30 Thoughtful 30th Anniversary Gift Ideas for Your Spouse, Parents or Friends

Congratulations: You've been married for nearly 30 years! Whether you're throwing a party or keeping the celebrations low key, we'll help you find the perfect 30th anniversary gift for the occasion. If you're shopping for 30th wedding anniversary gifts for parents or married friends, we've got plenty of ideas that'll work for them too. We'll also explore the various 30th anniversary traditional and modern gifts, if you'd like to pick a themed gift for your spouse or favorite couple. Here are our favorite 30-year anniversary present ideas for him, her or them.

In this article:

• Our Favorite 30th Wedding Anniversary Gifts
• 30th Anniversary Gifts for Her
• 30th Anniversary Gifts for Him

Our Favorite 30th Wedding Anniversary Gifts

Before we share our favorite 30th wedding anniversary gifts, we'll talk about the milestone's themes and symbols. The traditional 30th anniversary gift is pearls: shiny, iridescent jewels that symbolize love, purity and wisdom. Sticking with precious gemstones, the modern 30th anniversary theme is diamonds, representing love and faithfulness. While jewelry is an obvious way to honor the traditional and modern themes, there are other options like home decor, accessories and keepsakes. Looking for more ideas? Take inspiration from the 30th anniversary flowers, lilies, or the associated color, green. We've found gifts that follow these themes, along with unique picks that work for anyone, from your spouse to your favorite duo.

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Personalized Anniversary Sundial

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If you're shopping for pearl anniversary gifts for your spouse or a couple, consider this personalized sundial. It features a "Happy Anniversary" message in polished gold against a white background to reflect the traditional 30th anniversary theme. Add an outdoor stand so they can display it in the garden or patio.

Sentimental Wall Art

Photo: Uncommon Goods

Celebrate where it all began with this personalized wall print. It features two intersecting street signs displaying the couple's names and two important dates in their relationship, such as the years they met and got married. Have it framed for a thoughtful 30th anniversary present for your parents, friends or spouse.

Custom Engraved Hourglass

Photo: Personalization Mall

After 30 years of marriage, your favorite couple deserves a special gift that celebrates their devotion to one another. This elegant hourglass is engraved with their names and wedding date, alongside a heartfelt message that reads: "Our love is timeless." It comes in a satin-lined box for an elegant presentation.

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Elegant Photo Frame

Photo: Neiman Marcus

Marriage is all about shared experiences and, after three decades together, you probably have lots of fond memories. If you're feeling nostalgic, grab your favorite photo and add it to this pink mother-of-pearl frame. The rosy tones of this traditional 30-year anniversary gift will add a romantic touch to the photo inside.

Personalized Star Map

Photo: Canvas Vows

The modern 30th anniversary gift may be diamonds, but that doesn't mean jewelry is the only option. This constellation map stretches the theme a little as it looks like diamonds in the sky. It features a starry scene surrounded by your wedding vows or the lyrics of your first dance song. Sweet, we know.

Custom Bottle of Wine

Photo: Mano's Wine

Here's a unique 30th wedding anniversary gift for a couple who likes wine: a personalized bottle of cabernet sauvignon. The bottle is etched with their names and anniversary details for a thoughtful keepsake they can treasure even after the wine is gone. They'll think of you when they toast to their happy marriage.

Symbolic Anniversary Sculpture

Photo: Uncommon Goods

True love grows over time, and this pearlescent tree sculpture reflects that concept perfectly. The wire branches are decorated with fragments of white glass to represent the traditional 30th anniversary material, while the base features a metal heart. It's a thoughtful, thematic gift any couple will be happy to receive.

Diamond Decanter Set

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Shopping for a 30th anniversary gift for your friends? This glassware set is a fun spin on the modern theme. It includes a diamond-shaped decanter and four matching tumblers that aerate the contents for a better drinking experience. Have the wooden stand engraved with their names and anniversary date for a personalized touch.

Charcuterie and Cheese Board

Photo: Boarderie

Gifts for the 30th anniversary don't have to be sentimental to feel special; they can be delicious too. Treat your spouse (or the happy couple) to a Boarderie charcuterie board to celebrate. This ready-to-eat spread includes artisanal cheeses, meats, nuts, crackers, olives and chocolates, all carefully presented on an acacia serving board. Yum!

Embroidered Throw Blanket

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Personalized anniversary gifts are always a win, whether you're shopping for your spouse or friends. This embroidered cotton throw blanket features a diamond pattern that subtly nods to the modern theme. Have it embroidered in green thread to incorporate the 30th anniversary color.

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30th Anniversary Gifts for Her

Searching for 30th anniversary gifts for her? We've curated a list of thoughtful gifts for your wife, from symbolic anniversary jewelry she'll want to show off to sentimental keepsakes that'll touch her heart. Pretty pearls, dazzling diamonds and lush lilies…right this way!

Diamond Eternity Ring

Photo: Blue Nile

Planning to splurge on a 30th anniversary gift for your wife? This diamond eternity band is especially fitting if you're renewing your vows. It's embellished with sparkly micropavé diamonds and looks beautiful worn alone or stacked with an engagement ring and wedding band. Choose from four metal finishes to suit her style.

