Love-n-Promises

find out what type of ceremony we were hoping for, and walk us through the whole marriage certification process. You could tell from the get-go that she was a professional and knows her stuff. We were so lucky because we had no idea how the process works getting married in a different state other than where we live. Once we decided to go with her, she was very responsive and would send us reminders about timelines and would respond to any email or text within minutes. One thing we loved about Pamela is her ability to sit back, listen, and only offer advice when we had some doubts about what we wanted. She made sure the ceremony was what we wanted from start to finish. The ceremony was a true reflection of who we were and exactly what we wanted. We could not have been happier with how everything went. We had a little mishap with our transportation and the coach bringing some of our guests was running late. Pamela with her charm and wonderful smile engaged with the guests present, made them laugh and put everyone at ease. She knew these things happen during weddings and she was more than prepared to make sure we didn't have to worry about anything. We can't thank her enough for that. After the ceremony and throughout the cocktail hour, everyone was talking about how great of a job she did and people kept asking how we found her. If you are looking for an officiant, you should stop looking and reach out to Pamela, it will the best decision for your ceremony. One thing we loved about Love-N-Promises process is the love homework (Pamela will walk you through it and I highly encourage you to spend time and effort hear). This was fun and it makes you think about how you complement each other and where your journey started to where you are now. The love homework is done individually and you don't get to hear what your partner wrote until the day of the wedding and that makes for a fun surprise and some laugh-out-loud moments. Thank you so much, Pamela. You did a phenomenal job and we couldn't have asked for anything else. You are forever part of our lives and will be in our memories forever.

We had an elopement with only 5 guests, and couldn't be happier with how she officiated our marriage ceremony. We would highly recommend her.

ade it clear that my wife and I would be reading personal vows on the day of the wedding. So it’s frustrating that she didn’t think we had any vows. I thought that was VERY clear. However, as a result of this, we did not read our vows until the ceremony was over. She did apologize after the ceremony and my wife and I got over it. We are thankful it was an elopement because that would’ve been a horrific mistake for a big ceremony. FURTHERMORE, Pamela recorded our elopement on her personal iPhone, for “documentation purposes.” She stated that same-sex marriages and couples of color’s paperwork are often misplaced and that she wanted to have documentation of the wedding. She also said that she would send me the video via “Air-Drop” but never did. Fast forward to a couple of days later, Pamela posted a snippet of the video she recorded during the ceremony being pronounced wife and wife on her social media platforms TikTok and Instagram. We wanted to support her as a wedding officiant and contribute to her social media content, but this quickly turned into a NIGHTMARE! We received hateful comments from all over the world as the video she posted on her TikTok reached over 1 MILLION views. The video was also reposted and “stitched” over 20 times on TikTok on users’ personal TikTok pages in a negative manner, as Pamela did not protect the video with any privacy settings. We kindly asked Pamela to restrict comment access to all users, because of the terrible things people were commenting. She left the comments on. She then blocked us on her social media. Users continued to make a mockery of and shame our marriage by reposting it and saying hurtful things. Pamela gained over 6,500 followers, 19,000 likes, over 2500 shares and 1.3 million views from the video she posted of my wife and I on TikTok. She also received over 600 comments, with only 24 being “positive/non-offensive.” I then texted Pamela on her cellphone to delete the video entirely, and she refused. She had very few followers and likes before she posted the video of my wife and I. So to us, it seems like the social media attention she has received holds more value than our feelings, and wishes to remove the video from her social media platforms entirely. A HUGE mistake my wife and I made is that we never signed a contract or gave Pamela written consent to record and post a clip of our wedding ceremony on her social media. So if you do hire her, I recommend a contract to protect you from her posting you on her social media. Our wedding was supposed to be something sacred and meaningful but it quickly turned into a moment tainted by hate and harassment.

ring a little extra sparkle and magic to my day and I’m so thankful!

away from it with so many lovely memories. I would absolutely recommend her to anyone looking for a ceremony officiant.

and rituals (for us we knew we wanted to do a handfasting ceremony, which she was very familiar with). She emphasized that our ceremony was just that, OUR ceremony–and she would help us to make it what we imagined. She smoothly orchestrated the transitions of readings and songs done by our family members. Pamela made our ceremony incredibly heartfelt and memorable, especially in the way she entwined our personal love story into her blessing and our vows. Our guests shared many praises of the ceremony with us, asking how we knew Pamela, as her ceremony was so personal to us! We’re so glad Pamela officiated our wedding!!

wedding. We immediately jumped on a zoom call to go over our desires for the ceremony. She put us at ease - we knew we were in the hands of a true professional. She made sure to customize every portion of the ceremony for us until we felt the ceremony represented us well. On our wedding day, Pamela was prompt and ready to give our guests a show! The ceremony was flawless. From the start, we knew Pamela had everything under control so we could just relax and enjoy the moment. It was beautiful! So many of our guests came up to us and told us how beautiful the ceremony was. Some claimed it was the best ceremony they had ever seen! They were so impressed with Pamela, as were we. We were honored that Pamela officiated our wedding and truly grateful she was able to join on such short notice. We wished we had booked her in the first place!

ul. She helps to ease any stress related to that day. She covers all the bases, from making sure we had all the info for our marriage license application, even the application itself, and she even filed the license for us at our town hall after!! Our ceremony was tailored to us and incorporated so many details of our love story to make it even more personal. It was better than I could have ever imagined, almost every guest mentioned how beautiful it was! Several guests asked for her info so they could refer her, that’s a compliment that speaks for itself, if you don’t believe me! Highly recommend Pamela, she will exceed your expectations!

u forever! All of our guests were raving about her all night! A definite must have for your wedding day!!

her do another “ceremony” at our wedding party next year! We would 1000000% recommend her to anyone!

uly made our day special and was extremely easy to contact and was always there if we needed her! HIGHLY recommend this amazing women!

e does! She provided us with a custom, sweet, funny and modern wedding ceremony. Afterwards, everyone raved about the ceremony and how awesome Pamela was. We are so glad we had her as part of our special day!

were and are an Amazing!!!

ns. She is funny and caring and so gracious.

ot only did we love Pam- but my family and those in attendance have not stopped raving about her. She just absolutely encompassed and radiated this vibe of joy, celebration, love, and ritual in the best possible way. Pam, don't be surprised if you start getting invites to our holidays ;)