Stay Connected With These Long-Distance Sex Toys

Warning: They say absence makes the heart grow fonder.
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Simone Paget - The Knot Contributor.
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Updated Nov 01, 2021
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We're living in a golden age of technology where being in a long-distance relationship means you can still have a super-hot sex life from anywhere. Using a long-distance sex toy together is a fun way to stay connected to your partner and can make your regular FaceTime chats and sexting sessions even hotter.

From wearable vibrators and vibrating butt plugs to high-tech massagers that can be operated from anywhere, some of the best sex toys on the market are incredibly versatile for both solo and partnered play and come equipped with remote app capabilities that allow you to experience pleasure together no matter where you are.

We've rounded up the best long-distance sex toys to help narrow your search. With so many choices available, something is sure to tickle your fancy.

We-Vibe Moxie App and Remote Controlled Wearable Clitoral Panty Vibrator

Mint remote control clitoral vibrator and magnetic clip

This sleek toy turns any pair of underwear into vibrating panties. A magnetic clip allows you to secure and adjust it with ease. Perfect for people in long-distance relationships, it has a remote control but can also be activated and operated from anywhere via Wi-Fi with the We-Connect app.

OhMiBod Esca 2

Purple interactive vibrator with Bluetooth connector

Designed with LDRs in mind, this insertable, ultra-discreet vibrator from OhMiBod can be worn at home, on date night or wherever your fantasies take you. With the remote app, your partner can control the vibrations and connect it to other OhMiBod and Kiiroo sex toys for mutual pleasure.

Lovense Nora Rabbit Vibrator

Pink rabbit vibrator with Bluetooth connector

The classic rabbit vibrator gets a serious upgrade with a rotating head and seven vibration modes for optimized pleasure. Long-distance lovers can use this Bluetooth-enabled sex toy to connect from afar with an app that allows your partner to control every aspect of the device.

Titan by Kiiroo Interactive Vibrating Masturbator

Black vibrating masturbator with app controller

This high-tech masturbator allows the user to control both the speed and vibration intensity with easy-to-use buttons. While amazing for solo play, you can also connect to your lover's device so you can feel and react to every move they make.

Svakom Vick Neo Interactive App Controlled Rechargeable Prostate Massager

Black prostate massager with app controller

This silicone prostate massager has dual motors that stimulate the prostate and tease the perineum simultaneously. Using the FeelConnect remote app, the massager can be controlled anywhere by a partner. The app also includes interactive videos and a webcam.

Vibease Remote Control Vibrator

Pink silicone clitoral stimulator with Bluetooth connector

Vibease offers a unique twist on vibration. Meant to be worn in your underwear, it can be controlled via a remote app. The Bluetooth-enabled toy also can vibrate in sync with erotic audiobooks. Enjoy a hands-free experience while using FaceTime or Skype or while sexting.

Kiiroo Onyx Interactive Masturbator

Black interactive male masturbator

This discreet masturbator boasts 140 strokes per minute for a solo play experience that mimics sex with a partner. Long-distance couples looking to play together will love the Kiiroo Onyx because it can be connected remotely to other Kiiroo sex toys, including the OhMiBod Fuse and OhMiBod Esca 2. You can control each other's toys via the chat feature in the FeelConnect app.

We-Vibe Melt App Controlled Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator

Slim pink clitoral stimulator with app controller and 12 levels

Designed to make you melt, this rechargeable clitoral stimulator has 12 levels of toe-curling clitoral suction that can be controlled in person or via the We-Connect app. Slim and remarkably quiet, the vibrations work for solo play or use with a partner. Pro tip: Add some lube to the tip to enhance the suction sensation.

Svakom BDSM Unlimited Pleasure Kit

BDSM kit with remote, app-controlled vibrator, feather tickler, etc.

Who says you have to be in the same room to enjoy some BDSM play? Act out your fantasies on your next video chat with this set from Svakom that includes a remote, app-controlled vibrator, feather tickler, blindfold, wrist cuffs and other goodies to keep things spicy.

Lovense Hush App Controlled Rechargeable Vibrating Butt Plug

Black butt plug with app controller

Upgrade your sexting and video chat sessions with this luxe, rechargeable butt plug designed for solo play and long-distance pleasure. Want to hand the reigns over to your partner? The Body Chat app allows your partner to control your pleasure from anywhere in the world.

ZALO King Vibrating Thruster Velvet Purple

Purple silicone g-spot stimulator and app controller

Made of silky soft silicone, this luxurious vibrator masterfully stimulates the G-spot with deep vibrations and high-powered thrusting motions. Part of Zalo's line of artful sex toys inspired by literature, fantasy and history, all of their vibrators can be connected to an app for long-distance play.

We-Vibe Chorus App-Controlled Couple's Vibrator

Pink g-spot and clitoral vibrator with remote controller

The name of this couple's vibrator says it all. The We-Vibe Chorus is a G-spot and clitoral vibrator that can be worn during sex so you can experience mutual pleasure in harmony. This version also comes with a remote app so you can hit those high notes together even when you're apart.

Emma Neo App-Controlled Wand Vibrator

Black wand vibrator with detachable bunny ears and app controller

Made to stimulate multiple erogenous zones, this wand vibrator has detachable bunny ears that can be used to stimulate the clitoris, nipples and more. An awesome addition to foreplay, this powerful vibrator features a built-in warming core and can be remotely controlled by your partner via a smartphone app.

We-Vibe Verge App Controlled Rechargeable Vibrating Cock Ring

Black cock ring with app controller

Double your pleasure with this app-controlled rechargeable cock ring that stimulates the perineum or your partner's erogenous zones during sex. With We-Vibe's We-Connect remote app, you can hand your pleasure over to your partner and allow them to control the app remotely.

Lovense Max 2

White masturbation sleeve with app controller

This game-changing masturbation sleeve has a smartphone app that allows long-distance couples to pair their toys and react to each other's movements in real-time. With a sleeve that provides powerful vibrations and 360-degree contractions, it's sure to make your next video chat or Skype call with your significant other a lot more interesting.

OhMiBod Fuse

Black and silver silicone interactive rabbit vibrator

Take long-distance intimacy to the next level with a rabbit vibrator that's equipped with interactive tech that allows two-way communication between compatible devices. That means that you can control your partner's sensations and vice versa. With a smooth silicone body and powerful vibrations, the Fuse is also super intuitive: The deeper you insert it, the more intense the sensations.

Kiiroo Pearl 2 G-Spot Vibrator

Pink g-spot stimulator with syncing option and remote app

If you're looking for a G-spot vibrator that can also be synced to your favorite adult content, the Pearl 2 is a great option. Featuring deep vibrations, this versatile vibe intuitively reacts to your body's natural movements and can also be used like a bullet vibrator to stimulate the clitoris. While it's a dream for solo play, if your partner also has a Pearl 2, you can sync your devices together for mutual play using the remote app.

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