Demi Lovato and Jutes Are Married! All About Their California Wedding
Demi Lovato and Jordan "Jutes" Lutes are married! The couple exchanged vows over Memorial Day weekend in California. According to Vogue, the bride wore two custom Vivienne Westwood wedding dresses for the occasion. News of the couple's nuptials comes less than two years after their December 2023 engagement, when Lutes popped the question with a dazzling pear-shaped engagement ring. Read on for more details about the couple's wedding, along with the sweetest moments from their love story.
At a glance:
- Demi Lovato is married to Jordan "Jutes" Lutes. Their wedding took place in California on May 25, 2025.
- Demi Lovato and Jutes met in 2022 while collaborating on a song together.
- After about a year of dating, Jutes proposed to Demi Lovato in December 2023.
In this article:
- Jordan Lutes and Demi Lovato's Wedding Details
- Demi Lovato's Engagement Ring Details
- Demi Lovato and Jutes' Relationship Timeline
Jordan Lutes and Demi Lovato's Wedding Details
Demi Lovato's wedding to Jordan Lutes took place on May 25, 2025, in Santa Barbara, California. Lovato wore a custom Vivienne Westwood dress for the big day, and according to Vogue, it took five fittings to bring the masterpiece to life. "When I was thinking about [what dress style I wanted] I often found myself coming back to Vivienne's designs—specifically how the silhouettes really compliment the curves in your body, and her use of corsets," Lovato told the outlet. "We were not only able to work off that [initial] inspiration, but we added touches that really make this dress so special to me."
Inspired by "high society women of the 18th century," Demi Lovato's wedding dress featured a romantic off-the-shoulder neckline, a cinched waist and a draped detail on the skirt (one of the biggest trends our editors spotted at Bridal Fashion Week this year). Noting that she was highly involved in the design process, Lovato said, "I love everything about the dress."
Lovato's bridesmaids looked elegant in black gowns by Birdy Grey; Lutes wore a Saint Laurent suit while his groomsmen opted for monochromatic black ensembles as well. The ceremony, which was officiated by a close friend, was "full of love" according to the bride. "It was as if each and every person at the wedding was a part of a big family all celebrating with us," she told Vogue. "Looking into each other's eyes, all I was thinking was how lucky we are to spend this lifetime with each other." In a non-traditional move, the couple played a round of Rock Paper Scissors to determine the order of their vows. "We tied at first, and then Jordan won, so I went first," Lovato recalled.
After walking back up the aisle, the newlyweds were intentional about taking a few moments together to bask in the emotions of their milestone. "We wanted to soak in that we were officially husband and wife and then joined our guests for dinner and lots of dancing," Lovato said. "I feel ready to start our lives together. And I have to say that there is not one single thing I would have changed about the wedding."
After the ceremony, which was planned by industry maven Mindy Weiss, Lovato changed into a second Vivienne Westwood look. A stark contrast from her first gown, the reception outfit was an ivory silk satin column dress with the brand's signature corseted top, accented by cascading strands of pearls. "There was so much attention to detail on the reception dress beading," Lovato said of the second look. "The pearl detail and draping is such a special element, and each strand was draped and attached by hand, one by one. It's a one-of-a-kind piece that makes me feel so special."
The couple shared an extra-special first dance: Johnny Rzeznik of the Goo Goo Dolls performed the band's hit "Iris," which Lovato called "surreal." "This was a pinch-us moment," she said. "It's our favorite song and has so much meaning to both of us." Later, after Lovato changed into an Idan Cohen mini dress reminiscent of her original gown, Paris Hilton took over as DJ for a few songs while the party raged on. As the evening came to a close, the newlyweds exited beneath a sparkler tunnel and drove off in a vintage white Cadillac.
Demi Lovato's Engagement Ring Details
Demi Lovato and Jordan Lutes announced their engagement on December 17, 2023, by sharing a selection of photos from the intimate proposal on Instagram. "I'm still speechless 🥹🥹 last night was the best night of my life and I can't believe I get to marry the love of my life," the singer captioned the social media reveal. "My love, I'm beyond excited to marry you.. every day I've spent with you has been a dream come true and I can't wait to love and cherish you forever. Here's to the rest of our lives. I love you baby."
