Love-n-Promises

we knew we had made the right choice. She was professional, experienced, reassuring, personable, and so easy to work with throughout the entire process. Pamela took the time to get to know us and crafted a ceremony that felt deeply personal and true to our love story, which was so special. Several of our guests commented on how captivating the ceremony was and were surprised to learn that we hadn’t known Pamela beforehand. She also guided us through the marriage license process and made it very easy and stress-free. We would highly recommend her to any engaged couple looking for a thoughtful, inclusive, and exceptional officiant. Thank you, Pamela!

nt an officiant who will really listen to you and who you know will have your back, again Pamela. If you want an officiant that makes the ceremony feel special, you guessed it Pamela. If that doesn’t sell you on her, if your still thinking about maybe using a sibling or a friend and are on the fence about even hiring an officiant, here’s my pitch as someone who almost had her sister officiate. (And if you’re choosing between multiple officiants, the below still applies.) One, and I can’t overly stress this point, this is a lady who knows what she’s doing. She’ll ask you the questions that you haven’t thought of and that maybe aren’t in that wedding book you have. She’s seen things. She’s dealt with things. She knows things. Two, she’s not judgmental. You can trust her with whatever idea you have. Want to play the violin during your ceremony? She let me. Get married in the water? Not me, but she did it with another couple. Want or don’t want a religious approach? That’s fine. She’ll craft something that’s yours. Three, she’s going to get to really know you. Part of her process is “love homework” a few questions you answer independently from your partner. The questions are masterful, and might make you fall a bit more in love with your partner, and they help give her a sense who you both are. To your guests, it might even seem like she knows you better than most of your friends or even family members. She’ll use it to create a story on your wedding day that fits you. Four, I’m serious. Ten months later people who were at my wedding still talk about her. Pamela is an officiant, but she’s also an artist, a writer, a performer, and all around good person. She’ll make your wedding better, and you’ll be glad to have been seen through her eyes.

icense in the town you’re getting married in, ceremony readings…and anything else you may need! She’s funny, kind, and personable and we felt really good about her marrying us. The love homework we did for her to create and tell a story of our relationship at the ceremony was by far our favorite part. After the wedding so many of our guests praised the ceremony and even thought we had known Pamela for much longer and personally with how well she told our story. 10/10 stars, book her!

rformed a sand ceremony that included their 2 year old daughter. The first thing Pamela did was lighten the mood with a little humor. She allowed everyone to get the best photos. Hands down!! Our ceremony was very unique to my daughter and her little family and Pamela went above and beyond to make this an amazing day. Thank you very much. Mother of the Bride, Wedding 9/6/24.

f our families' religions and unique wedding traditions. Pamela worked with us to craft an exquisite ceremony that was balanced, wholesome, and not overly religious, which aligned perfectly with our preferences. On our special day, Pamela's professionalism, wit, and courteous demeanor helped us relax and savor the moment. The outcome was a captivating ceremony that our guests are still raving about! We are elated that we chose Pamela and highly recommend her to anyone seeking a unique and unforgettable wedding ceremony! A&J

t even thought about. Pamela was extremely professional and responsive from our initial meeting and she worked to understand our love story and wedding day vision. The day of the event – WOW! Pamela calmly coordinated every detail to make the ceremony just perfect – she beautifully shared our love story, incorporating exactly what we wanted and she even wrapped in some humor which everyone loved. We had two last-minute wedding day cancellations due to health reasons but Pamela helped to make sure they could join us virtually, setting up a video call option for the ceremony. We will always have warm, beautiful memories of our special day and we owe a big thank you to Pamela for that…

livery was absolutely incredible. Our guests loved every bit of it and it was so special to my (now) husband and I. Pamela made me feel so prepared and gave us tons of excellent advice; she is also just SO sweet and funny and a total delight to work with.

on how much they enjoyed our ceremony, and how special it was. Pamela is great at taking initiative and thinking on her feet. She makes your ceremony completely unique and personalized to you.

ony was, and that’s largely due to Pamela’s professionalism, charm, and dedication. Thank you so much, Pamela!

