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At Mother of the Bride, we do it all, from full coordination to day-of Services.
Based in Glastonbury, CT, Mother of the Bride Wedding Planner is a wedding planning company that can support and advise you throughout your journey. Mary, the owner and wedding planner, is highly organized and professional, allowing her to guide you every step of the way. Her wealth of knowledge from years in the industry informs her decision-making.
Besides being an experienced wedding planner, the founder of Mother of the Bride, Mary P. Karnes is an accomplished novelist. Her stories about weddings led her to discover a passion and talent for helping couples bring their dream day to life. She enjoys working behind the scenes to craft something beautiful and sharing in the celebration of your special moments.
Whether you are planning a civil union or a cultural wedding, Mother of the Bride Wedding Planner can offer you guidance. She has worked with couples to arrange intimate gatherings, grand events, elopements, destination weddings, and even eco-friendly weddings. Mary will help you from the beginning, creating a reasonable budget, timelines, and to-do lists. She can also help you choose excellent vendors. On the wedding day itself, Mary will be there to coordinate and help things run smoothly.
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- A la Carte Wedding Planning
- Budgeting
- Day-Of Coordination
- Destination Wedding Planning
- Full Service Wedding Planning
- Honeymoon Planning
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- Getting Engaged
- Engagement Party
- Honeymoon
- Rehearsals & Parties
- After Party
- Bachelorette Party
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Mary and her team were commended for their exceptional wedding planning services, with reviewers expressing gratitude for their professionalism, attentiveness, and care throughout the planning process. Mary and Julie were highlighted for their organizational skills, attention to detail, and seamless execution on the wedding day. Clients appreciated the peace of mind provided by the team's proactive approach, effective communication, and ability to handle unforeseen circumstances, ensuring a stress-free and flawless wedding experience. Overall, Mother of the Bride Wedding Planner received glowing recommendations for their dedication to making weddings perfect.Review photos
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From start to finish, working with Mary and Julie was an absolute pleasure. I can’t thank them enough for making my wedding planning process so much smoother and less stressful. They were incredibly responsive to all my questions and helped guide me through every detail with professionalism and care.
As the big day approached, I felt much more at ease knowing they were handling the logistics. On the actual wedding day, Julie went above and beyond, paying attention to every detail and ensuring everything ran seamlessly. I didn’t have to worry about a thing – they took care of everything, from timing to coordination with vendors, allowing me to fully enjoy the moment.
If you're looking for someone who is organized, attentive, and truly cares about making your wedding day perfect, I highly recommend Mother of the Bride Wedding Planner. They made all the difference in ensuring everything went off without a hitch!
Response from the Vendor on 11/06/2024
Bridget, Thank you for the lovely review!
I so enjoyed our frequent chats. You were organized, prepared and fun to work with. Thank you for making our time together so easy. Can't wait to see more photos!
Mary did an amazing job helping my daughter plan her wedding which took place this past weekend! The attention to detail and caring thoughts did not go unnoticed. Mary was proactive with anticipating what "could go wrong" and did her job to prevent any issues which was a stress reliever. She was proactive, sharing her experiences with my daughter to educate her and also calm any worries.
Julie was was our coordinator for the rehearsal and the wedding day and she did a great job of keeping everyone on track so things moved along in a timely manner. She even assisted with first aid when a guest took a spin getting off of one of the shuttles.
"Always expect the unexpected" but fortunately Mary and Julie have got you covered! Highly recommend!
Response from the Vendor on 11/01/2024
Beth, it was such a joy to work with you and Bridget. Your kindness and organization showed in our phone calls and meetings. I wish Bridget and Peter a lifetime of happiness. Thank you for your lovely review.
I recently hired Mary/ Mother of the Bride for our wedding on 9/28/2024, and unfortunately, our experience fell short of expectations. I have thought long and hard about this review and have never left a negative review before, but I would like future brides to be aware of our experience. From the beginning communication was lacking. In our final planning phone call the conversation consisted mostly of Mary talking about her daughter Tess’s wedding the next week, her dog and her husband’s travel plans. This felt incredibly unprofessional and led to many things not being covered, such as a to-do list for the day of the wedding. Our friends and family had to manage the set up unexpectedly. It was also in our contract that Mary would contact my florist and baker, but they all contacted me on the day and had no idea who Mary was. This led to a great deal of confusion and added stress for me and my family considering we had paid someone to manage this coordination on the day of the wedding. Our cake arrived at the venue at 11am and was placed safely in the refrigerator, but when it came time for the cake to come out she tasked a member of the wedding party. The response I received for this one is “I did these things, because they had to be done, but they are not my typical scope of work.” Creating a plan for the transportation of the cake is exactly the type of thing you would think a wedding planner would do. Mary was supposed to have a “wedding emergency kit” on hand- but when we were having trouble with groomsmen boutonnieres and trouble with my dress bustle, Mary was no where to be found. This was par for the course of the day. I have reached out to Mary to address my concerns, and her response did not entail any ownership, admission of distraction, and blamed others for the things that did not go according to plan. The response blamed me for being disorganized and disrespectful. My so-called disrespectfulness may have came off like that from frustration that I saw 15 things that needed to be done, and Mary was sitting outside at a picnic table. First time planning a wedding like many of you, it is stressful and overwhelming which is why we hired a professional to ask the questions we did not think of. Overall we are very displeased with the quality of service provided and the level of ownership of shortcomings in our post wedding conversations.
Response from the Vendor on 10/29/2024
Aubrey and Drew, I am sorry if the wedding did not turn out as you had hoped.
I am devoted to all my weddings booked and make personal connections with all the brides that I work with.
Details of your review are completely inconsistent with m...
y recollection and my process that has worked for all other couples in the past.
I wish you both a long and happy marriage.
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Mary is a wonder! I was convinced by a friend to hire a wedding planner several months before my September wedding, and I'm so glad I took her advice as Mary was a godsend from the very start of the planning process until the very end.
