Here's Why People Say You Should Marry Your Best Friend
Have you ever heard the phrase, "Marry your best friend?" It's one of those classic pieces of advice that gets tossed around a lot at weddings, in romantic comedies and maybe even during some late-night conversations. But why is it so often repeated? Is there actual wisdom behind the sentiment, or is it just a sweet idea that keeps getting repeated generation after generation?
Well, we happen to think it's both.
Spoiler alert: There's more truth to it than you might think. From rock-solid communication to shared values, being married to your best friend can set you up for a happy marriage.
In this article:
What Does It Mean to Marry Your Best Friend?
Marrying your best friend doesn't have a literal meaning in that you wear matching friendship bracelets (although if you do—adorable) and that your friendship goes back to the third grade. What it actually means is that your partner is someone you trust completely, laugh with endlessly and lean on in tough times. They're the first person you want to share good news with and the one who knows all your quirks, flaws and dreams—and loves you anyway. There's lots of intimacy that comes naturally, and as a result, nothing feels forced or awkward. Essentially, it's about having a deep friendship at the core of your romantic relationship.
12 Reasons Why You Should Marry Your Best Friend
When your partner is also your best friend, magic happens. Here are some of the top reasons people swear by this age-old advice and the benefits of marrying your best friend.
You'll Always Have Fun Together
Whether you're grocery shopping, partaking in a Netflix marathon or tackling home improvement tasks, your best friend makes even the mundane moments enjoyable. Maybe even fun. A lifetime of fun and laughter? Yes, please.
Communication Is Natural
Best friends know how to talk about everything—and we mean everything. From deep-life discussions to the silliest of memes, communication becomes second nature. If you value communication in your relationship, this is a huge win.
You Share Inside Jokes
Pretty much nothing beats the bond of shared humor. When life gets stressful, you'll always have that funny memory, inside joke or ridiculous nickname to mention and instantly lighten the mood. (Bonus: You can jab at each other lovingly without crossing the line or hurting feelings.)
You'll Have a Built-In Support System
Marrying your best friend means always having someone in your corner. Need advice? They've got you. Feeling down? They'll cheer you up. Up against something tough? They'll act as your cheerleader. Being best friends with your spouse is pretty much like having a personal hype squad, therapist and cheerleader rolled into one.
You've Already Mastered Teamwork
The phrase "it takes two" is a perfect way to describe the teamwork that a marriage requires and that exists naturally between best friends. Whether you're planning a big trip, date night, wedding planning or are working on a 10-year plan, best friends know how to collaborate and do it well. This teamwork translates seamlessly into married life, where decisions and compromises are a daily occurrence.
There's Unmatched Trust
Trust is the foundation of any strong relationship. When it comes to your best friend, you already know they've got your back. Lack of trust doesn't exist because there's an organic, built-in safety net. They're the person you trust with your secrets, your dreams, and, yes, even your weirdest habits.
You Celebrate Each Other's Wins
A best friend genuinely and effortlessly celebrates your victories, big or small, without any air of competition or judgment. They're not just your partner—they're your biggest fan. That kind of unwavering support is essential to a healthy marriage and also fosters confidence in your relationship.
Emotional Intimacy Comes Naturally
You've probably already spent countless hours talking about your fears, goals and past experiences. Shared regrets, the moments that have shaped you and your concerns for the future. This foundation of emotional intimacy creates a deeper bond that strengthens over time.
You Know Each Other's Strengths and Weaknesses
When you marry your best friend, you're well aware of their strengths and weaknesses—and you love them because of, not despite, who they are. This understanding helps you navigate challenges together.
You'll Always Have Someone to Lean On
Life isn't always smooth sailing. But having a partner who's also your best friend means you'll never have to go it alone. They're your co-captain and by your side to weather every high and low with you—the calm shores and the rocky seas.
The Romance Feels Genuine
When your relationship is rooted in friendship, the romance feels more authentic. It's not just about passion (although, obviously, sexual satisfaction is a bonus). It's about building a life with someone who truly gets you and who you genuinely get.
You'll Continue To Grow Together
Best friends encourage each other to grow, learn and evolve. Marrying your best friend means having a partner who'll support your dreams and inspire you to be your best self as the years come and go.