A St. Louis Bachelorette Party City Guide to Plan Your Weekend

Throw a fantastic St. Louis bachelorette party weekend. This Midwest city bachelorette party destination has a ton to see and do, from historic sites (hello, Gateway Arch) to scenic neighborhoods, to a one-of-a-kind food scene. You'll find something for every type of bride, from the city-dweller to the bar hopper, just take your pick of fun in the Lou.

St. Louis Bachelorette Party Planning in this Article:

• St. Louis Bachelorette Party Ideas and Themes
• St. Louis Bachelorette Party Itinerary and Activities
• Places to Stay in St. Louis for a Bachelorette Party
• St. Louis Bachelorette Party Nightlife
• Expert St. Louis Travel Tips

St. Louis Bachelorette Party Ideas and Themes

You won't be wanting for things to do when you make your way to St. Louis for a fun-filled bachelorette party. First, there's plenty of history in this beautiful city, including the 630-foot rek to the top of the Gateway Arch and other downtown landmarks, and tours are available for all during the day. If history isn't your thing, there are also brewery tours and river views to take in. And come nighttime, you can pick between Escape Rooms for the gamers, distilleries and gastropubs for the foodies, and burlesque shows for the risque. (Plus, The Knot Shop has plenty of themed bach party gear to outfit your bride tribe in for the ultimate city photoshoot.)

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For the Food and Drinks Enthusiast

St. Louis goes under the radar for its foodie scene, but there is a lot here for you to indulge in. Consider first, the Anheuser-Busch Brewery, which offers complimentary tours and Mississippi River views. There are also loads of gastropubs (like Retreat Gastropub) and seasonal menu dining (Polite Society) to choose from, as well as other surprises like speakeasies and even a chocolate bar.

For the City Dweller

There's no shortage of charming city streets to stroll, art galleries to wander, shopping to be done, and spas to experience in St. Louis. But of course, there's also the Midwestern city's history. On a walking tour, head to the iconic Gateway Arch where you can climb to the top and look out over the city from 630 feet above. Or ogle over stunning 19th and early 20th century history and architecture throughout the city, including Union Station, the Peabody Opera House, City Hall, and the Central Library. There are also beautiful green spaces, like Forest Park to Benton Park, where you can rest your feet and enjoy the day with a picnic.

For the Gamer

Pick your poison: A Wizard of Oz-themed Escape Room, a night of Black Jack at the Ameristar Casino, or bowling and cocktails at Pin Up Bowl. There is plenty of competitive fun to be had throughout St. Louis on a weekend-long bachelorette party.

St. Louis Bachelorette Party Itinerary and Activities

Lafayette Square; Aneta Waberska | Shutterstock

Day 1

Morning: Check in to your digs for the weekend then get your bearings at brunch at Rooster, a sweet cafe that offers farm-fresh dishes (think ham & jam biscuits, goat cheese scramble, and apple pie pancakes) along with a whole collection of sweet crepes.

Afternoon: From brunch, it's just a short walk to the city's ultimate highlight: The Gateway Arch. Head here on day one to take in the park and the 630-foot monument. You can also take a tram ride to the top for the most epic views of the city and Mississippi River below.

Evening: Get the gals dressed up tonight for dinner at Three Sixty. The "top of the world" restaurant (with indoor and outdoor seating) on top of the Hilton St. Louis at the Ballpark, offers views of the city in all directions, fire pits, and a rooftop bar. Grab a cocktail (we recommend the Catalina Wine Cooler) to take in the views, then enjoy a beautiful dinner of baked goat cheese, petit filet skewers, mojo pork tacos, or duck and waffles. After dinner, take a quick walk or short Uber to Thaxton Speakeasy, a Prohibition-era themed cellar haunt in a historic building that requires a password to enter. You'll find tasty craft cocktails like the Blueberry Sage French 75 and the Sexy Suze, along with live music and great vibe for a perfect girls' night.

