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A Jersey Shore Bachelorette Party City Guide to Plan Your Weekend

Boardwalks, beaches, and TV-famous nightlife
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Allyson Johnson
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Allyson Johnson
Wedding Planning Contributor
  • Allyson writes articles for The Knot specializing in registries, wedding planning, and travel.
  • She’s written articles on such topics as best bachelorette and bachelor party destinations, top bridal shower games, and registry gifts.
  • Allyson has also written for WeddingWire, Brides.com, Brit + Co., and Bustle.
Updated Aug 30, 2023
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Snooki and JWoww may have helped put the Jersey Shore on the map, but there's plenty of room to carve out your own kind of fun at a Jersey Shore bachelorette party. This bachelorette party destination includes plenty of beach time, boardwalk romps, and that famously wild nightlife. Plan a bach weekend itinerary with a ton of activities to put your own bride squad's stamp on the Jersey Shore.

Jersey Shore Bachelorette Party Planning in this Article:

Jersey Shore Bachelorette Party Ideas and Themes

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The Jersey Shore is a long stretch along the Atlantic, which means there is a beach and vibe to fit every bride. For a party scene, make your way to Atlantic City, Wildwood, or Seaside Heights (where season 1 of Jersey Shore was filmed). For a more low-key vibe, Cape May may be your style. Or for something in between, head to Asbury Park, Point Pleasant or Ocean City. All have something great to offer, and of course, you can hop around on a long weekend at the shore in cute matching outfits that let everyone know who the bride's crew is.

For the Beach Bums

There is plenty of white sand to enjoy on the Jersey Shore, and locals and seasonal vacationers will argue you to death over which is the best. You won't go wrong in finding your spot to lay in the sand, but it may come down to the boardwalk: For a hipster vibe, choose Asbury Park, whose boardwalk boasts beautiful, colorful murals. For thrills, check out the rides at Morey's Pier. Or check out the restaurants, bars, and shops (plus rides) at Seaside Heights's boardwalk after catching the sun.

For the Nightlife Lovers

It goes without saying that proximity to the clubs and casinos of Atlantic City makes the Jersey Shore an ideal spot for bachelorette parties. But if you want to stay local, there are plenty of clubs, tiki bars, and more in every spot.

For Wine and Beer Aficionados

You shouldn't be surprised that there are craft breweries and top-notch wineries surrounding this party capital. Take a tour of some of the best suds, including Beach Haus Brewery (Belmar), Last Wave Brewing Company (Point Pleasant), Ship Bottom Brewery (Beach Haven) and Slack Tide Brewing Company (Cape May). Or sip some vino on tasting tours of Cape May Winery, Turdo Vineyards & Winery, and Jessie Creek Winery.

Jersey Shore Bachelorette Party Itinerary and Activities

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A Jersey Shore bachelorette party is full of sunbathing and ocean play, boardwalk hopping, and a busy nightlife scene that ranges from tiki bars to nightclubs. Get it all in with this three-day Jersey Shore bachelorette itinerary:

Day 1

Morning: After checking into your hotel or AirBnB, then head to Toast in Asbury Park for your first breakfast or brunch. This cozy spot offers delicious fare including grilled cinnamon buns, huevos rancheros, disco eggs (that's served with fries, brown gravy, and cheese curds), and red velvet pancakes.

Afternoon: It's a no brainer to spend your first day at the Shore on the shore. Since you're already in Asbury Park for brunch, head to the adjacent beach to sunbathe and splash in the waves. Once you've got your fill of sand and sun, don't forget to check out the boardwalk, and stop in in the Wonder Bar, for drinks, live music, and snacks on the outdoor deck. Keep happy hour going at the oceanfront Beach Bar for cocktails.

Evening: After a quick change, it's time to continue happy hour. Head to The Shrimp Box in Point Pleasant for cocktails and frozen drinks on the outside patio and some tasty apps, including East Coast Oysters, jumbo shrimp cocktail, and crab and artichoke dip. Then you're off to dinner at The Poached Pear, and elegant spot in Point Pleasant serving food like duck confit ravioli and pistachio-panko crusted salmon. For your night out head to Jenks Club (an infamous Jersey Shore spot) for an indoor/outdoor night club and DJ beach parties or Martell's a tiki-style beach bar with live music and DJs, and plenty of frozen drinks and dancing.

Day 2

Morning: Breakfast today is lighter fare, at Playa Bowls, with locations up and down the Jersey Shore. This popular franchise spot offers acai, pitaya, or coconut bowls—in premade combos or custom ordered—as well as delicious smoothies and fresh juices.

Afternoon: Today, make your way to what may be the party capital of New Jersey—Atlantic City. It's about an hour's drive from Asbury Park, if that's your home base, so consider renting a limo or car service for the day depending on where you're coming from. Stop for lunch on arrival at the famous White House Subs to share some tasty hoagies among the group. Start with some R&R for the bride and her crew at Qua Baths and Spa in Caesar's Hotel where a plethora of options from massages to manicures are on offer along with Roman-style baths. Then walk the famous Atlantic City Boardwalk and try your hand at a few slot machines along the way. Grab happy hour bites at Dock's Oyster House before heading out for the night.

Evening: Dinner tonight is at the stylish Buddakan, which serves Pan-Asian fare in a zen-inspired atmosphere. Consider the Chef's Tasting menu for your party, which comes with four apps, four mains (think Asian barbecue pork and wasabi-crusted filet mignon), two sides, and dessert—all shared family style. Then it's out for a night out. If she's into a show, consider stopping in at Savage Man where she'll ogle at the male striptease show (and take part in some bachelorette contests). Then head to The Pool After Dark in Harrah's, a lively multi-level nightclub surrounding a large indoor pool (table service is served in the poolside cabanas) with an outdoor rooftop deck, too.

