56 Bachelorette Party Ideas for Every Group’s Mood
In the last decade alone, bachelorette party ideas have evolved from a small list of activities for a one-night outing to hyper-personalized, multiday affairs extending beyond the usual bar crawl. But there's an abundance of directions you can go while planning a bachelorette party, which could leave you confused as to where to begin. Well, you've come to the right place. Whether you're looking for lively bachelorette weekend ideas that'll become the stuff of legends down the road or you're hoping to keep the party more laid-back, we've got something for you and your crew. Check out our list of the most popular and unique bachelorette ideas to celebrate.
In this article: Best Bachelorette Party Ideas | Fun Bachelorette Party Ideas | Wild Bachelorette Party Ideas | Unique Bachelorette Party Ideas | Cute Bachelorette Party Ideas
Plus: Bachelorette Party Ideas On a Budget | Classy Bachelorette Party Ideas | Low-Key Bachelorette Party Ideas | Sober Bachelorette Party Ideas | Solo Bachelorette Ideas
Best Bachelorette Party Ideas
For those looking for the best bachelorette activities, keep reading. No matter if it's a gathering of a small group of friends or a large one, these options are perfect for you.
1. Pottery Painting
If you've always wanted to try your hand at pottery, there's no time like the present. Book a group session at a paint-your-own-pottery studio or give everyone the chance to throw pottery on the wheel with a ceramics class.
2. Cocktail-Making Class
Hire a bartender to teach you and your friends how to make the tastiest cocktails and mocktails. Not only are you leveling up your bartending skills for future parties, but you get to enjoy your creations along the way.
3. Potluck Dinner
A potluck dinner is perfect for the group that's always hosting dinner parties and wine nights at one another's homes. This simple bachelorette party idea can be as laid-back as you want. Remember to decorate the space with coordinating linens and tableware to make it feel more special.
4. Massages and Meditation
We're guessing that everyone could use a little extra zen before the wedding day, so pamper yourselves with relaxing massages followed by a meditation or yoga session. It's up to you whether you want to reserve a private room at a wellness center or hire a team that offers on-site services.
5. Paintball
For an adventurous group, you need to have paintball as your main event or at least as one of your bachelorette party activities for the weekend. Work as a team against strangers or go head-to-head. Don't do this idea too close to the wedding day, since there can be some bruising and welts from the paintballs' impact.
6. Slumber Party
For this bachelorette party idea, you'll need cute pajamas, a dozen pizzas, a queue of wedding movies and rom-coms, wine and plenty of cozy blankets. Plan a bachelorette slumber party if you're celebrating during the winter months because who wants to step outside in mini dresses and heels when it's snowing?
7. Cooking Class
If the bride is a foodie (or an aspiring cook), she'll love this chill bachelorette party idea. Find a class that's tailored to her favorite type of food, such as pasta or French desserts.
8. Pool Day
Sometimes a lazy day at the pool is exactly what you need. Whether you're renting a house with a pool or hosting in someone's backyard, a bachelorette pool party never misses. Plus, it's a prime opportunity to shop for new swimsuits and bachelorette pool floats.
9. State Fair
If you're keeping the affair local, check out what fairs or festivals are happening during your desired bach party dates. Keep in mind the bride's fave things and see if there's a cheese festival or Renaissance fair happening, for example. And if you can't find anything you love in your city, consider a little travel. This idea is perfect for those who want entertainment and food all at one place.
10. Winery Tour
This classic bachelorette weekend idea is one of the best ways to chill out while tapping into your dreams of being a sommelier. Pretty scenery, wine pairings and hors d'oeuvres—what more do you really need? If you're planning to do a winery bachelorette party at multiple locations, spring for a private party bus to safely get around.
11. Arcade Bar
Let the bride's gamer-girl side come out at an arcade bar. Whether you want to compete on Street Fighter or give Mario Kart a try on a legit steering wheel, we know you'll be able to find an arcade bar that'll satisfy everyone's nostalgic appetite.
