12 Gorgeous Engagement Party Venues in San Diego

We found the best spots to celebrate this next chapter.
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Carli Brennan
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Carli Brennan
The Knot Fashion Contributor
  • Carli writes freelance fashion articles for The Knot.
  • Prior to The Knot, she was the style section editor at Her Campus Media and launched the Fashion Institute of Technology chapter of Her Campus.
  • Carli’s passion for the wedding industry stems from her time as a bridal consultant and her previous internship in a bridal showroom.
Updated Jan 02, 2025

Whether you're a local or have a special attachment to the Southern California county, there's no denying that a San Diego engagement party is guaranteed to impress your guests. Whether you're looking for a laidback beachfront locale or an upscale establishment, we found 12 spectacular engagement party venues in San Diego that are perfect for celebrating this special milestone.

Engagement party planning is no small feat, which is why we're here to help. Whether you're just engaged or have been planning your engagement party for a while, locking down the perfect engagement party venue is oftentimes the biggest hurdle for couples to tackle when it comes to planning. Once you've decided on a location, you can start fine-tuning the other details like engagement party themes and engagement party decor. From California beach locations to small wedding venues in San Diego, we've rounded up 12 amazing places for an engagement party. Check out San Diego engagement party venues on The Knot Vendor Marketplace for even more location ideas.

The Cove House in La Jolla

This award-winning restaurant and event space is located in a charming beach house in La Jolla just steps from the ocean. The relaxed indoor/outdoor setting of The Cove House is peak California-style living. Their experienced culinary team can cater the menu and specialty cocktails to your liking using locally sourced ingredients. The Cove House can accommodate parties with up to 150 guests.

Il Fornaio Cucina Italiana in Del Mar

Located on the top floor of the Del Mar Plaza, Il Fornaio Cucina Italiana offers guests authentic Italian cuisine with breathtaking beachfront views. Their mix of private and semi-private indoor and outdoor spaces can accommodate anywhere from 12-120 guests, making this San Diego engagement party location perfect for large and small gatherings alike. In addition to an expansive food and wine menu, this venue offers couples an on-site event coordinator to ensure a seamless process while planning your engagement party.

Walnut Tree Ranch Vineyard and Winery in Santa Ysabel

Tucked into the rolling hills near Santa Ysabel, California, Walnut Tree Ranch Vineyard and Winery is a romantic and scenic choice for an engagement party venue. A boutique winery, Walnut Tree Ranch Vineyard and Winery produces an amazing array of local California wines. Located in the picturesque backcountry, this venue is just an hour's drive from the San Diego metropolitan area, making it an easily accessible location for guests. Walnut Tree Ranch Vineyard and Winery can accommodate up to 50 guests, making it perfect for intimate engagement parties.

Moe's Mission Beach in Mission Beach

Located in one of San Diego's charming small beach towns, Moe's Mission Beach is an iconic steakhouse that can be reserved for private events, such as your engagement party. They also own Molly's Mission Beach, where you can host an event on Molly's Patio for a lush garden space. Up to 100 guests can fit comfortably at this engagement party place in San Diego.

PB Ale House in Pacific Beach

PB Ale House prides itself on offering guests the best of Southern California living with its wide selection of craft beer and coastal cuisine. Perfect for engagement parties, PB Ale House has breathtaking sunset views as well as a rooftop space and can accommodate up to 350 guests. Their trained culinary team will work with you to create a customized prix fixe menu and drink selection for your event.

Three Hills Winery in Ramona

Three Hills Winery is celebrated for its award-winning California wines. The family-owned winery prides itself on excellent wines and top-notch service. The winery offers multiple locations that can be reserved for private events, including their popular Lakeside Pavilion.

The Inn at Sunset Cliffs in San Diego

As the name suggests, The Inn at Sunset Cliffs is known for its picturesque waterfront views of Ocean Beach. This 24-room inn can accommodate up to 150 guests for your engagement party in San Diego, as well as overnight accommodations if required. Boasting the largest deck on the US coastline, The Inn at Sunset Cliffs is perfect for those looking for a scenic quintessential California engagement party venue.

Kairoa Brewing Company in University Heights

Kairoa Brewing Company is a modern farmhouse-style brewery with 10,000 feet of event space to accommodate up to 225 guests. It offers 24 different beer taps, an expansive wine list and an array of event and engagement party food packages to suit your needs. The family-owned brewery has roots in New Zealand, making for a unique and memorable dining experience.

Blue Water Grill in Coronado

Located in the historic Hotel Del Coronado Boathouse, Blue Water Grill offers guests spectacular views and waterfront dining on Glorietta Bay. The restaurant has both a private upstairs dining room and an outdoor balcony patio overlooking the water that you can book for your engagement party for 50-200 guests. Their on-site event planner can help you plan your party and work with your budget to find which package is best for you. Your guests will enjoy fresh seafood and a relaxing ambiance for an engagement party to remember.

Carlsbad by the Sea Resort in Carlsbad

Carlsbad by the Sea Resort boasts serene garden courtyards and historic charm in picturesque Carlsbad in North San Diego County. Whether you opt for the indoor space or courtyard, this venue can accommodate up to 100 guests for your engagement party, rehearsal dinner or other wedding-related events. Additionally, guests traveling from out of town can book overnight accommodations at the resort.

Space OneTen in Fallbrook

Space OneTen is a "premier destination and perfect backdrop for life's most memorable moments." Perfect for your engagement party, rehearsal dinner, bridal shower and more, Space OneTen offers both indoor and outdoor spaces for up to 56 guests, making it ideal for more intimate gatherings. They offer rentals for items like tables, chairs, linens and flatware, as well as designated parking spaces, an on-site dressing room and a state-of-the-art sound system.

Hotel La Jolla in La Jolla

Located near the gorgeous beaches of La Jolla, Hotel La Jolla can accommodate up to 90 guests for your engagement party. Their culinary team emphasizes new American cuisine and guarantees guests a spectacular dining experience and excellent hospitality. Their multiple indoor and outdoor spaces showcase the best La Jolla has to offer, with scenic views at every turn. This picturesque spot is also a popular bridal shower location in San Diego.

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