The Vow Whisperer, Tanya Pushkine

ugh guidance without taking over the whole process, so it still felt like us. I would highly recommend her to anyone looking for anywhere from a little help around the edges to full-blown ceremony and vow planning – Tanya does it all flawlessly!

ows, but I was a bit nervous about how they would turn out & suggested we hire The Vow Whisperer for assistance. I was so glad to have crafted our vows along with Tanya’s guidance and feedback. Any hesitation either of us felt at the start of the process melted away the moment we heard each other’s words. Also, her ‘ceremony encyclopedia’ was such a great resource! With the help of Tanya and our officiant, we were able to cherry-pick ceremony components that felt the most true to us & create a meaningful ceremony with our own flair. We had a few guests compliment our vows immediately following the ceremony & I was in complete agreement – they were special, beautiful, and entertaining.

k from our guests has been overwhelmingly positive. Tanya really helped make the ceremony special without becoming the center of attention, which can be a challenge. She was very flexible throughout the process and we ended up with something we loved and will remember forever.

llowed me to remain calm, confident and convey my vows beautifully. I could not have done it without her!

ence and I highly recommend her.

e was nice and pleasant at the same time and we both loved her when we met her initially. At first, we overlooked small errors and inconsistencies to give her the benefit of the doubt, but these errors began to snowball over time. We were holding onto hope that this was a professional person who would come through for us as she promised, as we hired her, and paid her to do. Finally, enough was enough when we realized we ended up paying her more than double of what we were quoted for services. The money got out of whack and switched from Venmo requests to PayPal invoices. The entire process was confusing and when we realized it, we felt totally taken advantage of. Unfortunately there was no contract in place to fall back on. We would not recommend Tanya to our friends or other couples looking for an officiant.

wedding and guests STILL reference our vows. Tanya also worked with my mother to help her create a speech for our wedding which simply blew us away. Tanya even helped us rehearse our vows which made us feel super confident when saying them to each other and made the experience that much more special. If you are debating using Tanya‘s service, do it, you will not regret it!

l vows that we will treasure forever and there was not a dry eye in the crowd. I had my fair share of wedding day jitters and Tanya has the most calming, reassuring presence. My husband and I can not recommend working with her more highly!

it turned out fantastic!!! Pointed out how to prepare and give the speech and I killed it!!! Thank you !!!!!

d Tanya that the vows were no longer the thing I was most worried about. I was comfortable and prepared and got some many compliments after the ceremony. She is absolutely amazing and would hire her again. My wife’s mom also used Tanya to write a speech for us. My jaw hit the floor it was so moving and well written. I can’t thank Tanya enough for helping us make one of the most memorable nights of our lives, even more memorable.

azing and I would recommend this service to anyone getting married.

o. I highly recommend working with Tanya and inviting her to host your ceremony.

hen the wedding festivities began we were feeling confident and ready. Our vows are something we will treasure for a lifetime - thank you Tanya!

, the moment we promised our vows to each other. My husband and I are used to giving public speeches and we had already written our own vows so I thought we wouldn't need anyone like Tanya. But our vows are not speeches and I couldn't get through just practicing my vows without ugly crying! Knowing that I never had to mention my vows to my fiance before the wedding made it so special. I will never forget the moment I got to share my vows with my husband! I highly recommend every bride and groom (and wedding party!) include Tanya from the very beginning of any wedding planning because you're not just planning a wedding, you’re setting the tone for the rest of your lives together! Thank you, Tanya!

h? What if mine ended up being amazing and his ended up being something a third grader could have done better, or vice versa? Those thoughts ran through my head as the wedding day got closer and closer; he didn’t know where to start either. I found Tanya, we did a Zoom call with her and we hired her... During month 16 out of our 16 month engagement. She was the MOST flexible person I could have imagined, the SWEETEST soul and communicated BETTER than any of our wedding vendors. Her help practicing was much needed and more helpful than I imagined. Oh and the vows? Neither of us knew we would cry so much during our vows- but in all good ways. Our vows were perfect. Neither of us had better or worse vows than the other, we both had a few jokes in our vows to make the other laugh and they were the most genuine vows we could have made. We couldn’t have made them without Tanya’s help though- hiring her was one of the best things we did. Everyone talked about how amazing our vows were, including our photographer who told us some cringeworthy stories about vows after our ceremony. I could go on and on, but if you’re thinking about hiring Tanya, just do it. You won’t be disappointed and you’ll be as excited as me to print out and frame your vows for your home!

in and keeping in contact since March, and it was a no brainer for us to ask her to perform the smaller ceremony when the time came. Overall she was extremely open, flexible and receptive to tailoring the it to exactly what we felt comfortable with. Her delivery was warm and intimate and received a round of applause from park goers at the end! Would highly recommend.

