The Most Romantic Getaways in New Jersey

A romantic getaway in NJ offers so many backdrops that even locals can stay in-state for a vacation and feel like they're getting a change of scenery. The state may be small, but it's as jam-packed with opportunities for couples getaways as the turnpike at rush hour.

More than a state of "exits," despite jokes stating otherwise, Jersey has lauded shore points with breathtaking views and tons of things to do courtesy of boardwalks, resorts and nightlife that keep you on your feet long after you've witnessed the sunset over the Atlantic. Its close proximity to New York City gives way to skyline views, minus the price tag of staying on that side of the Hudson.

The accommodation options for a couples getaway in NJ are as diverse as the landscape. You'll find coastal spa resorts that feel like a tranquil oasis and bed-and-breakfasts in Cape May, NJ, that leave you feeling like you've gone back to simpler times. Many offer easy access to the state's greatest hits (and we're not talking about those in Bruce Springsteen's catalog). From idyllic oceanside inns to sprawling resorts with nightclubs, these are the best spots for a romantic getaway in NJ.

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Romantic Weekend Getaways in NJ

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Planning a vacation can be stressful enough. Where to stay? For how long? And how can you make your time away feel like a true escape? Add on the numerous options for romantic weekend getaways in NJ for couples—from the city to the shore—and it can feel like your vacation is causing stress when it should be relieving it. In New Jersey, some hotels offer romantic weekend getaway packages that take the guesswork out of planning. Consider them like a prix-fixe menu at a restaurant but with in-room massages, flowers and sweet indulgences delivered to your door.

Woolverton Inn, Stockton

This elegant inn by the New Jersey and Pennsylvania border is a 10-minute drive from New Hope, Pennsylvania. But a stay at Woolverton Inn feels like an escape all its own. It's tempting not to leave a bed with soft, fine linens, and the three-course breakfast offered is positively divine. Woolverton Inn has numerous packages for couples, including ones geared toward honeymoons and proposals. Just looking for a romantic getaway? Thankfully, the luxurious spa package fits that bill in spades. The sweet-as-pie deal includes in-room 45-minute massages, local truffles, and bath salts for a romantic-meets-relaxing soak in the tub.

Things to Do: Golden Nugget Antique Flea Market, Peddler's Village, downtown New Hope, Hunterdon Land Trust Dvoor Farmers Market, The Delaware and Raritan (D&R) Canal State Park, Heron Glen Golf Course and ride a hot air balloon.

6 Woolverton Rd, Stockton, NJ 08559

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The Virginia Hotel and Cottages, Cape May

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Situated in an 1879 guest house in downtown Cape May, The Virginia Hotel and Cottages is more than a summer hot spot. Though its bright autumn foliage and the boundless charm of its farm-to-table restaurant The Ebbitt Room make it great for fall, it's also an all-seasons destination. The "Evening to Remember" package can be booked as an intimate mid-week jaunt or a luxurious weekend escape. Share a candlelit dinner for two in The Ebbitt Room, followed by complimentary breakfast in the morning after an extended snuggle on a comfy bed. A spa on-site and easy access to shopping nearby adds to the fun.

Things to Do: West End Garage shopping center, The Shops at Tommy's Folly, whale watching, beach yoga and private tours.

25 Jackson St, Cape May, NJ 08204

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Spring Lake Inn, Spring Lake

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Not far from the noted Jenkinson's Boardwalk and all its games and carnival rides, Spring Lake Inn offers a quiet escape from the lively summer tourist hot spot. The 1888 B&B is set in an elegant white mansion. Its rooms are individually decorated, with four-poster beds that feel quaint and ocean vistas that feel timeless. The Ultimate Romantic Getaway Package includes a dozen roses, chocolates, breakfast at a table just for you two and a bottle of white or sparkling wine to toast to great adventures. Badges for the ocean beach a block away are included for all guests.

Things to Do: Spring Lake Beach and Boardwalk, Spring Lake Historical Society and Jenkinson's Boardwalk.

104 Salem Ave, Spring Lake, NJ 07762

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Best Resorts in NJ for a Couples Getaway

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You may run into trouble if you're looking for all-inclusive resorts in NJ like those you'd find on a Caribbean honeymoon. However, many Jersey resorts offer deals with perks like spa and restaurant credits that give them all-inclusive appeal. And even those that don't have all-inclusive packages offer scenery so postcard-perfect that they're worth booking at full price.

