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Updated Mar 06, 2025The 18 Best Ring Bearer Shoes for Every Wedding Style
Up your little attendant's cuteness factor with some adorable footwear.
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Once you've decided on a ring bearer outfit, it's time to select the perfect pair of ring bearer shoes to go with it. Whether your ring bearer is wearing a tuxedo, a casual linen set or even a gender neutral option, the ring bearer shoes are the ultimate finishing touch on any wedding-day outfit. From classic dress loafers to a more casual boat shoe, there are countless options to ensure your ring bearer is dressed their best on your big day. Prepare yourself for an endless chorus of compliments on how cute your little attendant is going to look walking down the aisle.
In this article:
- How to Choose Ring Bearer Shoes
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Where to Buy Kids Wedding Shoes for a Ring Bearer
- The Best Ring Bearer Shoes for Every Dress Code
How to Choose Ring Bearer Shoes
There are a few important factors that come into play when deciding on shoes for a ring bearer. Whether you are the parent of the ring bearer or a to-be-wed helping to plan their outfit, you'll want to keep the below in mind when shopping for ring bearer shoes.
Formality
The formality of the event will largely inform what kind of shoes your ring bearer will wear. This will echo the ring bearer outfit you selected. For example, a tuxedo should be paired with classic dress shoes, while a more casual linen set can be worn with boat shoes.
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Comfort
If your ring bearer is a toddler or baby, comfort is going to be of the utmost importance. The last thing you want on the big day is a fussy baby trying to kick their shoes off. No matter the ring bearer's age, make sure they try the shoes on in person and give them a test run before the big day so that you can mitigate any issues the day of. Ensuring a proper fit is the best way to make sure your ring bearer will be comfortable walking down the aisle.
Style
If you are a parent shopping for ring bearer shoes, be sure to touch base with the couple to ensure your shoes fit the style they are going for. Most couples will choose a color scheme or style for the wedding party to adhere to, including the ring bearer and flower girl.
Where to Buy Kids Wedding Shoes for a Ring Bearer
Buying ring bearer shoes is a bit more complex than your average kids shoes. Your best bet is to either try them on in person, or order a few pairs from a trusted retailer and return what does not work. Below, shop our editor-approved favorites retailers for ring bearer shoes.
Nordstrom
Nordstrom has a wide range of ring bearer shoes from infants to big kids, so there's something for everyone. They carry notable brands such as Johnston & Murphy, Florsheim, Steve Madden and Nike. Plus, they often offer free curbside pickup to make shopping a breeze.
Target
Target is a great place to shop both formal and casual kids shoes for ring bearers. From classic loafers to elevated sneakers, they offer a great range of styles for both babies and kids at an affordable price point.
Zappos
Online retailer Zappos is your one stop shop for ring bearer shoes for infants all the way through big kids. They carry an array of popular brands such as Florsheim, Sperry and Deer Stags, among others. Plus, every Zappos order comes with free shipping and a 365-day return policy, so you can try them on in the comfort of your home.
Famous Footwear
For both casual and formal weddings, Famous Footwear is a great spot to shop for ring bearer shoes. They cater to toddlers, little kids and big kids and offer a wide range of styles for any level of formality.
The Best Ring Bearer Shoes for Every Dress Code
Whether you are attending a formal wedding and are searching for kids dress shoes or want more casual shoes for your ring bearer, we've scoured the internet for our top picks for 2023 ring bearer shoes.
Stacy Adams Kids' Dickenson Cap Toe Lace Up Oxford Little/Big Kid
Photo: Famous Footwear
This classic cognac oxford is a dapper choice for ring bearers. The smooth leather is accented with perforated detailing along the upper edges. They would pair exceptionally well with a navy blue suit.
Size Range: 11 - 3
Elephantito Toddler Monaco Loafer
Photo: Target
A moccasin style leather loafer is a stylish pick for a more casual affair. Classic pebbled leather and tassel detailing elevate the moccasin style loafer. These would be a great option for a fall wedding.
Size Range: 4 - 6.5
J.Crew Factory Boys' Penny Loafers
Photo: J.Crew
A smart penny loafer is a timeless style for a ring bearer shoe. Preppy brides will adore this brown style from J.Crew Factory.