Whether it was calling for weekly check-ins, orchestrating events great and small, or helping to dream up ideas to make our outdoor ceremony as memorable as possible, Mary's warm and serene demeanor both reassured me and gave me great peace of mind during what could otherwise have been a feverish time for our family.
I can't thank her enough for listening, for her incisive input, and for making herself available for any questions we had along the way. I recommend her unreservedly to any brides-to-be; you couldn't be in better hands.
Mary, Julie, and Kim exceeded every expectation when planning and executing my wedding. I’ve heard from many guests that it was the best wedding they had ever been to. I wasn’t the easiest client, often changing my mind and struggling to share the vision in my head. Mary just understood what I gave her, understood the venue space and knew what to do to make my vision happen. I even miscalculated the number of boutonnières needed, leaving us one short — and I didn’t find out until the next day. Mary and her team had made one out of her own supplies and extra flowers, and no one could tell. I couldn’t imagine a better end result—if you want to have the perfect wedding (where you don’t know about the inevitable mishaps that occur) then you need a Mother of the Bride wedding planner!
Mary was great to work with. We hired her as our day-of coordinator but I also really appreciated her contract arrangement, via which we could ask her questions/get planning advice leading up to the wedding as well. Mary was always kind and responsive and it was great to meet her in person at the wedding, which went smoothly. Thank you Mary!
Mary was wonderful through our entire wedding planning as well as being our day of coordinator. She cares and listens to all of your questions and concerns and we highly recommend her for all of your wedding plan needs! She was always there whenever we needed her. Thank you so much Mary!!
Brooke and John
Mary was an unbelievably amazing help as our day-of-coordinator! She was extremely communicative and supportive the months and weeks before the wedding, and the day of, she was such a calming and helpful presence that made our big day that much more enjoyable! She was there to set everything up, guide our guests on where to go and when, and even jump in to handle a few last minute stressors so myself and my mom didn't have to worry about them. Mary's daughter also attended our wedding to help with coordination, and she was an absolute delight and huge help as well!! They were such an incredible team! We are SO grateful for Mary and highly recommend her services!!
While Mary was unavailable to officially assist with planning a large wedding in our backyard, she spoke to me for over an hour pointing us in the right direction on many large and small details!!!! All her advice was on target and throughout the planning process she continued to respond to my many questions always same day! Her help and regular support has been invaluable!!
Mary was available anytime and every time we needed her. No question was silly or unanswerable. Wonderful with suggestions as well. Recommend her to make your day easy and no worries.
Response from the Vendor on 08/13/2024
Wonderful to work with your beautiful family - I had such a great time and your wedding was just gorgeous!
We hired Mary as our day-of coordinator and couldn’t have been happier. We knew we couldn’t afford a full-service planner but we were nervous about only having access to her for one day. Well, we shouldn’t have worried because Mary made sure we knew that she was available to us from the moment we signed the contract. We spoke on the phone frequently (weekly in the month leading up to the wedding) and also asked questions via text and got prompt responses. Mary has a wonderful calm, competent, yet warm energy and kept things running smoothly on the wedding day. I highly recommend her!
Response from the Vendor on 08/13/2024
Thank you Laurel! I so enjoyed working with you and Tyler! You were organized, cheerful and fun to chat with - and your wedding was devine! I miss our chats!
My husband and I used Mary’s services as our day of coordinator. From our phone calls to the day of the wedding, Mary was able to give us advice and help structure to assure everything would go as smoothly as possible. Originally, we had booked Mary for our reception only, but do to a last minute concern during our ceremony, I asked Mary if she could come to the ceremony as well to assist. Mary was extremely helpful with many things you’d often forget during the wedding planning process. If you’re contemplating using a wedding planner, definitely don’t hesitate to reach out to Mary!
Response from the Vendor on 08/13/2024
Thanks so much Erin! You made my job easy - and I so enjoyed working with you on your wedding. I feel so lucky I was able to attend the ceremony too. You were a beautiful bride!
Mary was helpful, calm, and caring with each step of our wedding planning process. Mary is organized and timely and made sure we had every detail completed leading up to the big day. She is available essentially 24/7 for her brides’ needs and questions. She was especially helpful with more challenging parts of the planning process such as transportation and day-of timelines. Mary listened to our wishes and helped us execute the wedding of our dreams without going overboard on unnecessary expenses. I would recommend Mary to any bride looking for guidance, planning, and coordination for her special day!
Response from the Vendor on 08/13/2024
Ellie! Thank you! It was just fantastic working with you - I so enjoyed our chats. Your day was spectacular and so were you, what a beautiful bride you were!
I couldn't have done it without Mary! She really helped me execute the perfect day and kept me calm and confident, and I was able to focus on what was really important: getting married. I love her!
Mary is such an amazing person! As a MOB herself (multiple times!), in addition to being there for many brides who are not her own daughters, she is an incredible resource! My daughter and are so grateful we had Mary “on our team”!!
Response from the Vendor on 11/09/2023
Such a pleasure to work with you. Lisa. You were fun and always ready to learn. I was able to learn from you as well! Win/win!
Mary has been wonderful! She's helped me calm my nerves as we plan for the big day, is organized and thoughtful, and always makes herself available. I've loved getting to know her and work with her so far.
Response from the Vendor on 11/09/2023
Thank you for your lovely words, Caroline! What a joy you have been to work with. Can’t wait to have coffee and see those wedding photos!
The best investment that our family made in planning my daughter’s wedding was to hire the “Mother-of-the-Bride” wedding planner, Mary Karnes! Mary set herself apart from the start with her professionalism. She was organized, and always readily accessible to answer questions. Throughout the 9 months that we worked with Mary we forged a supportive, productive relationship that brought us to the the wedding day!
