Inside Idina Menzel's Wickedly Beautiful Love Story with Aaron Lohr

The couple met on the set of 'Rent' in 2005.
Idina Menzel with her husband Aaron Lohr
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Sarah Hanlon
Entertainment & Celebrity Editor
  • Sarah is the Entertainment & Celebrity Editor for The Knot, with special focuses on pop culture and celebrity wedding news.
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Updated Nov 26, 2024

Amid Wicked's pop culture resurgence, fans are discovering just how deep the show's lore runs—and they can't help but want to know more about its founding cast. While Ariana Grande and Cynthia Erivo star in the 2024 blockbuster movie, Idina Menzel originated the role of Elphaba in the smash hit Broadway musical—and she's been a force in the entertainment industry ever since. But who is Idina Menzel's spouse, Aaron Lohr?

We're pleased to report the two share a wickedly beautiful love story. (They actually met while filming the 2005 movie musical Rent!) After announcing their engagement in 2016, Menzel confirmed their marriage the following year. And although Lohr no longer has a career in the entertainment industry, he occasionally joins his wife in her musical endeavors. Read up on everything we know about this famous couple's sweet love story here.

  • Idina Menzel's spouse is Aaron Lohr, a former actor and singer who currently works as a therapist in Malibu.
  • Idina Menzel and Aaron Lohr met on the set of Rent in 2005, but they didn't begin dating until 2015.
  • After getting engaged in September 2016, Idina Menzel and her husband got married in their California backyard one year later.

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Who is Idina Menzel's Spouse, Aaron Lohr?

Idina Menzel and her husband Aaron Lohr on the red carpet
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Idina Menzel is married to Aaron Lohr. A graduate of UCLA, Lohr majored in theater—but his career in the arts began long before he was in college. Lohr appeared in the 1984 music video for Deniece Williams' song "Let's Hear It for the Boy." In the 1990s, he had a recurring role as "Marlon" in the ABC sitcom Sister, Sister starring Tia and Tamera Mowry. He went on to appear in a few Disney works, including The Mighty Ducks series and Newsies. He was also the singing voice for Max Goof in A Goofy Movie.

Lohr starred in the 2005 film adaptation of the Tony-winning Broadway musical Rent, which would prove to be a key point in his love story with Menzel. He also performed in a handful of New York theater productions before retiring from show business. Today, he works as the Clinical Director at the Avalon Malibu rehab center.

How Idina Menzel and Aaron Lohr Met

Idina Menzel and her spouse Aaron Lohr met in 2005 on the set of Rent. In this film adaptation of the popular Broadway show, Menzel reprised her role as Maureen, while Lohr had a smaller supporting role and provided backing vocals. (Fun fact: Menzel made her Broadway debut in this rock musical, seven years before she would go on to star in Wicked alongside Kristin Chenoweth.) Also in 2005, Menzel and Lohr shared the stage again in the off-Broadway production of See What I Wanna See, but it would be another decade until their relationship turned romantic.

Idina Menzel and Aaron Lohr's Relationship Timeline

Idina Menzel with her husband Aaron Lohr at the 2020 Oscars
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While Idina Menzel and her spouse met in 2005, they didn't embark on a romantic relationship for 10 more years. When they first crossed paths, Menzel was married to her Rent co-star Taye Diggs, with whom she shares one son. The two remain close co-parents today, and Lohr has joyfully embraced his role as a step-father. Look back on the couple's relationship timeline here.

2005: Idina Menzel and Aaron Lohr Meet on the Set of Rent

Idina Menzel met Aaron Lohr on the set of the 2005 movie musical Rent. While the two actors also shared the stage in an off-Broadway show that year, their relationship was strictly friendly. After all, Menzel was married to Taye Diggs from 2003 to 2013.

April 2015: Idina Menzel and Aaron Lohr Confirm Their Relationship at the White House Correspondents' Association Dinner

Idina Menzel and Aaron Lohr at the 2015 White House Correspondents' Dinner
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Menzel and Diggs welcomed their son, Walker, in 2009, but later announced their separation in 2013. While we don't know how Menzel and Lohr reconnected, they confirmed their relationship by walking the red carpet together at the 2015 White House Correspondents' Association Dinner. Four months later, The Los Angeles Times reported that they purchased a home together in Encino, California.

September 2016: Idina Menzel Announces Her Engagement

The following year, Menzel took to X (formerly Twitter) to thank fans for supporting her self-titled album Idina…and to announce that she was set to be married! "As if this week couldn't get any better I have wonderful news... my man and I are engaged! We are so happy. It's a beautiful time," she wrote on September 23.

September 2017: Idina Menzel and Aaron Lohr Get Married

Exactly one year later, Idina Menzel and her husband exchanged vows at their California abode. "Wanted to let you know... Married the love of my life #aaronlohr this weekend @ our home," she confirmed on social media. "Dad & son walked me down aisle. It was magical."

October 2019: Idina Menzel and Aaron Lohr Sing Together on Her Christmas Album

While Idina Menzel's husband has since left the spotlight, he does occasionally join her creative projects. In October 2019, the songstress released her second holiday album titled Christmas: A Season of Love, which featured a duet with Lohr for the classic hit "I'll Be Home for Christmas."

June 2023: Idina Menzel Thanks Her Husband for Supporting Her Career

For decades, Idina Menzel has wowed fans with her incredible musical talent. From starring in Broadway shows and Disney movies to performing around the world and releasing seven studio albums, her career spans beyond the stage and screen. In 2023, the entertainer shared a video on Instagram praising her husband for his unwavering support ahead of another busy tour schedule. "I'm going on the road again for like the eighth time in two weeks. I just want to publicly thank my husband for being such a supportive man and letting me do what I love to do," she said in the clip. "When I come home, he makes me feel beautiful and appreciated, and I just want to say, 'I love you, honey. Thank you.'"

Idina Menzel and Aaron Lohr's Wedding Photos & Details

Idina Menzel and her husband Aaron Lohr got married over the weekend of September 25, 2017. The couple tied the knot in the backyard of their California home, which the singer announced on Instagram. "Wanted to let you know... married the love of my life Aaron Lohr this weekend at our home," she shared. She said that her son, Walker, and her father walked her down the aisle, calling it a "magical" memory: "Thank you to everyone who helped make my wedding day so special."

Menzel donned a romantic lace Carolina Herrera wedding dress with an off-the-shoulder neckline and airy sleeves. She accessorized her look with Jimmy Choo heels, Ricardo Basta jewelry, and a botanical crystal headpiece designed by Jennifer Behr. Lohr opted for a navy blue suit by John Varvatos.

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