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and all, our vow writing time kept getting put to the side. We both struggled initially with hearing and writing out our own heartfelt feelings in the midst of all of the planning chaos. Tanya helped us reflect, write, and then commit to practice words that we now know will profoundly impact our marriage and carry lasting memories with our mates. I am deeply grateful for her many kindnesses shown to us and for being willing to tailor her services and support to our needs to get the “job done well.” I have been married now for three weeks and have already had my vows quoted back to me twice ! No way would that have happened without her assistance!! Tanya helped us keep our essential task important and not leave it up to the last minute or from impromptu. I felt confident and prepared to say my vows, which helped me enjoy our special day so much more. I am so very glad this very important vow writing process did not get overlooked or short-changed as it would most likely have been without her help! Some of the many comments I heard at the wedding, post-ceremony: • Several Couples said how our vows “put their vows to shame.” • “Your vows were amazing” many times. • “You (Bride) were a very tough act to follow” several times. “I wasn’t sure how he (the Groom) could possibly follow, but he did. He absolutely held his own.” • “Loved how in Sync both of your vows were.” • Long-time friends each said how much our vows meant to them. • Another recently married male friend said how he resonated with my (Brides) words about how, when I finally found my person, that no future time will ever feel like enough time for us to live our lives together. • A college friend said she balled like a baby so hard she had to step to the back of the ceremony aisle so as not to disturb. • Family friend said she knew exactly what I was saying in my vows when I said it was like my groom and I were old friends from the first time we met. She said she felt like that in her relationship.

ial because we really got to know each other which made it more real. We will be keeping in touch with Tanya forever that’s how much she means to us!

- she made the process so easy and effortless! My new husband kept saying, "Everyone should it like this!" It was short, but sweet and I couldn't have asked for a better day.

a couple. She's a wonderful, caring and uplifting person that was a delight to interact with. Highly recommend!

thank you so much for helping us articulate our love for each other, and for helping us make our ceremony so meaningful. We got so many compliments on our vows from our guests. I will definitely be asking for your help next year preparing a toast for my sister's wedding!

, and rehearsed to perfection. Of all the things on your checklist for your wedding, the Vow Whispered should be right up there. Worth every penny.

ding day. If you want to be comfortable and well spoken on your special day, and say what's truly meaningful to you and your partner, The Vow Whisperer can get you to that place.. With a definite plan created to make the task direct and easy, you will really feel ready and say it with grace and style.

tionnaires and templates, and valuable tips and recommendations. She was always happy to talk and would review our vows in a lot of detail. I am thankful for her help in making our vows memorable. In addition, Tanya also was our officiant in our wedding and she was incredibly accommodating, helpful, and creative.

ony around our vision. Highly recommended and very lucky to have met Tanya!

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tley turned the legal ceremony into a ZOOM wedding with over 200 guests in attendance online. Tanya was patient in working with both of us and always quick to respond, be it by by email, phone, or text. Thank you for helping us create such a special day!

lls, and emails. Tanya was always available to talk by phone and quickly responded by email or text. We wound up having a smaller than planned wedding, which wound up being in our yard with immediate family. Tanya was awesome And patient with us through it all❣️

s behind schedule, but her consistent communication along the way really helped me to prioritize writing and to practice saying my vows. I get anxious about public speaking of any kind, but when the day came, I stood in front of my wife and our community and spoke with confidence. I'm incredibly grateful to Tanya for helping me to do so.

She opens up a creative part of you and makes you feel comfortable. I would definitely recommend the vow whisperer to anyone you will not regret it

140 people, as if they were the only ones in the room. Tender interlocking of vows. A truly magical moment for our family, that’s as parents, we will never forget! Anat & Philip

ere In front of all those people and share our vows. 10/10.

d, simply put: wow. This was not your usual “do you” this and “do you” that ho-hum-I’ve-heard-it-all-before exchange. No. This was something completely different. The whole venue was electric, like it was lit from within. My partner and I exchanged looks. Right behind the wow, we knew we were thinking the same thing: Could this be us one day? Could we be this poised, this genuine, this true to ourselves and – just as importantly – this connected to our guests? Because that was the real hat trick. It was the bride and groom and the entire room – and it was magic. Cut to: He asked, I said yes, and we immediately enlisted Tanya to guide us, coach us, inspire us. Simply put: we wowed. Thank you TP.

oughts. And the literary knowledge to cite Shakespeare or Adam Sandler. I am thrilled with the outcome of our wedding and I know at least some of what we said will be remembered, certainly by me and my wife. I highly recommend Tanya for help with this important moment.

ly could do our own. We weren't sure if we could pull it off, but with her help and encouragement, our ceremony turned out to be amazing! We were both super nervous, as neither one of us likes speaking in public. Tanya coached us through our fears and was able to calm us down to the point that it was actually a breeze! We felt so proud of ourselves. The guests told us this was probably the most beautiful exchange of vows they had ever heard. I think all couples could use Tanya...she made us feel so comfortable and at ease. And our vows turned out great!

nce of a wedding vow cannot be understated, especially on an occasion as momentous as the union of two souls... and to find a professional specializing in such a critical offering... as empathetic, as patient, and as endowed with innate common sense as Tanya was, to say the least, nothing short of a miracle. Thank you Tanya. Thank you thank you thank you.

s a top-notch, favored vendor. She really is one of a kind, and added so much depth and brilliance to our very special day.

how to put our thoughts on paper, which we re-wrote many times together until every word was perfect. And the best was that she coached both of us through our fear and got us to speak our vows in public better than we could ever have hoped for. Our guests were blown away..not a dry eye in the house! Thanks, Tanya...couldn't have done it without you.

tone. We felt so confident knowing our vows precisely captured our feelings for each other!

to speak at everything. Thank you Tanya. You're the best!

words she trained me to speak publicly without getting choked up which was my worry. I gave my toast then got very drunk! I highly recommend the Vow Whisperer.

full of ideas and suggestions and welcomed our comments and feedback as we all fine tuned the vows.

be writing my future vows! Well done, Vow Whisperer!

ony was one of the most touching and memorable experiences. Thank you vow whisperer for making our special moment magical!