Mary was nothing less than a shining star on the big day! She masterfully managed the flow of the celebration with an exact awareness of timing, attention to detail and subtle finesse! Because of Mary, my husband and I thoroughly enjoyed all the festivities , sitting back relaxed and proud. we were in good hands !
Response from the Vendor on 10/18/2023
Our Sunday chats were the highlight of my week, Kate. You and Caroline were a joy to work with!
Mary was very helpful in coordinating our wedding. Without her insight and guidance, our wedding would have been hectic! She has the experience to help wedding rookies become pros! I would recommend working with Mary to anyone who is getting married!
Mary was undoubtedly one of the best parts of our wedding experience. Throughout our planning process, she always emphasized her 24/7 availability no matter the inquiry, and scheduled frequent check ins to make sure we were all on the same page. We could really feel how much she cared about us, our wedding day, and ensuring it was everything we wanted. She was organized and offered such valued input on details from vendors, to timeline, to traditional and non traditional aspects of a wedding. Day off, Mary’s professionalism, expertise, and preparedness were incredible. She was efficient, coordinated with the vendors, and was prepared with things we hadn’t even considered. I know for a fact that the reason we enjoyed the day so much is because we had such a competent and lovely coordinator keeping everything going smoothly. It really allowed us to take in the day and enjoy our friends and family. Above all, Mary is just so … sweet. She has such a calming and warm presence, which is so needed for a wedding! We had so many friends and family comment on how wonderful she was. I truly cannot recommend Mary enough. Any couple who books her is so lucky!
Response from the Vendor on 07/03/2023
Oh Maddie, you made it so easy! I just loved working with you, I felt like I had an additional daughter. I know you will be very happy and have a wonderful life ahead. ♥️
Words cannot describe how wonderful Mary was in the planning of our special day, as well as on the day of. She is an incredible wealth of knowledge in terms of all that goes into making your wedding a seamless, organized, and blissful event. She is extremely professional and personal, going out of her way to get to know you as a client, and your vision as the bride. Her organization skills are top notch and will keep you feeling on top of things with checklists, to-do's and constant communication with her to make sure you're both on the same page about what needs to be done. On the day of our wedding, Mary had an amazing way of keeping the flow of the event cohesive with our timeline, while still being so gracious with our guests. Mary was our best decision we made as far as our special day went! She cares about you as a person and not just a client!
Response from the Vendor on 07/03/2023
Caroline, I loved working with you and your mom, Katie. We had such a good time planning on Sunday mornings, didn’t we! It was just a joy. Happiness always to a lovely couple! ♥️
Right from the moment we spoke on the phone, Mary just put me at ease. She was so calm and collected throughout the process and when we got to the day of, I felt confident knowing she was keeping an eye on things behind the scenes and making sure all went smoothly. She’s kind, attentive, and just a wonderful person. Highly recommend her. Thank you Mary for everything!
Mary was instrumental in having our wedding planning be as smooth and stress-free as wedding planning can be. It's difficult to put into words how much my husband and I appreciate everything Mary did for us. Helping us choose our vendors, answering our many questions promptly, checking in with us regularly to make sure we were on track with our milestones and timelines, and being supportive and with us through the whole process. Mary is the best and we would recommend her to anyone planning their CT wedding.
Response from the Vendor on 11/09/2022
Amanda! Thank you so much for your kind words. What a pleasure it was to work with you and Will, and be a part of your joyous celebration. I wish you great happiness - I know it’s yours!
When my husband and I first started planning our wedding, we knew we wanted it to be a little more DIY than what a lot of folks opt for. We were able to plan this way because we had confidence in ourselves and in our family and friends - my family in particular has always loved putting together a good event! When I was talking with potential wedding planners / day of coordinators, almost all of them discouraged us from doing this. While I know they were doing so out of support and experience, it often left me feeling discouraged and dismissed. What drew me to Mary was her ability to really listen and connect with what I was sharing and what our vision was. Mary never once tried to convince us of something other than what we wanted, and in fact offered her unconditional support in bringing the vision to life. Mary was always available when I wanted to talk and brought me a lot of comfort in the final month when things started to feel a bit stressful. Ultimately, we had our dream wedding come true, and I owe so much of that to Mary for helping support us every step of the way.
We highly recommend Mary without any reservations as she far exceeded our expectations. Her expertise, professionalism and calm demeanor were outstanding and just what we needed for our wedding. She is very kind and easy to work as well as always available and responded to any inquiry punctually and with great insight and information. Lastly, she was spot on with the day of wedding logistics and flow. We thoroughly enjoyed ourselves as Mary took care of everything .
Response from the Vendor on 10/02/2022
Pam! Thank you so much for the lovely praise. You and your family made it so enjoyable, and just a good time to work together. Thank YOU! Hope to see you soon.
At first, my daughter and I thought we could do all of the wedding planning ourselves. And then we began to worry about "the day of" the wedding....how could we be responsible for organizing the day when we were trying to enjoy and savor it?! Then Audrey found Mary, the most perfect solution to our problem. We enlisted Mary for "day of" wedding planning, but it was sooo much more! Mary made herself available to us months ahead of the event with phone meetings, texts, emails and helpful checklists that let us know... what we didn't know enough to ask about yet!! She was always available, always organized and always reassuring to us. I couldn't recommend her services more highly.
Response from the Vendor on 09/19/2022
Oh Lynn! Your kind words made my heart sing! I so enjoyed working with you, Audrey and Virgilio - and it was so fun getting to know your family. Thank you for letting me be part of such a joyous occasion!
As mother of the bride I started to get worried about all the things that might fall on me on the wedding day. I found Mary and after working with her realized how many details we weren’t even thinking about! She is so sweet, was always available and responsive, and orchestrated everything perfectly on the wedding day.
Response from the Vendor on 09/08/2022
Thank you for such a lovely review, Janet. Lauren and Ross’ wedding was so beautiful, and I so enjoyed working with you. It was a real pleasure and I felt like we got to know each other well - thank you for allowing me to be a part of such a s...
pecial day!
