All Inclusive, Extraordinarily Redefined
Holds ceremonies and receptions
Nicole VanLente
OWNER
Typically responds within 24h
AWARD WINNER
Thanks to recommendations from couples on The Knot
A New Revolution in Celebration in Premium, All-Inclusive Elegance
We are fully booked for 2026.
Etre Farms has reimagined what a wedding day should be for the modern couple. Like the most magical experiences at Disney, we've crafted a new style of environment where our reputation speaks for itself—our weddings consistently see more guests in attendance than invitations sent, a testament to the can't-miss nature of an Etre Farms wedding where everyone you know wants to attend.
Your journey begins with our exceptional on-site team:
- Dedicated wedding planners/coordinators
- Professional event designers and artists
- Master florists crafting from our on-site floral shop
- Extensive line of decor and signage
- Executive Chef creating personalized farm-to-table menu
- Expert bar manager with 3 full service bars
- Personal Concierge and head server attending to your every detail
- Impeccable service staff with one server for every ten guests
Culinary Distinction
Work directly with our Executive Chef to design a menu that reflects your personal taste and style. Our farm-to-table kitchen sources only the finest ingredients, including the prestigious, Meats by Linz premium line, ensuring a dining experience that rivals the finest restaurants.
Bespoke Beauty
Our on-site floral shop and extensive décor and signage collection allow us to create a setting that is uniquely yours. With endless customization possibilities, your wedding will be a perfect
reflection of your vision while maintaining the uncompromising standards that define Etre Farms.
The Resort Town Advantage
Set in picturesque Saint Joseph, Michigan, Etre Farms offers your guests the perfect destination wedding experience. The charm of our lakeside resort town provides the ideal backdrop for your celebration.
What is the Secret?
The final element is a secret known only to the Etre Family, and it will amaze you!
Amenities + details
Amenities
Ceremony Area
Covered Outdoors Space
Dressing Room
Handicap Accessible
Indoor Event Space
Liability Insurance
On-Site Accommodations
Outdoor Event Space
Reception Area
Wireless Internet
Ceremony Types
Civil Union
Commitment Ceremony
Elopement
Interfaith Ceremony
Non-Religious Ceremony
Religious Ceremony
Second Wedding
Vow Renewal Ceremony
Settings
Backyard
Ballroom
Barn
Farm & Ranch
Garden
Trees
Venue Service Offerings
Cakes & Desserts
Cupcakes
Other Desserts
Destination Weddings
Destination Wedding Packages
Destination Wedding Planning
Food & Catering
Planning
Destination Wedding Planning
Wedding Design
Rentals & Equipment
Service Staff
Transportation
Shuttle Service
Awards and Affiliations
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Meet the team
Nicole VanLente
Owner
Être Farms started as a literal dream. I woke up from a nap and told my husband, “I want to build a beautiful white barn venue for couples to have their dream wedding.”
We jump forward four years. With years of research perfecting every detail a couple may imagine, we celebrate our opening in early 2022!
I have compiled a dynamic team at Être Farms to ensure every event is an unforgettable experience. I can’t wait to show you all our surprises!
Reviews
5.0
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Etre Farms is a stunning, all‑in‑one wedding venue with beautiful grounds and thoughtful decor. Reviewers praise the attentive, professional team for making planning low‑stress and executing seamless, detail‑oriented events with excellent food and service. One tip: confirm DJ expectations or consider an outside DJ.Review photos
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Jessica W
Highlighted review.
5.0
11/30/2024
Beautiful venue with staff that thinks of every detail. They guide you through every step of the process and offer an all in one package that makes wedding planning a breeze. I wil...
l look back fondly on the process because of Etre!
Victoria L
5.0
1/04/2026
I can honestly say I could never recommend another wedding venue over Etre Farms. From the moment you tour the venue and meet the staff, no other venue compares. Since we were out ...
of state, the owners, Nicole and Mark, took the time to video call us for a full tour of the property, carefully going over all amenities and answering every question we had. Their attention and willingness to accommodate us immediately put us at ease.
After booking, I had the opportunity to meet the entire team through various calls, and I was continually amazed by how genuinely everyone goes above and beyond to make the wedding planning process easier and completely stress free. The timeline was the part of planning that caused me the most anxiety, and Morgan met with me multiple times to walk through every detail and answer all of my questions. She helped keep me calm throughout the process, and I cannot say enough about how much she and the rest of the team exceeded my expectations.
