16 Grandmother-of-the-Bride Dresses That Feel Elegant and Stylish

A granddaughter's wedding calls for a beautiful grandmother-of-the-bride dress that makes you feel confident and stands out in the crowd. As the grandmother of the event's most notable attendee, you really want to wear a dress that feels special. After all, you'll be in lots of photos and you'll be by the couple's side at parts of the night – you may even walk down the aisle – so you'll want to feel your best. This might mean wearing something a little bit more formal than what the guests are wearing, or at least right on track with the dress code.

A grandmother-of-the-bride dress for a wedding can feel more classic and traditional, like a floor-length gown with a matching jacket or capelet. But it can also be more modern and chic, like a one-shoulder column gown or an off-the-shoulder option. Looking at mother-of-the-bride dresses is a great start, and you can avoid looking frumpy by choosing beaded embellishments and elegant silhouettes. To help you find the best grandmother-of-the-bride dresses, we spoke to Kate Loscalzo, founder and lead stylist of Something White Styling, a styling company that works with brides throughout the United States to help them curate and plan the perfect outfit for all events leading up to the big day. Our picks are below.

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In this article:

• What Does the Grandmother of the Bride Wear?
• 16 Grandmother-of-the-Bride Dresses You Can Shop Now
• Is There a Difference Between Bride or Groom's Grandmother Dresses?

What Does the Grandmother of the Bride Wear?

While there are no set rules on what the grandmother of the bride should wear, there are some general etiquette tips that are good to follow. "The grandmother of the bride should follow the dress code, just like any other guest, but if slightly overdressed, that is okay as well, since they are considered an honorable guest," Loscalzo says. Keep the below in mind when looking for an outfit.

Note the weather and venue.

Aside from paying attention to the dress code, you should also consider the venue. Make sure your outfit fits the vibe of the venue; for example, if it's near the beach, opt for lighter fabrics over something like velvet. You should also consider the season and weather: for warmer weather, choose lightweight fabrics like linen or cotton, and maybe stay away from jackets. For colder weather, layers are key. "If the dress doesn't already come with an optional layer, I recommend purchasing something just in case it's ever chilly," Loscalzo says. "A shawl or formal cardigan are great options."

Don't feel limited to dresses.

Gowns or dresses are the standard for grandmother-of-the-bride wear, but you don't need to feel limited to that. "Know your options," Loscalzo says. "Grandmothers don't have to stick to wearing a dress, mix and match separates are also a wonderful, more modern option." Chic jackets and matching skirts might feel more comfortable, or a pantsuit can look very stylish.

Wear something comfortable.

"The most important thing is that their outfit is comfortable, flattering, and makes them feel special," Loscalzo says. As the grandmother, you deserve to feel and look fabulous, and that means picking something you genuinely love. It's also important to feel like you can really move around in your outfit. "Since grandmothers usually make an appearance walking down the aisle and will be a part of many family photos, it's important the outfit doesn't interfere with her comfort and mobility," Loscalzo notes.

What Color Dress Does the Grandmother of the Bride Wear?

Grandmothers-of-the-bride don't have to follow a color scheme, but it's not a bad idea to wear something that complements the colors of the wedding – although Loscalzo does note you shouldn't match the bridal party exactly. "Soft, classic colors are encouraged," she adds. "For a spring/summer wedding, I recommend pastels, for a fall/winter wedding, I would suggest shades of blue or deeper jewel tones."

16 Grandmother-of-the-Bride Dresses You Can Shop Now

When shopping for a grandmother-of-the-bride dress, keep the dress code in mind. You want to stick to that dress code, and while it's okay to opt for something more formal, you don't want to wear something more casual than that. Look for something that feels comfortable, especially since you'll be wearing it all night long.

1. Rickie Freeman Teri Jon Metallic Jacquard Shirtdress Gown

Photo: Teri Jon

Available in six different colors, this metallic jacquard gown features a pretty floral design and feminine tie at the waist. Elbow-length sleeves and a high neckline make this ideal for grandmas who don't want to show any skin, but the button-down design also keeps it from looking too frumpy.

Dress Code: Formal, black tie

Size Range: 0-22 | Length: Long

Price at Time of Publication: $770

2. Adrianna Papell High Low Mikado Gown With Asymmetrical Detail

Photo: Adrianna Papell

Eyecatching without feeling over the top, this Adrianna Papell gown is a classic, elegant option ideal for more formal weddings. The high-low hem shows just a bit of skin, and the asymmetrical skirt is playful and fun.

Dress Code: Formal, black-tie optional

Size Range: 0-20 | Length: High-low

Price at Time of Publication: $199

3. Betsy & Adam Metallic Cape Gown

Photo: Macy's

Glamorous and elegant, this gown would be beautiful at a more formal wedding during the winter. The cape offers some arm coverage without feeling too stifling. The shimmering navy color is unique and will catch the light beautifully.

Dress Code: Formal, black tie

Size Range: 4-16 | Length: Long

Price at Time of Publication: $259

4. Mac Duggal Off the Shoulder Beaded Chiffon Midi Dress

Photo: Nordstrom

For a shorter grandmother dress for a wedding, this is a beautiful option. The clusters of pearly beads are feminine and pretty, and the tulle skirt has a pleasant lightweight feel. This is a lovely pick for a daytime wedding or cocktail attire.

