22 Stunning Gender Neutral Engagement Rings

No labels here. These rings are all about genderless style.
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Shelley Brown
Senior Fashion & Beauty Editor
  • Shelley writes and edits articles for The Knot Worldwide, with a speciality in fashion, beauty, jewelry and accessories
  • Shelley writes and edits articles for The Knot magazine, as well as styles the magazine’s fashion and cover shoots
  • Prior to The Knot Worldwide, Shelley was a freelance Digital Editor at Conde Nast’s Lucky Magazine and freelanced for FLAUNT Magazine, Los Angeles Magazine, Backstage.com and Paste.com
Updated Jun 04, 2021
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Gender neutral engagement rings aren't limited to plain bands. From designs dripping in diamonds to more minimalistic styles, the options are endless. Below, we break down what defines a gender neutral engagement ring and what brands make them—plus editor-approved bling you can add to your cart right now.

What is a gender neutral engagement ring?

While gender neutral engagement rings may make you think of simple unisex bands that are neither overtly masculine or feminine, it's actually a more general term that can apply to any engagement ring or wedding band that is available in both men's and women's sizes. Since gender neutral engagement rings are size inclusive, this means the selection of rings available to men, women and non-binary folks is much less limited. The great thing about this? To-be-weds of all walks of life can find a ring that works for their personal style.

Another note about gender neutral engagement rings: Given traditional labels are off the table, so are traditionally gendered wedding ring rules— you can wear your rings whenever and however you want. So, you can wear them before your ceremony as engagement rings (like The Knot's recent cover stars Jonathan Bennett and Jaymes Vaughan), after the celebrations as wedding bands, or you can opt for a traditional wedding set with an engagement ring and a wedding band—gender neutral engagement rings are all about putting your own twist on tradition.

What brands make gender neutral engagement rings?


Founded as a gender neutral ring collection, genderless styles are at the core of Ceremony's brand ethos. In fact, you'll notice the word "engagement ring" is missing from their site—and that's intentional. Founders Jess Hannah and Chelsea Nicholson sought to challenge gender norms surrounding engagement rings and wedding bands through a collection representative of modern love, sans labels or prescriptive gender roles.

Brilliant Earth

Ethically-sourced jewelry brand Brilliant Earth is branching out into a new category: size-inclusive rings designed without gender in mind. The Mx Collection consists of a mix of gender neutral engagement rings and wedding bands. The designs offer a range of styles for every to-be-wed, from classic settings with prominent center stones to simple textured metal bands.

Pamela Love

Brooklyn-based jewelry designer Pamela Love is known for symbolic fine jewelry with a modern edge, including iconographic pieces (think: sacred hearts, Italian horns and evil eyes) and reimagined signet rings. After years of creating one-off custom bridal and commitment pieces for clients, Love expanded into weddings with a line of ethical engagement rings and bands called Ceremonial. In the spirit of creating wedding or commitment jewelry for all couples, the Ceremonial collection is both gender neutral and size inclusive. Upon purchase, each ring is custom sized with no additional fee.

Custom Jewelers

It's a little known fact that most jewelers can adjust their made-to-order men's and women's styles to be size inclusive (including the ones in the shoppable section below). So, if you have your heart set on a women's ring that isn't in your size or vice versa, reach out to the jeweler in question and ask to have it made in your size. They may charge you an additional fee, but they can likely accommodate your request. To find jewelers in your area, search our marketplace here.

Gender Neutral Engagement Rings To Shop Now

Feeling a gender neutral engagement ring now? Shop some of our fave rings styles below.

ring with five recycled diamonds on domed band

What's better than one center stone? Five. This megawatt ring is all about the bling.

Ceremony Cicily ring with five recycled diamonds on domed band, from $4,400, Ceremony.us

solitaire emerald cut diamond engagement ring

Solitaire settings are an old standard, but a unique bezel setting that appears to float above the band makes this one feel fresh.

Brillaint Earth Cielo Engagement Ring, from $1,090, BrilliantEarth.com

pear diamond and emerald two stone ring

The toi et moi (or two stone) ring trend isn't going anywhere. The best thing about this unexpected look? The possibilities to mix and match gemstones are endless. We love this emerald and pear diamond combo.

Grace Lee Emerald + Pear diamond ring, $58,898, GraceLee.com

marquise cut diamond ring in yellow gold rope setting

Inspired by the jewelry of antiquity, this ring with a twisted rope setting and marquise cut diamond center stone feels worthy of a museum.

Pamela Love Selene marquise cut diamond ring, $12,000, PamelaLove.com

ring with twin domed bands

A complete stack in one, connected domed bands—one diamond-encrusted, one plain—give you the best of both worlds.