Mary was amazing! She was attentive, on the ball, and kept us on track the whole way. She made us feel like our wedding was the only one that ever mattered. Although very professional, we were able to work with Mary like a lifelong friend. And by the end of the wedding day, she certainly became one!
Response from the Vendor on 09/08/2022
Ross! Thank you for your kind words - you made it so easy. It was a joy working with you, Lauren and Janet. Your wedding was so beautiful and I enjoyed our frequent chats with “the team”! I hope our paths cross again.
There are not enough words! Mary was a complete savior in making our day run smoothly. Her guidance through wedding planning was amazing and she was always available for any and every conversation needed. I would highly recommend asking Mary to work with you, she went above and beyond! I am extremally appreciative! It really doesn't get better than Mary!
Response from the Vendor on 08/31/2022
Janelle, thank you thank you for your kind words. What can I say, it was just so darn fun, and such a great pleasure to work with you. You made it easy! You are an inspiration!
Mary was so helpful in helping coordinate logistics prior to my wedding as well as on the day of. I bounced ideas off her and with her advice and guidance I was able to plan my dream wedding.
Mary went above and beyond when I had trouble hearing back from vendors and helped me to lock down critical information from them.
I would recommend Mary to anyone! Her calm nature helps you stay calm as well.
Response from the Vendor on 09/06/2022
Hannah! Thank you for your lovely words… I can’t express how much I enjoyed our check-in chats - I felt as I really got to know you. Your wedding was so beautiful and heart-felt - your vision was amazing! Thanks for letting me be a part of your...
magical day.
I cannot recommend Mary enough! I was planning a chill, 50 person backyard wedding and knew I needed someone to help keep track of the day and help me plan the day, so that I could truly enjoy my wedding day. Best money spent! We had a few initial calls talking about details and planning the day out that I never would have thought about. Leading up to the big day, we talked about once a week and it was so helpful! I have been told this was one of the best and thought out weddings our guests have ever been to and that I attribute that to Mary. She goes above and beyond for her clients and allowed me to enjoy my big day! Thank you Mary for everything’s
Response from the Vendor on 07/07/2022
McKenna, thank you for your kind words! What a great time I had plannng with you. Your attention to detail and fun spirit made my job easy - and your wedding was so beautiful!
Mary is so kind and wonderful. She really helped keep me on track during the planning process and thought of little details that slipped my mind. She was on top of everything day of and her communication with me and the other vendors was excellent. I’m happy to have had her there for my special day and anyone else would be lucky as well
Response from the Vendor on 05/17/2022
Alison, it was such a joy to work with you, and I was honored to be a part of your wedding. I wish you great happiness!
Mary was a huge part of why my wedding day ran so smoothly. She was so helpful from the very first phone call until wedding day. She was always available if I had any questions and responded very quickly. Mary was wonderful to work with and I’m happy to have had her apart of my big day :)
Response from the Vendor on 10/28/2021
Oh Samantha, I had such fun working with both you and Karen - and what a great day your wedding was! From the guests to the vendors, everyone had a wonderful time! Pure joy.
Professional, organized, went beyond our expectations to make sure all activities went smoothly from start to finish. Not only did we enjoy planning our son’s back yard wedding with Mary, our vendors were very pleased working with her too. Since this was a back yard wedding there was a huge amount of coordination needed - Mary made sure everything was in place and that let us relax and enjoy the day!
Response from the Vendor on 10/13/2021
You and your entire family were a joy to work with, Karen. You made it all so easy. Thank YOU for such a fun day, and your fantastic organization!
Mary was always available to answer questions and offer suggestions in planning my daughter’s wedding. On day of, Mary jumped in where needed to have champagne chilled, supervise decorating of the arbor, and announce speakers for toasts!
Response from the Vendor on 10/13/2021
You have a lovely family, Miriam, and I enjoyed working with them. I wish you all great happiness, especially Hannah and Keith.
Mary is awesome. She was always available to help me figure out details before my wedding, and was an excellent on-the-ground coordinator that day! She did everything on the list of tasks I gave her, and much more! My wedding party was one that clearly needed help with directions- and Mary provided that much needed support.
Response from the Vendor on 10/12/2021
Thank you so much for your kind words, Hannah. I had so much fun working with you and at your wedding! It was a great time - and I wish you much happiness.
Mary was incredibly helpful throughout the entire planning process. She helped us prepare for our special day and was incredibly engaged and responsive. She helped us think through details we never would have thought about and was always accessible when we needed her. Thank you Mary for being a part of our special day!
Response from the Vendor on 10/12/2021
Thank you Katrina! Your wedding was so beautiful and so joyous. It was a pleasure working with you!
Mary was amazing! She helped me so much with the wedding planning process. She made the perfect timeline for my ceremony and reception, and she even typed it out for me. She is very professional, genuinely kind, and extremely knowledgeable about weddings. She told me a lot of things I never would have thought of. She really goes above and beyond and you can tell she takes a lot of pride in her work. I highly recommend her to anyone planning a wedding.
Response from the Vendor on 10/12/2021
Thank you Quinn! I have had just the best time working with you and your mom - it has been such a pleasure.
Working with Mary was fantastic!! We hosted our small wedding at our house and Mary helped make it feel seamless!! It was such peace of mind to know that she was there making sure everything ran smoothly. This was the best money we could spend on our wedding. Mary was professional, kind, thoughtful, and calming. I cannot recommend working with her more!!!
Response from the Vendor on 10/12/2021
Thank you Kimberly! You made it all so easy - your organization and vision were always spot-on. wish you great happiness.
Mary was such an instrumental part of our planning process and day-of coordination! Ensuring I always had Mary as my go to when a question popped up made the entire process less stressful! As far as the day-of there was nothing for me to worry about except to enjoy myself. Mary- thank you SO much for helping make our day so perfect!
