The Vow Whisperer, Tanya Pushkine

k from our guests has been overwhelmingly positive. Tanya really helped make the ceremony special without becoming the center of attention, which can be a challenge. She was very flexible throughout the process and we ended up with something we loved and will remember forever.

llowed me to remain calm, confident and convey my vows beautifully. I could not have done it without her!

ence and I highly recommend her.

e was nice and pleasant at the same time and we both loved her when we met her initially. At first, we overlooked small errors and inconsistencies to give her the benefit of the doubt, but these errors began to snowball over time. We were holding onto hope that this was a professional person who would come through for us as she promised, as we hired her, and paid her to do. Finally, enough was enough when we realized we ended up paying her more than double of what we were quoted for services. The money got out of whack and switched from Venmo requests to PayPal invoices. The entire process was confusing and when we realized it, we felt totally taken advantage of. Unfortunately there was no contract in place to fall back on. We would not recommend Tanya to our friends or other couples looking for an officiant.

wedding and guests STILL reference our vows. Tanya also worked with my mother to help her create a speech for our wedding which simply blew us away. Tanya even helped us rehearse our vows which made us feel super confident when saying them to each other and made the experience that much more special. If you are debating using Tanya‘s service, do it, you will not regret it!

l vows that we will treasure forever and there was not a dry eye in the crowd. I had my fair share of wedding day jitters and Tanya has the most calming, reassuring presence. My husband and I can not recommend working with her more highly!

it turned out fantastic!!! Pointed out how to prepare and give the speech and I killed it!!! Thank you !!!!!

d Tanya that the vows were no longer the thing I was most worried about. I was comfortable and prepared and got some many compliments after the ceremony. She is absolutely amazing and would hire her again. My wife’s mom also used Tanya to write a speech for us. My jaw hit the floor it was so moving and well written. I can’t thank Tanya enough for helping us make one of the most memorable nights of our lives, even more memorable.

azing and I would recommend this service to anyone getting married.

o. I highly recommend working with Tanya and inviting her to host your ceremony.

hen the wedding festivities began we were feeling confident and ready. Our vows are something we will treasure for a lifetime - thank you Tanya!

, the moment we promised our vows to each other. My husband and I are used to giving public speeches and we had already written our own vows so I thought we wouldn't need anyone like Tanya. But our vows are not speeches and I couldn't get through just practicing my vows without ugly crying! Knowing that I never had to mention my vows to my fiance before the wedding made it so special. I will never forget the moment I got to share my vows with my husband! I highly recommend every bride and groom (and wedding party!) include Tanya from the very beginning of any wedding planning because you're not just planning a wedding, you’re setting the tone for the rest of your lives together! Thank you, Tanya!

h? What if mine ended up being amazing and his ended up being something a third grader could have done better, or vice versa? Those thoughts ran through my head as the wedding day got closer and closer; he didn’t know where to start either. I found Tanya, we did a Zoom call with her and we hired her... During month 16 out of our 16 month engagement. She was the MOST flexible person I could have imagined, the SWEETEST soul and communicated BETTER than any of our wedding vendors. Her help practicing was much needed and more helpful than I imagined. Oh and the vows? Neither of us knew we would cry so much during our vows- but in all good ways. Our vows were perfect. Neither of us had better or worse vows than the other, we both had a few jokes in our vows to make the other laugh and they were the most genuine vows we could have made. We couldn’t have made them without Tanya’s help though- hiring her was one of the best things we did. Everyone talked about how amazing our vows were, including our photographer who told us some cringeworthy stories about vows after our ceremony. I could go on and on, but if you’re thinking about hiring Tanya, just do it. You won’t be disappointed and you’ll be as excited as me to print out and frame your vows for your home!

in and keeping in contact since March, and it was a no brainer for us to ask her to perform the smaller ceremony when the time came. Overall she was extremely open, flexible and receptive to tailoring the it to exactly what we felt comfortable with. Her delivery was warm and intimate and received a round of applause from park goers at the end! Would highly recommend.

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and all, our vow writing time kept getting put to the side. We both struggled initially with hearing and writing out our own heartfelt feelings in the midst of all of the planning chaos. Tanya helped us reflect, write, and then commit to practice words that we now know will profoundly impact our marriage and carry lasting memories with our mates. I am deeply grateful for her many kindnesses shown to us and for being willing to tailor her services and support to our needs to get the “job done well.” I have been married now for three weeks and have already had my vows quoted back to me twice ! No way would that have happened without her assistance!! Tanya helped us keep our essential task important and not leave it up to the last minute or from impromptu. I felt confident and prepared to say my vows, which helped me enjoy our special day so much more. I am so very glad this very important vow writing process did not get overlooked or short-changed as it would most likely have been without her help! Some of the many comments I heard at the wedding, post-ceremony: • Several Couples said how our vows “put their vows to shame.” • “Your vows were amazing” many times. • “You (Bride) were a very tough act to follow” several times. “I wasn’t sure how he (the Groom) could possibly follow, but he did. He absolutely held his own.” • “Loved how in Sync both of your vows were.” • Long-time friends each said how much our vows meant to them. • Another recently married male friend said how he resonated with my (Brides) words about how, when I finally found my person, that no future time will ever feel like enough time for us to live our lives together. • A college friend said she balled like a baby so hard she had to step to the back of the ceremony aisle so as not to disturb. • Family friend said she knew exactly what I was saying in my vows when I said it was like my groom and I were old friends from the first time we met. She said she felt like that in her relationship.

ial because we really got to know each other which made it more real. We will be keeping in touch with Tanya forever that’s how much she means to us!

- she made the process so easy and effortless! My new husband kept saying, "Everyone should it like this!" It was short, but sweet and I couldn't have asked for a better day.

a couple. She's a wonderful, caring and uplifting person that was a delight to interact with. Highly recommend!

thank you so much for helping us articulate our love for each other, and for helping us make our ceremony so meaningful. We got so many compliments on our vows from our guests. I will definitely be asking for your help next year preparing a toast for my sister's wedding!

, and rehearsed to perfection. Of all the things on your checklist for your wedding, the Vow Whispered should be right up there. Worth every penny.