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These Are the 10 Best Places for a Winery Bachelorette Party

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Vineyards in Finger Lakes, New York
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Wendy Rose Gould
by Wendy Rose Gould
Updated Sep 11, 2025
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Whether your bachelorette crew consists of everyday sort of wine lovers or they proudly know the difference between a gewĂĽrztraminer and chenin blanc, a winery bachelorette party is a no-brainer. Picture it now: all your "I do" besties whisked away to a scenic, wine-themed weekend at gorgeous vineyards across the United States, where the vino runneth over, the charcuterie boards are plentiful, the views are stunning and there's ample time for bonding, gabbing and just relaxing. In this guide, we've got you covered with details about the best wine regions for groups across the US, along with where to stay, play and sip great wines at each.

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1. Napa Valley, California

We couldn't kick off a winery roundup without including one of the world's most popular wine destinations: California's Napa Valley. Home to more than 400 wineries, as well as picturesque resorts, delicious restaurants, spas, a downtown, nightlife and outdoor activities, there's so much to love about and do in Napa for a bachelorette trip.

Vineyard in Napa Valley, California
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Wineries in Napa to visit: A must-do bachelorette activity is the Napa Valley Wine Train, a 36-mile round-trip wine country experience complete with winery tours, onboard cuisine and stunning views. If your girls prefer sparkling, make a reservation at Chandon for light bites and bubbly. Come mealtime, head to FARM at Carneros for delicious bites and live music.

Where to stay: There's truly no shortage of options. Some of our favorites include Andaz Napa by Hyatt (located in downtown Napa), as well as the Carneros Resort and Spa. Nearby Hotel Healdsburg (about an hour away) is also a cute, tiny town in the area that's perfect as your wine weekend base camp. They even offer experiences like open-air vineyard painting classes and hands-on harvest adventures.

2. Sonoma County, California

Though Napa and Sonoma are often linked together, California's Sonoma Valley has its own distinct feel. While Napa gives high-end and polished experiences with its Michelin-starred restaurants and tasting rooms, Sonoma brings the chill with its more than 100 wineries. It's a more laid-back, diverse and expansive region, with dining that leans more farm-to-table versus glitzy. Here you'll find both family-owned, rustic tasting rooms and sophisticated estates, but it feels more approachable.

Landmark Vineyards, Sonoma County
Photo: Landmark Vineyards

Wineries in Sonoma to visit: We recommend starting within the famed Russian River Valley, home to Russian River Vineyards and Landmark Vineyards. The latter, located at the foothills of the Mayacamas Mountains, offers event packages, a variety of tastings and bottle service. Another excellent option is Jordan Vineyard and Winery in Alexander Valley, an idyllic winery known for its chardonnay and cabernet sauvignon.

Where to stay: For an off-the-beaten-path stay in Napa, book at the historic Churchill Manor (the photo ops are wild). If you're thinking something more posh, check out the Four Seasons Resort and Residences Napa Valley. And Hotel Yountville Resort and Spa gives major Italian countryside vibes.

3. Verde Valley, Arizona

Your first thought of Arizona might not be a wine haven, but this arid climate is actually perfect for growing delicious grapes and making wine. Arizona's Verde Valley Wine Trail, which stretches across Sedona, Prescott, and Cottonwood, is full of unique wineries. And with the foothills and red rocks as a backdrop, you can even weave in hiking, sightseeing and Sedona's mysticism into your bachelorette itinerary.

Verde Valley, Arizona
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Wineries in Verde Valley to visit: Sip your way through the Verde Valley Wine Trail with standout stops like Page Springs Cellars, known for RhĂ´ne-style wines and creekside views, and Alcantara Vineyards, where you can pair tastings with a kayak tour. For a vibe that feels very Southwestern, D.A. Ranch Estate Vineyards offers porch parties with live music.

Where to stay: Park it in Sedona, where the views are never-ending and there's so much to eat. We love the newly renovated Sky Rock Sedona, which delivers on those red rock views and has some really fun programming for guests (like live music, tarot readings and palm reading). For a super-bougie stay, check out adult-only Ambiente, where the chef is on point with creative meals and the rooms are right out of an influencer's dream. For something more low-key, check out Lantern Light Inn.

