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Look Back on Kelsea Ballerini and Chase Stokes' Relationship Timeline

The couple called it quits after two years together.
Chase Stokes and Kelsea Ballerini
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Sarah Hanlon
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Sarah Hanlon
Entertainment & Celebrity Editor
  • Sarah is the Entertainment & Celebrity Editor for The Knot, with special focuses on pop culture and celebrity wedding news.
  • Before joining The Knot Worldwide, Sarah was a contributing writer for Bravo at NBC Universal.
  • Sarah has a degree in journalism and resides in New York City.
Updated Sep 15, 2025

It's over for Kelsea Ballerini and Chase Stokes. On September 14, 2025, a rep for the singer confirmed to People that she and the actor ended their relationship. The famous couple split after two years together, sending shockwaves through their devoted fan bases. (She's a prolific country star and he plays the beloved John B on Netflix's wildly-popular drama Outer Banks). Look back on Kelsea Ballerini and Chase Stokes' relationship timeline here.

  • Kelsea Ballerini and Chase Stokes began dating after he slid into her DMs. Amid romance buzz, the two soft-launched their relationship on Instagram on January 13, 2023.
  • Kelsea Ballerini confirmed she was dating boyfriend Chase Stokes during a February interview on the Call Her Daddy podcast.
  • Chase Stokes and Kelsea Ballerini made their red carpet debut as a couple at the CMT Music Awards on April 2, 2023.
  • On September 14, 2025, a rep for Ballerini confirmed to People that she and Stokes had broken up.

In this article:

How Kelsea Ballerini and Chase Stokes Met

How did Kelsea Ballerini and Chase Stokes meet? It all began on social media. Stokes slid into Ballerini's Instagram DMs, which the singer revealed during an appearance on the Call Her Daddy podcast. "I've never seen his show, but I just knew of him, and I just swan dove right on in..." Ballerini told host Alex Cooper. "I was ready to open back up. I just felt, why not? I've never really dated; I don't know how it works. I'm like, 'Let's just put ourselves out there; let's just vibe.' And it's been fun."

Kelsea Ballerini and Chase Stokes' Relationship Timeline

Kelsea Ballerini and Chase Stokes sparked relationship rumors in 2023, and their romance garnered plenty of buzz from fans online. In 2022, Ballerini finalized her highly-publicized divorce with ex-husband Morgan Evans, while Stokes made headlines for breaking up with his Outer Banks co-star Madelyn Cline. Look back on Chase Stokes and Kelsea Ballerini's complete relationship timeline, from January 2023 to September 2025.

January 11, 2023: Kelsea Ballerini and Chase Stokes Spark Romance Rumors

Rumors of a Kelsea Ballerini and Chase Stokes romance began swirling at the beginning of 2023, just off the heels of the singer's emotional EP Rolling Up the Welcome Mat, which chronicled her divorce from Morgan Evans. The two were spotted cuddling up next to each other in a group photo from a Georgia v. Texas Christian University football game at SoFi Stadium in Los Angeles, California.

January 13, 2023: Kelsea Ballerini and Chase Stokes Soft-Launch Their Relationship

Two days later, Chase Stokes seemingly soft-launched his relationship with Kelsea Ballerini by sharing an Instagram photo dump featuring a snap of them from behind at that exact football game, where they could be seen leaning on each other.

January 16, 2023: Kelsea Ballerini Teases Boyfriend Rumors on TikTok

This sent the internet ablaze with fan theories, especially after the popular celebrity gossip account DeuxMoi shared a blind item further fueling the rumors. Kelsea Ballerini addressed the suspected romance by sharing a TikTok video of herself in front of a screenshot of the anonymous tip, saying, "I know, stop reading. But what is happening, you guys? What? What? No. Let's not do this, you know?"

February 21, 2023: Kelsea Ballerini Says She's "Not Single"

Despite playing coy online, Kelsea Ballerini and Chase Stokes continued to be photographed together, enjoying dates in Nashville and packing on the PDA in airports. In another cheeky TikTok video, Ballerini shared a clip of herself holding a coffee cup in bed next to a man's arm—and eagle-eyed fans were quick to confirm it was Stokes, thanks to the tattoos.

On Valentine's Day, Ballerini shared a short film to support her EP Rolling Up the Welcome Mat, documenting the end of her marriage. Stokes supported his girlfriend through the emotional release, writing on his Instagram Story, "SO proud of you, your heart & your beautiful soul. Congrats kels."