Response from the Vendor on 10/12/2021
Thank you so much, Kara! Didn’t we have a good time - both planning and at the wedding g?!? I really enjoyed the whole process. Happiness to you!
Mary was so professional and made understanding the flow of planning a wedding, easy. She would ask questions of things I wouldn’t think of, reach out to me to make sure everything was getting done, and just let me talk things out to get ideas. We are so thankful for Mary. She made our day flow so easily and remain organized! Thank you so much, Mary!
Response from the Vendor on 09/20/2021
Oh Marley...thank you! It was a joy working with you, and your wedding was so fun. What a glorious day!
Mary was a joy to work with for our wedding day! I was fairly late in contacting her due to changing my wedding venue (and state) at the last minute. Mary jumped right in to my loose plans and helped make them possible. She spoke with me throughout the process, was always available, and made sure the vision of my day was completed. Even when a medical emergency struck during the ceremony, Mary helped keep me calm, by making sure things went as plan and if they couldn’t, she knew what the new plan was, so that she could execute it! I am thankful she was with us during our big day!
Response from the Vendor on 09/20/2021
Thank you Christian! I so enjoyed working with you and it was wonderful making your vision a reality. Your day was beautiful!
Mary is a joy to work with and has been a tremendous help in the planning of our daughter’s event. She is always available to answer questions, big or small, and goes above and beyond to assist us. I feel confident in recommending her to any one who is planning a wedding.
Response from the Vendor on 09/20/2021
Thank you, Susan! What fun we've had. It has been a true joy and I've so enjoyed getting to know both you and Quinn!
Mary was such a pleasure to work with! I started off my wedding planning thinking I could do it all myself, but as time went on I realized I needed some guidance and someone who could be my eyes and ears on the day of our celebration. Mary was amazing to work with - she was kind, patient, and always available when we had questions leading up to the event. She was able to bring our vision to life and worked with our venue to make sure that everything looked amazing on our day. As an added bonus, our vendors really enjoyed working with her and our venue even commented on what a great presence she was to have at the venue and how easy she was to work with.
Response from the Vendor on 09/20/2021
Thanks so much Caitlin! I will miss our planning sessions, I had such a good time chatting and getting to know you. And your wedding... just gorgeous, as were you!
Mary is awesome !! She is so sweet and kind and made sure everything at my wedding looked perfect! She kept us on a schedule so we didn’t miss the important parts of our new life together. She handled everything perfectly! THANK YOU!
Response from the Vendor on 09/20/2021
Ashley, thank YOU! Your wedding was so lovely, you had every detail so well thought-through. I loved working with you!
I was a wedding guest, and everything went beautifully! It was a gorgeous event and ran seamlessly. Mary did a great job!
Response from the Vendor on 09/20/2021
Thank you for your kind works, Susan! I love my job!
Mary is such a kind, patient, and well-organized presence to have during the wedding planning process, and on the wedding day itself!! I cannot recommend her enough. She was always available when we needed her in the weeks and months leading up to our wedding, and had just the right calm, measured energy (along with concrete solutions) when we had to change our wedding date because of Covid. You're in good hands--thank you Mary!!!
Response from the Vendor on 09/20/2021
Thank you Lauren! It was a pleasure working with you. Your calm and organization were terrific! What a beautiful wedding!
We were very fortunate to hire Mary to assist us in planning my daughter's wedding. Mary was always there when we were unsure, doubtful, or when we encountered some difficulties. She returned our calls and emails immediately and I found this extremely professional and comforting in such a special, yet stressful time. With her kind voice, she reassured us, guide us, and made certain that planning was on task. On July 4th, I found it impossible to hire a person to decorate the church before the ceremony, she did it herself! For that I am so grateful! I still remember when she said ," That's done! Off your list."
Thank you Mary! It was a pleasure working with you!
Response from the Vendor on 09/20/2021
Thank you Margaret, and it was a great pleasure working with you and Jane! I loved getting to know you both.
Hiring Mary to help us with planning and day-of coordination was easily the best investment we made, to ensure that everything was smooth and under control, from the big picture vision down to the smallest details of our wedding. Mary was elegance and grace under pressure, and great with communication with myself and other vendors. On the day of, she was everywhere we needed her to be, selflessly handling anything that came up with a smile and a solution. We consider Mary part of the family now. I confidently recommend her to anyone looking for large or small wedding planning and/or day-of coordination.
Response from the Vendor on 09/20/2021
Thank you for such a glowing review, Elaine. And I feel the same about you, so lovey and kind. I wish you great happiness.
I am absolutely blown away by Mary. She made every experience of planning my wedding a joy, even through the year we had, she stuck by me. I felt like I had a friend who could read my mind and always knew what I needed to hear. On our special day, it meant so much to have her with me. You will LOVE having Mary at your side.
Response from the Vendor on 05/21/2021
Loring, thank you for the glowing review! You and your amazing friends and family were an absolute joy to work with. The entire planning process,
all the way up to the “big day,” was just a blast. I wish you and Chris great happiness.
We hired Mary to be our day-of coordinator for a May 2020 wedding. Covid had other plans. Mary helped us: make the decision in March 2020 to postpone the reception for a year and move the ceremony/repurposed rehearsal dinner to October; cancel the October plans and move everything back to our new 2021 date; and then (regretfully) cancel that as well. She was so helpful in helping us figure out what our options were and making sure we hadn't forgotten a vendor. Talking to Mary was a great combination of sympathy for the circumstances and a voice of reason; she was definitely not worried about telling us the truth about what we would have to do to move forward with our date. I'm hoping we can plan something in the future and we will definitely want to work with Mary again.
Response from the Vendor on 04/13/2021
Thank you Emily, for the kind words. I so enjoyed working with you and Kevin. It was always a fun conversation whether discussing new plans, or making changes. You were up-beat and positive. I’m sure this positive attitude will service you both...
well in life.
