Engagement Photo Basics
Why take engagement photos? (Besides just to document what a good looking couple you are.) Submit a shot to your local paper with your engagement announcement, use them creatively in your wedding day decor, or give framed prints as gifts to your families. Need an ultrapractical reason to schedule an engagement photo shoot? It's a great opportunity to test-drive your wedding photographer. Read on for the basics to help you make the most of your premarital mug shots.
Make it Snappy
The best time to snap your paired-up pics depends on how and when you plan to use them. Here's a rundown of photo scheduling options—choose whatever works for you:
Day one/two: Take a picture of yourselves to commemorate the moment you get engaged—you'll already be wearing a photogenically (and naturally) happy smile!
First month: Schedule a photo shoot early in your engagement if you plan to submit a formal engagement announcement with a photo to your local paper. (Check your paper's guidelines for specific pose or print quality requirements, which are often listed on the newspaper's website.)
When you set the wedding date: Have a photo taken for your wedding website or save-the-date—many couples incorporate photos of themselves into the design. If this trend appeals to you and you're planning to send guests an early heads-up, have photos taken eight to ten months before the wedding, in time to print and send save-the-dates no later than six months before the wedding.
Six to eight months before: You can also take engagement pictures once you've booked your wedding photographer or when you're narrowing down your final choices (which should occur when your planning countdown hits the eight-months-prior mark).
Three months before: If you plan to submit a shot with your newspaper wedding announcement, check their guidelines for specifics and schedule a picture-taking session at least three months before the wedding. Larger newspapers ask to receive wedding submissions up to six weeks before the event, and you'll want to factor in four to six weeks before that deadline to see your proofs and make prints.
Two months before: Trying out wedding day looks? Schedule hair and makeup trial appointments the same day as your engagement photo session to capture a preview of your wedding day fabulousness on film (you could do the salon in the morning and the photo studio in the afternoon). Factor in some in-between time for damage control, on the off chance that the salon results aren't as great as you hoped.
- Up to one month before: Planning to feature your smiling faces on the wedding program, the favors or plastered on the hot air balloon in which you'll be leaving the reception? Schedule pictures in plenty of time to see proofs, select your favorites and get everything you need printed up.
Who Calls the Shots?
Many photographers include an engagement photo session as part of the overall package, which presents a good opportunity to see your photographer in action. It also gives him the chance to experiment with flattering angles, poses, and lighting levels before the wedding day. If you haven't booked your nuptial shutterbug yet, look at engagement photos as a chance to audition your top choice.
Before you call a single photographer, have a heart-to-heart with your sweetie about what kinds of engagement photos you'd like—posed or candid, formal or casual. Again, let your decisions be guided by how you plan to use the pics: Will they be hanging on grandma's wall, reproduced in black-and-white newsprint, or shrunk down to the size of a quarter for personalized favor stickers? Advance planning will help you make the most of your pictures. Some photo-friendly options to consider for your engagement shoot:
Bring it outside: There's no need to spend a day cooped up in a photographer's studio if you don't want to. Visit to a nearby arboretum or botanical garden, or hit your favorite downtown landmark. Your photographer may be able to suggest local sites that make great backdrops for pictures too. Talk about locations you like when you make your appointment.
Make yourself at home: Your home is your comfort zone, and when you're comfortable, you look better on camera. Choose a more scenic area like your living room or front stoop—the bedroom may be a little creepy.
Around your world in a day: Create a meaningful backdrop for your engagement photos by revisiting nearby sites that are significant to the two of you: the restaurant where you had your first date, the ice cream shop you frequent on Sundays, the bus stop where you shared an umbrella—you get the idea. While the camera's snapping, retell your best couple stories and relive a few of the moments that brought you together: It's a blue-ribbon recipe for a series of romantic, fun candids.
- Get close: You probably don't need to be persuaded to get close to your fiance, but do plan to get a few affectionate close-up pictures: hug, hold hands, sling your arm around his shoulders. You're in love, show it off! Besides, if you're planning to submit a photo to a newspaper with your announcement, many publications specifically request close-up couple shots. The New York Times, for instance, asks that couples position themselves with their heads close together and (no joke), their eyebrows on exactly the same level.
Ready, Dressed, Go
An engagement photo does not require you to shop for matching outfits—you're getting married, not becoming the Bobbsey Twins. But clashing plaids and flashing bling do not make a pretty picture. Here are some of our basic guidelines for dressing the part:
The duds: Whether you're going formal or casual, solid colors are a must. Try to avoid plaids, florals, patterns, and head-to-toe black or white clothing—and keep the silhouettes streamlined. Some couples coordinate their clothing palettes to the point of looking a bit matchy, but there's no need to go overboard. If you're worried about color, pick a neutral and a few coordinating color tones you both like (gray with blue and violet for instance, or brown with pink and blue), and stick to those hues.
- The details: Keep your jewelry ultrasimple to avoid flashy distractions in your pics. For men, that means leave your watch and your pinky ring on the dresser. Women should stick to unfussy earrings with a simple necklace or bracelet (or one statement piece), and your engagement ring.
If an engagement session isn't included in your wedding photo package, hire an a la carte photographer instead. For a basic portrait sitting at a photography studio and a few prints, you can expect to pay a few hundred dollars. Hiring a professional for an afternoon's worth of photo ops will cost several times that much—the final cost will depend on where you live, and the popularity of the photographer.