The Top 20th Anniversary Gifts to Mark Two Decades of Marriage

Congratulations! You and your spouse (or a couple you know) have been married for two incredible decades. Picking out a meaningful 20th anniversary gift is a lovely way to treat your spouse and kickstart the celebrations. Whether you're searching for romantic gifts that say "I love you" or practical picks that'll enhance your daily lives, we can help. We've rounded up the best 20th wedding anniversary gifts, from traditional and modern anniversary presents to alternative gifts that you can tailor to your unique love story. Find out what themes are associated with the 20th anniversary, then shop from our list of symbolic and creative picks.

In this article:

• Traditional 20th Anniversary Gifts
• Modern 20th Anniversary Gifts
• Unique 20th Anniversary Gifts

Traditional 20th Anniversary Gifts

The traditional 20th anniversary gift is made of fine china or porcelain. This delicate material represents the fragile nature of love and needs to be handled with care (just like a marriage). From porcelain dinnerware to trendy jewelry, there are lots of classic presents that nod to the theme. Here are our favorite traditional gifts for the 20th wedding anniversary.

Faux Bois Porcelain Mugs

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These faux bois mugs will add a fun element to your spouse's morning coffee ritual. They're made from porcelain and are designed to look like trees carved with your initials and wedding date. It's a cute and traditional 20th anniversary gift for your husband, wife or partner.

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China-Inspired Earrings

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If you think china gifts are all about dishes and vases, think again. These white and blue earrings are a creative interpretation of the traditional theme. With handcrafted enamel detailing and 14K gold-plated hardware, these cute accessories will look good with any outfit. Expect your spouse to show off their new anniversary jewelry at any opportunity.

Porcelain Ring Dish

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How about a 20th anniversary gift that'll keep your wedding rings safe? Give your spouse somewhere to stash their all-time favorite jewelry with this ring dish. It's made from pliable clay with gold-tone accents and can be personalized with your initials and anniversary date.

Custom Keepsake Plate

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Fine china can be tricky to find, so it's perfectly okay to choose ceramic instead. This personalized plate is a sentimental 20th anniversary gift. It's painted with an illustration of a couple, along with your names, wedding date and the sweet sentiment, "And they lived happily ever after." Aww!

Porcelain Trinket Box

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Everyone needs somewhere to keep their treasures safe, like wedding bands, cash or even earbuds. This porcelain trinket box will ensure your spouse's favorite pieces are easy to find. It's decorated with a traditional floral pattern and trimmed with gold. Hide a surprise inside for an extra thoughtful 20-year anniversary gift.

Porcelain Bird Feeder

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Does your spouse love gardening? Brighten up their favorite space with this porcelain hummingbird feeder. It's painted with colorful floral motifs that'll entice small birds to perch and feed. It's a fun way to honor the 20th anniversary theme and welcome feathered friends to your garden. (Psst: It's also a sweet anniversary gift for parents.)

Porcelain Dinnerware Set

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Here's a 20th anniversary gift idea worth bringing to the table. This dinnerware set includes four large plates, four salad plates and four bowls, all crafted from quality porcelain. While the blue and gold colorway gets our vote, it also comes in four other designs to suit your tastes.

Custom China Locket

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Is all your favorite wedding china still intact or have there been a few casualties over the years? If you have remnants of a precious plate you just couldn't throw away, we have good news. This Etsy seller will take those fragments and turn them into bespoke jewelry. Ideas for the 20-year anniversary don't get more inventive (or nostalgic) than this.

Luxe Stoneware Vase

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You can't go wrong with a pretty vase, especially if your spouse loves flowers. This Le Creuset vase is made from stoneware and features a ruffled edge inspired by petals. Choose from three colors, then fill it with blooms for a romantic traditional 20-year anniversary gift.

Cute Candle Holders

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How cute are these porcelain candle holders? This playful pair is designed to look like two figures leaning toward each other, ready to cuddle. Fill them with tea lights for a charming take on the china wedding anniversary theme.

Stoneware Teapot

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Enjoy afternoon tea for two with this pretty teapot. It's made from durable stoneware and decorated with Anthropologie's bistro tile design, complete with French-themed details. Our suggestion? Pair it with macarons and a handwritten invitation to join you for a romantic 20th anniversary date.

Modern 20th Anniversary Gifts

If traditional gifts aren't for you, turn to platinum, the modern 20th anniversary material, instead. This rare precious metal is known for its strength and corrosion resistance, making it a fitting tribute to a successful marriage. Whether you're looking for a 20th wedding anniversary gift for him, her or them, we'll help you find something special. Our list is full of ideas that reflect the modern theme, from sleek accessories to personalized anniversary gifts and more.

Platinum-Dipped Rose

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Roses are always romantic, but for two decades you may want to take things further. This platinum-dipped rose represents purity, strength and true love, making it a meaningful 20th anniversary gift for your spouse. Have the stem engraved with a heartfelt anniversary quote to seal the deal.

Platinum Eternity Band

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After 20 years of marriage, your spouse probably has at least two rings dedicated to your romantic union. But why stop there? This dazzling eternity band is a thoughtful way to celebrate your commitment, especially if you're renewing your vows. It's made from lab-grown diamonds set in platinum and will look great stacked with their wedding band and engagement ring.

Personalized Framed Artwork

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Relive the moment when you and your partner first crossed paths with this personalized wall art. The street signs display your names, the year you met and when you got married. Have the print finished with a platinum frame for a symbolic 20th anniversary gift.

Platinum Heart Necklace

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Give your heart away all over again with this understated necklace. Perfect for day or night, it features a petite platinum heart suspended from a matching cable chain. This modern 20-year anniversary gift is worth splurging on, particularly if your spouse enjoys adding to their jewelry collection.