Day 2

Morning: Breakfast today is at Polite Society Restaurant and Bar, where you'll find delicious morsels like chorizo avocado benedicts, heirloom tomato salad, shrimp & grits, and French toast with berries and whipped cream. Once you've had your fill, take a quick stroll through historic Lafayette Park, where you can enjoy beautiful green space before your next adventure.

Afternoon: Book transportation to head just under an hour outside of the city to Cedar Lake Cellars. Set on 400 acres with two scenic lakes, this stunning winery centers around restored 1930s buildings, including the charming Big Red Barn, where you and the gals can enjoy a tasting of Missouri and California wines from a robust collection. You can also enjoy some bites from the Smoke House Market, which serves award-winning sugarfire BBQ or make a picnic from the Grab N Go Marketplace on site to enjoy while you sip wine and enjoy the winery's stunning outdoor space.

Evening: Back in the city, tonight is the ultimate St. Louis bachelorette party night. First, stop for dinner at Blood and Sand, where you can enjoy a 5-course tasting menu with options like Armenian spiced lamb flatbread, wagyu beef ravioli, and pan-seared duck breast, along with a cocktail and wine pairing. Then, head to your reservation for the 10:30 show at The Boom Boom Room, "St. Louis's own sensational boudoir de la mystique." You'll enjoy cocktails and a show that includes risque (and often comedic) burlesque, along with plenty of audience interaction, cheering, and more. Get the VIP package if you want to have shots, boas, glowsticks, hats, and a moment of embarrassment for the bride. It's a fun night that should not be missed.

Day 3

Morning: Head to brunch at Turn, where you'll find a farm-to-table menu that includes a biscuit flight, harvest hash, falafel salad, tuna nicoise, and arepas, among many other delicious options.

Afternoon: Explore some of St. Louis's best breweries, including the Anheuser-Busch Brewery where you can take a tour and enjoy samples overlooking the Mississippi River. Other spots worth a try include 2nd Shift Brewing, 4 Hands Brewing Co., Bluewood Brewing, and Center Ice Brewery.

Evening: Spend your last dinner at Olive+Oak, a neighborhood spot with delicious food and a fantastic craft cocktail list. The menu is seasonal, but you can find dinner options like fresh oysters, blue crab gratin, blistered shishito peppers, and spaghetti squash pad thai. After dinner, take a quick ride over to enjoy a sweet last night at Bailey's Chocolate Bar, where you can indulge in dessert (think: brownies with Irish cream ice cream and caramel sauce or a lemon shortcake trifle) along with champagne, wine, cocktails, and unique martinis.

St. Louis Bachelorette Scavenger Hunt

Turn your itinerary into a game with a St. Louis scavenger hunt for some fun and friendly competition. Distribute a list of activities with points awarded for each completed task and ask participants to provide proof with pictures. Download an editable template to customize the list and include local attractions and sights. Don't forget to give the winner a prize such as a cute souvenir.

Places to Stay in St. Louis for a Bachelorette Party

The Marriott St. Louis Grand; Photo courtesy of Marriott

The downtown area of St. Louis has some walkable regions, but to see the entire city or get to the outskirts, you'll need to rely on cabs and Ubers. Staying downtown is part of the fun, but if cost and size are an issue, being a little outside of downtown is still easy enough to get into the action.

Best St. Louis Bachelorette Hotels

The Last Hotel, located on historic Washington Avenue in a building first opened in 1909 is anything but old. This chic stay offers a rooftop pool with sweeping city views, a well-stocked lobby bar, and elegant rooms that can sleep four with affordable prices.

The Marriott St. Louis Grand occupies the former Statler Hotel in the heart of downtown St. Louis, offering easy access to the best sightseeing, luxe rooms, and modern amenities.

The Sheraton Westport Plaza Hotel St. Louis is a budget-friendly option without sacrificing style or amenities. In walking distance to many downtown attractions, including the Hollywood Casino Amphitheatre, Creve Coeur Park, and the St. Louis Zoo.

