How to Write a Keepsake-Worthy Letter to the Bride From a Bridesmaid

If your best friend, sister or close family member is getting married, you may be feeling a little emotional about being her bridesmaid. Want to tell her how excited you are for her upcoming wedding? Writing a letter to the bride from a bridesmaid is a thoughtful gesture, as well as good bridesmaid etiquette. It's also a nice way to reflect on your bridesmaid duties before the big day.

There are a few ways to give a card to the bride from a bridesmaid, like pairing your handwritten letter with a bridesmaid-to-bride gift or leaving it in her get-ready suite as a surprise. Whatever your approach, she'll be touched that you want to make her feel special. Wondering what to write in a letter to the bride from a bridesmaid? Referencing your fondest memories, admiring her best qualities or including a funny anecdote are all great ideas. We're sharing our top tips, along with sample letters to the bride from a bridesmaid, to help you get it just right.

What is a Bridesmaid Letter to the Bride?

A bridesmaid letter to the bride is a special note that's given to her from the wedding party to read on the big day. While it's most common for soon-to-be spouses to exchange letters before their nuptials, we love the idea of the couple receiving a special message from close friends and family.

This letter can be a group effort written by several bridesmaids or individual letters to the bride from each member of her squad. To present your letter, you can put it in a box with a gift or tie it with ribbon and give it on its own for a more budget-friendly option. Ready to write a letter to the bride from a bridesmaid? Read on for more inspiration.

How to Write a Bridesmaid Letter to the Bride

Before you discover how to write a letter to the bride from a bridesmaid, ask yourself a few questions. What's your relationship with the bride? Is she your sibling, bestie or a close family member? What's your favorite thing about her? Consider her personality and how she likes to be complimented. Perhaps she values sentimental gestures or prefers to joke about everything. You know her best, so trust your instincts. Check out these handy prompts to help you pen a unique letter she'll want to hold onto forever.

• How did the two of you first meet?
• What was your first impression of her?
• How long have you known each other?
• What's your favorite memory of the two of you together?
• What makes her such a great friend?
• Talk about her soon-to-be spouse and how well suited they are.
• What are five characteristics that you love about her?
• What is something that always reminds you of the bride?
• Talk about when she got engaged.
• What are you excited to do together?
• What are you most looking forward to about her wedding?
• Why are you writing this letter?
• Write something that will make her laugh.
• Compose a short poem about her that's sweet or silly.
• Tell her how special it is to be by her side on her journey down the aisle.
• Wish her and her new spouse all the best in their married life.

Sample Letter to the Bride from a Bridesmaid

Now that you've got thought-provoking letter prompts to guide you, it's time to see how they look together. We've created a few short sample letters to a bride from a bridesmaid that you can use as a template. Whether you're going all in on a sentimental tearjerker or keeping things light and breezy with a short note, we've got you covered. Check out these examples of how to write a letter to the bride on her wedding day from a bridesmaid.

Sweet Bridesmaid Letter to the Bride

Dear [Bride's name],

Congratulations on marrying the love of your life! I'm beyond excited for you and [bride's partner's name]. Thank you for asking me to be in your wedding party. It means a lot to be by your side today, holding your bouquet and trying not to cry!

Remember that first day we met in freshman year of college? I was lost and trying to find the right room when I bumped into you. You were so friendly and chill about everything, I was impressed. Even now, as a bride, you know how to stay calm and collected.

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The days of college exams and cramming in the library are long behind us, but we're as close as ever. We have years of love, laughter and fun times to look back on. While I now have to share you with your new spouse (aww, so exciting!), I'm grateful to have you in my life and I can't wait for all the memories we have yet to make together.

Much love,

[Your name]

Funny Bridesmaid Letter to the Bride

Dear [Bride's name],

I can't believe you're actually getting married! It seems like yesterday when we met on our first day of kindergarten. Where did all that time go? How did your hair get so long? And how did you get to be so cool? All jokes aside, I'm really happy that you found a lifelong partner in [bride's partner's name]. Since day one, I knew you two had a good thing going.

As you get ready to walk down the aisle, I have some advice to share with you.

1. Always order two bags of popcorn at the movies. Always.
2. Remember to have fun with each other. (Yes, that does include cringeworthy karaoke sessions).
3. Be silly sometimes. Just because.
4. Be weird sometimes. (See above).
5. Don't take marriage advice from anyone, you've already got this!

Before I sign off, I want to say I'm delighted to be your bridesmaid today and your best friend every day. You're a ray of sunshine and [bride's partner's name] is so lucky to have you. Here's to the upcoming game nights we'll have. Now, let's go and get you married!

Your bestie,

[Your name]

Sentimental Bridesmaid Letter to the Bride

Dearest [Bride's name],

I can't remember the first time we met. You were only two when I arrived to steal your thunder as the youngest in the family. You got over the shock pretty quickly though, if our family photos are anything to go by. We were like two peas in a pod, with you dressing me up in Mom's dresses and drawing lipstick all over my face. (Side note: Are we doing this for our hair and makeup today?!)

As your maid of honor and your sister, I'm so proud of you and all you have achieved. You and [bride's partner's name] are a match made in heaven, and it's been a privilege to see your relationship flourish. From the way you two look at each other to the feeling of joy you bring to every room, I know that you'll be very happy together.

Before we get all dressed up for your big day, I want to thank you for always being there for me. You've been a constant source of strength, inspiration and good advice, and I couldn't ask for a better sister. I'll be crying my eyes out when you walk down the aisle, but only because I am so thrilled for you and [bride's partner's name].

Sending you all the love and luck in the world,

Your loving sister,

[Your name]

Short Bridesmaid Letter to the Bride

Dear [Bride's name],

Just writing you a little note to say congratulations on your wedding day! After all the late-night planning and chats over wine, it's finally here. I'm so honored to be your bridesmaid today, and I can't wait to celebrate with you and [bride's partner's name].

Today is going to fly by so remember to enjoy every minute of it. Here's to all the lovely memories we share and all the best ones that are still to come. I'll always be there for you whenever you need me.

I hope today is everything you dreamed it would be and more.

Hugs and kisses,

[Your name]