I highly recommend Mary for all engaged couples. I was totally lost and not sure where to start in terms of planning for the big day. She was so resourceful and helped get us on the right tracks and (she actually found our dream venue)! Mary is detail oriented, super quick to respond, and treats her couples with grace and kindness. So incredibly happy we ended up having the pleasure of working with her!
Response from the Vendor on 03/24/2021
Jessica! What a delight it was to work with you and Nick. I had such fun and I know your wedding will be beautiful! I so appreciate your kind words, but you made it easy.
Mary was the day of event coordinator for my daughter’s Sept 2020 wedding. Due to restrictions during Covid, the event was outdoors, at a private property, and planned within a short period. This made the day of event coordination all the more challenging.
Mary was just a delight to work with and extremely helpful throughout the process, especially since my husband and I were not from the area. She offered a calm and reassuring presence throughout the process and many helpful suggestions during the planning process. She was always flexible, accommodating, and very organized. She handled last minute changes with grace and poise.
Prior to and during the event, her accessibility and response time was exceptional! Many guests commented on how pleasant and helpful she was during the event. Could not have asked for more.
Response from the Vendor on 11/15/2020
Thank you so much for your kind words, Janet. You and Christina made it easy. You both were so lovely and fun to work with. And the wedding was just beautiful!
Mary is so thoughtful, patient, posed, organized, detail oriented and is going above and beyond for our wedding. I know that she is going to make my day absolutely perfect!
Response from the Vendor on 10/03/2020
Thank you for the lovely review, Ashley. You have make planning your wedding easy. You are fun and a joy to work with!
Mary is wonderful. She was always accessible via phone or text. I appreciated how well she was able to solve problems and she always had great suggestions and offered alternative options when we encountered an issue. You can tell she knows what she is doing. She was very calming and nurturing and eased my anxiety every step of the way leading up to our big day, and everything turned out better than I could have ever imagined. I’d highly recommend her to any couple planning a wedding!
Response from the Vendor on 09/26/2020
It was so much fun working with you Margaret. Your wedding was beautiful and I wish you many happy years
We can't say enough about Mary! She has been remarkably helpful, with nearly immediate response to any and all questions and changes we have needed to make in this pandemic year.
Response from the Vendor on 09/24/2020
Mary, it has been such a pleasure working with both you and Lauren. Thank you for all your flexibility and patience as we navigate this wedding season.
Mary was super helpful while planning our wedding during COVID. Her calm spirit and was so necessary on the days where we felt discouraged. We loved working with her!
Response from the Vendor on 10/02/2020
It was such a pleasure working with you and Jean, Amanda! While Covid meant your wedding was a little different than planned, it couldn’t have been more beautiful!
Mary is the ultimate expert on wedding planning. She was so thoughtful on all of the suggestions she made and genuinely considered my daughter’s desires for her dream wedding. She gave great ideas for cost savings, where appropriate, and great recommendations on service providers. I will definitely use Mary for my other daughter’s wedding when the day comes. I cannot say enough about her professionalism, insight and creativity.
Response from the Vendor on 09/03/2020
Thank you so much for the glowing review, Ginger. It was a joy to work with you and your sweet daughter, Abby, and I hope to work with your lovely daughter, Emma, one day!
This summer I had the pleasure of attending a beautiful wedding and the magical experience has stayed with me.
The festivities flowed smoothly and the transitions seemed effortless with every detail thoughtfully executed. The success of the event was due, in large part, to Mary’s care and attention to detail- the results of which were evident in the carefree joy radiating from the bride and groom. Mary's is a true gift! I highly recommend her for your event coordination needs.
Response from the Vendor on 10/26/2019
Thank you so much for the kind words, Jean. I appreciate your thoughtfulness in writing such a lovely review!
Mary was a phenomenal. Many moons ago, I send her an inquiry on The Knot and she immediately called me by phone. It was clear she was on top of her business and her follow-up foreboded well for potential relationship we might have. We had a lovely chat and I felt comfortable securing her services immediately. She was always prepared for our conversations and always offered to schedule the "next" talk ahead of time, never leaving me to wonder whether it was appropriate to be in touch with her. By the time we secured her services, I had booked all my vendors, so instead of helping me find vendors, Mary helped me strategize final details. She repeatedly offered to make herself available to me for whatever I needed, even though I did not want to bug her more than necessary. She came to our rehearsal dinner, helped us write the processional/recessional, and helped trouble shoot various items of concern in the days leading up to the event. She made contact with all vendors to confirm their services a few months out and then again the week before, allaying my concerns about whether everyone would indeed remember to show up! On the day of the wedding, I don't remember having to think about vendors once--which is a true testament to her managing the logistics of the day with ease and grace. Everything went smoothly--and if it didn't, I had no idea, which is exactly the way one wants their wedding day to flow. I can't recommend her enough. Truly--Mary was delightful, kind, funny, organized, professional, and very, very, very capable!
Response from the Vendor on 10/21/2019
Thank you for a lovely review, Meagan. You made my job easy, enjoyable and fun. Your wedding was fabulous! I wish you many many years of joy.
Mary was a joy to work with from start to finish. We contacted her just a few weeks prior to the big day once we saw the need for a "day of" coordinator, and she jumped right on board to support. She was extremely responsive and flexible to our needs. She took time to share suggestions, always listening to our vision and remaining attentive to detail. Mary was a calm and pleasant force who was invaluable to our special day!
Response from the Vendor on 10/21/2019
Amina, it was so wonderful working with you. Your wedding was beautiful and filled with joy. I wish you great happiness!
Thank you so much Mary for making my afternoon service one less thing to worry about! I had a separate coordinator at my venue but Mary's flexibility to help out with my ceremony was just the "a la cart" service I was looking for! Mary is very organized and follows through on all the little details. It's been great working with you Mary!