Our wedding day was absolutely perfect, and our guests were in awe of the venue. The property itself is stunning, but what truly sets Etre Farms apart is the incredible team behind it. Their service is impeccable, and they played a huge role in making all of our wedding dreams a reality. I truly cannot rave enough about Etre Farms and would recommend it without hesitation to any couple looking for a venue that exceeds expectations in every way!
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Matthan H
5.0
9/07/2025
We could not be happier with our decision to have our wedding at Etre Farms. From the very beginning, Nicole, Mark, Elliana, Morgan, Allie, and Josh made us feel completely taken c...
are of. They truly are wedding pros — handling every detail from food, bar, décor, florals, and the ceremony itself. All we had to do was hire a photographer, hair, and makeup, and they took care of the rest.
On the big day, everything was seamless. The service was quick, personal, and absolutely spectacular — we never had to worry about a thing. Our head server, Zac, focused solely on us as bride and groom and left nothing to be desired. He anticipated our every need, kept our drinks full, and even packed up dessert and late-night bites for us to enjoy later since we were too busy with guests to eat them during the night. That level of attentiveness made us feel so cared for.
The food and drinks were outstanding, and we’re still getting compliments from guests who said it was the best wedding they’ve ever been to! As the bride, I felt so relaxed and present, spending the morning with my girls while my husband enjoyed poker and video games in the groom’s suite. That stress-free feeling was priceless.
Etre Farms exceeded every expectation and gave us a day that was truly perfect. If I could do it all over again just for fun, I absolutely would. 11/10 recommend Etre Farms to any couple looking for a venue that makes the wedding of your dreams a reality.
Louisa A
5.0
8/23/2025
We booked Etre Farms for our wedding in June 2025, and are so glad that we did!
My husband and I both work full-time and did not have a lot of time to spend planning all of the li...
ttle details for a wedding, so we wanted to choose a venue that would take care of those details for us. Etre Farms did not disappoint. They kept us on track and reminded us when we needed to make decisions. They gave us so much flexibility to customize the looking to what we wanted, and when we didn't really care about the details of certain things, they were happy to step in and use their creativity to make the decisions for us. It made the wedding planning process so much less stressful for us, and we're so grateful for it!
Everything ran incredibly smoothly on the day of the wedding. We were well taken care of the whole day, starting in the get-ready suites before the ceremony. The staff made sure that everything ran smoothly and stayed on schedule.
We got so many compliments from our guests about the venue! The venue is gorgeous - the space and grounds themselves are beautiful, but it was also wonderfully decorated with flowers and other decor. Many of our guests also remarked at how great the staff was, including how friendly and attentive they were. One bartender in particular was super quick to clean up every spill on the dance floor almost immediately. Our guests also loved the food and drinks.
Jessica D
5.0
7/02/2025
We cannot recommend Être Farms enough—it is truly the one-stop-shop fairytale venue every couple dreams of. From the moment we toured, we knew this place was something special. Nea...
rly everything you could possibly need is included or coordinated for you, which made planning a breeze and allowed us to stay fully present and enjoy the weekend with our loved ones.
The staff at Être are simply top-notch—warm, professional, and deeply committed to making your day unforgettable. A special shoutout to Nicole & Mark, the dynamic duo behind the venue, who have created something magical and continue to elevate it year after year. Morgan, the logistics queen, kept every detail on track and every hiccup smoothed out with grace and calm. And Elliana, the design maven, brought our vision to life in ways we couldn’t have imagined. We are still getting compliments on the florals and thoughtful details woven throughout the ceremony and reception.
One of our favorite touches? They treated our French bulldog like royalty—complete with a custom flower leash to match her harness and a designated staff member to care for her throughout the day. It was clear that every single guest, including the four-legged ones, was made to feel special.
Être continues to outdo itself year after year, with new enhancements like an upgraded ceremony space, dress steaming services, and even lawn games. It’s a venue that keeps evolving—and always in service of an unforgettable guest experience.
If you're looking for a venue that combines elegance, ease, and heartfelt hospitality, look no further. Être Farms is it.