Finally, on February 21, Kelsea Ballerini confirmed that she did indeed have a boyfriend on the Call Her Daddy podcast. "Am I single?" she said in the trailer. "Am I single? God. Um… nope." In the interview, she went on to explain exactly how their relationship began… over Instagram DMs, that is. "I've never seen his show, but I just knew of him, and I just swan dove right on in," Ballerini told host Alex Cooper. "His handle is '@hichasestokes,' and I said, 'Hi, Chase Stokes.'"

March 4, 2023: Chase Stokes Supports His Girlfriend on SNL

On March 4, Kelsea Ballerini starred as the musical guest on Saturday Night Live—a milestone her boyfriend excitedly supported. "Well s***. That was special," he captioned a series of Instagram Stories. "QUEEN s***. @kelseaballerini you did the f****** damn thing."

March 2023: Chase Stokes Joins Kelsea Ballerini on Tour

Kelsea Ballerini embarked on her HEARTFIRST Tour in March 2023, and fans quickly noticed that Chase Stokes attended the majority of her shows. Not only have they shared plenty of their own backstage photos together, fan recordings of their sweet interactions went viral online. In one video, a concertgoer captured the singer swapping a name in one of her songs to "John B," a nod to Stokes' Outer Banks character. In another, Ballerini could be seen running offstage to kiss her boyfriend before singing the lyrics "I kissed someone new last night."

April 2, 2023: Kelsea Ballerini and Chase Stokes Make Their Red Carpet Debut

Kelsea Ballerini and boyfriend Chase Stokes at CMT Music Awareds
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Kelsea Ballerini and Chase Stokes made their relationship official at the 2023 CMT Awards. Before she hosted the event alongside singer Kane Brown, Kelsea Ballerini walked the red carpet with her boyfriend, where they were all smiles.

May 2023: Chase Stokes Visits Kelsea Ballerini's Hometown

In May 2023, Chase Stokes paid a visit to his girlfriend's hometown of Knoxville, Tennessee. Instagram Stories showed the couple walking around her high school and eating at her favorite restaurant. "A heart fillin 24 hours at home," Ballerini wrote of the adventure.

June 20, 2023: Chase Stokes Says He'll Be a "Golden Retriever Boyfriend"

During a June 2023 interview with Entertainment Tonight, Chase Stokes was asked if he considered himself to be Kelsea Ballerini's "golden retriever boyfriend." He answered with a smile, saying, "I'll take the job, I'll take it. She seriously is the best human being on planet Earth and she's so damn talented."

August 2023: Kelsea Ballerini Shares a Video from the Night of Her First Date with Chase Stokes

In August 2023, Kelsea Ballerini posted an adorable TikTok clip of a video she sent her best friend on the night of her first date with Chase Stokes. The singer shows off her outfit in the short snap (a black floral-print mini dress with cowgirl boots), which was set to the tune of her song "How Do I Do This" off her EP Rolling Up the Welcome Mat. "He's picking me up and we're going to a sushi place," she says excitedly before repeating a mantra: "I can do this! I can do this! It's just a date. You just go and eat food and talk about things that you do. Okay?"

May 2024: Kelsea Ballerini and Chase Stokes Attend the Met Gala Together

Kelsea Ballerini and Chase Stokes at the 2024 Met Gala
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Talk about nailing your Met Gala debut. The 2024 event was a first for both Kelsea Ballerini and Chase Stokes, and they walked the red carpet together. Both stars wore dazzling Michael Kors ensembles for the "Sleeping Beauties: Reawakening Fashion" theme, easily earning spots on our best-dressed list.

October 3, 2024: Chase Stokes Gushes About Kelsea Ballerini

While promoting season four of Outer Banks, Chase Stokes stopped by the Today Show, where he opened up to host Hoda Kotb about his girlfriend. "I truthfully think when you find somebody who's not just somebody you love and adore, but somebody who's also your best friend, you've kind of got the best of both worlds," he said. "She's not just a great person, but everything that you see on social media or when she's on stage is exactly the person she is when she's not doing those things. I just adore the girl."

September 2025: Kelsea Ballerini and Chase Stokes Break Up

On September 14, 2025, a rep for the singer confirmed that Kelsea Ballerini and Chase Stokes broke up. News of the couple's split came as a shock to fans, especially since Stokes shared a touching Instagram post in honor of Ballerini's birthday just two days prior. While the couple did not comment on their split, a source close to them told People, "They're two adults who gave it their all and tried to do everything they could to make it work, but ultimately couldn't. It happens."