Response from the Vendor on 10/16/2019
I so enjoyed working with you, Casey. You are fun, organized and a beautiful bride! I wish you great happiness!
We hired Mary as wedding planner for my daughter’s August wedding. With only three months to plan this wedding start to finish, it was important that we had someone we could depend on as the voice of reason, to make sure nothing fell between the cracks, and to be a calming force. Mary was our person. In addition, because the venue was not “all inclusive“, we also needed help to coordinate all of the vendors, the timeline, and other details we didn’t even realize were important. Again, Mary was our person.
Mary and her daughter Tess we’re also present the day of the wedding to make sure that everything went according to plan, that everyone kept to the timeline. They were also able to handle any minor issues that arose without interrupting us, or the festivities.
I would absolutely recommend Mary Karnes, Mother of the Bride Wedding Planner to anyone planning a wedding.
Response from the Vendor on 10/16/2019
Emily's wedding was filled with great joy, Barbara. Thank you so much for letting "Mother of the Bride" be a part of such a wonderful day! Happiness always, Mary
We somehow managed to get married amidst many life changes, and I ended up planning our wedding first from the other side of the country, and later in the midst of a cross-country move while starting a new job and living in temporary housing. Through all of this, Mary was my lifeline. When I felt like I couldn't keep up with things, Mary was the first person I would call or text. She is extremely professional and always makes herself available. We hired her as a day-of coordinator, but she was involved in so much more than just the day of. I turned to her for advice, to help put out fires, and to just help keep me on track. Her services were a great value and she was such a pleasure to work with. I couldn't recommend her more highly!
Response from the Vendor on 10/08/2019
Sally Ann - it was so fun to work with you, and your wedding was just beautiful. Thank you for your kind words, and for being such a lovely, gracious bride!
We hired Mary, of Mother of the Bride to be me, the actual Mother of the Bride, for the day of our daughters wedding. She is very knowledgeable, extremely thorough,helpful, and willing to step into any role to help make the day a success without stress.
Response from the Vendor on 10/08/2019
Thank you so much Sharlene. You and Caitlyn made it easy. It was wonderful working with you, and your daughter,( and venue!), we're stunning!
One of the best decisions I made while planning my wedding was having Mary as my "day of" coordinator. Her experience and passion for wedding planning made working with her incredibly easy and comforting (and really made her feel like a "mother of the bride"!) She was organized, professional, and always made time to answer any of my questions. I highly recommend her to anyone planning a wedding!
Response from the Vendor on 09/18/2019
You were an absolute joy to work with Hailey! I wish you great happiness!
I cannot express enough just how wonderfully organized, calming, and "a make things happen" kind of person Mary is. It is obvious she loves what she does, because she does it so well. If there was one decision we made for our daughter's Wedding, the BEST one was hiring Mary. I know The Big Day would not have ran as smoothly (perfect) as it did, had we not entrusted Mary with coordinating the day of. Not to mention her communication with our daughter months prior to - providing valuable advice, tips, timeline suggestions, etc. Bottom line, we could not be happier with our experience - and consider Mary superb in her field!
Response from the Vendor on 09/18/2019
Sheila, you and your lovely daughter made it so easy. I loved working g with you both!
One of the best things I did for our wedding was hire Mary! She was so amazing... she was there to give opinions when I didn’t know what to do or choose... she took away all of my worries for the day of... and she responded to all of my texts within about 2 minutes of sending them! Those are just a few things Mary did. She did a great job keeping us on a timeline the day of the wedding. I just really loved having her around to call or text when I was stressed or wanted to chat. She isn’t just a wedding planner she is support system and now friend! Thanks so much Mary!
Response from the Vendor on 08/21/2019
Emily, it was such a joy and honor to be a part of your wedding! You were a pleasure to work with and one of my favorite brides.
Mary is a true gift. She is so thoughtful, organized, responsive, helpful, and she orchestrated the greatest day of our lives. She went above and beyond any request and harmoniously brought together each detail and every component of the checklist together to create an incredible day. She’s always got fresh ideas and gives you encouragement when you’re feeling stressed. She gently reminds you of tasks to be completed and is always open to help. Mother of the bride is a perfect name for her company as she truly “mothers” you and makes you feel loved and taken care as if you were one of her 4 daughters throughout the whole process. I cannot recommend her enough and I would give her 50 stars if I could. Thank you again Mary for such a wonderful experience!
Response from the Vendor on 07/07/2019
Sarah, thank you for your kind words. You made planning your wedding easy. You were an absolute joy to work with. Your wedding was as beautiful as you! I wish you many years of joy.
I used Mary to help organize/run my church ceremony and I don’t know how I could have done it without her! She helped us stay organized and kept the order and timing just right. Mary and her team went above and beyond! After we said our goodbyes, and we were on our way to the reception, we realized we forgot something very important at my house. I called Mary in a panic and she rushed to my house and dropped off what was needed where we were taking photos. It was a life saver! Reasonable pricing for a reliable, friendly service. Look no further!
Response from the Vendor on 10/29/2018
Christine - thank you for the kind words. Your ceremony was so touching, I loved being a part of it! And it was our pleasure to help you resolve your minor blip 😊 ~ Mary
This is a review for Mary Paredes Karnes of Mother of the Bride Wedding Planner. My granddaughter was married in July and Mary was our planner for the event. She started working with us many months before the wedding and helped us with all aspects of our wedding like the caterer, music, and flowers. She also helped us with the schedule for the day, and helped keep us all on time. What was extra special is Mary made sure that I was always comfortable through the reception, by reserving me a chair and making sure I was involved in all the toasts and the cake cutting. She went out of her way to make the day special for us all, but especially for me and she did it with ease. Mary is a graceful lady and a wonderful wedding planner I recommend her to everyone. Evelyn
Response from the Vendor on 10/28/2018
Thank you, Evelyn for your thoughtful review. It was a pleasure getting to know you, and to be a part of your lovely granddaughter’s special day. It was a great party!