4. Hudson Valley, New York

Let's travel to the East Coast, where New York's Hudson Valley serves up a refined destination for bachelorette winery tours. The Valley is a National Heritage Area and the oldest wine-producing area in the country—and along with sipping vino, there's so much more to do during your bash. In addition to wineries, the Hudson Valley is home to breweries, distilleries and cideries, so you can satisfy all palates.

Millbrook Vineyards and Winery, Hudson Valley
Photo: Millbrook Vineyards and Winery

Wineries in Hudson Valley to visit: You've got to put Brotherhood Winery on your list. It's America's oldest (and arguably most dramatic) winery thanks to underground cave tours and tastings. Another don't-miss is Millbrook Vineyards and Winery, an award-winning estate with a Dutch-style tasting room, seasonal food trucks and live music events. For creative wines and a boutique vibe, Fjord Vineyards pours some great varietals with a picturesque vineyard backdrop.

Where to stay: For a super chic stay, make reservations for your crew at The Ranch Hudson Valley. If you're going for bachelorette vibes of epic proportions, check out Mohonk Mountain House, which is not a house—it's a literal Victorian castle. Keep things low-key at The Wick Hotel, a Tribute Portfolio property.

5. Finger Lakes, New York

Also in New York is the Finger Lakes region, which is located on the other side of the state from the Hudson Valley. (Pssst! This area is especially known for its incredible Rieslings.) Like the Hudson Valley, this East Coast winery bachelorette destination is home to breweries, cideries and distilleries, along with a smattering of casinos if you want to try your luck. You can also enjoy horseback riding, shopping, fishing, dining, boating and relaxing at the spa (a perfect complement to a wine weekend if you ask us).

Finger Lakes, New York
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Wineries in Finger Lakes to visit: At Pleasant Valley Wine Company, sip rich sparkling wines at America's first bonded winery (established in 1860), and tour their historic estate and cellars. For a sweet-wine treat, Hunt Country Vineyards pours award-winning Vidal ice wine. And for a more curated experience, opt into a guided multi-winery tasting or private shuttle via TripAdvisor to glide through Seneca, Cayuga or Keuka Lake trails (sans driving stress).

Where to stay: For lodging, the Savannah House Wine Country Inn and Cottages offers a variety of inclusive packages. If you'd prefer to indulge in spa treatments and an on-site winery, check out Belhurst Castle. Watkins Glen Harbor Hotel offers a luxurious stay on Seneca Lake close to shopping and wine trails.

6. Charlottesville, Virginia

Bachelorette in Charlottesville, and you'll be within a short distance of the Monticello Wine Trail. The region isn't just ideal for Hamilton enthusiasts—it's a bucolic retreat along the foothills of the Blue Ridge Mountains, enhanced by its wine offering. With more than 40 wineries, charming countryside inns and a vibrant downtown scene, Charlottesville offers a perfect mix of wine, culture and celebration for a bach trip.

Monticello Wine Trail, Charlottesville, Virginia
Photo: Monticello Wine Trail

Wineries in Charlottesville to visit: Numerous wine tours and transportation services abound, including Monticello Wine Tour and Coach Co. and Norm's Executive Transportation. Some specific wineries we recommend are Barboursville Vineyards, where you can brag about sipping on the famed Octagon Bordeaux blend, Veritas Vineyards set against the Blue Ridge backdrop and Blenheim Vineyards (owned by Dave Matthews).

Where to stay: Set your bags down at the Graduate by Hilton Charlottesville, where eclectic comforts of home design and luxury accommodations intersect, Boar's Head Resort for a vineyard vibey stay or Oakhurst Inn for a chic, intimate getaway.

7. Willamette Valley, Oregon

Fun fact: Oregon's leading wine region has a whopping 700 wineries, and the area is especially known for its pinot noir. It's also a short distance from Portland, so you can enjoy the city and the valley during your trip. The region has resorts, bed-and-breakfasts, hotels and vacation rentals, so you can settle in wherever you feel comfortable.