Ocean Casino Resort, Atlantic City

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"Casino" immediately connotes card games and slot machines, but Ocean Casino Resort is a decorated spot that offers so much more. Dance like it's your wedding day at one of two nightclubs, or find something bound to meet your cravings at one of the 10—yes, 10—on-site restaurants. Up for an adventure? The famed boardwalk is two miles away. Throughout the year, couples can take advantage of packages with bar and restaurant credits, making this a worthy choice for those searching for romantic getaways in NJ with all-inclusive-style perks.

Things to Do: Atlantic City Boardwalk, entertainment at Ovation Hall, HQ2 Nightclub or Beachclub, Exhale Spa and Bathhouse, Borgata Casino and Absecon Lighthouse.

500 Boardwalk, Atlantic City, NJ 08401

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La Mer Beachfront Resort, Cape May

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Cape May's accommodations are often warm, intimate and set in mansions. La Mer Beachfront Resort offers a more traditional hotel setting—and that's by no means a bad thing. Guests will have access to all the trappings of a romantic getaway. Not into sandy shoes or need a break from the waves? Soak in a heated outdoor pool with poolside food and beverage service. A fitness center lets you keep your workout streak alive. Condo accommodations have full kitchens for private dining, and a cocktail lounge is full of spirits (and spirited cocktails). A romance package comes with a bottle of bubbly, a daily breakfast credit and chocolate-covered strawberries.

Things to Do: Dinner cruise, bike rental, Washington Street Mall and Cape May Lighthouse.

1317 Beach Ave, Cape May, NJ 08204

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Mountain Creek Resort, Vernon

The Poconos in Pennsylvania and New York's Catskills region draw the lion's share of Tri-State ski bunnies. Don't skimp on Mountain Creek, though. Set in Vernon, NJ, Mountain Creek has trails for all levels and lessons. There's also a waterpark that makes a splash and a bike park with epic leaf-peeping opportunities in the fall. Mountain Creek Resort includes access to a pool and hot tub, a market for packing a picnic, on-site dining and a fire pit designed with snuggling in mind.

Things to Do: Ski, bike, Mountain Creek Waterpark and zipline.

200 NJ-94, Vernon Township, NJ 07462

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The Best Spa Resorts in NJ for Couples

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While truly all-inclusive spa resorts in NJ are hard to come by, ones with breathtaking views and luxurious treatments are available to add romance to your R&R. From beachfront surroundings to a mountain hideaway, these New Jersey spa resorts are picture-perfect for a romantic getaway.

Borgata Hotel, Casino and Spa, Atlantic City

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Whether it's a bachelorette weekend or a couple's getaway, a trip to Atlantic City almost always includes visiting Borgata Hotel, Casino and Spa. And if you can stay there? Even better. The high-end resort near a marina has stylish rooms with soaking tubs and showers that fit two. Dining options read like a Food Network fan's dream—Michael Symon's Angeline (Italian) and Izakaya by Michael Schulson (Japanese) are among the restaurant choices for a delicious date night. Couples massages are among the array of services offered at the spa. Nightclubs, concerts from notable names like Counting Crows, and indoor and outdoor pools offer more than a fair share of non-gaming entertainment.

Things to Do: Nightlife, Angeline by Michael Symon, Izakaya by Michael Schulson, concerts and other live entertainment and Tanger Outlets Atlantic City.

Borgata Hotel, Casino & Spa, 1 Borgata Way, Atlantic City, NJ 08401

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Wave Resort, Long Branch

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Wave Resort is close to the local train station, offering easy access for out-of-towners. Step into this spa resort and feel like you've traveled miles away from reality. Some of the rooms boast floor-to-ceiling windows with dazzling ocean vistas. A spa offers classic and deep-tissue massages. Once rejuvenated, a trip to the Long Branch Boardwalk is in order—it's down the street. Bonus for couples who are also pet parents: Pet-friendly accommodations allow you to turn your beachside retreat into a family vacation.

Things to Do: Long Branch Boardwalk and Beach, Seven Presidents Oceanfront Park and Lake Takanassee.

110 Ocean Ave N, Long Branch, NJ 07740

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Crystal Springs Resort's Grand Cascades Lodge, Hamburg

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New Jersey isn't all glimpses of the Manhattan skyline and the Atlantic Ocean. With areas along the Appalachian Mountain Range, it's also home to mountain retreats. Crystal Springs Resort's Grand Cascades Lodge in Hamburg is among the state's top-rated. Situated an hour (plus a world away) from New York City, this upscale resort combines cozy natural surroundings and outdoor fireplaces with modern creature comforts like spa treatments and flat-screen TVs. A grand romance retreat includes massages and a romantic wine dinner for two with seven—count 'em seven—courses.