Size Range: K8 - K5
Florsheim Kids Kearny Jr.
Photo: Zappos
Looking for something a bit unexpected? This white lace-up oxford is a fresh take on a classic ring bearer shoe.
Size Range: 10 - 6
Deer Stags Kids' Zane Memory Foam Chelsea Boot Little/Big Kid
Photo: Famous Footwear
This stylish chelsea boot is perfect for a trend-forward ring bearer outfit. It would pair well with a linen button down and slacks for a more casual soiree.
Size Range: 13 - 7
Florsheim 'Reveal' Monk Strap Slip-On
Photo: Nordstrom
These classic black dress shoes are the perfect finishing touch on any ring bearer tuxedo. The black leather is a timeless black-tie shoe, while the strap style top makes it a functional option for kids to take on and off.
Size Range: 10 - 7
H&M Strappy Sandals
Photo: H&M
A casual beach wedding may mean a strappy sandal is the best pick for ring bearer shoes. A neutral pair like this one is perfect for finishing off a linen ring bearer set.
Size Range: 7.5 - 12.5
Sperry Kids Cup II Boat Shoe
Photo: Nordstrom
Classic Sperrys are a great pick for preppy weddings. Plus, they can be dressed down after the wedding, so consider them a wardrobe investment for your little guy.
Size Range: 5M - 7W
Stacy Adams Big Boys Kaylor Jr. Moc Toe Slip On Shoes
Photo: Macy's
A pair of black slip-on dress shoes is a closet staple for a range of formal events. This one features a stylish metal bit detail that elevates the classic shoe.
Size Range: 3.5M - 7M
Deer Stags Ballard Chukka Boot - Kids'
Photo: DSW
Leather boots are a fashion forward choice for a ring bearer shoe. This pair comes in both black and brown to match an array of ring bearer outfits.
Size Range: 11 - 7
Johnston & Murphy Boys' Holden Wingtip Oxfords
Photo: Dillard's
These retro inspired wingtip oxfords feature a supportive foam footbed, making them just as comfortable as they are stylish. Dress them up or down for any level of formality.
Size Range: 12.5M - 7M
Deer Stags Kane Sneaker - Kids'
Photo: DSW
An elevated leather sneaker is an apt choice for a casual wedding. They're casual enough for everyday wear, but can also be dressed up with a button down and slacks.
Size Range: 11 - 7
coXist Kids Slip On Loafers Moccasin Boat Dress Shoes for Boys Girls and Toddlers
Photo: Target
This classic loafer style is a great unisex option for ring bearers. Plus, it comes in a wide range of colors, from classic black to hot pink, so there's an option for any wedding party color scheme.
Size Range: 1 - 3
Sperry Spinnaker Washable Junior Sneaker
Photo: Sperry
Designed to be machine mashable, this sneaker is a great option for an outdoor wedding. It comes in both gray and tan, and the leather-like finish adds a sophisticated edge to this comfortable shoe.
Size Range: 5 - 7
Elephantito Kids Club Loafer
Photo: Nordstrom
Looking for a statement ring bearer shoe? Look no further than these stylish loafers with a nautical-inspired stripe detail. They come in both navy and cognac colors and are offered in a wide range of sizes for toddlers, little kids and big kids.
Size Range: 7M - 6M
Carter's Kid Ricky Casual Sneakers
Photo: Carter's
A leather slip on is great for any level of formality. It's a step up from a sneaker in terms of formality, but isn't quite as fancy as your typical dress shoe. The slip on construction also makes it a comfortable choice for kids to slip on and off with ease.
Size Range: 1Y - 13
Florsheim Jasper Jr. Boys Moc Toe Penny Driver
Photo: Florsheim
Cue "Blue Suede Shoes" by Elvis Presley. This fun blue loafer with a green sole adds an unexpected pop of color to any ring bearer style. Pair them with a neutral outfit to really let the shoes shine.
Size Range: 10 - 7
Steve Madden Bharkeen Black Leather
Photo: Steve Madden
A cross between an oxford and a chelsea boot, this stylish shoe is a great pick for any wedding. Plus, it features a side zipper for easy in-and-out.
Size Range: 11C - 7C
