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Updated May 15, 202430 Gifts for the Ring Bearer Who's Going to Rock This Special Role
These are the best ring bearer gifts, no matter their age.
Photos, clockwise: Uncommon Goods, Zazzle, Warmies, The Knot Shop
There are two moments that never fail to make everyone say "aww" at a wedding: the magical first kiss between the newlyweds and the adorable walk down the aisle by the flower girl and ring bearer. Show your appreciation for your littlest attendants with flower girl and ring bearer gifts. Just like them, the gifts don't have to be big to elicit many oohs and ahhs.
If you need gift ideas for your ring bearer (or bearers), you've come to the right place. From day-of props and fun toys to sentimental keepsakes, we've rounded up the best ring bearer proposal and thank-you gifts to make them feel excited and empowered in their important role on your special day.
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The Best Ring Bearer Proposal Gifts
Looking for creative ways to ask, "Will you be my ring bearer?" One of these ring bearer proposal ideas will make them eager for their future part in your wedding.
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Ring Bearer Teddy Bear
Photo: Personalization Mall
If you appreciate a good pun, a ring bearer teddy is just the thing to give your little helper. Plus, plush toys are go-to gifts for kids since they're great to play and snuggle with. This super soft bear stuffed animal is dressed up in a shirt personalized with the ring bearer's name, role and your upcoming wedding date, so they know the who, what and when of your ask.
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Ring Security T-Shirt
Photo: The Knot Shop
Custom, thematic attire is another popular gift for a ring bearer. Tell the world (or at least your guests) who your ring bearer is with this baseball tee that declares the wearer as "ring security." They can sport it proudly at the wedding shower, rehearsal dinner or even down the aisle if your wedding is a more casual affair. Plus, it makes for a silly photo op.
Personalized Polarized Sunglasses
Photo: PongsArt
Every good security officer is outfitted in sleek sunglasses. These are made from bamboo wood with polarized lenses and engraved with their name on the side. For an extra charge, they can be wrapped in a personalized case featuring their name and new role. They fit kids from ages three to nine.
Ring Bearer Proposal Baseball
Photo: SixPetalDesigns
Ask your future ring bearer if they want to play catch, then toss them this baseball. It's engraved with the phrase, "Suit up," with his name, followed by either "We have a big job for you" or "I need you to go to bat for us!" Tell your prospective recruit to throw it back if they accept the role. You could even pair it with a custom bat that boldly displays their name and upcoming title.
Ring Bearer Tote Bag
Photo: Zazzle
Are you hoping to build your own ring bearer proposal box (or bag)? Start with this adorable canvas tote personalized with their name, role and a yellow backhoe truck. Fill it with little surprises that fit their personality, like a toy construction set, a fun activity book or a pack of their favorite snacks. Your ring bearer's parent or guardian will also appreciate this gift, as it provides a special place to carry all their wedding essentials.
Customized YETI Water Bottle
Photo: YETI
Now comes filling the gift box or bag. Personalized drinkware is a classic gift idea for anyone in your wedding party, including your ring bearer. And what better place to shop for reusable water bottles than YETI? This ultra-durable, insulated cup has a leak-resistant straw cap, so it was made for little adventurers. Best of all, it can be laser-engraved with a custom design, such as their name, role or favorite animal.
Ring Bearer Peg Puzzle
Photo: BabyPuzzleDecor
Here's a great gift if your ring bearer is younger. This personalized wooden puzzle simply requires them to find the proper holes for their name, a bowtie, car and pair of rings. Best of all, the back can be engraved with your and your spouse-to-be's names.
Tuxedo Baby Bib
Photo: Zazzle
Babies in suits are undeniably adorable, but they might not find them very comfy! Invite your ring bearer to be part of your big day with this charming tuxedo bib, available in blue or black. This photo-worthy bib lets your littlest groomsman look the part at every prewedding event with minimal fuss. And you'll have a back-up formalwear option if they refuse to wear their wedding outfit on the big day.
The Ring Bearer Book
Photo: Amazon
Young readers are constantly on the lookout for new stories, which is why this on-theme picture book, that tells a heartwarming story about a ring bearer, will be a library classic. Plus, it'll teach them about all the expectations of their new role and get them excited for the big day.
Wedding Coloring Book
Photo: Gifts For You Now
This activity book will keep your ring bearer entertained until the big day (and perhaps after at the reception). It has 20 pages of coloring and games, and the front can be personalized with your event details. Best of all, it comes with a 24-count box of Crayola crayons. Let your ring bearer's creative side come alive!
Children's Blue Bow Tie
Photo: The Tie Bar
Gift your ring bearer a blue bow tie to let them know you need them as your "ring security" and "something blue" for good luck on the big day! Don't worry about teaching them how to knot it; you can buy it pre-tied. We love including accessories in a ring bearer proposal box so they know exactly what they'll wear to the wedding and can practice putting it on if it might be uncomfortable. Pair it with some of their favorite snacks or candy for instant gratification and a card explicitly popping the question.
Ring Security Dress Socks
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Someday, they'll appreciate socks as a gift as much as you appreciate their role in your big day! For now, though, add the swag to your ring bearer proposal box so your littlest attendant can flaunt their role early in the wedding festivities. These personalized ring bearer wedding socks are customized with their name, ever-important role as "ring security" and your upcoming wedding date.
Ring Pop Proposal Box
Photo: CallMeCraftie
We've yet to meet a kid who doesn't love candy. If you're looking for a simple yet fun ring bearer proposal box, this gift "pops" the question with a Ring Pop. They'll definitely say "yes" (or "mhmm," if they're already diving into the sucker).