Alexa B
5.0
5/01/2025
I don't think I have the character allotment to talk about how amazing Etre Farms is. From the very beginning of touring the venue, the staff was so helpful in answering any questi...
ons and giving you a look into every part of the establishment. Nicole was so attentive throughout the planning process, making sure every detail was met while El helped to capture the mood boards perfectly and design every detail asked for. Their schedule for meeting was very flexible to make sure I could have time to talk to them outside my busy work schedule and they provided personal numbers to make communication last minute as easy as possible. The day of, Morgan, Allie & team made sure we were set up to have our vendors where they needed to be and be supplied with snacks, drinks and a fun bridal/grooms suites that made us comfortable and have plenty of room to get ready.
As the minutes got closer to walking down the isle, Nicole was there to make sure not only was my wedding party set up to walk down in a timely manner and in order, but that I was calm and comfortable ready to walk down myself. When I say that the ceremony and reception areas were beyond my wildest dream, that's an understatement. Every turn my eye caught another small detail that made me screech in happiness, all the while always having a drink and snack supplied in my hand.
Zach was the most amazing head server, making sure that my husband and I were fully looked after and needs met, but our wedding party as well. Throughout the night I think every single one of my wedding guests came up to me not only to gush about how amazing the wedding venue was, but also how hands-down AMAZING the staff was. The service is absolutely the best I have ever experienced across any event I have ever attended or been apart of.
The apps, dinner, dessert, & late night bites were all exceptional, enough that we didn't have extras of my favorite dessert to take home! The DJ was amazing, kept everyone dancing all night and our last dance was something I will cherish and always think back to as one of my favorite parts as they made it to be us absolutely to ourselves and was so special.
I could go on all day about how amazing this venue was and exceeded my expectations and there isn't one thing I would change about my experience because the Etre team made it magical. Thank you guys!!!!!
Alexandria E
5.0
5/01/2025
We could not have imagined a more beautiful wedding then our day at Etre Farms. When we first got engaged, I was nervous about planning a Midwest wedding from the West Coast but af...
ter visiting Etre Farms they eased all of our concerns. The whole team is fantastic in making sure you feel prepared going into the big day. We were able to work with them on all of our details including florals, decor, food, drinks, DJ, and day of schedule of events which made wedding planning from afar a breeze!
When we walked into the venue on the night of our rehearsal, I was blown away by the tablescapes, florals, signage, and decor. Everything was more beautiful than I could have imagined.
I was surprised by how "low-stress" wedding planning could be and even on the day of, when it started raining before our outdoor ceremony, they kept us calm and moved all guests and the set up into their beautiful ballroom. They truly go above and beyond!
My husband and I, our families, and our guests had nothing but positive things to say about the entire day! It was absolutely gorgeous!
Alex H
5.0
4/30/2025
Our July 2024 wedding at Etre Farms was absolutely perfect. From the moment we toured the venue, we knew it was the one. The stunning views, beautiful barn, and overall ambiance ma...
de for an unforgettable day. The staff was incredibly professional and attentive, ensuring everything went smoothly, and their attention to detail made our wedding feel truly special.
A special shoutout to the DJ, who was absolutely amazing! He kept the energy high throughout the night, reading the crowd perfectly and keeping everyone on the dance floor. The music was spot-on, and our guests are still talking about how much fun they had dancing.
The venue’s flexibility allowed us to personalize our celebration, and the food was phenomenal—our guests are still raving about it! Etre Farms gave us the wedding of our dreams, and we couldn’t have asked for a better experience. Highly recommend this venue for anyone looking for a beautiful and stress-free wedding day!
Emma G
5.0
7/31/2024
Etre farms was everything and more than you can ask for from a venue. We feel so extremely lucky and blessed to have been able to work with everyone on their team. The owners, Nico...
le and Mark truly want nothing more than to make your wedding EVERYTHING you have ever dreamed of. They will do everything in their power to create a unique and special day for their couples. Morgan, their director of operations, was incredible. She made sure we had zero questions always, made the most beautiful timeline and kept our day organized. As a bride, I was able to put all my trust in her to make sure the day ran smoothly. Elliana was a dream—she helped make our day look the exact way we wanted it. From designing our signs and making our pinterest dreams come true. Seriously everyone, including their waitstaff, DJ, and bartenders was a dream to work with. We cannot say enough, if you want a beautiful wedding-Etre is the way to go. As a bride, I was able to truly enjoy the wedding planning process because this staff MAKES SURE of it. In addition to that, the day of the wedding- we were able to feel at ease and calm all day knowing that this staff will make IT happen. Our ceremony was switched indoors at the very last minute and they made the transition so smooth and seamless for our guests. Speaking of our guests, everyone we have spoke to says our wedding was the best they have ever been to. Including great food, a great party & amazing staff. We will never not recommend Etre to any bride and groom looking for an all inclusive venue. Thank you so much to everyone at Etre. We are so grateful for everything you did to make our day as perfect and amazing as it was.