Dress Code: Cocktail

Size Range: 2-14 | Length: Midi

Price at Time of Publication: $398

5. Lauren Ralph Lauren Twist-Front Cape-Overlay Gown

Photo: Macy's

This glittery grandmother-of-the-bride outfit is perfect for any time of year, but would especially be great for a wedding around the holiday season. Made of a foil jersey, it has a metallic look to it with a more lightweight feel.

Dress Code: Formal, black tie

Size Range: 2-16 | Length: Long

Price at Time of Publication: $295

6. AW Bridal Juanita Dress

Photo: AW Bridal

If you're looking for stylish grandmother-of-the-bride dresses that won't break the bank, AW Bridal has a wide selection. This versatile gown is a beautiful option that comes in several different colors and works for a few different dress codes. The removable jacket is great for transitional weather in the spring or fall.

Dress Code: Formal, black-tie optional

Size Range: 0-30; Custom | Length: Long

Price at Time of Publication: $100

7. Mac Duggal Beaded High Neck Bishop Sleeve Gown

Photo: Mac Duggal

A dress for the grandmother of the bride should be tasteful, elegant and chic, and this one checks all of those boxes. The long bishop sleeves feel so sophisticated and the sapphire color is fun, so it's a nice mix. The sparkling beaded neckline really adds something.

Dress Code: Formal, black tie

Size Range: 2-16 | Length: Long

Price at Time of Publication: $398

8. Betsy & Adam One-Shoulder Crepe Scuba Gown

Photo: Nordstrom

For something more understated and simple, try this Betsey & Adam gown. Made of a thick and stretchy crepe scuba fabric, this is surprisingly comfortable for a form-fitting dress. It comes in a few different colors and despite being a one-shoulder, still offers plenty of coverage.

Dress Code: Formal, black tie

Size Range: 2-16 | Length: Long

Price at Time of Publication: $249

9. Sachin & Babi Jenny Gown

Photo: Sachin & Babi

While the florals add a fun touch to this dress, it still feels very regal thanks to the subtle puff sleeves and empire waist The magenta hue is very pretty, but if you're looking for something more subdued, it's also available in a range of other floral prints and neutrals.

Dress Code: Formal, black tie

Size Range: 0-22W | Length: Long

Price at Time of Publication: $595

10. Karen Millen Tailored Belted Midi Dress

Photo: Karen Millen

Perfect for a daytime wedding or a slightly more casual affair, this Karen Millen dress is shorter and has a more structured look to it. It comes in a wide variety of colors, from bold orange to classic navy, and is versatile enough to be worn beyond the wedding.

Dress Code: Semi-formal, cocktail

Size Range: 2-12 | Length: Midi

Price at Time of Publication: $376

11. Mac Duggal Draped Sleeve V Neck Gown

Photo: Mac Duggal

Looking for something more glam? This gold beaded gown is a definitely a statement-making option, with flattering draped sleeves, a V-neckline and sparkling overlay. Add gold heels and jewelry for a monochromatic look.

Dress Code: Formal, black tie

Size Range: 2-24 | Length: Long

Price at Time of Publication: $498

12. Adrianna Papell Hand Beaded Short Sleeve Floral Godet Gown

Photo: Adrianna Papell

If you want a grandmother-of-the-bride dress that offers coverage but doesn't feel frumpy or boring, this is a beautiful choice. Hand-beading and a floral overlay make this one feel so special, and the cap sleeves will keep your shoulders covered but still keep you cool enough in warmer weather.

Dress Code: Formal, black-tie optional

Size Range: 0-20 | Length: Ankle

Price at Time of Publication: $300

13. Needle & Thread Sequin Dash Ballerina Dress

Photo: Needle & Thread

A classic grandma-of-the-bride dress, this ankle-length option is versatile and sparkly. All-over beading and ruffled hems are feminine touches, and the trapeze silhouette makes it especially comfortable.

Dress Code: Cocktail, Black-tie optional

Size Range: 0-20 | Length: Ankle

Price at Time of Publication: $689

14. AW Bridal Caesar Dress

Photo: AW Bridal

A flattering twist front and satin charmeuse material make this gown feel effortlessly elegant. It's simple but sophisticated and comes in almost every color imaginable. The back slit adds some personality too.

Dress Code: Formal, black-tie optional

Size Range: 0-30; Custom | Length: Long

Price at Time of Publication: $100

15. Azazie Cornelia Dress

Photo: Azazie

For a more traditional grandmother-of-the-bride dress with a jacket, this gown is a perfect choice. It comes in several different color options and has a removable jacket that feels chic and elegant. Lots of beading adds just enough sparkle.

Dress Code: Formal, black tie

Size Range: 0-30; Custom | Length: Long

Price at Time of Publication: $199

16. Marchesa Notte One-Shoulder Draped Column Midi Dress

Photo: Neiman Marcus

Shorter dresses rather than floor-length gowns have a more casual vibe that's ideal for daytime weddings or more laid-back occasions. This dress is made with shiny mikado fabric, an oversized shoulder bow and floor-sweeping train detail, so it still feels elevated.

Dress Code: Cocktail, black-tie optional

Size Range: 0-16 | Length: Midi

Price at Time of Publication: $795

Is There a Difference Between Bride or Groom's Grandmother Dresses?

The grandmother of the bride and the grandmother of the groom don't have to feel like they're competing in their outfits. "There is actually no rule or difference in what the grandmother of the bride versus what the grandmother-of-the-groom wear, just as long as they don't show up in the exact same thing," Loscalzo says. "I recommend for the bride to keep the flow of communication open just to make sure they both feel special, but also wear different colors and/or styles of dresses."

Additional market work by Kate Boswell