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Updated Oct 14, 2024Invitation Wording Ideas for Every Kind of Bridal Shower
Guests won't miss a beat thanks to these clever examples.
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Sending invites might not sound like the most exciting part of planning a wedding shower, but TBH, it kind of is—especially if you're as stationery-obsessed as we are. The best wedding shower invitations reflect the tone of your event, and you can be playful with your bridal shower invitation wording to get the theme across.
Below, read our favorite examples of cute and clever bridal shower invitation wording ideas for some popular themes. Plus, find out how to write down all the important details without breaking shower invitation etiquette rules (don't worry, it's not that scary).
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In this article:
- Wedding Shower Invitation Wording by Theme
- Wedding Shower Invitation Wording Ideas for RSVPs
- Wedding Shower Invitation Wording Ideas for Gifts
- Wedding Shower Invitation Wording Ideas for Other Details
Bridal Shower Invitation Wording by Theme
When you have the shower details finalized, it's time to prepare the party invitations. Be sure to include the date, time, location and full street address of the party, as well as the name of the host and their email and/or phone number for RSVPs. Once you've got those important details covered, you can use playful puns, rhymes or phrases to personalize your bridal shower invitation wording. Check out creative and unique examples for some of the most popular wedding shower themes below.
Funny Bridal Shower Invitation Wording
Who doesn't love a good pun? This funny wedding shower invitation wording reads "no rain at this bridal shower." Translation: Just because it's a shower doesn't mean there'll be any rain on this couple's parade. Some other fun examples include "you doughnut want to miss this" (complete with a picture of a doughnut, of course) or a bee motif "bride to bee" invitation (or if it's a couple's shower: "meant to bee"). Not a fan of puns? These straightforward phrases are also great wording ideas:
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Pop the bubbly / [guest of honor]'s getting a hubby!
Free beer (and a wedding shower!)
Let's prepare [guest of honor] for their happily ever after / With gifts, booze and plenty of laughter.
Tea Party Wedding Shower Invitation Wording
Hosting a formal afternoon tea party is one of the most popular shower themes. Whether you're looking for examples of wedding shower or couple's shower invitation wording, "love is brewing" is a sweet thematic phrase that isn't bride-specific (we're also big fans of "let's par-tea"). You're also welcome to keep it simple, like this beautiful regency-inspired invite that states, "bridal shower tea party." Some other cute and clever quotes include:
What better way to celebrate the bride-to-be / Than coming together over a cup of tea.
Before the bride throws the bouquet / Let's enjoy a cup of tea on this very special day.
While the bride is still a Miss / Let's sip some tea and share her bliss.
Country-Themed Bridal Shower Invitation Wording
Use this "boots & bubbly" sample wedding shower invitation as inspiration for a rustic affair. We also love these cheeky examples if you're wording invites for a country-themed event:
This honeysuckle has found their bee/ Let's celebrate with a shower and a shot of whiskey!
Strap on your boots and layer on the bling / Let's have a shower to remember before the ring!
She finally roped in Mr. Right / It's time to shower her with gifts and a wild night!
Festival-Themed Wedding Shower Invitation Wording
Looking for bridal shower invitation examples for a festival-themed event? While this creative invite leans on design to get the message across rather than text, here are some clever wording ideas you could use instead:
Bride-fest, with special guest, [guest of honor].
Your ticket to the show(er) of the year.
It's a star-studded lineup! / [Guest of honor #1] & [guest of honor #2]'s Couple's Shower.
Disney-Themed Bridal Shower Invitation Wording
The best wedding shower invitation wording for a Disney-themed bash has an element of whimsy—we love "be our guest," like the lyrics to the song in Beauty and the Beast. Or, check out this cute bridal shower invitation verbiage inspired by Cinderella, Alice in Wonderland and a classic fairytale ending:
You're invited to a bibbidi bobbidi bridal shower.
Don't be late for this very important date.
Once upon a time there was a bridal shower / to celebrate [guest of honor]'s happily ever after.