Things to Do: TreEscape Aerial Adventure Park, Mountain Creek Waterpark, ski at Mountain Creek Resort and apple picking.

3 Wild Turkey Way, Hamburg, NJ 07419

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Romantic Hotels in New Jersey

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Still on the hunt for the perfect resting spot for your weekend getaway in NJ? From easy access to the city to accommodations seemingly an arm's length away from the sand, these romantic hotels in New Jersey offer something for any couple.

The Reeds at Shelter Haven, Stone Harbor

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A boutique hotel that's a mere six-minute hand-in-hand stroll from Stone Harbor Beach, The Reeds at Shelter Haven is full of unpretentious but upscale charm and perks. Though the beach is within walking distance, an attendant can chauffeur you there during the summer, and beach butlers can come carrying lunch and other bites. An on-site spa naturally offers couples massages, including options with hot stones. A romance package includes spa and dining credits, Champagne and chocolate-covered strawberries, and a two-night stay.

Things to Do: Seven Mile Beach and The Wetlands Institute.

9601 3rd Ave, Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

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W Hoboken, Hoboken

Set in the happening city of Hoboken, this chic high-rise offers dazzling views of the Hudson River and the New York City skyline. An easy walk from the PATH system, W Hoboken is ideal for couples who plan to make the most of their stay near the NJ-NYC border. Loaner bikes are complimentary for those who prefer two wheels to mass transit. A tapas bar with delicious shareable plates, a so-cool cocktail lounge and a spa play into Hoboken's trendy vibe.

Things to Do: New York City skyline by night, Hoboken Waterfront Walkway, Pier A Park and Amanda's (restaurant).

225 River St, Hoboken, NJ 07030

4.5 Star Rating | Read Reviews

Bed and Breakfasts in Cape May, NJ

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Cape May's seaside surroundings and Victorian homes make a vacation in the resort town feel like a trip back in time. These bed-and-breakfasts in Cape May, NJ, offer a warm vibe and understated elegance that epitomize the area.

The Southern Mansion, Cape May

No need to simply look in awe at Cape May's quintessential mansions—you can stay in one. The Southern Mansion is housed in an 1860s Italianate home with distinct green shutters. During warmer months, the lush greenery on the pristinely manicured grounds give the spot 360-degree charm. Come winter? It's positively ethereal. "Little extras" couples can add to their stay include cheese and charcuterie, chocolate-covered strawberries, and a picnic that's perfect to take to the beach (which is a nine-minute stroll from the B&B). Beach chairs are provided during the summer.

Things to Do: Cape May Lighthouse, Willow Creek Winery, whale watching, Cape May National Golf Club and The Original Fudge Kitchen.

720 Washington St, Cape May, NJ 08204

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Beauclaires Bed and Breakfast Inn, Cape May

A daily family-style, two-course homemade breakfast and afternoon tea are among the cozy amenities offered at Beauclaires Bed and Breakfast Inn. The latter can be enjoyed on the porch. Located just one block from the beach, this bed-and-breakfast in Cape May, NJ, is small. Set in a stunning Victorian-era mansion, it has just six rooms, ensuring true peace. Some rooms have fireplaces and ocean vistas. A library and a sunroom leave space for a quiet retreat between your beach day and dinner reservations.

Things to Do: 410 Bank Street, Cape May Fish Market, Cape May Winery and Vineyard and Cape May County Park and Zoo.

23 Ocean St, Cape May, NJ 08204

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The Mason Cottage Bed and Breakfast, Cape May

Beach-goers will love The Mason Cottage Bed and Breakfast's three-minute walk to the resort town's sandy shores. The restored Victorian mansion also offers quaint elegance. The seaside retreat allows for year-round romance, with fireplaces and furniture that harken back to the 1800s. An Anytime Romance Package plays into the retreat's four-season appeal complete with a bottle of bubbly and flowers for couples. Beach towels, chairs and complimentary beach cruiser bikes are provided during summer.

Things to Do: Cape May Beach, West Cape May Farmers Market, Vintage BYOB and Washington Street Mall.

623 Columbia Ave, Cape May, NJ 08204

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Romantic Cabins in New Jersey

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Quaint inns, seaside resorts and luxury cottages are worth considering for a couples getaway in New Jersey. But pairs hoping to be closer to nature can find a home in cabin rentals across the Garden State. Not all require you to completely rough it, with some Jersey cabin rentals boasting hot tubs, kitchenettes and other amenities.