Domaine Serene winery in Willamette Valley, Oregon
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Wineries in Willamette Valley to visit: Bachelorette party groups can visit wineries in bachelorette style with Crush Wine Bar's private tour offering; the trip comes with complimentary bottled water, stocked built-in ice boxes, glass champagne flutes, stemless wine glasses, and disposable cups with lids and straws. Wineries you've gotta hit include Domaine Serene, a luxe estate known for its award-winning pinot noir and chardonnay, and eco-focused Sokol Blosser Winery.

Where to stay: Go big and rent the entire MaMere's Guest House, which sleeps up to 14, to enjoy comforts like bathrobes, handmade soaps, an electric fireplace and a home base a short distance from wineries, breweries, cideries and plenty of restaurants. The Valley River Inn in Eugene offers a clean, comfy and classic stay with riverfront views, spacious rooms and a resort-style pool, and The Allison Inn and Spa delivers on high-end resort vibes.

8. Hill Country, Texas

The Texas Hill Country is well-known for many things, including its robust wine scene. There are more than 50 wineries in the Hill Country, offering much to explore and take advantage of during your trip. We recommend staying in the top bachelorette city, Austin, which puts you not only close to many wineries along the Texas Wine Trail but also allows your "I do" crew to enjoy all that the bachelorette party destination has to offer.

Grape Creek Vineyards, Hill Country, Texas
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Wineries in Hill Country to visit: Austin Wine Tours offers half-day and full-day tour packages that include a private chauffeured vehicle (you can upgrade to a party bus or limo); it will even pick up your group at your Austin address. For specific wineries, swing by Fall Creek Vineyards, one of Texas's oldest and most acclaimed producers, Becker Vineyards, which has a sprawling lavender field and iconic stone tasting room, and Tuscan-inspired Grape Creek Vineyards.

Where to stay: Airbnb has many trendy options for your stay (both this grand getaway and this stylish home with a hot tub sleeps 16+ guests and includes a pool). If your group prefers hotels, delight in Austin's cool boutique properties, like the locally-owned and Scandinavian-inspired East Austin Hotel.

9. Old Mission Peninsula, Michigan

For a lakeside winery bachelorette destination that blends wine and play, head to Old Mission Peninsula and nearby Traverse City in Michigan. With more than 30 wineries pouring crisp Rieslings, chardonnays and sparkling varietals, there's an abundance of tasting rooms to toast the to-be-wed. In between pours, enjoy Traverse City's sandy beaches, boutique shopping, and lively downtown filled with restaurants and nightlife.

Bonobo Winery, Old Mission Peninsula, Michigan
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Wineries in Old Mission Peninsula to visit: Treat the guest of honor to tastings and tours at Chateau Chantal, where you can sip stellar Rieslings. For heritage and terroir, Chateau Grand Traverse (the pioneer of vinifera wines!) offers guided tastings and a deep dive into Michigan's wine evolution. Looking for modern minimalism? Swing by Bonobo Winery for some Insta-worthy panoramic views.

Where to stay: Check into the waterfront Cherry Tree Inn and Suites, or go for more of a B&B vibe at Wellington Inn (a restored 1905 mansion with period rooms). Another great option is Grand Traverse Resort and Spa, which has a sprawling campus and way more than enough rooms for your entire bachelorette crew.

10. Cape May, New Jersey

Cape May is located along the famous Jersey Shore. While it may not have as extensive an amount of wineries as other areas on this list, it's worthy of a winery bachelorette weekend with your girls. Along with a handful of wineries that each have their own vibe, you can all head to the beach and other fun shore towns nearby.

Cape May Winery and Vineyard, Cape May, New Jersey
Photo: Cape May Winery and Vineyard

Wineries in Cape May to visit: Visit Cape May Winery and Vineyard, a spacious estate with nicely curated wine flights, tapas pairings and Saturday tours through its lush vineyards. Just minutes away, Willow Creek Winery charms with Napa-style vineyard views and self-guided tastings. Amp up the party vibe at Hawk Haven Vineyard and Winery, where live music and food trucks keep spirits up while you sip on innovative varietals.

Where to stay: Bring on the historical charm by booking a stay at The Southern Mansion, a boutique hotel built in the 1800s. Beauclaires Bed-and-Breakfast Inn keeps your bachelorette wine weekend quaint and cozy, and The Queen Victoria wows with its Victorian-era architecture and beachfront locale.