Personalized Platinum Record

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Show your partner they're still your number one with this personalized record. It's made from an upcycled vinyl covered in platinum and can be customized with your names, a short message and five special songs. Talk about a cool 20th anniversary present for him, her or them.

Platinum and Glass Decanter

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Still searching for 20-year anniversary ideas? Fill this Waterford decanter with your spouse's favorite wine, then join them for a celebratory toast. This luxury gift is made from crystal and features a platinum band that subtly nods to the modern theme. Add your monogram for an extra touch of personalization.

Sound Wave Art

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Celebrate your 20th anniversary with an artful recreation of your first dance song. This piece displays the sound waves of your chosen tune on platinum-toned material, along with the song title and artist's name. Choose from a metal or paper print for an on-theme gift that shines.

Platinum and Diamond Earrings

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Planning to spoil your spouse with a luxurious 20th anniversary gift? These diamond studs are the ultimate jewelry gift. Timeless and elegant, they're made from lab-grown diamonds set in platinum hardware. Choose from several carat sizes for an elegant gift your partner will never want to take off.

Science-Themed Plaque

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If your spouse is into science or just loves clever gifts, they'll appreciate this 20th anniversary gift idea. The custom plaque features the chemical symbol for platinum, along with your names and anniversary date. Bonus: It comes framed for a display-ready finish.

Versatile Hair Styler

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Married to someone who's hair-obsessed? Surprise them with this ghd platinum styler on your 20th wedding anniversary. This top-notch tool is more than a hair straightener; it can also be used to curl hair, smooth frizz and tame flyaways. It's a useful platinum-inspired gift your spouse will reach for time and again.

Platinum Picture Frame

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There's nothing like a nostalgic photo to take you back in time. For your 20th anniversary, dig out your favorite throwback pic and present it in this luxe frame.The platinum-plated finish will make any photo feel extra special.

Unique 20th Anniversary Gifts

Aside from porcelain and platinum, there are a few other 20th anniversary symbols to inspire your shopping. Emerald is the 20th anniversary gemstone and the official color, representing love and loyalty. This milestone has two anniversary flowers, asters and daylilies, which both signify love and resilience. We've found thoughtful 20-year anniversary gifts to fit all of the above, along with alternatives that you can make your own.

Canvas Map Art

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This canvas art commemorates your most cherished moments as a couple, like when you met, got engaged and exchanged vows. The location of each milestone is displayed inside a heart, with the corresponding dates underneath. It's a sentimental 20th anniversary gift you can hang anywhere in your home.

Emerald Earrings

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These stylish emerald earrings showcase the 20th anniversary gemstone. Each petal-shaped stud is made from lab-grown emeralds and diamonds set in 18K white gold. They'll add a pop of color to your spouse's outfits without being flashy.

Anniversary Newspaper Puzzle

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Here's a unique 20th anniversary gift for your husband, wife or spouse: a puzzle that recreates the front page of The New York Times from your wedding day. You'll have hours of fun reminiscing on the last two decades together as you create a 500- or 1000-piece jigsaw. Pair it with a bottle of wine and snacks for a fun date night idea.

Charcuterie Board

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Gifts for the 20th wedding anniversary don't have to be sentimental or practical…they can simply be delicious. Boarderie's charcuterie boards come ready-to-eat, no prep required. This tasty spread includes meats, crackers, cheeses, olives, nuts and chocolate, all carefully presented on an acacia wood board.

Fun Travel Experience

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Looking for fresh and exciting 20-year anniversary ideas? Tinggly's Bucketlist voucher will help you make new memories. It allows you to choose from over 10,000 activities across 100 countries, so you can finally do that thing you've always wanted. (Bonus: There are lots of options within the US, so you don't have to travel internationally to use it.)

Use the TK code to get 10% off all experience gift boxes and getaway gifts.

Multi-Fuel Pizza Oven

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If you're looking for a thoughtful 20th anniversary gift for a dedicated pizza lover, check out Ooni. Their coveted pizza ovens can make delicious homemade pizza in minutes, using wood, oil or charcoal. Your spouse will be excited to crank it up every time guests come over.

Smart Indoor Garden

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Who wouldn't appreciate a no-fuss indoor garden? Click & Grow smart gardens automate plant care, from watering to light, allowing you to grow herbs and veggies easily. It's a unique 20th anniversary gift that keeps on giving, no green thumb required.

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Embroidered Throw Blanket

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Cuddle up to your spouse with this cozy 20th anniversary present. The woven throw blanket is made from 100% cotton and can be custom embroidered with your names and wedding details. Choose from various thread colors, including emerald green, the milestone's official color.

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Luxurious Cashmere Sweater

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Shopping for a luxurious 20th anniversary gift for your wife? Make it cashmere. This cozy fisherman sweater is made from 100% Mongolian cashmere and comes in a variety of classic colors. The boxy shape is perfect for tucking into jeans, layering over dresses or with loungewear.

Aster Wine Glass

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Unique 20th anniversary wedding gifts don't have to be expensive to impress. This stemless wine glass is printed with pretty asters, one of the milestone's designated flowers. It's a simple yet thoughtful gift that'll score you points for creativity.

Digital Photo Frame

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Big milestones are the perfect time to look back and reflect. That's why a digital photo frame is a great 20th anniversary gift idea for your spouse. This smart device connects to an app where they can share their favorite photos and view them on a loop. Tip: Upload photos for each year of your marriage before handing it over.

Engraved Daylily Art

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Celebrate the other 20th anniversary flower, the daylily, with this cool artwork. It's made from a birch wood panel, with intricate details of the bloom etched into the surface. Nature lovers will cherish this uniquely symbolic gift.

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