, thank you again! We will be sure to reach out to you for any renewal celebrations in the years to come.

Bethel was AMAZING! We are so happy she had availability for our date. She put in so much effort to really get to know us and our relationship to deliver a personalized ceremony. All of our guests couldn't stop commenting on what a great ceremony it was. Bethel nailed the combination of funny and lovely we wanted. The delivery moved at a great pace and no point were we ever thinking it was too slow or fast. It was absolutely perfect!

Bethel is AMAZING! Got married this October and we are so glad we chose Bethel to officiate our marriage. At first, we were reluctant to choose someone we didn't know, but we were blown away by how personable Bethel was. She truly took the time and effort to get to know us, to get to know our love for what it is and we really felt that in the ceremony she created for us. She was soo organized, thoughtful and responsive. She made sure we had all the details we needed to create our ceremony together. On the day of our wedding, Bethel arrived with the biggest smile and warmest heart and our ceremony was so beautiful thanks to her. We love you Bethel!

What a gem!! My new husband and I were on a mission to have a non-religious ceremony, and we stumbled upon Bethel - there’s a reason she is a favorite of the local venues and planners! Incredibly personalized touches, from our very first communication to the final ceremony, and she has a wealth of knowledge about both modern/uncommon ceremony traditions and the legal processes, where we needed help. Our guests were blown away by her poise, smooth and concise flow of the service, and the beautiful readings she helped us choose.

Bethel is absolutely made for what she does! After meeting with two other officiants, we were absolutely blown away when we met Bethel. She is clearly an expert in her field and provided us with a lot of insightful tips to make sure our ceremony was exactly how we pictured it. She stayed in contact with us prior to the wedding and provided us with great material to assist us in the writing of our vows. On the day of the wedding, Bethel helped put us both at ease with her warm and reassuring energy. The ceremony was beyond perfect, and we received countless compliments about Bethel from guests. Thank you so much, Bethel! We consider ourselves so lucky to have had you take part in our special day!

Bethel was the key to making our wedding everything we ever wanted. Her homework made us think critically about each other and her suggestions for designing our ceremony made our wedding feel truly unique and perfect. She guided us along the way from our initial consultation through filing our marriage license while we were on our honeymoon. Her friendly disposition and genuineness made us feel so special and cared for. After the ceremony, just about everyone asked where we found her and told us what an amazing ceremony she designed with us. Countless people were raving about how wonderful she was, and we couldn't agree more. Bethel will always hold a special place in our hearts for all of the hard work and dedication she put into not just the different parts of our ceremony, but also creating a loving environment for us to begin our marriage. Choosing Bethel as our officiant was one of the absolute best choices we made!!

Bethel was an amazing officiant to have at our wedding!! She is the best in the business. Her dedication to get to know me and my husband was top notch and her process/ceremony/vows were incredibly customized and personalized, which really left a lasting impression with us and our families & friends. Bethel was also extremely responsive and flexible and stuck with us even through 3 date changes! Can't recommend her and her services enough!

Bethel was unbelievable! I can’t imagine a having our wedding without her. From our “homework” assignments to zoom to prompt detailed emails, I truly feel Bethel got to know my husband and made our day extremely special and personalized. We can’t thank you enough Bethel!

Bethel was absolutely perfect. She gave us the exact ceremony we wanted and executed it flawlessly. We got so many complements on the ceremony. Also, the wedding planning process was difficult to navigate with COVID, we had to reschedule, but Bethel was so flexible and made it so much easier for us. She was a pleasure to work with. We cannot recommend Bethel enough! We are forever grateful for her!

Bethel was incredibly helpful as we planned our big day. We found her prior to the start of COVID and she was kind and patient enough to "wait out the storm" with us. We rescheduled our wedding for a year later and she was sure to stay in touch the entire time. She made it so easy to piece together each party of our ceremony. Our day was so so special and we would recommend her to anyone!

We met bethel during covid, so everything was via zoom. But she made us feel so comfortable from the start. She makes it organized but so fun and personal. She gives you tons of options and ideas. It really makes the ceremony feel 100% unique! She flexible with ideas, I know we changed our minds on things a few times. She was on time and holding a beautiful spot on the beach for us. When we finally met in person, I felt like we had known each other for years. Even after the big day, she’s easy to get a hold of, sends your marriage certificate very quickly. We let her handle all the paperwork and it was a breeze. She’s even answered questions for us weeks after the wedding. Bethel is worth every penny, she makes everything absolutely perfect.

