Having Second Thoughts About Your Wedding Dress? Read This

There's a wedding dress shopping myth every bride should be wary of: that you need to have an "aha" moment when you find the dress. Not having a sparks-flying feeling (like the brides you've seen on Say Yes to the Dress, for instance) is far more common than you think. And even if you do feel the earth move as you finally find your dream dress, it's normal not to feel the same way about it a few months later. Many brides wonder if they should have kept shopping and tried on more options.

Your buyer's remorse could stem from your anxiety over making such a big purchase, or from the fact that you bought your dress before the idea of being engaged really sunk in. Chances are, when the reality of your wedding day finally hits you, you'll remember a dress is just a dress and that you'd be happy to marry your partner in a pair of sweats—and the dress that was giving you pause will suddenly feel just right.

But some brides have an epiphany that, nope, their wedding dress just isn't going to work. We're not trying to scare you (promise)—just to reassure you that, if you decide you don't like the gown you bought, you're not alone and have options (other than fretting about it in silence while pretending you're fine). Here's what to do if you don't like your wedding dress.

Call the Bridal Salon

Give your bridal salon a call for a list of all your options. Explain your situation (nicely and calmly, of course—remember, you've likely signed a contract, so this goes beyond simply changing your mind) and the salon or boutique should be willing to work with you and come to an understanding. Can you get your deposit back or exchange your dress for another using store credit? If you're lucky, they may not have ordered your size from the manufacturer yet and be able to cancel the shipment before it's too late. If you decide to go with a new dress entirely, try to make your decision about six months out (this is a good cut-off point to give yourself—if you're still unhappy about your dress six months out, it's time to make moves). You'll need time for the dress to arrive and undergo alterations before you walk down the aisle.

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Take a Trip to the Tailor

Not trying to get a new dress? Consult a reputable seamstress who specializes in wedding dress alterations. Bring your gown (and the right undergarments and shoes) and walk them through what you don't like. It's possible your dress just doesn't fit you properly, which makes more of a difference than you'd think. Otherwise, the seamstress can make suggestions and tweaks (remove a little lace here, bring the sleeves up there or soften a silhouette) to transform the original garment. But don't forget to ask about pricing—more substantial alterations can sometimes cost as much or more than getting a new dress altogether, so do your homework to see what's worth it and right for your budget.

Add a Few Touches

Never underestimate the power of accessories. Embellish your look with a flattering belt, gorgeous jewelry or a pretty lace topper—especially if you regret playing it safe by purchasing a simple dress. And don't forget your veil (when else will you get to wear one?). Your dress might not be your dream dress, so make up for it with a dream headpiece.

Buy a Reception Dress You Love

We know what you're thinking: Buy an additional dress? Yeah, right. Just hear us out. You don't have to shell out a ton of money for this second party frock. After the ceremony and a few formal photos, you'll look forward to changing into a fun reception dress.