Wondering What to Wear to a Rehearsal Dinner? Read This Guide for Guests
Wedding season has officially arrived, and that might mean your inbox is full of save-the-dates and invites for the coming year. If that's the case, a few rehearsal dinners are probably in your near future as well. If you're wondering what to wear to a rehearsal dinner, you've come to the right place. Whether or not there is an official dress code, the vibe of the event will depend largely on the venue. Whether you're headed to a casual barbeque in the couple's backyard or a black-tie affair at an upscale restaurant, there are plenty of ways to dress the part, and we're breaking them all down here. Keep reading to discover our top tips for picking out a rehearsal dinner outfit, along with shoppable looks for every type of venue.
In this article:
- What to Wear to a Rehearsal Dinner
- How to Choose Rehearsal Dinner Attire
- Wedding Rehearsal Outfit Ideas for Guests
What to Wear to a Rehearsal Dinner
The dress code of the event is the most important factor to consider when it comes to picking out your outfit for a rehearsal dinner. Of course, your attire might look a little different depending on the role you play in the wedding. Here, we've rounded up a few expert tips to help you plan your look.
As A Bridesmaid, Groomsman or Wedding Party Member
Rehearsal dinners are typically much more intimate than the actual day of the wedding. They offer a chance to mingle and get to know the couple's family on a more personal level. That being said, we recommend keeping your outfit more on the modest side. Even if the event is being held at a bar, the vibe will likely be very different than say, the bachelor or bachelorette party.
As a Parent or Family Member
As a parent or family member of the bride or groom, the rehearsal dinner offers the perfect chance to kick off the wedding weekend in style. The couple might have specific requests when it comes to your attire for the night, but if not, we recommend basing your wardrobe choice around the venue. Your attire could be slightly less formal than what you'll wear for the day of the wedding.
As a Friend of the Couple
If you're attending a rehearsal dinner as a friend, the same advice given to wedding party members applies. Like any wedding-related event, you should also avoid wearing white out of courtesy—though the bride may not even wear white herself, but hey, at the very least it will help you avoid any unwanted attention.
How to Choose Rehearsal Dinner Attire
When determining what to wear to a rehearsal dinner, there are a few things to consider. Follow these four helpful steps while shopping and finding the perfect fit is sure to be a breeze.
1. Consider the location.
Before picking a rehearsal dinner outfit, you'll want to consider the setting. "Oftentimes, especially for destination weddings, couples are looking to infuse elements of the locale into their events. Couples who go out of their way to consider these types of details are hoping that their guests indulge and participate. You can also fill in a lot of blanks if you do a quick Google search of the location," Lori Conley says, general merchandising manager at Anthropologie Weddings. What if there's no explicit dress code and you're unsure about the vibe of the venue? "If no formality is specified, stick to semi-formal/cocktail attire for a rehearsal dinner no matter the day or venue type. Simply set aside your denim for the post-wedding brunch and save the ball gown for a black-tie event where it's required," says Blaire Walsh, style director of Rent the Runway.
2. Check the rehearsal dinner dress code.
Just like the wedding ceremony, a couple's rehearsal dinner might also have a dress code. If that's the case, you'll see this information listed on their invite or wedding website. Casual attire and dressy casual are common dress codes for wedding rehearsal dinners. However, if the event is taking place at an upscale venue, there may be a formal attire or cocktail attire dress code. Be sure to pay close attention to any guidelines listed by the couple to ensure your outfit fits the vibe of the event.
3. Err on the dressier side.
When in doubt, experts say it's always better to lean towards a more formal rehearsal dinner outfit. "My advice is that it's always better to be overdressed than underdressed," Walsh says. "Keep in mind that you are going out to socialize and celebrate loved ones so bring your A-game and lean towards styles that are fun, festive, and seasonally appropriate." There are certain items of clothing that should be considered off-limits for a rehearsal dinner. "Never be the guest that is too casual—jeans are off the list, as are sneakers. It's always better to opt for a tad too dressed up than to look sloppy," Conley says.