It was so important to Lisa (my new wife!!) and I to find an officiant that we felt connected to; and from our fist email correspondence with Bethel, we knew immediately she was the one! She was so warm, kind and loving in her message to us, and then when we met her in person it just confirmed everything we already knew was true! Bethel made our day so unbelievably special. We had a simple elopement that she made personal, intimate, fun and beautiful all at the same time! She made our wedding day the the PERFECT day! And we are so unbelievably grateful for her! Thank you Bethel!!

Look no further! Bethel is seriously the best! My wife and I video chatted with her when first deciding to select her as our officiant. Immediately we felt like Bethel understood us and our relationship together because she actively listened to us. She talked through our concerns about the pressure of certain traditions and helped design our dream ceremony. About 4 months before our ceremony she sent us some "homework." My advise, put effort into it then because it will make your ceremony that much more special. After our ceremony with many laughs and happy tears, we received compliments...MANY compliments from "that was the best ceremony I had ever been to" to "where did you find her!!!" Everyone kept telling us how Bethel made the ceremony special because she really shared with our friends and family how much we cared about each other. I would 1,000% recommend Bethel for anyone looking for an officiant.

We sadly never ended up getting married by Bethel, but I felt the need to leave a review anyway because she's just so awesome. My fiancé and I had planned to have a destination wedding in San Diego, one of our favorite places, and reached out to Bethel after being wowed by videos of some of her past ceremonies. Upon getting on a call with Bethel, we clicked with her immediately. She is such an interesting, kind, attentive, and overall awesome human being, and she has the most creative ideas for non-traditional ceremonies. My fiancé is half-Japanese, and Bethel had planned to open our ceremony with a few words of Japanese (yes, she speaks Japanese!), and she had great ideas on how to incorporate my Chinese side as well. We were so happy to book her! ... Well, then COVID hit and we unfortunately had to cancel our wedding in favor of a more local celebration. Honestly, one of the hardest parts about this process was losing Bethel as our officiant. In response to our cancellation, she wrote us the sweetest email about how sad she was to lose us too, and she still keeps in touch with us on Instagram. When you book Bethel, you're not just booking an officiant - you're also making a new friend! If we ever find ourselves in need of vow renewal services, we'll definitely be reaching out to Bethel. :)

If you want to have the most energetic, caring, thoughtful, chill, awesome officiant, then look no further and hire Bethel right now! When I first came across Bethel's website I knew she was the one I wanted to marry us. She just seemed so "chill" (for lack of better words), spunky, fun, and a complete joy (check out her bio on her site, I am sure you will agree!) On our initial phone call where we were feeling out if she was the right officiant for us, she was also feeling out if we were the right couple to work with her. I think it is super cool she did this as it ensures she is working with people she really believes in and enjoys. We loved that! We had zero clues about what went into a ceremony. From day one Bethel guided us throughout the entire process and made the whole process fun, exciting, and seamless. She provided us with so many resources to ensure we knew all about what could go into our ceremony. Once we selected everything she liked, did some questions about us as a couple (they are actually pretty fun), she wrote the ceremony. One thing I appreciated is that nothing in the ceremony felt like a cookie-cutter script. Everything was so unique to us as a couple; she even weaves in pieces of your personal questions about your relationship throughout the ceremony but in such an eloquent and special way (and a total surprise as you don't get to see that part ahead of time) that it made both of us cry tears of happiness. After the ceremony, she also made sure we introduced each other as husband & wife which I never would have thought about but it was so special. Even after the wedding, Bethel is still here guiding us through the next step - finalizing the marriage license. She has taken care of every single detail so that we can just sit back and relax. She even mailed us love letters we wrote to each other before the wedding and will continue to do that every year on our anniversary. You can tell Bethel cares immensely about the couples she works with. The smile in the pictures from our ceremony shows how genuinely she cares. Extra bonus, she provides tissues for you when needed :). We are so, so incredibly thankful for her!

She was the most attentive and kind officiant ever! Having her for my sister’s wedding made everything a breeze. She was also very flexible when we had to change to a COVID safe wedding with only myself and another person as the wedding party/witnesses. Very understanding and vibrant officiant. I would hire her for my own wedding!