Day 3

Morning: Head to My Kitchen Witch Cafe in Monmouth Beach for classic brunch fare that will cure any Atlantic City hangover. Menu items include bottomless tea and coffee, plus witchy-named breakfast items like Glinda the Green Witch avocado toast, an Alacazam BLT, and Broomstick Hilda chicken salad sandwiches.

Afternoon: Take the afternoon to hit the water a group paddle board. Rent your gear from SUP Guy (locations in Wildwood, Avalon, Stone Harbor, Sea Isle, Margate, and Ocean City) and take to the water. Or, if you want to keep the party going, book a brewery and winery tour through Day Sipper Tours to explore three South Jersey breweries, wineries, or distilleries of your choice, with tastings included with transportation and your guide.

Evening: For your last dinner, head to The Parker House in Sea Grit. The restaurant and bar offer a robust cocktail menu, and a killer dinner, including dishes like jumbo sea scallops and lobster fried rice. From there, head to The Osprey in Manasquan, just a five-minute drive away. The nightclub is open all summer and hosts live bands every night, plus 10 bars.

Jersey Shore Bachelorette Scavenger Hunt

Turn your itinerary into a game with a Jersey Shore scavenger hunt for some fun and friendly competition. Distribute a list of activities with points awarded for each completed task and ask participants to provide proof with pictures. Download an editable template to customize the list and include local attractions and sights. Don't forget to give the winner a prize such as a cute souvenir or T-shirt.

Places to Stay in the Jersey Shore for a Bachelorette Party

If you're staying in one place, the Jersey Shore is easy to navigate by foot, bike, or cab. If you're planning to hop around from beach to beach, be prepared to pay for Ubers or a car service. With plenty of transportation options, you can take your pick of a home base.

Best Jersey Shore Bachelorette Hotels

These hotels are ideal for fun-loving wedding parties.

Wave Resort: Located in Long Branch, this is a top-of-budget hotel that offers luxe, oceanfront accommodations, a beachfront pool, modern-style rooms, spa, and concierge service on the beach.

Asbury Hotel: This spot is as hipster as the nearby boardwalk, with a coffee bar, colorful lobby cocktail bar, and roof deck bar, as well. Plus the room options include suites with plenty of lounging areas for your whole group.

Casa del Mar: For the ultimate in beach chic, this picturesque boutique hotel is ideal for a bachelorette party. Plus, it's within walking distance to many Point Pleasant Sspots.

Best Jersey Shore Bachelorette Party Home Rentals

Prefer to stay in a rental home? There are plenty of housing options for a Jersey Shore bachelorette party, so check out TripAdvisor, VRBO, Airbnb, Expedia, and Hopper Homes. Here are some fabulous options:

Ortley Beach Waterfront Penthouse: This unit sleeps up to nine and has a deck with a hot tub overlooking the freshwater lagoon that's great for swimming and paddling. It's just a short 14-minute jaunt to Vision Beach from here.

Home in Ocean Grove: Outfitted in modern luxury, it is perfect for up to eight guests and just steps away from the beach in Asbury Park.

Wonderful Beach Block Home with Ocean Views: For a larger group, this heritage 8-bedroom house is just minutes from the beach and boardwalk, has plenty of lounging space, outdoor areas, and is perfect for large groups—it sleeps up to 22.

Jersey Shore Bachelorette Party Nightlife

If you're traveling out to the Jersey Shore, there are plenty of places to eat delicious seafood and fist pump the night away at the local bars. Here are some of our favorite recommendations for restaurants and clubs along the shore.

Best Jersey Shore Bachelorette Restaurants

Bahrs Landing Famous Seafood Restaurant & Marina: This low key spot in Jersey Shore has been a staple since 1917. It's a great place to indulge in some fresh seafood like a rare tuna steak, some juicy fried whole belly clams, creamy lobster bisque, and chowders.

Vic's Italian Restaurant: If you're craving Italian, the family run operation is a longtime classic on the shore. Share some thin crust, cheesy Pizzas created with their scratch made dough or their Fried Cheese Ravioli.

Rooney's Oceanfront Restaurant: For fresh seafood and raw bar items, Rooney's Oceanfront is the spot. This is the place to get your seafood fix with middle-neck clams, shrimp, oysters and bloody mary shooters. Try the Rooney's Oysters stuffed with celery, pickle, dehydrated olive, and Rooney's Classic Bloody Mary Mix before filling the table with warm apps and entrees like the Whole Baked Artichoke with breadcrumbs, scampi sauce, and parmesan cheese or Maine Lobster Dinners.

Best Jersey Shore Bachelorette Party Bars

Headliner Oasis: Dance all night at Headliner, a local nightclub with good energy and live music from bands to a DJ, in addition to bottle service. They have ticketed Pool Parties, which are also a great idea for a bachelorette group with VIP reservations available.

Donovan's Reef: Relax with your group at Donovan's at the outdoor tiki bar or grab a seat on the patio listening to the live music by the water. This is a nice environment for a chill evening by the beach.

Martell's Tiki Bar: Martell's Tiki Bar is a great place to let loose with your friends, dancing while sipping tropical drinks by the beach. The tiki bar has a stage where live bands often perform, right near Point Pleasant Beach, a great location along the Jersey Shore.

Expert Jersey Shore Travel Tips

When traveling to the Jersey Shore from NYC, the NJTransit on the North Jersey Coast Line train from Penn Station is a great option. For flights from the West Coast to Atlantic City, there are options with airlines like American and Spirit. The best time to visit the Jersey Shore is during the summer, anywhere between May and September, when the shore is in full swing. On the Jersey Shore, walking is a great option, but there are also ferries, trams, shuttles, and of course, cabs are here!