AJ IS AWESOME! We both feel like we got the best dance instructor for our personalities. We are not dancers at all and are very self-conscious about how others will perceive our first dance. The thought of dancing in front of a crowd is enough ...to make my husband lock up. We originally signed up for 10 lessons, but added 5 more to shore up some areas that were still weak or not perfected.
We didn't pick AJ, but are so incredibly thankful and grateful that we were lucky enough to get matched with him. He wasn't just a dance instructor. He was a friend, a motivator, a crisis counselor, a good critic, and just overall made us feel so at ease. He knew our personalities from the way we danced, got to know us better as we talked, counseled, and advised, and knew how to provide that push or criticism that made us want to get better. I think any other way would have made us melt down or defensive or not motivated to push through our trouble areas.
When we first met him, we gave him two very different songs. AJ was able to pick out our personalities through a few minutes of conversation, and also based on our look and behavior. Based on that, he recommended one song, which turned out to be the perfect choice for us. He designed a beautiful and graceful dance routine that was light and fun. He also matched our choreography perfectly with the lyrics. Additionally, he worked with us on posture, placement of hands and fingers, and where to bend our neck to add to the visual appeal of our movement. When we would ask about adding in a little pizzazz or flare, he was all for it and worked it in for us.
I do feel bad that we continued to provide AJ nothing short of challenges all the way up to our wedding day. He would fix our timing and then we would do a wrong step, or he would fix our spin and then have to fix footwork somewhere else. But despite that, he was always SO POSITIVE and interacted in a way with us that helped us fix those mis-steps. What we also liked was that towards the end, when we were running out of time, he was able to prioritize the most important things to fix, so we didn't feel overwhelmed or that the world was going to end.
AJ always has so much energy! Even when we were the last class at 9:15PM, he was still always energetic. Sometimes after a long day at work, I was dragging at the dance lesson. However, when we met him, his energy would just refill our empty resevoirs and lead to a productive session.
In the end, everything paid off! We loved our dance and everyone told us how impressed they were with our routine and just how beautiful we looked. Even when we made a small mistake, we were able to continue with our dance so that people couldn't tell. We ended up with a dance we just love and again, are just so grateful that we had AJ and cannot thank him enough. Ask for AJ and once you talk to him, you won't be able to imagine having anyone else as your instructor.