Ring Bearer Super Cape
Photo: The Knot Shop
Shopping for a super kiddo? Get them excited for their upcoming role as a ring bearer with this personalized cape. It's a vibrant blue, with a symbolic logo to mark them as the protector of the rings with their name underneath. (Psst, there's a coordinating flower girl cape, too.)
Confetti Popper
Photo: TickledGiftCo
Literally, POP the question "Will you be our ring bearer?" with this delightful confetti popper. Each cannon contains vibrant tissue paper and a tag with your custom message. When the confetti rains down on your little helper, it'll create an adorable, Insta-worthy moment. Just be sure to give their parents or guardians a heads-up about the little bit of mess that comes with the fun!
The Best Ring Bearer Thank-You Gifts
Look no further for what to get your ring bearer for a wedding gift. These thank-you presents will show them how much you appreciate them stepping up into a big role and handing off the rings.
Stainless Steel Watch
Photo: Timex
Thank your ring bearer for their time with a fancy new watch. It's a classic gift idea for your groomsmen that your littlest attendant will want to get in on, too. Crafted from silver-tone stainless steel links that can be adjusted to fit as they grow, this traditional timepiece features an easy-to-read dial and a date window, perfect for helping them learn to tell time if they haven't mastered it yet. Plus, it's water-resistant and equipped with a handy night light for added functionality.
Mickey Mouse Three-Piece Gift Set
Photo: Cufflinks.com
This is a gift your ring bearer will cherish for years—possibly even until their own wedding. A luxe cufflink, lapel pin and tie bar set will be the finishing touch to their outfit on the big day. And this gift set is sure to excite, thanks to its dapper Mickey Mouse silhouette.
Custom Message Handkerchief
Photo: ThePolkaDottedBee
Personalized ring bearer gifts don't get much more meaningful than this. The white cotton handkerchief is printed with a sweet poem about their role and can be signed with your names. They can slide it into their suit pocket for a dashing addition to their formal attire, knowing there's a hidden message just for them.
Monogrammed Piggy Bank
Photo: Uncommon Goods
A piggy bank makes a thoughtful and practical ring bearer gift, allowing them to start saving for their own adventures. This one is shaped like their first initial, with the clear acrylic front etched with their full name. Not only does it add a personal touch to their room decor, but it also encourages good saving habits from a young age. They'll appreciate those savings when it's their turn to plan a wedding.
Personalized LED Sign
Photo: Personalization Mall
Keep the monsters away with this personalized night light. It'll be a welcome addition to their bedroom collection—just choose the design that most aligns with their interests. There are game controllers, dinosaurs, UFOs, sports balls, a monster truck and more. (No bad dreams here!)
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Marvel Pajama Set
Photo: Target
Your ring bearer will likely be tired after all of the wedding festivities. Make sure they get the rest they need with a new pair (actually two sets) of pajamas. This five-piece Marvel pajama set features Spider-Man, Black Panther, Iron Man and more. Each top and pair of pants can be mixed and matched to suit their interests and comfort each night. They come in sizes four through 12.
Microwavable Plush Dog
Photo: Warmies
This cuddly puppy is not only incredibly soft but also microwavable, providing soothing warmth and a calming lavender scent. It's just the thank-you gift for your ring bearer to calm nerves before they walk down the aisle. Plus, there are dozens of cozy companions to choose from if they prefer cats, sloths, ducks, lions, monkeys and more.
Personalized Ring Bearer Hanger
Photo: The Knot Shop
Reserve your little one's space in the getting-ready suite with this personalized wooden hanger. It's painted with their role as ring bearer (except the "bear" is really a bear) and their name underneath. They can use it to hang their formal attire on the wedding day and then save it as a keepsake to use as they grow up.
Ring Bearer Playing Cards
Photo: Zazzle
Kids need entertainment, and these personalized playing cards are the perfect ring bearer gift to keep your little attendant happily occupied. These custom cards display their important role in your wedding and name on top of a tuxedo motif. They'll show these off to all their friends—and then promptly beat them in Go Fish!
Giant Bubble Kit
Photo: Amazon
If your wedding is outdoors, bubbles are an easy and exciting gift for ring bearers (and other wedding guests!) to play with. Plus, they make for super unique photos you'd think were pulled right from Pinterest. The kit comes with five refills, so they can enjoy it again and again.
Personalized Football
Photo: JCSDesigns2017
If you want a thank-you gift for your ring bearer they can play with right away, try this personalized football. The leather is engraved with a custom note and their name. Get creative and write: "Thanks for making our wedding a touchdown."
Kids Dinosaur Backpack
Photo: The Knot Shop
Help them carry their toys and other knick-knacks in this super-cute backpack. It looks like a dinosaur and can be embroidered with their name in a thread color of your choice. It's a handy piece that can be used after the wedding for school, travel and beyond.
Kids Digital Camera
Photo: Uncommon Goods
Your professional photographer may have a shadow at the reception once you hand over this ring bearer present. The digital camera, shaped like bear and fox motifs, can take about 1,000 photos per battery charge and offers cute frames and color filters for each. They might take some of your favorite photos from the night.
Personalized Glass Picture Frame
Photo: The Knot Shop
Ensure your youngest VIP remembers the day with this sentimental ring bearer gift. The glass frame is etched with their name and title, making for an elegant place to display your favorite wedding photo together. It'll definitely get a place of prominence in their room.
Candy Tackle Box
Photo: Dylan's Candy Bar
This gift will make your ring bearer as happy as a kid in a candy store. The tackle box is filled with chocolates, gummies and sour candies in convenient bite-sized pieces. You'll want to check with their parents or guardians first—and prepare for an impromptu sugar rush on the dance floor.