12. Sunset Cruise
Embrace all the coastal grandma vibes by chartering a private boat for a couple of hours. If the sailing or yacht company doesn't provide catering, pack light fare and a few bottles of wine. (This idea can lean toward the expensive side. Check out the average bach party cost and how to budget for one before making a final decision.)
13. Trivia Night
Is your friend group full of human encyclopedias? Split everyone into teams and host a trivia tournament with categories inspired by the bride's favorite things, like reality TV or her most-beloved pro sports team. Be sure to have bachelorette prizes and favors on hand for the winners. This is just one of many games for the bachelorette party you can add to the activity list.
14. Lazy River Tubing
Want to be in the water, but don't want to do much while in it? Then, consider going tubing down a river. Sit back and relax as the current moves you along a scenic path. Bonus: Many water adventure companies allow groups to bring coolers, speakers and food along for the ride.
15. Antique Shopping
A great option for a smaller group, this bachelorette party idea doesn't involve a night of drinking or staying out late. Map out the must-see antique shops if you're planning to stay local, or take a road trip to a place that the bride has always wanted to visit and spend the weekend hunting for treasures.
Fun Bachelorette Party Ideas
Games and dancing are good standbys, but you should have some action-packed activities too. Entertain your guests by picking one (or more) of these fun things to do for a bachelorette party.
16. Presentation Party
This idea will be a hit with a crew that loves debating and public speaking. How it works: Everyone picks a topic based on their interests and prepares a short speech (no more than five minutes per person) with slides. Your bachelorette PowerPoint ideas can be as simple as the best ice cream flavors ranked by superiority, or as obscure as different types of women's lingerie throughout history.
17. Costume Night
Pick a funny bachelorette party theme and ask all of the guests to bring a costume to match (it's up to you whether or not you want the theme to be a surprise for the bride). Dress up in your outfits for a night on the town, but don't forget to snap a group photo first. The wackier the theme, the better the costumes—some examples of bachelorette outfit themes include nerdy dad outfits, famous redheads, Shrek characters or '80s jazzercise.
18. Trapeze School
Carrie did it on Sex and the City, and you can do it for your bachelorette party. Find a nearby trapeze center and book a private training session for your group. There's a good chance that most people haven't done this before, which makes this a super memorable bachelorette party idea.
19. Pedal Bar
This fun bachelorette party idea, also known as a bar on wheels, is an oldie but a goodie. It's especially entertaining if you're heading to a new city for the party—you'll kill two birds with one stone by exploring the sights and boozing it up at the same time.
20. Murder Mystery Party
For the bride who's obsessed with true crime podcasts and documentaries, no other bachelorette party idea can compete. Download a game kit with storyline prompts and have some fun buying accompanying props and costumes for each character.
21. Escape Room
Challenge your group by adventuring to an escape room for part of the bachelorette party. Depending on the location, you can find specialty-themed rooms, ranging from video game-inspired rooms with virtual reality details to horror-themed rooms with jump scares around every corner. Once you've found your way out, reward yourselves with a tasty dinner.
22. Bowling
This birthday party staple is great as a bachelorette party idea too. Go all in with matching bachelorette party shirts, wristbands and team names inspired by competitive bowling leagues.
23. Karaoke Night
Whether you head to the nearest karaoke bar or set up a stage in the basement of your house, karaoke is always a fun way to let loose. Let everyone perform their go-to song from our list of best karaoke songs or stick to a specific genre, like '70s disco tunes (perfect for those who need retro bachelorette party ideas) or 2000s pop hits.
24. Pickleball Tournament
If the bride has jumped on the pickleball bandwagon, set up a tournament in her honor, complete with cute outfits and swag for each player. If she's not into pickleball, try tennis, golf or croquet instead.
25. Paddleboarding
Planning an outdoorsy bachelorette party? Head to the nearest creek or lake for a paddleboard outing. If you don't want to worry about bringing your own equipment, look for a spot that offers hourly or daily rentals.
