95 Truth or Dare Questions for Couples to Spice Up Your Next Night In

Time to revive this slumber party staple.
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Jamie Cuccinelli the knot writer and wedding expert
Jamie Cuccinelli
Jamie Cuccinelli the knot writer and wedding expert
Jamie Cuccinelli
Senior Editor, Sex & Relationships
  • Jamie is a Senior Editor for The Knot where she oversees all sex and relationship editorial content.
  • Before joining The Knot Worldwide, she worked with an array of digital publications that include Brides, The Zoe Report, Bustle and MyDomaine.
  • Jamie graduated with a degree in English and Media, Culture & Communications from New York University.
Updated Jun 12, 2024

There are plenty of things that I'm personally glad to have left behind in middle school: too-big gaucho pants, too-small polo shirts and far-too-expensive celebrity fragrances, for starters. On the other hand, old-school slumber party games are worthy of revival, IMO. Enter these truth or dare questions for couples. They're a fun spin on the middle school classic and an unexpected way to get to know your partner better or spice up a date night-in.

Ready to play? Then put on your AIM away message, slip on your comfiest velour tracksuit and grab your date or spouse. The truth or dare questions for couples below range from funny to deep to downright sexy. (Just remember that, as always, enthusiastic consent and mutual respect are key and expected.)

In this article: The Best Truth or Dare Questions for Couples | Spicy Truth or Dare Questions | Funny Truth or Dare Questions | Deep Truth or Dare Questions | Romantic Truth or Dare Questions | The Best Dares for Couples | Sexy Dares | Funny Dares | Romantic Dares

The Best Truth or Dare Questions for Couples

  • What's your most unexpected red flag?
  • What's one thing you only do when you're alone?
  • What's one thing you wish people/I knew about you?
  • What crime would you commit if you knew you'd never get caught?
  • What's your biggest regret?
  • What was the best day of your life?
  • What was the worst day of your life?
  • What's the pettiest reason you've ended a relationship?
  • What do you worry people would judge you for?
  • What's your favorite compliment to receive?

Spicy Truth or Dare Questions for Couples

  • What do you love most about my body?
  • What typically non-sexual thing turns you on?
  • Do you have any fetishes I don't know about?
  • Who was your first kiss?
  • When was your first time?
  • When was the last time you masturbated?
  • Have you ever cheated on someone?
  • Where's the craziest place you've had sex?
  • What article of clothing in my closet do you find the sexiest?
  • What's your favorite sex act to receive?
  • What's your favorite sex act to give?
  • What's your favorite sex position?
  • What sex toy do you want to try that you haven't already?

Funny Truth or Dare Questions for Couples

  • What gives you the "ick?"
  • What was the last thing you Googled?
  • Who was your first celebrity crush?
  • What's the most unique thing you've ever eaten?
  • If you had to be on a reality show, which would it be?
  • What was your worst first date?
  • What animal do you think most closely resembles me?
  • Which is your favorite of my friends?
  • What embarrassing fashion trend did you take part in?
  • What's the most embarrassing movie that you consider to be one of your faves?
  • What was the most embarrassing song on your Spotify Wrapped last year?
  • What's the worst gift you've ever received?

Deep Truth or Dare Questions for Couples

  • What's the best piece of advice you've ever recieved?
  • When was the last time you cried?
  • If you could do any job in the world, what would it be?
  • If you never had to work again, how would you spend your time?
  • What's your biggest fear about our relationship?
  • Have I ever made you jealous?
  • What's the biggest secret you've kept from your parents?
  • What's the most illegal thing you've ever done?
  • What was the last dream you had?
  • What's your favorite childhood memory?

Romantic Truth or Dare Questions for Couples

  • What was your first impression of me?
  • What's your favorite memory of us?
  • What's something you wish we did more often?
  • What's a song that reminds you of me?
  • When did you first know that you were in love with me?
  • What's something you think could improve our relationship?
  • What first attracted you to me?
  • What movie scene would you want us to recreate?
20 truth and dare questions for couples
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The Best Dares for Couples

  • Swap outfits!
  • Use your worst pick-up lines on me for one minute.
  • Let me draw a tattoo on you in permanent marker. (Note: Choose a subtle location!)
  • Play a song that reminds you of me.
  • Sketch your best portrait of me.
  • Do your best impression of me.
  • Give me a 10-minute massage.
  • Kiss your favorite part of my body.

Sexy Dares for Couples

  • Choose a piece of erotica and read it out loud.
  • Take off one article of my clothing using only your mouth.
  • Play a song you'd like to have sex to.
  • Fake an orgasm.
  • Describe how you masturbate or how an orgasm feels.
  • Spell the alphabet with your tongue somewhere on my body.
  • Go into the bathroom or bedroom and send me a sexy selfie.
  • Whisper some dirty talk in my ear.
  • Give me a lap dance.
  • Do my least favorite chore—naked.
  • Draw a picture of me naked.
  • Eat a piece of fruit as sexy as possible.
  • Wear a blindfold during our next sexual encounter.
  • Find a sex toy online that you'd like to try with me.
  • Make me a snack wearing only an apron.

Funny Dares for Couples

  • Let me post a photo of my choice to your Instagram story.
  • Eat a spoonful of any condiment in the fridge.
  • Talk in an accent for the rest of the night.
  • Do your best celebrity impression.
  • Let me do your makeup/style your hair.
  • Screenshot your browser history and text it to your family group chat.
  • Take a ridiculous selfie with me and set it as your profile picture.
  • Let me text your best friend whatever I want.
  • Take a shower with your clothes on.
  • Wear an outfit of my choosing for the rest of the game.
  • Put on a blindfold and let me feed you something out of the fridge.
  • Put an ice cube in your underwear.
  • Jokingly propose to me as dramatically as possible.

Romantic Dares for Couples

  • Serenade me with a song of your choice.
  • Write a love song or poem for me in five minutes or less.
  • Hold eye contact for two full minutes.
  • Kiss me deeply for five full minutes.
  • Draw a portrait of our first date.
  • Tell me something you've never told anyone before.
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