Mary was so fantastic! It was a super fun day and a bit stressful and Mary helped all of us who were in the wedding to relax and enjoy the day including our bride! We had an awesome day and Mary was a wonderful part of it!
Response from the Vendor on 10/28/2018
Heather, you were terrific in your role of bridal attendant. Thank you for all your support on the big day, and for writing this lovely review! Mary
Mary helped us with our wedding planning and was our day of the event coordinator, and we were so thankful to have her looking after us. She did
Response from the Vendor on 10/28/2018
Daria - thank you for taking the time to write a review. Your daughter’s wedding was just beautiful and it was an honor to be a part of it. Mary
Being part of the extended family I wanted my niece's wedding to go well, so I volunteered to help out in any way during the entire event. Mary had it all under control! From the timelines to the transitions it all went flawlessly. Wedding was great, thank you Mary.
Response from the Vendor on 10/27/2018
Thank you for kind words, Oliver. Your niece’s wedding was lovely and I was honored to be part of her special day. Mary
We hired Mary as our day-of coordinator, and it was one of the best decisions that we made. Mary put our minds at ease while we prepared for our wedding and when we arrived at our venue, everything was perfect. Even though we hired her just for our wedding day, she always made herself available throughout the planning process. She helped us with our vendor selection, put the ceremony order together and got everyone down the aisle, and was extremely knowledgeable about our wedding venue. She was a truly calming presence amidst the chaos that is planning a wedding. She is kind, thoughtful, and very understanding. If you're looking for a planner or coordinator, we would definitely recommend her!
Response from the Vendor on 10/26/2018
Jackie, it was such a pleasure to work with you and Matthew. Your wedding was so beautiful, as were you! Thank you for your lovely words.
I HIGHLY recommend Mary for your wedding planning needs. Myself (the bride) and my fiancee decided early on that we needed a Day of Coordinator for our somewhat DIY wedding at a summer camp. We had about 180 people coming for the wedding ceremony and reception, including 60 people sleeping over the summer camp Saturday night. I wanted to hire our vendors myself, but wanted some extra help for wedding day, especially since I would be in hair and makeup when the vendors started to arrive on wedding day. My fiancée and I also knew if we didn't get some help, my mom would end up being the go-to person for vendor and guest questions on wedding day, because that's just what she does. We didn't want my mom worrying about anything so we started to search for a Day Of Coordinator. I am so so happy we found Mary! First of all, leading up to the wedding, Mary was a huge help. She was always there if I had questions and was incredibly responsive. She helped me stay organized and work on timelines and all the details that come up when planning a wedding. When a week before the wedding there was a small chance of Hurricane Florence hitting Connecticut near our wedding date, Mary spent over an hour on the phone with my mom and I brainstorming contingency plans (which thankfully we didn't need!). She attended our rehearsal and kept things organized and efficient. On wedding day, Mary and her assistant for the day, Debbie, handled everything that came up. We had a long list of tasks for her to check on during vendor set up and she followed through with each and every one. Mary and Debbie helped with the transition from the ceremony space to cocktail hour to reception, and everything went smooth as can be. Mary took charge of watching our timeline and addressing any issues that came up with the guests, the food, the bar, etc. To be honest I have no idea how many little things came up throughout the course of my wedding day because no one bothered me about anything. My fiancée and I, as well as our parents, were able to have a wonderful stress free day. Mary interacted wonderfully with all our vendors from the DJ to the chef to the servers. She took care of last minute guests who showed up and discreetly got their name cards on the table before the guests could even notice. I had such a wonderful calm wedding day morning and a big part of that was because I knew Mary was there at my venue while I was at home relaxing and getting ready with my friends and family. I honestly don't know how we could have done it without her. She is the best and you should absolutely hire her for your event!
Response from the Vendor on 09/24/2018
Jenna! Thank you for the lovely review. You, your fiancé, your mom and all your extended family and friends were a delight to work with! You were so organized and easy going, you made my job easy. Happiness always! ♥️ Mary
Mary was such a pleasure to work with! We asked her to coordinate the day of the wedding in order to manage all the vendors, guests, and transportation on the big day. She was super organized, calm, responsive, and thoughtful - both in the lead-up to the wedding, and during the actual day. I felt very comfortable leaving everything in her hands - and everything ran so smoothly and without a hitch. A huge thanks to Mary for making all the pieces come together and helping us create such a magical wedding experience!
Response from the Vendor on 09/21/2018
Olga, you were such a pleasure to work with and your outstanding organization made my job easy. I wish you great happiness!
We hired Mary about a month before the wedding and are so grateful we did. We were mostly done with our planning at that point, but realized we wanted to just enjoy ourselves and not worry about timing or details on the day of the wedding. We also had a few things we were blocking on, which Mary helped us almost immediately resolve. She's done so many weddings that she has both an excellent sense of "how things are usually done" AND creative solutions to your unique problems.
We had a few phone calls before the wedding, a few texting conversations, a productive but efficient rehearsal dinner, and she only asked me a few questions on the day of the wedding. Everything went off smoothly. If something didn't go smoothly, I have no idea and that's perfect for me! Mary has a truly calming demeanor and knows when to take charge or step back when it comes to coordinating with vendors, family members, officiants, etc.
A perk that I hadn't expected was that she becomes the go-to person between your rehearsal dinner and the wedding. This was an ENORMOUS help since I just wanted to enjoy the time and be in the moment, so I could just send any last-minute questions that people had to her :)
To top it all off, you can tell that she really loves her job. She definitely teared up a few times during our wedding, and I love that she brought one of her daughters along to help the day-of - it speaks volumes about the love and care she has for her work!
Response from the Vendor on 09/17/2018
Thank you for your kind words, Suzanne. It was a joy and an honor to be a part of your special day. You have such a beautiful, loving family! I wish you great happiness!