26. Horseback Riding
Was the bride a horse girl when she was younger? Is she still a horse girl at heart? Then set up a horseback-riding trip. Remember to tell everyone to wear their best cowgirl or cowperson gear for the excursion.
27. Drag Brunch
You don't need any special supplies for this fun bachelorette party idea—just a reservation at a nearby restaurant that hosts drag brunch events. Let them know ahead of time that you're celebrating a bride-to-be if you want to put her in the spotlight.
Wild Bachelorette Party Ideas
You don't have to swing from the chandelier, but if you're looking for a good time, we have some options for you. These wild bachelorette party ideas will definitely liven up the celebration.
28. Boudoir Photoshoot
Boudoir photography doesn't only have to be for the bride. Hire a glam squad of professional hairstylists and makeup artists to hype everyone up, then pose for boudoir-style portraits with cute lingerie and pinup-style outfits.
29. Pole-Dancing Class
This bachelorette party idea is sure to be a memorable one for anyone who hasn't tried pole dancing before. You'll be surprised to learn that it's an impressive workout and major confidence booster.
30. Rage Room
This could be considered one of the most unusual bachelorette party ideas on our list, but we stand by it. Let all the wedding or life stress float away with this cathartic activity that involves going to a room, picking an instrument of destruction (like a bat) and smashing every item you see in your sight. These rooms are typically filled with objects like old electronics and plates for you to destroy as you please. And don't worry, you'll be wearing safety gear the entire time.
31. Psychic Readings
Ready for a glimpse into your future? Psychic and tarot readings are a fun way to break away from the usual bachelorette party activities—and you might even learn something new about yourself.
32. Ghost Tour
Love all things spooky? Get the group together to go on a guided ghost tour. You can book one of these any time of year, but we think this would be perfect during October—the official spooky season.
33. Burlesque Show
Calling Christina Aguilara, Cher and Kristen Bell. Head to a nearby burlesque or cabaret theater for a night of drinks, music and entertainment. Look for one with table service so you can avoid battling a crowded bar or missing part of the show.
34. Indoor Skydiving
This option is safer than *actual* skydiving but just as adrenaline-pumping, especially for first-timers. Not to mention: the action photos and videos your group will snap while watching everyone in flight.
35. Go-Karting
Have a need for speed? Hop on a go-kart and race against one another. This option is perfect for those who love some friendly competition.
36. Tattoo Parlor
Matching bachelorette party tattoos is a wild idea for the group that's especially tight-knit and a little daring. The ink doesn't have to be anything major—think: a small symbol that represents something about the bride or a common interest all of you share. Be sure to call ahead to confirm that the studio can accommodate groups.
Unique Bachelorette Party Ideas
Plan a one-of-a-kind celebration in honor of the bride-to-be with these unique bachelorette weekend ideas, from luxe upgrades to nontraditional activities and more.
37. Private Chef
Don't worry about cooking when you're trying to relax and have fun. Here's how to hire a private chef for a bachelorette party: figure out what kind of cuisine you want, pool your group's finances and budget to book a cook for the entire weekend. It's bougie in the best way, and you'll be so thankful waking up to homemade breakfast every morning.
38. At-Home Blowouts
Pamper your friends before a big night out by hiring stylists to do blowouts or other hairstyles. It's a little splurge that makes the celebration feel extra special compared to your average night on the town.
39. Couples Bach Party
Traditionally, each partner celebrates separately with their own wedding party, but who's to say that you can't all have fun together? Plan a joint bachelor/bachelorette party with groups from both sides. If not everyone knows each other, it's the perfect way to mingle and bond before the wedding day.
40. Glassblowing Class
For those who want the group to leave with sweet keepsakes, consider going to a glassblowing class. Yes, it'll be hot and a challenge, but who doesn't love the reward of making their own art?
41. Museum Tour
A museum tour is a great bachelorette party idea for the group that's looking for something a little more cultured. (Plus, you might be able to score free entry or a group discount, depending on the location.) Look for museums that offer private tours for the ultimate VIP experience.
