A Complete Guide to Groom Accessories, From Essentials to Extras
If you feel like brides get to have all the fun in the wedding fashion department, we're here to prove otherwise. Even if you plan on wearing something fairly traditional on your wedding day—say a classic tux or some variation of suit separates—adding in a few standout groom accessories can turn a look that feels cookie-cutter into something completely unique. That said, there are lots of accessory options out there, and different ones suit different needs and dress codes. Whether you're looking to play with trends or want inspiration for incorporating a special keepsake or family heirloom, we've got you covered. Ahead, we're breaking down every groom accessory to know, from the absolute essentials to the nice-to-haves and the bold additions. Plus, we're bringing you some top tips and styling advice straight from an expert: Andrew Weitz, executive and celebrity style strategist and founder and CEO of The Weitz Effect. Scroll on for our complete guide to wedding accessories for grooms and the best places to buy them when you're ready to shop.
In this article:
- Essential Guide to Groom Accessories
- Stylish Groom Accessory Extras & Alternatives
- Where to Buy Groom Accessories
- Men's Wedding Accessories Ideas
Essential Guide to Groom Accessories
While some men's wedding accessories might seem fairly obvious (shoes, socks and your wedding band, for example), others aren't so black and white. What accessories does a groom need, anyway? Should you wear a tie or a bow tie? Do you have to wear cuff links? Weitz's biggest piece of advice is to let the location and dress code dictate how you accessorize. For example, if you're having a destination wedding and the dress code is "coastal cocktail," you have plenty of room to play with your look. On the other hand, the rules are stricter with more formal occasions. "If we're talking about a traditional black-tie wedding, there are definitely some nonnegotiable accessories," Weitz says. "That means a bow tie, cuff links and either a boutonniere or pocket square." Ahead, we're bringing you a breakdown of the most traditional groom accessory options to help you decide how to top off your look.
Traditional groom accessories: Belt | Shoes | Socks | Cuff Links | Suspenders | Necktie or Bow Tie | Pocket Square | Boutonniere
1. Belt
A great belt is one that not only keeps your pants secure but looks good doing it. While you don't have to wear one, the go-to groom accessory is a perfect way to tie your wedding day look together. If you'll be wearing a suit, keep in mind that your belt will be visible when you take your jacket off. Wearing a tux? You'll want to reach for suspenders instead.
2. Shoes
One of the most important groom essentials is a pair of shoes, and the options are pretty much endless. Perhaps your ideal pair of groom shoes is a classic leather loafer, oxford or brogue, or maybe you want to put a laidback spin on your look and wear your suit with sneakers. You can also use this groom accessory as an opportunity for a standout touch. Bold embroidered smoking slippers? Alligator cowboy boots? Don't mind if we do.
3. Socks
Unless you'll be barefoot in the sand or want that modern, ankle-bearing look, you'll likely need a pair of groom socks. A great rule of thumb is to match your socks to your suit color or the color of your pants, but don't be afraid to make a statement with a bold shade, fun pattern or custom monogram instead.
4. Cuff Links
If you'll be sporting a French cuff dress shirt (the kind you wear with a tuxedo or other formal look), you're going to need wedding cuff links. As functional as they may be, they provide a great opportunity to add some subtle personality to your outfit. "Having fun with your cuff links is a great way to change up your look," says Weitz. Instead of your standard gold or silver option, try something embellished or maybe even engraved with your partner's initials.
Pro Tip: How to Wear Cuff Links
5. Suspenders
Another fashion-meets-function accessory, wedding suspenders are a must if you plan on wearing a tuxedo. Suits, on the other hand, are traditionally worn with belts, but you can opt for suspenders instead if you prefer that look. Black suspenders are the most common choice with a tux, but you've got plenty of room to experiment with colors and patterns if you'll be going the suit route.
6. Necktie or Bow Tie
Wearing a tie for a wedding isn't required for more relaxed dress codes, but it's one of the groom suit accessories you shouldn't overlook for a dressier occasion. Whether you decide to go with a traditional necktie or a bow tie will depend on your personal preference and what you're wearing, but note that tuxedos are most commonly worn with bow ties. Weitz says this is a great accessory to have a little fun with, no matter the dress code. "Even if you're wearing a bow tie, it doesn't have to be traditional," Weitz says. He also recommends avoiding clip-on bow ties, unless you don't know how to tie one yourself.
