How to Wear Cuff Links: An Easy Expert Guide

Cuff links are a classic go-to when you want to jazz up a suit, tuxedo or dress shirt. They add a touch of style and sophistication without being too bold. If you've never used them before, you're probably wondering exactly how to wear cuff links, and the good news is that it's a super simple process. We consulted an expert on how to make wedding cuff links a part of your big-day look, whether you're the to-be-wed or a guest, and we can almost guarantee that these will become a formal wardrobe staple once you get the hang of them. From instructions on how to put cuff links on to advice on how to style them appropriately, we've addressed every question out there to help transform you into the most stylish person at the event.

In this article:

• How to Wear Cuff Links, According to an Expert
• FAQs About Wearing Cuff Links

How to Wear Cuff Links, According to an Expert

Cuff links are small, functional accessories meant to help fasten the cuffs of a dress shirt—think of them as a detachable button of sorts. Some shirts require the use of cuff links to fasten the sleeve cuffs; for others, it's just an option.

"Wearing cuff links is a simple process, but it requires the right type of shirt," explains Adam Broin, CEO of Cufflinks.com. "Ideally, choose a French cuff shirt, which has no buttons and features only holes specifically for cuff links, or a convertible cuff shirt, which has both buttons and an additional slit to accommodate cuff links."

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Here's how to attach cuff links to a traditional double-cuff shirt.

1. Fold back the cuff: Extend your arm, then use the opposite hand to fold your cuffs back, ensuring that the end edge of the cuff (closest to your fingers) folds to create a neat and even line.

2. Pinch the cuffs together: Hold the two open edges of the shirt cuff together so the edges lay flat, away from the wrist, ensuring that the inside fabric of each cuff edge is pressed together.

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3. Align the cuff link holes: Make sure the cuff link holes are completely aligned and even for easy insertion.

4. Insert and secure the cuff link: Place the cuff link into the aligned holes and secure it closed. Make sure that the decorative part of the cuff link is outwardly displayed and not facing inward.

FAQs About Wearing Cuff Links

Cuff links are versatile accessories that elevate any look and work with a variety of different shirts. As simple as they might be, there are different types and ways to wear them, meaning you may have some questions.

What is the point of cuff links?

Cuff links are both functional and decorative, Broin explains, saying they "hold the cuffs closed while also adding a personal style statement." With some shirts, like French cuff shirts, cuff links are necessary to keep the cuffs closed. With convertible cuff shirts, you can use either cuff links or buttons. Cuff links are more convenient and fun because, unlike buttons, they can be easily removed and you can swap them out whenever you want.

Of course, cuff links can also make the wearer look more stylish and add a unique touch to their overall outfit. "They add a sophisticated touch to any casual or formal attire," Broin says, noting that they are available in a variety of colors, patterns and shapes, allowing you to really show off your personality.

How do I know if a shirt is right for cuff links?

Thanks to more modern designs and accessories, cuff links can be worn with almost any type of dress shirt. Traditionally, though, cuff links are used in place of buttons on shirt cuffs. Take a look at the sleeve cuffs of your shirt: if they don't have buttons (just holes where the buttons should be) that means you can easily use cuff links with them.

Two types of shirts that require cuff links are French cuff shirts (also known as double cuffs) and convertible cuff shirts. "A French cuff shirt features cuffs that are longer and more formal than standard shirt cuffs," Broin explains. These shirts have two sets of holes on each cuff specifically designed for cuff links. Convertible cuffs include a standard button closure but also have additional holes that give you the option to wear cuff links instead. These are the ideal types of shirts to wear with cuff links, according to Broin.

Can you wear cuff links with a shirt that has buttons?

While cuff links may work best with French cuffs or convertible cuffs, they can also be used with shirts that have buttons. You'll need to purchase a cuff link adapter, which can make your shirt cuff link-friendly. "These small accessories loop around the existing button, creating a temporary hole for your cuff link, enabling you to elevate your style with cuff links even on shirts that weren't originally designed for them," Broin says. This is typically a more casual look rather than something more formal. You can also try removing the buttons and simply replacing them with cuff links. You should be able to do it yourself but you could also take it to a tailor and ask them to do it if you'd prefer.

Can you only wear cuff links with a tuxedo?

You do not have to wear a tuxedo to rock a pair of cuff links. "While they are a classic accessory for formal wear, cuff links can be worn in a variety of settings and with different types of attire," Broin says, noting that he encourages people to incorporate them into their everyday style. "From black-tie events to casual outings, cuff links add confidence and sophistication to every outfit," he says.

When should you wear cuff links?

As Broin notes, cuff links are traditionally associated with formal and semi-formal attire—but that isn't a rule you have to follow. Today, there are so many different types of cuff links that they have become versatile enough to wear outside of events like weddings and fancy parties.

"Cuff links can help elevate your look in business settings such as networking events, important meetings and presentations," Broin says. "They can be worn more casually at holiday parties, celebrations, or any time you want to elevate your style and showcase your commitment to putting your best foot forward."

Are there different types of cuff links?

There are a few different types of cuff links.

• Bullet back cuff links: Bullet back cuff links are the most common and widely found. They have a metal bar that is attached to the bridge of the cuff links. It rotates vertically to go through the cuff link hole, then rotates to a horizontal position to stay securely in place.
• Whaleback cuff links: Similar to bullet back cuff links, whaleback cuff links have a bar that attaches to the bridge and rotates from vertical to horizontal to keep the cuff links in place. The bar is shorter and thicker than the bullet back's more slim bar, and looks more like a whale tail, hence the name.
• Fixed back cuff links: Fixed back cuff links don't rotate or move—one side is noticeably larger than the other and they slide through the cuffs manually. These aren't adjustable like bullet backs and whalebacks and some are reversible.
• Ball return cuff links: Ball return is similar to a fixed back, with rounded ends on both sides—ball returns just have ball-shaped ends and the smaller side goes on the back of the cuff link. It is also not adjustable.
• Chain style cuff links: Unlike the other styles, chain style cuff links have a flexible bridge that connects the front and back and looks like a tiny metal chain. Both sides are usually decorative.
• Locking dual-action cuff links: These use a hinge, sort of like a metal watch band, that keeps them firmly in place. They're easy to use and very secure.

What cuff links should I wear?

You want to make sure that your cuff links complement your outfit and any other accessories you're wearing. If you're going to a very formal event in a classic tuxedo or nice suit you may want to opt for more simple cuff links that also have a very classic and formal look. If your suit is more colorful or has a print, or you're wearing something a bit more casual, you may want to opt for cuff links that are more fun, bold and unique. You should also keep the dress code and event in mind. More intricate cuff links are usually better for formal occasions (like weddings), while simple cuff links are typically more appropriate for business events.

That said, you can also have fun with them. "Cuff links are a powerful way to express your individuality," Broin says. "They reflect your values and the pride you take in your appearance, showcasing your attention to detail and personal style in any setting."

What size cuff links should I buy?

Size does matter when it comes to cuff links, as something too big or too small can look awkward. They generally come in two different sizes: standard (usually about 16 millimeters in diameter) or large (usually about 19 mm). When shopping for cuff links, first decide which shirt you're going to wear them with, then measure the cuffs. Standard size fits most shirts, while thicker cuffs can call for large. Standard size is also usually the better option for a formal event since it's more subtle, while large can be better for a more casual affair—or if you really want to make your cuff links obvious.