4. Don't forget to accessorize.
Fun accessories can take a closet staple such as a jumpsuit or a little black dress to the next level. "Accessories can also help pull together the perfect look. Have fun with a bold earring or bracelet stack since you may have a more pared-down look for the wedding itself," Conley says. Adding the right jewelry can give your rehearsal dinner outfit a more formal or playful vibe depending on how you decide to accessorize.
Wedding Rehearsal Outfit Ideas for Guests
You might be wondering what the rehearsal dinner dress etiquette is for various types of venues. Lucky for you, we're breaking that all down here. Keep scrolling for more rehearsal dinner attire tips, plus men's guest outfits and rehearsal dinner dresses for guests that are available to shop now.
Shop for: Upscale Restaurant, Hotel, or Country Club | Cocktail Bar, Winery or Tasting Room | Brewery, Tavern or Pub | Backyard Barbeque | Cafe or Bistro | Garden, Beach or Other Outdoor Venue
For an Upscale Restaurant, Hotel, or Country Club
A rehearsal dinner hosted at a nice restaurant, hotel or country club will likely have a formal dress code. That said, your attire should look similar to what you plan on wearing the day of the wedding. Of course, it goes without saying that jeans, loungewear and overly revealing clothing are typically a no-go for this type of event. Not to worry. We've rounded up plenty of alternatives below.
This floral midi dress was practically made for a formal rehearsal dinner. It has an elegant draped silhouette with flutter sleeves and a slit down the center. It also has an elastic waist to keep you comfortable throughout the night.
No matter the occasion, you can never go wrong with a classic black suit. We love this 100% wool option, which can be custom-made to your own unique measurements. Top it off with a tie of your choosing to round out your rehearsal dinner outfit.
This satin midi dress is guaranteed to become your new go-to for formal events. Available in a wide range of color options, it's a standout option for the rehearsal dinner or wedding day.
Whether you choose to wear this tailored taupe suit with or without a tie, we're sure you'll make a statement. The elevated ensemble comes in four classic shades, with the option to choose between standard or big and tall sizing.
For a Cocktail Bar, Winery or Tasting Room
When it comes to events hosted at a cocktail bar, winery or tasting room, the dress code can be a bit less clear. Our best advice is to go with semi-formal or business casual rehearsal dinner attire. "Stick to styles that are rich in color, and have that wow factor," Walsh advises. "Silks, dramatic sleeves, or unique necklines are details to look out for when on the search for a semi-formal rehearsal dinner style," she adds. Below, you'll find four looks that are perfectly suited for a rehearsal dinner at a cocktail bar, winery or tasting room.
This pretty floral piece can be dressed up or down depending on where the party is taking place. Pair it with sandals or ballet flats if you're headed to an outdoor winery, or with heels for a restaurant or bar. We also love the Roseanne pattern for a fall rehearsal dinner.
Wondering what to wear to a groom's dinner? You can't go wrong with that trusty blue suit hanging in your closet. Swap out your button-down with a white knit shirt and throw on a pair of elevated sneakers for a stylish spin on tradition.
When it comes to outfits for a wedding rehearsal dinner, this pick certainly stands out. It's available in a wide range of plus sizes and it features a classic A-line silhouette with puff sleeves and ruffle detailing.
Keeping things classic during the ceremony? Why not switch things up for the rehearsal dinner? This plaid patterned suit offers the perfect spin on tradition. Plus, it comes is regular, short and long lengths.
For Brewery, Tavern or Pub
So, what sorts of outfits for rehearsal dinner celebrations are appropriate when the event is being held at a brewery, tavern or pub? "I take a semi-casual approach to this type of wedding rehearsal dinner," says Conley. "Pants and a button-down shirt or a semi-casual dress, including midi and mini lengths as well as fancier feeling sundresses–I also love an elevated jumpsuit because it's a comfortable and approachable silhouette that is instantly made more glam in the right fabric, color or details," she says. Keep scrolling to shop our favorite fits for these three venues.
A little black dress is a fitting option for a variety of different occasions, including a cocktail attire rehearsal dinner at a brewery, tavern or pub. This timeless mock neck option can be paired with boots, heels or even sneakers, depending on the vibe you want to go for.