Pro Tip: How to Tie a Tie and How to Tie a Bow Tie
7. Pocket Square
Pocket squares are decorative cuts of fabric that are folded and placed into your jacket chest pocket, and they can instantly take any groom's wedding day to the next level. When in doubt, you can't go wrong with a crisp white option—but you can also opt for a pattern or bold shade to add a pop of interest to your outfit.
Pro Tip: How to Fold a Pocket Square
8. Boutonniere
While far smaller than the bride's bouquet and table centerpieces, this classic floral accent can pack a major punch. Whether you choose a modern, single bloom pinned to your lapel or an artful cluster of florals in lieu of a pocket square, a boutonniere has the power to make your wedding day outfit feel intentional and cohesive with the event. Weitz recommends going with either a boutonniere or a pocket square to prevent over-accessorizing your look. "If there's no boutonniere, I'd probably do the pocket square," Weitz says. "If you have a boutonniere, you don't necessarily need the pocket square."
Pro Tip: How to Put On a Boutonniere
Stylish Groom Accessory Extras & Alternatives
Wedding accessories for grooms don't stop at bow ties and boutonnieres. If you're looking for a little extra something, there's more where that came from. Today's trending suit ideas are all about embracing unique accessories and extras, whether that means a glitzy brooch fit for a black-tie affair or a custom cowboy hat for your western-chic reception. That said, make sure you don't overdo it. "You want to be very minimal and clean and elegant on your wedding day, so I don't recommend lots of accessories, lots of color or too many things going on," says Weitz. Scroll on for a few statement-making groom accessory ideas.
Extra groom accessories: Watch | Jewelry | Sunglasses | Tie Bar, Clip or Pin | Hat | Bolo Tie | Cultural Groom Accessories
9. Watch
A watch may not be considered mandatory when it comes to groom accessories, but we'd argue that it might as well be. Unlike that bow tie or boutonniere, a beautiful wedding watch is a practical and versatile piece you can keep in your outfit rotation for years to come. There's no right or wrong choice here, either—a steel sport watch will work just as well as a sleek and simple option with a leather strap.
10. Jewelry
Be it a family heirloom you save for special occasions, a statement signet ring or a minimal gold chain, don't underestimate the impact men's jewelry can have on your wedding day look. If you want bigger and bolder, you can consider incorporating Weitz's favorite: a brooch or lapel pin. "This is something that's fun and flashy but still elegant," he says.
11. Sunglasses
Few combos feel cooler than formalwear topped with a sharp pair of shades. If your wedding will be a daytime affair or at a tropical destination, this groom accessory will feel right at home. To keep your look feeling elevated, choose a pair on a sleek and understated side rather than frames that feel overly bold.
12. Tie Bar, Clip or Pin
Though tie bars, clips and pins are often considered an extra touch, they do serve a practical purpose: keeping your tie in place. A tie bar slides over your shirt placket and tie, while tie clips—you guessed it—clip onto your shirt placket and tie. A tie pin, on the other hand, is pierced through your shirt placket and tie. The latter is generally considered a bit more formal and decorative, often featuring ornate details and embellishments.
Pro Tip: How to Wear a Tie Clip
13. Hat
Maybe it's a fur top hat for your white-tie affair or a traditional cowboy hat you whip out at your ranch reception. No matter your personal preference, a hat is one of those groom accessories that can single-handedly take your outfit to the next level. The best part about this one is that it's easy to put on and take off, so you can use it as a way to change up your look throughout the course of the event.
14. Bolo Tie
Between the spike in popularity in western-style weddings and seventies suiting, bolo ties are as in as we've ever seen them. They're a great way to eschew tradition without sacrificing formality and bring a unique vibe to even the most standard of suits. If you're walking down the aisle at a farmhouse, barn, ranch or other outdoor venue, a bolo tie is a sharp wedding day accessory and will make for a memorable fit.
15. Cultural Groom Accessories
The world of men's wedding accessories varies significantly across cultures. A traditional accessory option for Indian grooms, for example, is the safa: a turban symbolizing respect, honor and loyalty. In Chinese wedding attire, grooms might wear a satin red hydrangea, while Nigerian wedding attire might call for a groom to wear coral beads.
Where to Buy Groom Accessories
Ready to start browsing groom accessories for your wedding day look? Here are some of our go-to retailers in every category.
Groom Accessories Near Me
If you prefer to try things on in person, head to The Knot Vendor Marketplace to find shops you can visit IRL. Just choose the "bridal salons" category and select the "more filters" dropdown menu to find bow ties, shoes, cuff links and more wedding accessories near you for grooms.