Pro tip: The Knot has partnered with Hotel Planner to help you secure the best group hotel rate and get free hotel advice from an expert travel planner.

Best St. Louis Bachelorette Party Home Rentals

There are plenty of housing options for a St. Louis bachelorette party, so check out TripAdvisor, VRBO, Airbnb, Expedia, and Hopper Homes. If you're looking to supplement your vacation rental stay with some hotel amenities such as a swimming pool or a fitness facility, you can secure St. Louis hotel day passes on ResortPass.

A Private Home in the Central West End area of St. Louis is a great option for large groups. It sleeps 15 guests (10 beds) and offers plenty of space for lounging together or having breakfast at home.

Close to downtown, the luxe Gold Door Loft offers modern, chic, and frankly, girly accents in a beautiful stay that's nearby many attractions. Plus, it sleeps up to 10.

For an affordable spot close to downtown, opt for an Artist Warehouse Penthouse that sleeps up to 20, with a great hang out spot and some outdoor space, too.

St. Louis Bachelorette Party Nightlife

When visiting St. Louis, Missouri, there are plenty of appetizing restaurants and unique bars to choose from when designing your perfect night out with your friends. Here are a few of our favorites to get you started.

Best St. Louis Bachelorette Restaurants

Broadway Oyster Bar: If you're in St. Louis, craving seafood, visit Broadway Oyster Bar in Downtown for some traditional Cajun dishes. You can try something unique like Gator Tacos or something classic like peel and eat shrimp. They have some innovative dishes like the Alligator Sausage and Shrimp Cheesecake, their version of savory cheesecake with alligator meat, shrimp, smoked pork, gouda and cream cheese served with pita bread.

Brasserie by Niche: If you're looking for a decadent French meal to begin the celebration, Brasserie by Niche in the Central West End has classic French cuisine to share like the Burgundy Escargot with a garlic herb butter, Goat Cheese Tarts, Chicken Liver Mousse with crostini, among other French food.

Pappy's Smokehouse: Pappy's was featured on the Food Network, and in multiple publications for their incredible ribs and barbecue. This casual Midtown spot is the place to go for plenty of smoked meats, smothered in a variety of barbecue sauces.

Best St. Louis Bachelorette Party Bars

Westport Social: Westport Social is a fun place to play games, sing karaoke, and snack on some appetizers. They have ping-pong, darts, foosball, bocce ball, shuffleboard, and private karaoke rooms, so you can really let loose with your friends. In addition to the games, there are delicious dishes like Burnt End Nachos with avocado crema, banana peppers, wonton chips, kalamata olives, cheese sauce, and bean pico.

Narwhal's Crafted: Narwhal's Crafted is a specialty cocktail lounge with two locations (Midtown and St. Charles) and a variety of cocktails, including frozen drinks. Sip on a Banana Dave with vodka, Pineapple & Coconut rums, pineapple, freshly pureed bananas, homemade ice cream, and citrus or a Passion Fruit Punch with maraschino liqueur, passion fruit, blood orange, spiced rum, lime, pineapple, ginger, and cinnamon.

Trust: Right near The Gateway Arch is Trust, a renovated bank-turned-cocktail bar with plenty of signature cocktails like their version of an Espresso Martini with Tito's vodka, Blueprint cold brew coffee, lavender, spiced coconut cream, and vanilla or the Pono Punch with orange liqueur, passionfruit, Encrypted vodka, sparkling wine, guava, and Li Hing Mui powder.

Expert St. Louis Travel Tips

When you're flying to St. Louis, it's about a 2 ½ hour nonstop flight from NYC on United, Southwest, American, and Delta and around a 3 ½ hour nonstop flight from LA on Southwest and American. April, May, September and October are good months to visit St. Louis. The best way to see the city is definitely by renting a car, but there are still plenty of taxis and rideshare options available.