Brunch Wedding Shower Invitation Wording
A little alliteration goes a long way. This cute invite simply reads: "bridal shower and brunch." A few other wording examples we like for brunch-themed wedding shower invitations include:
All you need is love…and mimosas.
First comes love…then comes brunch!
Before this Miss becomes a Mrs. / Let's gather for brunch and give her best wishes!
Beach-Themed Bridal Shower Invitation Wording
Planning a party inspired by the beach? In addition to wording, you can lean on design details like the palm trees on this easy-breezy invitation. Beachy wording ideas (think: "tropic like it's hot") will also work if you're looking for fun bridal shower invitation wording that honors a destination wedding. Some other options for beach- or nautical-themed bridal shower invitations are:
Sandy toes and salty kisses / Join us as we celebrate the future Mrs.
Two less fish in the sea!
Last sail before the veil! / Please join us for a bridal shower in honor of [guest of honor].
Bridal Shower Invitation Wording Ideas for RSVPs
There are actually a couple of different ways you can collect RSVPs for a wedding shower. The first way is to request a response from everyone, whether they're able to attend or not. This method is great for making sure everyone on the guest list received an invite and confirming final numbers. Alternatively, cut down on the number of calls, texts or emails flooding your inbox by requesting "regrets only" instead. That way, only those who can't attend will get in touch.
Typically, whoever is organizing the shower provides their phone number or email address on the invitations for RSVPs. It's not necessary to include formal response cards. RSVP information is usually listed below the event location and above registry details. Not sure where to start with wording? Try one of these wedding shower invitation formats:
RSVP to [your name] at [your phone number] by May 12th.
Reply by 12.05.2022 to [your name] at [your email address].
Kindly RSVP to [your name] at [your phone number] or [your email address] by 12/05.
Bridal Shower Invitation Wording Ideas for Gifts
If you're wondering how to word asking for money on wedding shower invitations, let us stop you there. Outright asking for cash gifts isn't generally considered appropriate wedding shower invitation etiquette. While it's no longer considered taboo for couples to request monetary wedding gifts from loved ones, it's still super important to be polite and go about it the right way. If the happy couple has a cash fund on their wedding registry, the best thing to do is provide the couple's registry details as normal and let guests choose whether or not they want to contribute to the fund or pick out something else as a shower gift.
Bridal shower invitation wording for requesting gift cards is pretty much the same. Rely on the couple's wedding registry where possible. If the couple doesn't have a registry or their registry doesn't allow cash funds/gift cards, the best way to inform loved ones is by word of mouth. Let the wedding party or close friends and family members know that cash gifts or gift cards are important to the couple. That way, if they're approached by other guests for gift inspiration, they can pass on the hint.
Registry information is typically included at the bottom of the invitation. Here are some simple registry invitation templates you can follow:
[Guest of honor] is registered at Macy's and Target.
[Guest of honor #1] and [guest of honor #2] are registered at The Knot.
Registry at Pottery Barn and Crate & Barrel.
Bridal Shower Invitation Wording Ideas for Other Details
There are some other optional details you might want to include in your wedding shower invites. Adding a link to the couple's wedding website is a great catchall for FAQs that you might not be able to answer personally. It's also an easy way to direct guests to the soonlyweds' registry information. This simple wedding shower invitation wording is a great way to include their wedding website:
For more information please visit www.theknot.com/weddingwebsite
The wedding shower dress code is another optional extra you may want to include on the invitation (especially if it's a formal affair). If you think adding a dress code might make the invites look a little cluttered, the style and formality of your chosen stationery is another subtle way to let guests know what to expect. But if you do want to write out the dress code for all to see, there are a few different ways to word this information.
Please dress formal
Dress code: casual
Cocktail attire
Finally, if you're trying to inform guests that it's a specific type of occasion, such as a drop-in or come-and-go wedding shower, it's best to be as clear as possible. Choose wording that will clearly get the message across, such as:
Please join us for a come-and-go bridal shower honoring the happy couple.
Stop by anytime between 2:00-4:00 p.m. to say hello and celebrate [guest of honor]!