Groom Ties and Pocket Squares
You'll find ties and pocket squares at just about any men's formalwear retailer, but these are a few standouts.
Tie Bar: As its name suggests, Tie Bar is a go-to for all things ties. While this means you'll find tie bars, clips and pins too, the retailer's actual ties are the main event. Discover everything from modern to traditional options in a range of prints and colors, including pre-tied bow ties and neckties with extra length. Oh, and we can't forget to mention their collection of over 250 coordinating pocket squares. Use code TIEBARxKNOT15 for 15% off your purchase.
Bonobos: Bonobos is a one-stop-shop for any and all men's wardrobe needs, wedding day accessories included. You'll even find a designated Wedding Shop complete with professional fit and styling advice, where you can book an in-person appointment at a storefront near you. But before you do that, browse the retailer's selection of ties and pocket squares online, and don't miss the variety of chic and unique print options.
SuitShop: When it comes to wedding suit accessories, SuitShop doesn't disappoint. The retailer's tie selection in particular is an impressive one, boasting over 150 shades, prints and textures guaranteed to level up your wedding day ensemble—all at impressive prices, too.
Groom Tuxedo Accessories
Socks, studs, suspenders—no matter the tuxedo essential, the following retailers have all your bases covered.
Jos. A. Bank: With an expansive selection of tux essentials to offer, Jos. A. Bank is a must-visit groom accessory spot. You'll find everything you need in order to put together a complete black-tie look, including odds and ends like collar stays and extenders, handkerchiefs and cummerbunds.
The Black Tux: One of the best things about The Black Tux is the fact that you can rent or buy the retailer's formalwear styles, and the tuxedo accessories (tuxedo shoes included) are no different. Don't want to commit to a pair of shiny black oxfords? You can rent them for just $35 instead of purchasing them at full price.
Suitsupply: You may know Suitsupply for their custom-made tuxedos and suits, but the retailer excels in tuxedo accessories too. Expect to find refined versions of the classics—think mother-of-pearl cuff links, navy grosgrain suspenders and ivory silk bow ties.
Groom Cuff Links and Tie Clips
As subtle as they may be, cuff links and tie clips are some of the best accessories for groom outfits. Whether you want something simple or over-the-top, these retailers won't dissapoint.
Cufflinks.com: For the most extensive selection of cuff links out there, look no further than the one and only cufflinks.com. Want them to feature your college mascot? How about a photo of your partner? Cufflinks.com has it all.
Etsy: If your goal is something one-of-a-kind or vintage, don't sleep on Etsy. Opt for a gleaming gold set of cuff links engraved with your wedding date or a vintage tie bar that will become a family treasure—the options are endless.
Groom Watches and Jewelry
They may not be required, but they can certainly take your look to the next level. If you're looking to add to your current watch and jewelry collection or totally start from scratch, these retailers have you covered either way.
Citizen: Whether you're totally new to watches or want to add another to your collection, Citizen has you covered. The beloved brand has something for everyone, from sleek and formal to bold and sporty and everything in between. Best of all? Each style comes at an approachable price point, especially considering the quality, craftsmanship, and solar-powered Eco-Drive technology. Pro tip: Use code THEKNOT10 for 10% off your first purchase.
Neiman Marcus: For a large selection of watches, brooches and jewelry at a range of price points, take a look at Neiman Marcus. From Shinola to Breguet and Kendra Scott to David Yurman, your options are aplenty.
Groom Shoes and Belts
Your wedding shoes and belt might be some of the most functional accessories in your groom look, but they're also some of the most fun. Whether you want something classic and sleek or a statement-making piece, check out the variety of styles at these retailers.
Nordstrom: Can't decide whether to splurge on designer shoes or opt for an affordable pair? Nordstrom is the place to go for both. Here, you'll find everything from velvet Christian Louboutin loafers for weddings to classic leather oxfords from Cole Haan. And with free shipping and returns, you can easily order a few pairs to take for a spin.
Men's Wearhouse: This classic men's formalwear retailer excels in all things groom attire, but their shoe and belt selection deserves a big shoutout. You'll find groom shoes in tons of styles, brands and price points, plus a variety of belts that make coordinating your look a breeze.
Men's Wedding Accessories Ideas
Looking for real-life inspo? Check out these groom accessory ideas we love.