Bethel is great! She doesn’t make you feel like you’re just a client. She goes out of her way to make everything go as smooth for you as she can. To me, it felt like I had known her as a longtime friend with how personable she is. Our friends had her as their officiant. And she made their wedding so fun and alive. Not your typical dull, drawn out ceremony. I got to learn things about my friends I didn’t even know. So we hired her for our wedding, which became an elopement due to Covid. But she was so quick to help us and work with us on it. She is just the overall package. She helped make my wife and I feel special on our big day. Thank you Bethel! We truly appreciate you. Book her guys!

I want to start this review off by saying: BOOK HER!!!!! Bethel is an amazing officiant who personalizes your wedding to suit what is you and your spouse! If you guys are silly... she brings the laughs. If you guys are hopeless romantics, she will draw the tears! We found Bethel at my best friends wedding, and instantly knew she was the one! She takes the time to get to know you through a meet up and then is very consistent with the emails. She wants to make sure you are satisfied with what she is bringing to the table. Not only is she great as an officiant, she is an amazing individual. She is so personable and you just make an instant connection with her. Her vibe is also amazing. She was so great incorporating our 2 little sons into our elopement ceremony by the ocean. They loved her too! So I cannot stress this: BOOK HER!!!!! I guarantee you won’t be disappointed! Thanks again Bethel! You’re the best!

We were on the hunt for an officiant that would "get" us, and be able to create a special ceremony with us that fit both of our styles and spiritual beliefs. From the moment we met Bethel, we knew she was "the one"! Her passion and joy for what she does came through first on the phone, and when we met in person we felt a connection and a deep understanding with her instantly. She had us in tears at the first meeting! The process of how she works with you to create a very personalized ceremony is so much more than sending you passages and poems. She has a method of getting to the heart of who each of you are, and what you mean to each other that really works and is quite elegant and simple. It takes time on your part, but it is SO WORTH IT! We absolutely loved our ceremony, and Bethel's energy is infectious. She also helped us through a very challenging time with a painful death in our family close to the wedding, and we were down to the wire putting the finishing touches on our ceremony and vows. She supported us through it all like an angel. All of our guests commented on how personal and precious our ceremony was, and said it was the best they had witnessed. We are forever grateful to Bethel for helping us create the most wonderful moment of our lives! Thank you, Bethel!

Working with Bethel has been one of the greatest experiences we had during wedding planning. Right out of the gates, Bethel wanted to set up a Zoom call with us (this was to be a destination wedding) and she took the time to understand who my wife and I are individually and how our relationship was built. She quickly learned that my wife and I bonded over video games and that the wedding would be gaming themed and Bethel was excited to help make it happen. Both my wife and I aren't conventional in anyway and we were anxious about how a non-religious, non-conventional ceremony would play out; and this is where Bethel shined. She understood who my wife and I are as a couple and started brainstorming different activities that would make sense for our ceremony. She worked with us extensively to make sure that our vision would come to life. My wife and I sincerely believe that without Bethels help and guidance, along with the time spent on calls, that our ceremony was going to feel more like a family obligation to attend rather than a true celebration of us. Outside of wedding matters, Bethel is a very kind, empathetic person and radiates charisma. She's very thoughtful and full of great ideas. We cannot recommend Bethel enough. We couldn't ask for a more amazing person to lead our ceremony.

Going into our elopement planning process, we didn't really know what to expect from an officiant. We assumed the person would suggest some readings and perform the ceremony. Bethel was so much more than that! Her process, from the first contact email to the ceremony prep to the follow-up communications, was authentic and personal. Our favorite part of the experience was the way she got to know us in order to write the ceremony. Her method helped us further prepare ourselves and made that moment in time so special and meaningful. She was absolutely a big part of what made our wedding day perfect. We would recommend her to anyone without hesitation.

We are so glad we found Bethel to officiate our wedding. Bethel made the ceremony exactly what we wanted and our friends and family told us how much they enjoyed the ceremony. She puts a lot of effort into learning about the couple and making the ceremony personal to them. Thank you Bethel for giving us the most beautiful wedding ceremony....couldn't have asked for anything different.

We are so happy Bethel was available to marry us. During our first meeting, she made us feel so excited about our elopement and reminded us that even though our wedding plans are cancelled, our love still deserves to be celebrated in a special way. She made the entire process so easy and fun, and did all the hard work to write and piece together a beautiful ceremony for us. We will remember and cherish it for the rest of our lives!