Beach Plum Farm, Cape May

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Beloved and frequented by locals and visitors alike, this luxury resort property offers standalone cabins or cottages for a more private and discreet experience in bustling Cape May. Couples can enjoy the farm's acclaimed BYOB and organic farm-to-table seasonal dinners. Summers are perfect for reclining by the outdoor saltwater pool (for guests only), while fall is ideal for a cozy and crisp weekend getaway.

Things to Do: Cape May historic home tour and yoga on the beach.

140 Stevens St, West Cape May, NJ 08204

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Yogi Bear's Jellystone Park Camp-Resort, Williamstown

An outdoor fun haven in South Jersey, Yogi Bear's Jellystone Park Camp-Resort's accommodations include cabins with beds, full bathrooms (and running water), refrigerators and fire rings readymade for marshmallow roasting. A no-fuss on-site eatery, Pic-a-Nic Basket, serves simple-but-classic eats like breakfast sandwiches and hot dogs to fuel your South Jersey adventures. An on-site beach, arcade and Olympic-size pool are no-brainer itinerary items.

Things to Do: Atlantic City, Steel Pier Amusement Park and a Philadelphia tour.

117 Coles Mill Rd, Williamstown, NJ 08094

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Ocean View Resort Campground, Ocean View

Woodland or ocean retreat? The Ocean View Resort Campground ensures couples don't have to make that tough call. Set on 180 acres of woodland, the resort offers cabins and cottage rentals that feel more like homes than campsites. Think full bathrooms, kitchenettes, running water for hot showers after days of outdoor fun, and fire rings for s'more making. Though it's not far from the ocean, the white-sand freshwater lake beach is one way to make a splash. Pickleball courts, cornhole by the lake, and paddleboard and kayak rentals are other options for making the most of your stay.

Things to Do: Morey's Pier Amusement Parks, Carmen's Seafood Restaurant, Historic Cold Spring Village, Wildwood and Cape May Lighthouse.

2555 Shore Rd, Ocean View, NJ 08230

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Winding River Campground, Hamilton

Winding River Campground is set on the picturesque Egg Harbor River, an off-the-beaten-path spot to stay if you're hitting the Atlantic City area. The staff there like to say Winding River Campground has "everything you need but the casinos," but they're only minutes away from them. This spot is a playground all its own, with kayaks, canoes and tubing. Hike through forests, catch a fish or just snuggle and watch the sunset. Bonus: It's pet-friendly.

Things to Do: Rent a canoe or kayak, Atlantic City, Grounds for Sculpture and Hamilton Mall.

6752 Weymouth Rd, Mays Landing, NJ 08330

4.4 Star Rating | Read Reviews

Unique Vacation Rentals in NJ

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For a truly distinct New Jersey getaway, consider a home rental. Airbnbs and Vrbos in NJ allow guests to make their home away from home in someone else's bungalow.

Beachblock, Ocean City

Beachblock, a Vrbo in Ocean City, NJ, is conveniently located mere steps from the waterpark—it's literally a one-minute stroll. The boardwalk isn't much further by foot (four minutes away and no need to cross the street). Atlantic City is within driving distance (23 minutes). The tiny studio retreat feels warm and inviting, with blue accent doors and light, airy walls. Catch views of the ocean, bay and boardwalk as you sip coffee before heading out there yourself.

Things to Do: OC Waterpark, Ocean City Boardwalk, Gillian's Wonderland Pier, Ocean City Beach and Three Brothers Pizza.

4.9 Star Rating | Read Reviews

Cozy Lakeview Cottage, Lake Hopatcong

Couples searching for a New Jersey cabin rental will want to consider this Cozy Lakeview Cottage. The NJ Vrbo is a newly renovated retreat that is just an hour from New York City but feels like a different place in time—stunning lakeside views are part of the package. The location offers proximity to nearby watersports, farms and wineries. A fully equipped kitchen stocked by the host (a chef) and a fireplace set the stage for a cozy night in.

Things to Do: Hopatcong State Park, Roxbury Mall and Raccoon Island.

4.9 Star Rating | Read Reviews

Homey Studio + Rooftop, Hoboken

Couples hoping to be near the center of the action with a unique spot to stay will want to peep this Hoboken studio. The Homey Studio + Rooftop is an Airbnb in NJ that is perfect for a two-person travel party. Guests have access to the rooftop, which provides requisite views of the Manhattan skyline. The location offers easy access to the city's attractions for couples hoping to visit New York during their stay. But Hoboken's bustling, walkable nature and ample eateries and bars make it a destination all its own.

Things to Do: Hoboken walking tour, New York City, Private NJ/NYC American Revolution Tour, Statue of Liberty and Augustino's.

4.9 Star Rating | Read Reviews