42. Roller Skating
Put on your best '90s-inspired outfits and hit the floor with your roller skates or blades. This throwback activity is bound to be a workout, so plan bachelorette party food and drinks to recover afterward.
43. Axe Throwing
Blow off some steam before the wedding day with this wild bachelorette party idea. You might be surprised to see who in your group has the best aim. As always, you can make the experience even more fun with matching lumberjack-inspired outfits, like plaid flannel shirts.
44. Amusement Park
You won't need to worry about planning a day full of activities thanks to this action-packed bachelorette party idea. Even if you skip the extreme rides, it's a chance to feel like a kid again.
45. Volunteer Day
Use the bachelorette party as a chance to do good in the surrounding community while also creating one-of-a-kind memories for the bride. Give back by volunteering for neighborhood cleanup, food bank assistance or something else that speaks to your heart.
46. Music Festival
If there's a concert or music festival that the group is interested in, make a bachelorette trip out of it. This idea is great because everyone gets to see their favorite artist(s) and hang with their pals while doing so. Want to make this occasion feel different than usual? Upgrade to VIP tickets.
Cute Bachelorette Party Ideas
Looking for adorable things to do for a bachelorette party? Plan a bash that stands out from all the rest with these cute bachelorette party ideas. From craft sessions to unexpected surprises, everyone will love these creative and unexpected options.
47. Flower-Arranging Tutorial
Inspire a new hobby by booking a private flower-arranging class for everyone. This idea is especially cute if the bride or most of the guests live locally, since they'll be able to take the arrangements home after the party.
48. Picnic Luncheon
Embrace the cottagecore aesthetic by planning a backyard picnic at your home or rental home. Style the party with cute details like gingham blankets and tablecloths, vintage linen napkins, pastel-colored desserts and cabana umbrellas to provide shade.
49. Dessert Decorating
Gather up the baking supplies and get your creative juices flowing with this bachelorette party idea. Whether you want to try the wavy cake trend or add tons of sprinkles to your freshly baked sugar cookies, there are plenty of mouthwatering and fun directions you can take this activity.
50. Photo or Video Montage
Ask guests to share photos and videos of their favorite memories with the bride and compile them into a slideshow as a surprise. It's a cute bachelorette party idea to incorporate, whether your group is already a close-knit family or everyone is still getting to know each other.
51. Secret Buddy Gift Swap
A few weeks before the bachelorette party, assign a secret buddy to everyone in your crew. Set a spend limit and ask guests to bring a gift for their buddy to the party. Take turns opening gifts and guessing who they came from.
52. High Tea
Need some ideas for where to go for your bachelorette party? Then head to a luxury hotel or restaurant for a glam tea party. Tell everyone to wear their most Bridgerton-esque outfits to get the best pictures.
53. Permanent Jewelry
Think of this cute bachelorette party trend as the grown-up version of friendship bracelets. A permanent jewelry party involves choosing a thin chain, usually 24-karat gold, and welding the ends together in place of a clasp so that the bracelet or anklet stays on 24/7 (if necessary, most can be easily removed with scissors). It's a sweet way to symbolize the bond you share with your friend group.
54. Candle-Making Session
This creative bachelorette party idea can be done at home with your own supplies or with the help of a professional candle-making studio. Making the candles doubles as a fun group activity and a sweet take-home from the party.
55. Scavenger Hunt
Get out your trusty magnifying glass and set out on a scavenger hunt. You can make the clues from scratch, but if you don't have the time, we suggest checking out our bachelorette party scavenger hunt ideas or buying a scavenger hunt kit.
56. Adult Summer Camp
If you dreamed of going to sleepaway camp á la The Parent Trap as a kid, why not make your own grown-up version? Coordinate matching bachelorette summer camp-inspired uniforms for your friends, then deck out your party space with cabin-themed decor like colorful pennants and red-checkered tablecloths.