All our love,
Emma & Chip
emily c
5.0
5/18/2024
Mark, Nicole, Morgan, and the Etre team are fantastic! They know what they’re doing and they make the wedding planning process as easy as possible for the couples they work with.
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The reason we selected Etre was because they provide all vendors in house: planning/coordination, food, bar, florals, signage, decor, and DJ/MC.
Everything they did for us was exceptional!
The only recommendation I have is to find your own DJ OR be very direct with what you expect from them! The in-house DJ accidentally paused the music when I walked down the aisle, played the wrong version of my first dance song (some acoustic version instead of the original version I selected), and they didn’t take music requests when we explicitly said to take requests from the crowd.
This honestly wasn’t too much of an issue because everyone was having so much fun anyway!
Other than that, we got so many compliments on how beautiful the venue, florals, signage, food, and whole evening was!
I would highly recommend the Etre Team!!
Alex & Mallori W
5.0
7/26/2023
We recently had the privilege of getting married here and everything about Etre Farms was absolutely immaculate! Etre Farms truly sets the stage for an unforgettable celebration. ...
From the breathtaking surroundings, to the picturesque barn-reimagined, this place is a photographers dream. The attention to detail in every aspect of the wedding and time leading up to the wedding was impressive. Mark & Nicole, and the entire Etre Farms staff went above and beyond to ensure that every detail was taken care of and everything went according to plan. To us, this was one of the largest differentiators when picking a venue. They deserve praise for their flexibility and willingness to accommodate each couples unique preferences and ideas. The personalized touches added an extra layer of warmth and made the celebration truly reflect our story.
The catering team at Etre Farms truly outdid themselves. The dinner was a culinary dream, with an immense amount of choices, custom designed based on you and your guests favorite foods and preferences. One thing that stood out to us, was the incredible coordination amongst the Etre Farms team. They seamlessly managed the schedule, ensuring everything ran smoothly and on time. From the beginning of the ceremony, to the grand entrance of the newly-weds, all the way until the last dance, they made sure every moment felt effortless and well coordinated.
They have everything you need in-house, and I would suggest you take advantage of it. The DJ did such an amazing job - it was by far the best DJ performance at a wedding that we have ever seen. By utilizing all of the in-house services we could be as involved, or little-involved as we would like. That was such an advantage leading up to the wedding. In conclusion, I cannot say enough about Etre Farms. It is an exceptional wedding venue that excels in every aspect. If you're looking for a place that combines natural beauty, impeccable service, and attention to detail, then Etre Farms is the perfect choice. I wholeheartedly recommend it to any couple seeking to create lasting memories of their special day.
Jacqueline P
5.0
4/03/2023
Hands down the best venue experience EVER! Nicole, Mark, Morgan and the entire Etre team were the absolute best to work with! We decided to get married at Etre after looking at m...
ultiple venues and basically had our dream wedding crushed. We came across Etre Farms and completely fell in love with the vision Nicole and Mark created. They never disappointed at all! Everything we could have ever wanted and dreamed of they made sure it became a reality. From the small touches and details of the florals to the custom created menu, there was not a single detail missed, they literally thought of everything and ensured our entire wedding day went smoothly! The staff was hands down the best staff we have ever experienced at a wedding. ALL the food was to die for and our guests are still raving about how amazing it was from the appetizers, to the entres, and even the late night bites. They had the best selection for alcohol as well and even made our signature drinks for us.....our guests loved every detail. Most importantly we could have our furbaby with us the entire day, which was a major deal breaker for us!
We could go on and on about how wonderful Etre is, but you will be making a huge mistake if you decide to get married anywhere else! Nicole, Mark, Morgan, and the entire Etre Farms team make you feel like family, and truly will make your wedding dream a reality! Thank you all for everything! We love you guys!