Carbon and Hyde Gemini ring with twin domed bands, $4,255, CarbonandHyde.com

salt and pepper pear shaped diamond engagement ring in yellow gold setting

This rustic salt and pepper diamond engagement ring's simple yellow gold bezel setting puts all the focus on a stunning center stone.

Chinchar Maloney Rustic Salt & Pepper Diamond Ring in Yellow Gold, $5,433, ChincharMaloney.com

east west diamond set in rose gold double band setting

Refined romance. The sleek, geometric look of this interconnected, double band setting creates a lovely contrast with the velvety rose gold metal.

Shahla Karimi East-West baguette offset double ring, $4,590, ShahlaKarimi.com

white metal signet ring with rhombus shaped diamond

A unique, rhombus- shaped diamond set in sleek white metal gives a classic signet ring a modern update.

Eva Fehren Lozenge signet ring in white gold with diamond, $7,850, EvaFehren.com

east west emerald cut diamond engagement ring in solitaire setting

The east west setting (read: a setting where the stone rests horizontally across the finger as opposed to vertically) of this emerald diamond center stone adds some edge to a streamlined solitaire setting.

Brilliant Earth Horizontal Petite Comfort Fit engagement ring, from $550, BrilliantEarth.com

three claw band with white diamonds

Foregoing a more traditional engagement ring for a band? Consider opting for a standout piece like this one. The claw- shaped design of this ring is an avant-garde way to show off sparkling diamonds.

Tomasz Donocik Black Star three claw ring with white diamonds, inquire for price, TomaszDonocik.com

yellow gold signet ring with diamond center stone

If you're torn between a timeless signet ring and a glitzy halo setting, this ring works as a gorgeous combination of both. We call that a gender neutral engagement ring win.

State Property Ensemble bespoke signet ring, inquire for price, ThisIsStateProperty.com

two stone diamond ring

Bring on the bling. Two diamond center stones plus two halos equals maximum sparkle.

Meadlowlark Beloved toi et moi ring, $9,432, Meadowlark.co.nz

thick gold band with marquise diamond

Besides its stunning design, this sculptural ring also has a hidden meaning: The marquise diamond represents an evil eye, a symbol of protection and good luck.

AARYAH Akhna diamond ring, $6,600, Aaryah.com

pear shaped diamond in organic yellow gold setting

A riff on Kintsugi, the Japanese craft of restoring broken ceramics, the abstract lines of this dainty ring give it an artsy vibe.

Milamore Kintsugi Diamond Ring Ⅰ, $2,000, MilamoreJewelry.com

hexagon salt and pepper diamond engagement ring

An alternative center stone like this salt and pepper diamond calls for an equally alternative cut. A rose cut hexagonal diamond is just that.

Greenwich Street Jewelers Kent hexagon salt and pepper diamond engagement ring, $4,600, GreenwichJewelers.com

interconnected diamond band and yellow gold band ring

Striking enough to wear on its own but streamlined enough to work as a wedding band, this rolling ring with interconnected bands serves effortless glamour.

Ashley Zhang Toi et Moi rolling ring, from $2,500, AshleyZhangJewelry.com

emerald cut diamond solitaire engagement ring in yellow gold setting

One word: Thicc. A wide yellow gold setting topped with a large emerald cut diamond is made to turn heads.

Briony Raymond Sloan solitaire ring with an emerald cut diamond, inquire for price, BrionyRaymond.com

band with rainbow stones

Whether you're looking to proudly display your PRIDE or you love colorful rings, this band featuring emeralds, rubies, amethysts, and multi-colored sapphires is a vibrant way to jazz up any stack.

Brilliant Earth Rainbow ring, $1,150, BrilliantEarth.com

two stone engagement ring in yellow gold setting

Twin round cut diamonds in a spiral setting gives this two stone engagement ring the look of an über-luxe infinity symbol.

Ceremony Yasmin toi et moi ring, from $5,500, Ceremony.us

oval diamod ring in swirl setting

Timeless and trendy, this bezel setting with a swirl design puts an unconventional twist on the solitaire setting.

Kwiat Oval Diamond and Gold Button ring, $3,050, Kwiat.com

signet ring with center diamond

Looking to make a stunning statement? There's nothing subtle about this domed, 18k gold signet ring with a large center diamond.

Thelma West Honeycomb ring in 18 karat yellow gold, inquire for price, ThelmaWest.com

diamond band with rose gold metal

The unique shape of this band plus pretty diamond details makes it a versatile choice. Wear it alone for an unfussy effect or add other bands for an eclectic stack.

Nouvel Heritage Tuxedo Mood ring, $3,200, NouvelHeritage.com

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