The Canadian artist shared his own post on Instagram, writing, "Yesterday i asked my best friend to marry me and she said yes. i can't imagine my life without you and thank god now i'll never have to. feeling like the luckiest man alive right now. i'm so in love with you @ddlovato 🖤"
People was the first to report that Demi Lovato's engagement ring is a pear-cut diamond on a simple band by Material Good, a luxury jeweler based in New York City. According to Olivia Landau, founder of The Clear Cut, the solitaire appears to be sizable both in value and carat weight. "Demi Lovato's engagement ring looks to be around a 4- or 5-carat pear in a cathedral-style solitaire setting," she tells The Knot. "If her diamond is natural, it could range anywhere from $80,000 to $250,000, depending on exact quality."
She continues, "We've seen many clients gravitate to pear-shaped diamonds because they look very large for their carat weight and are finger-flattering." Given the rising trend of oval-cut diamonds, she adds that pears are a great option for those who want something a little different. "While many people are loving elongated diamonds, some couples want something a bit more unique than oval diamonds, which have been the most popular fancy shape diamond cut over the past three years."
Demi Lovato and Jutes' Relationship Timeline
Demi Lovato's engagement to boyfriend Jutes comes one year after the artists met while co-writing a song together. Here, we break down Demi Lovato and Jutes' complete relationship timeline, from 2022 to today.
2022: Demi Lovato and Jutes Meet While Writing "Substance"
Demi Lovato and their boyfriend Jutes met through work in January 2022. "The way that I met my boyfriend was actually in a session," Lovato shared on an August 2023 episode of the LadyGang podcast, hosted by Keltie Knight, Becca Tobin and Jac Vanek. "He is a musician himself, but he also co-writes on other people's music. So he came into the session and I literally was like, 'Who is this guy?'"
She continued, "I texted my friends and was like, 'Oh my God, the hottest guy just walked In. I am so nervous. I don't know what to do with myself."
Not only did the two collaborate on the song "Substance," Jutes also has writing credits on "Happy Ending" and "City of Angels" from Lovato's album Holy Fvck.
August 2022: Demi Lovato and Jutes Confirm They're Dating
Throughout the beginning of 2022, Demi Lovato and Jutes kept things friendly. But in August of that year, a source confirmed to People that the two were dating. "We became friends first," the singer said on SiriusXM's The Morning Mash Up in July 2023. "We were friends for several months and then we decided to start dating and well, after we told each other how we felt."
When asked who made the first move, Lovato confirmed it was a "mutual" effort. "We were texting, and he said something, and I was like, I took it one way and he was like, 'OK, if you take it one way, then I know you like me. If you don't, then...' You know that kind of thing? And so, I took it that way and he was like, 'OK, got it.' Yeah, I'm super happy, and he's my best friend."
March 2023: Demi Lovato Celebrates Jutes' Birthday
In March 2023, Demi Lovato's boyfriend received a heartfelt tribute on his birthday, with the singer putting their romance on full display. "My sweet angel - it's officially your birthday!!!," she wrote on Instagram. "I couldn't be more excited to celebrate you because I couldn't be more in love with your gorgeous, funny, sexy, talented self. I've waited my whole life to find you and I can't wait to celebrate so many more birthdays together.. you're a literal dream come true and I'm so grateful to call you mine. Have the best birthday my love.. you deserve it, the world, and more!!!! Here's to many more 🥰🥰🖤🖤🎂🎂💫💫 I LOVE YOU 😘😘😘."
August 2023: Jutes Calls Demi Lovato "My Best Friend"
Later that year, Jutes returned the favor by sharing a sweet birthday post for Lovato on social media. "happy birthday to my best friend. you're obvs the most beautiful and talented person to ever do it. but more importantly you're weird af and u make me cry laughing. your heart has changed lives all over the planet… especially some dude from a farm in canada who wound up in your session over a year ago."
The caption continued, "i didn't know the perfect person existed until i met u. but now that i do, i'm gunna spend the rest of my life protecting u and doing whatever i can to squeeze another smile n belly laugh outta u. i couldn't be more proud to call u my baby. hope u have the best bday ever 🖤😘 i love u @ddlovato."
December 2023: Jutes and Demi Lovato Get Engaged
Demi Lovato and her boyfriend Jutes ended the year on a high note. The couple announced their engagement on December 17, 2023, by sharing a selection of photos from the proposal on Instagram, with Lovato calling it "the best night of my life."
May 2025: Demi Lovato Marries Jutes in California
Demi Lovato's wedding to Jordan Lutes took place on May 25, 2025. The Memorial Day festivities kicked off with a rehearsal dinner on Saturday, followed by the ceremony on Sunday evening. Lovato wore two custom Vivienne Westwood dresses, and the romantic event was planned by Mindy Weiss.