A plaid sport coat is a great way to instantly upgrade your look. You can throw it over your tee shirt and jeans to make your outfit a bit more formal, or you can opt for matching plaid trousers and go for a semi-formal suiting vibe.
A jumpsuit is a great alternative to a dress for a more casual setting–not to mention, they're also super comfortable. This black one-shoulder option is perfect to have on hand if your calendar is full of wedding-related events.
Here's a big and tall option that you'll love long after wedding season. Available in a wide variety of sizes, this dark blue floral button-down offers a timeless look that will fit the dress code for so many different occasions.
For a Backyard Barbeque
Wondering what to wear to a casual rehearsal dinner? Well, if the event is being held at a more laidback venue, such as someone's home, consider this your invitation to come as you are. Walsh explains that, "Casual rehearsal dinners allow guests to have a bit more flexibility and the option to choose from subtle prints like micro florals and more low-key fabrics like cotton or knit." Here, we've rounded up a few shoppable options that will work great for a backyard barbeque event.
A sun dress is a great way to look put-together while still keeping with the casual dress code. We love this puff-sleeve option, featuring a breezy mid-length skirt with pockets. It's available in standard, petite and tall lengths.
If you want to coordinate a casual rehearsal dinner outfit, a classic tee and a pair of jeans is the way to go. This one comes in a wide range of colors and is made from soft organic cotton. Give your look a slightly elevated touch with a pair of trendy sneakers or lace-up oxfords.
You can still make a fashion statement at a casual dress code event. Case in point: This sheer lace undershirt. Throw it on under your favorite tee or tank to instantly upgrade your look.
This plaid flannel will quickly earn a place within your wardrobe rotation. It can be layered over solid-colored tees or even worn on its own. Just add your favorite pair of chinos and some suede chelsea boots and you'll be set.
For a Cafe or Bistro
For a daytime event, we recommend dressing as you would for a weekend brunch. Think: somewhere between semi-formal and dressy casual rehearsal dinner attire. Midi dresses and polos make great options. Jeans could even be appropriate if dressed up with a nice top. Check out these four shoppable looks for inspiration.
Our formula for the perfect daytime event look? A dressy blouse, jeans and a pair of kitten heels. This black option, with a sweetheart neckline and cute bow details, would lend itself nicely to a cafe or bistro setting.
You can't go wrong with the classic combination of a polo and jeans. This option, made from 100% organic cotton, offers a sleek and modern look you're sure to love. It also comes in a wide range of colors, including navy blue and black.
This navy blue wrap dress strikes the perfect balance between dressy and casual, making it a fitting option for a rehearsal dinner at a cafe or bistro. Made from ultra soft tencel jersey fabric, you'll be reaching for it long after the event.
A solid-colored button down is as classic as it is versatile. This burgundy option, for instance, can be paired with dress pants, chinos or jeans. You could even throw a blazer over it and re-wear it for a more formal occasion in the future.
For a Garden, Beach or Other Outdoor Venue
For an outdoor event at a garden or beach, keep things classy while still prioritizing comfort. Footwear is an important factor to consider when walking on sand or grass. You'll want to opt for a pair that won't sink into the terrain in the event that you're up on your feet during cocktail hour. Below, we've picked some of our favorite wedding rehearsal clothes for a garden, beach or other outdoor venue.
Heading to the beach for a rehearsal dinner? This pretty floral midi dress is a fitting option for the occasion. It can easily be dressed up or down depending on your choice of shoes and accessories.
It's no mystery why this short-sleeved button-up is a best seller. Not only was it designed with comfort in mind, but it's also available in a wide variety of colors and prints. Pair it with your favorite pair of chinos or shorts for an outdoor event.
This festive floral jumpsuit pairs perfectly with sandals or flats, making it an ideal option for strutting through the sand or grass. Plus, because it's strapless, you can show off your summer tan and stay cool while doing so.
If you're headed to a tropical destination wedding, you'll want to add this botanical-printed button down to your packing list. It will come in handy whether you're headed to the rehearsal dinner or relaxing poolside.