20 Tomboy Wedding Guest Outfit Ideas That Suit Your Style

These options are perfect for a masculine-meets-feminine vibe.

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Updated Jul 16, 2024

If your fashion sense skews somewhere between masculine and feminine and you have a wedding invite in your mailbox, you might be curious what a tomboy wedding guest outfit would look like. While you might assume that traditional wedding dress codes dictate pretty binary statutes on what guests can wear to events, there's actually quite a bit more leeway than you might expect for those who prefer more gender-neutral fashion.

For those who like a tomboy aesthetic—which embraces more masculine silhouettes with a hint of femininity—you can choose to wear suits, sets or even jumpsuits at a variety of formal events. Looking for tomboy wedding outfit inspiration? Turn to the red carpet attire of stars like Teyana Taylor, Megan Rapinoe and Zendaya, who often merge suiting with a uniquely tailored edge. Ahead, we break down tomboy wedding guest outfits for different dress codes as well as provide cool shoppable options that fit the aesthetic.

How to Choose a Tomboy Wedding Guest Outfit
Tomboy Formal Outfits for Wedding Guests
Dressy Casual Tomboy Outfits for Wedding Guests

How to Choose a Tomboy Wedding Guest Outfit

If you want to curate a tomboy outfit for a wedding, fit and vibe are the most important components of the look, as well as the dress code. A suit, jumpsuit or set with appropriately tailored proportions can usually match the tomboy aesthetic, while the color, length and fabric can help match the formality of an event. While you may be able to wear a stylish linen suit with shorts to a more casual summer wedding, a tailored tuxedo or long jumpsuit is more fitting for a black-tie affair.

Custom suit designer Melissa Watson-Ellis of the brand Watson Ellis emphasizes that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to designing a tomboy wedding outfit. "In general, I would say that to create a tomboy look that's 'masculine meets feminine' is to make the trousers a little looser, which means a slightly dropped crotch, or with big pleats '80s and '90s style," Watson-Ellis shares. "The jacket would then be less tightly fitted and more boxy, but slightly cropped—say mid hip. In my mind, the cropped jacket reads kind of sexy, but the rest is pretty masc, therefore leaving the client with a good balance all around." She notes that a three-piece suit with a vest serving as a shirt can be an excellent choice to have fun with formalwear. "It can feel more masculine with the jacket on, but show a bit more skin when it's removed," the designer says. "As far as pant shapes go, I do love a straight leg—not too wide but definitely not tapered at the ankle. This way you wear a chunky shoe or heeled boot and elongate the leg."

Finding a look that fits the tomboy aesthetic and a dress code may take a bit of work due to the offerings available in women's sizing. However, custom looks and creative styling absolutely make achieving a tomboy wedding guest outfit possible.

Tomboy Formal Outfits for Wedding Guests

Formal wedding attire is a step above a cocktail dress code, yet doesn't require a full gown or tuxedo like black tie. To achieve a formal tomboy wedding look, guests should turn to tailored suits, luxe fabrics and longer lengths. Silk or crepe jumpsuits with wide or straight legs can fit this look, as well as sets that mimic the long silhouette. While darker suits and tuxedo-inspired ensembles paired with button-up shirts or chic silk camisoles absolutely work for this dress code, you can absolutely have fun with color and fabric of your suiting—especially at a summer wedding. "Use a more outrageous fabric like a jacquard or a hammered satin but make the fit more classically masculine," suggests Watson-Ellis.

Dressy Casual Tomboy Outfits for Wedding Guests

A dressy casual wedding dress code gives guests quite a bit of flexibility. While jeans and t-shirts will give your outfit a look of disapproval at a wedding reception, you can have fun with elevated and trendy styles that you might wear to a nice dinner or night out. More casual tomboy outfits with an elegant edge can include a vest and pant ensemble without a jacket, a suit in a fun print or lighter color, a jumpsuit in fabrics like linen or cotton, or even a cool, coordinated set. Take advantage of this dress code to play with the balance between feminine and masculine for a look that reflects your personal style.