The 12 Best Places to Propose in New York State

You've done it: gone on the first (and many other) dates, fell in love, found the one and finally, you're ready to ask, arguably, the most important question of your life: Will you marry me? If you're a New York lover, the best places to propose in New York State aren't far off, and you're sure to hear a yes in the land of bagels, quaint towns and lovely nature.

"A proposal place should be special to the couple in some way," says Addison Hart, a New York-based proposal and wedding planner. "If you want a private, intimate experience, consider a space that isn't prone to foot traffic and is tucked away from onlookers. On the other hand, if you want excitement and applause, there are no shortage of 'bucket list' places across New York where crowds will be more than happy to cheer you on."

Of course, you can always check out The Knot Vendor Marketplace to find your perfect proposal planner, location or photographer—but we'll help you get started. Whether you're looking to head to the best places to propose in Upstate NY or you're leaning toward using a checklist for Long Island, NY proposal ideas, there is no shortage of locations to check out.

Breakneck Ridge, Cold Spring, NY

When it comes to the best places in New York to propose, we have to include Breakneck Ridge in the Hudson Valley. This proposal location is one for the couple who loves hiking, nature and best of all, a great view at the end. "The hike isn't easy, but there are great viewpoints from the top of the mountain that look at the Hudson River," Hart explains, "It's a great spot for couples who are active. You can also walk into the town of Cold Spring afterward for a celebratory drink."

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Lake Placid, Lake Placid, NY

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Maybe you and your lover love nature, but you're not looking to get sweaty before your proposal. No problem! Head over to Lake Placid in the Adirondack Mountains. This peaceful, lush lake is surrounded by majestic mountains, perfect for a lakeside proposal (or even a picnic.) It will make for great pictures! Afterward, enjoy staying in the village, visit the 1932 and 1980 Olympic Legacy sites and, of course, celebrate with your spouse-to-be.

Wolffer Estate Vineyard, Sagaponack, NY

"For the wine enthusiasts, it doesn't get much more picturesque than a vineyard in the Hamptons," Hart says. According to her, Wolffer Estate Vineyard is lovely to visit in the summer, and arguably even better in the fall. After proposing, visit the estate's tasting room for dinner and drinks to celebrate or invite your family to have a post-proposal toast.

Boscobel House and Gardens, Garrison, NY

Museum buffs, anyone? If you enjoy historic charm, adorable gardens and art, the Boscobel House and Gardens in Hudson Valley makes for one of the best places to propose in New York State. Teeming with charm, this museum (once a house) is interesting, full of art and has unparalleled views of the Hudson itself. Get down on one knee in historic style at this truly unique proposal spot. If you want it to be more private, tuck away in the garden or in front of the gorgeous view inside the museum. Either way, your honey is sure to love it.

The Terrace at Delaware Park, Buffalo, NY

Finding yourself looking for the best places to propose in Buffalo, NY? If so, we've got you covered. The Terrace at Delaware Park is an amazing option for a more urban, city vibe—without having to head to the hustle and bustle of the Big Apple. Enjoy a romantic dinner on the terrace overlooking the lake, share dessert and before toasting to your forever life together pop the question on the balcony.

Boldt Castle, Alexandria Bay, NY

Located on Heart Island, Boldt Castle screams fairy tale. As far as the best places to propose in NY that give magical vibes, this is sure to fulfill the fantasy. From the fantastic architecture to picture-perfect lake settings, Boldt is truly ethereal—and to make it more romantic, it was built in 1900 at the bidding of millionaire hotel magnate George C. Boldt as a tribute to his beloved wife Louise. Make your future spouse feel like the royalty they are with a proposal that fits just that.

The Catskills, NY

Maybe you're looking for a New York proposal location that you can truly make your own from start to finish. Try out the Catskills—the options for a perfect proposal moment are endless here. "If nature is your thing, consider renting a small cabin somewhere in the Catskills," Hart suggests. "There are plenty of hiking trails and scenic spots that would make a great backdrop to get down on one knee."

Lamberton Conservatory, Rochester, NY

Is your partner into fauna and flora? If so, consider one of our favorite proposal ideas Rochester, NY has to offer: Lamberton Conservatory. Spend an afternoon exploring the tropical rainforest, desert environments and even seasonal exhibits together before finding a private spot tucked away among the beautiful florals. Better yet, consider hiring a proposal photographer to secretly tag along and get truly amazing (and flowery!) photos to look back on for years to come.

Niagara Falls, NY

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If you're looking for a truly iconic proposal photo, what better way to do it than go to an iconic place? Niagara Falls, New York is just that. The falls, which straddle the Canadian border, aren't just an adventurous place to visit, but a truly romantic one at that. Plan a weekend trip to the Falls with a tour guide and spend time in the oldest state park. Then, when you're in the most breathtaking spot, ask your partner for their hand. But if planning your perfect proposal isn't your thing, you could hire a proposal planner, too. "Having someone help plan your proposal is a great way to reduce your stress leading up to the day," Hart explains, "With someone else looking out for all the details, you can be present and focus on the most important thing: asking the love of your life to marry you."

Albany State Capitol Building, Albany, NY

This is another idea for history (and architecture) lovers. The Albany State Capitol Building isn't just a stunning Romanesque building with stairs worthy of Cinderella—it's also a perfectly romantic place to start the rest of your lives as a couple together. In particular, we suggest heading to the grand western staircase, where a massive skylight allows light to pour into the building.

Sleepy Hollow, NY

If you're proposing in the fall we recommend visiting Sleepy Hollow in the Hudson Valley. Known for truly embracing the autumn vibes, pumpkin patches, spooky season and Halloween classics, you can pop the question in the true spirit. If your future fiance is a true fall or Halloween lover this could be the best place to propose in New York to get a "yes!"

Mayflower Inn & Spa, Washington, CT

As a bonus, not far outside of New York State, is the Mayflower Inn and Spa. "I actually have friends who got engaged here," Hart says, "Not only was it beautiful for photos, but they also got to spend the entire weekend celebrating together at the property's various amenities."