Madonna L
5.0
3/31/2023
Looking for one gorgeous all-inclusive venue? Look no further than Etre! Nicole, Mark, and their entire team offer beauty, elegance, and customization at their wonderful wedding d...
estination. The photos ARE accurate for this newly constructed event space. And, the flower arrangements were so lovely (designed by Nicole herself). The "getting ready space" was peaceful with plenty of space for hair, make-up, and snacks. We were able to have our ceremony, dinner, and reception all in the SAME place! Our custom dinner and personally-crafted cocktails were delicious! There are also multiple areas for guests to relax, including kids, during the reception and family photos. And, EVERY vendor recommended by Etre was really FANTASTIC to work with. Since most of our wedding guests were from out-of-town, travel/accommodations were very accessible. St. Joseph also offers wineries, lake front, and restaurants. We really are very lucky that we were able to celebrate our special day at the amazing Etre Farms!
Nikki N
5.0
11/30/2022
The first thing that comes to mind when I think of Etre Farms is WOW! It is such a stunning new venue but the people behind it make all the difference!! Every member of staff worke...
d so hard to make dreams come true! Their chef is truly amazing at curating the most beautiful and delicious food I’ve ever had at a wedding! Every details was taken care of by Etre to create an stress-free and unforgettable day. The memories they’re making for their couples will last a lifetime. I can’t think of a better place to get married!
Ali H
5.0
11/08/2022
Etre Farms was great to work with! Not only is the venue beautiful, Etre does almost everything which really helped our wedding day run smoothly. Etre helped with all of the food, ...
alcohol, flowers, signage, decorations, timelines, floor plans, design, etc (as a result I didn't even need to hire a wedding planner). They did a great job working with me and helping me execute my vision. I received countless compliments from guests on how beautiful the venue was and how great the food was. They really did a great job thinking through all of the details. I also want to call out that our wedding was during Etre's first ever wedding season and they still did an amazing job on execution. I can't wait to see how they continue to improve as they go through even more weddings!
Natalie J
5.0
8/30/2022
This family is the most kind and punctual people EVER!!!! They pay close attention to detail and have the MOST beautiful venue in town! Love love love Etre, cannot think of a bette...
r place for wonderful wedding. HIGHLY recommend!!!!
Katie B
5.0
8/22/2022
Look no further. Etre Farms is the fairytale venue. Throughout the planning process everyone continued to ask us how stressed we were and thanks to the Etre team our response was "...
We're not. Our venue does it ALL." Their inclusive package makes wedding planning a breeze. The team takes hospitality and customer service to a new level. From details like reminding me to glue the clasp of my necklace to my neck so it didn't turn during pictures to ensuring that my husband and I were fed and had a beverage in hand, the dedication does not go unnoticed. This team strives to enhance every detail and make it a day you and your guests will never forget.
Justin W
5.0
6/13/2022
UPDATE: We are MARRIED!
Ladies & Gentlemen, this venue is AMAZING. Not only did they successfull pull off their 1st wedding, they made us feel like nothing else mattered & handle ...
all aspects when it came to wedding weekend. The staff & management at Etre Farms are true examples of hospitality and they hard work and detailed service to their clients was evident every step of the way. This venue made the whole wedding planning process seamless & enjoyable. This venue is not just unique, it is the essential place to hold a wedding due to it beautiful layout, modern touches & customizable possibilities from the moment you enter the parking lot. Thank you Etre Farms for all your hard work & dedication & we are the lucky ones to have found a venue like yours!
Justin W
5.0
5/20/2021
Are you looking for the perfect venue!?
Tired of the same ol' wedding venue/food & beverage/"cookie cutter proposal" approach!?
Look no further because Etre Farms is a wedding ...
venue unlike anything else in the Midwest. The ownership and wedding planning team behind this venue have truly took a personal and customized approach to our hopes and dreams for the perfect wedding. They have been so AMAZING and easy to work with and have provided so much helpful insight not just to planning a wedding but also to the area surrounding this venue . We could tell by their "all inclusive" approach that they want to exceed expectations of not only us but our guests as well. The attention to detail from the venue to the wedding proposal all the way to the food & beverage they are providing is far superior than "traditional" wedding venues. We are lucky to not only have found such an amazing venue but to have found such an amazing team to partner up with to plan our perfect wedding with in May 2022!
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