we imagined. Pamela set up an initial meeting to get to know us, find out what type of ceremony we were hoping for, and walk us through the whole marriage certification process. You could tell from the get-go that she was a professional and knows her stuff. We were so lucky because we had no idea how the process works getting married in a different state other than where we live. Once we decided to go with her, she was very responsive and would send us reminders about timelines and would respond to any email or text within minutes. One thing we loved about Pamela is her ability to sit back, listen, and only offer advice when we had some doubts about what we wanted. She made sure the ceremony was what we wanted from start to finish. The ceremony was a true reflection of who we were and exactly what we wanted. We could not have been happier with how everything went. We had a little mishap with our transportation and the coach bringing some of our guests was running late. Pamela with her charm and wonderful smile engaged with the guests present, made them laugh and put everyone at ease. She knew these things happen during weddings and she was more than prepared to make sure we didn't have to worry about anything. We can't thank her enough for that. After the ceremony and throughout the cocktail hour, everyone was talking about how great of a job she did and people kept asking how we found her. If you are looking for an officiant, you should stop looking and reach out to Pamela, it will the best decision for your ceremony. One thing we loved about Love-N-Promises process is the love homework (Pamela will walk you through it and I highly encourage you to spend time and effort hear). This was fun and it makes you think about how you complement each other and where your journey started to where you are now. The love homework is done individually and you don't get to hear what your partner wrote until the day of the wedding and that makes for a fun surprise and some laugh-out-loud moments. Thank you so much, Pamela. You did a phenomenal job and we couldn't have asked for anything else. You are forever part of our lives and will be in our memories forever.

e. She answered our questions before we even needed to ask them. We had an elopement with only 5 guests, and couldn't be happier with how she officiated our marriage ceremony. We would highly recommend her.

us! I would book with Pamela a million more times, she help bring a little extra sparkle and magic to my day and I’m so thankful!

ely. She made our ceremony the best it could be, and we've come away from it with so many lovely memories. I would absolutely recommend her to anyone looking for a ceremony officiant.

ways to personalize our ceremony with blessings, readings, vows and rituals (for us we knew we wanted to do a handfasting ceremony, which she was very familiar with). She emphasized that our ceremony was just that, OUR ceremony–and she would help us to make it what we imagined. She smoothly orchestrated the transitions of readings and songs done by our family members. Pamela made our ceremony incredibly heartfelt and memorable, especially in the way she entwined our personal love story into her blessing and our vows. Our guests shared many praises of the ceremony with us, asking how we knew Pamela, as her ceremony was so personal to us! We’re so glad Pamela officiated our wedding!!

o Pamela, she canceled her own plans to be able to officiate our wedding. We immediately jumped on a zoom call to go over our desires for the ceremony. She put us at ease - we knew we were in the hands of a true professional. She made sure to customize every portion of the ceremony for us until we felt the ceremony represented us well. On our wedding day, Pamela was prompt and ready to give our guests a show! The ceremony was flawless. From the start, we knew Pamela had everything under control so we could just relax and enjoy the moment. It was beautiful! So many of our guests came up to us and told us how beautiful the ceremony was. Some claimed it was the best ceremony they had ever seen! They were so impressed with Pamela, as were we. We were honored that Pamela officiated our wedding and truly grateful she was able to join on such short notice. We wished we had booked her in the first place!

xtremely responsive and truly wanted to make my ceremony beautiful. She helps to ease any stress related to that day. She covers all the bases, from making sure we had all the info for our marriage license application, even the application itself, and she even filed the license for us at our town hall after!! Our ceremony was tailored to us and incorporated so many details of our love story to make it even more personal. It was better than I could have ever imagined, almost every guest mentioned how beautiful it was! Several guests asked for her info so they could refer her, that’s a compliment that speaks for itself, if you don’t believe me! Highly recommend Pamela, she will exceed your expectations!

the most nerve racking day and treats you like she has known you forever! All of our guests were raving about her all night! A definite must have for your wedding day!!

now you and make the experience meaningful. We can wait to have her do another “ceremony” at our wedding party next year! We would 1000000% recommend her to anyone!

y special while also making it light hearted and fun. Pamela truly made our day special and was extremely easy to contact and was always there if we needed her! HIGHLY recommend this amazing women!

friendly, responsive & professional, and just amazing at what she does! She provided us with a custom, sweet, funny and modern wedding ceremony. Afterwards, everyone raved about the ceremony and how awesome Pamela was. We are so glad we had her as part of our special day!

would recommend her a million times over. Thank you Pamela you were and are an Amazing!!!

s a magical woman!! Pamela embraces you, as you are...no questions. She is funny and caring and so gracious.

y husband and I feel so cared for and supported along the way. Not only did we love Pam- but my family and those in attendance have not stopped raving about her. She just absolutely encompassed and radiated this vibe of joy, celebration, love, and ritual in the best possible way. Pam, don't be surprised if you start getting invites to our holidays ;)