The Forever Rose

Photo: The Forever Rose

Here's another romantic anniversary gift for your 30th year of marriage. The Forever Rose is exactly what it sounds like, a real rose that lasts forever. The pretty flower is preserved in a shiny white lacquer to match the traditional 30-year theme. You can engrave the stem with a heartfelt anniversary quote for an extra touch of personalization.

Pearl Hoop Earrings

Photo: Mejuri

The 30th anniversary stone gets a fun update in these Mejuri hoop earrings. They're made from 18K gold vermeil and decorated with freshwater pearls. Each gem is handpicked and completely unique, just like your spouse. We love how the understated design works with both casual and dressy outfits.

Fresh Lily Bouquet

Photo: FTD

Take your cue from the 30th anniversary flower with this beautiful bouquet. It's available in four sizes and features pink lilies accented with red roses and alstroemeria. We love the romantic hues of these fresh blooms and we think your spouse will too. (Psst: Same-day delivery is available if you need a last-minute anniversary gift.)

Pearl Watch

Photo: Nacre

A watch is a thoughtful way to celebrate all the happy times you've spent with your spouse. This eye-catching accessory features an Italian leather band, complemented by 48 nacre pearls on the dial. Choose from five different strap colors for a sophisticated and symbolic 30-year anniversary gift.

Diamond Tennis Bracelet

Photo: Brilliant Earth

Some 30th wedding anniversary presents are worth the investment, like a diamond tennis bracelet. This timeless piece is decorated with lab-grown diamonds and finished in white or yellow gold. And, because it's designed by Brilliant Earth, you can rest assured that it's made with ethically-sourced materials.

Set of Ring Dishes

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Looking for a 30-year anniversary gift that's thoughtful and practical? These trinket dishes tick both boxes. They're made from shiny mother-of-pearl and nest inside each other for clever storage. Our suggestion? Pair them with a new piece of jewelry to elevate this simple gift.

Diamond Heart Necklace

Photo: Gorjana

If your spouse prefers dainty, everyday jewelry, they'll love this sparkly heart necklace. It's crafted from solid gold and pavé diamonds for an understated take on the modern 30th anniversary theme. Expect to see your partner wear this gorgeous accessory at every opportunity.

Custom Storybook

Photo: Wonderbly

How adorable is this custom storybook from Wonderbly? It's filled with personalized pages and illustrations inspired by your 30-year marriage. We can't think of a more romantic way to say I love you and thank your spouse for their support. Don't be surprised if this unique 30th anniversary gift brings on the happy tears.

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Lily-Inspired Pendant

Photo: Made By Mary

Here's another 30th wedding anniversary gift that incorporates the milestone's flower. This pretty pendant is engraved with a lily and comes in three metallic finishes: gold, rose gold or silver. It's perfect for layering with other pieces or wearing alone for a more minimalist look.

30th Anniversary Gifts for Him

If you're finding it tricky to choose 30th anniversary gifts for him, we feel you. The 30-year anniversary is such an important milestone, it's totally understandable if you're stumped for ideas. Luckily, we've found the best presents for your special guy, from sleek accessories and nostalgic prints to clever gadgets and more.

Diamond-Studded Watch

Photo: Citizen

Diamonds aren't just a girl's best friend, you know. If you're looking for a modern 30th anniversary gift for your husband, this watch is a great choice. The diamond-studded dial and black ion-plated hardware look effortlessly cool, but there's more. The watch is powered solely by light, so he'll never need to replace the battery.

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Stylish Cufflinks

Photo: Neiman Marcus

Whether your spouse enjoys dressing up for work or special occasions, they'll love these stylish cufflinks. They're made from stainless steel and feature a mother-of-pearl stripe that ties to the traditional 30th anniversary gift theme.

Digital Picture Frame

Photo: Amazon

Married to a guy who loves gadgets? An Aura frame is a thoughtful and useful 30th anniversary gift for him. This digital device connects to an app where you can upload all your favorite photos and display them on a loop. You can also invite loved ones to share photos, allowing you to keep up with your kids and maybe even grandkids.

Engraved Diamond Paperweight

Photo: Personalization Mall

Your spouse is a gem that you were lucky to find all those years ago. Remind them just how precious they are with this sentimental 30th anniversary gift. The glass paperweight is shaped like a diamond and can be engraved with a heartfelt message. It's a thoughtful present they can display in their office.

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Newspaper Anniversary Print

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Feeling nostalgic on your 30th marriage anniversary? This personalized newspaper art will inspire a trip down memory lane. It features top headlines from the year you got married, along with sports news, TV highlights and general trivia. Note: The finished piece is a digital file you can print and frame yourself.

Indoor Smart Garden

Photo: Click & Grow

If you're searching for a unique 30th wedding anniversary gift for your husband, how about an indoor smart garden? This clever device is perfect for novice gardeners and pros alike. It provides plants with optimal nutrients, light and water, making gardening practically foolproof. The starter kit includes three basil pods, but you can also add other plants like wildflowers, fruits and vegetables.

Leather Smart Wallet

Photo: Ekster

Sometimes, the simplest gifts are the most thoughtful. If your spouse needs a wallet, snag them one of Ekster's sleek designs. It's made from environmentally certified leather and can hold up to 12 credit cards. The clever design also protects cards from skimming and wireless fraud, keeping their funds safe.

Swivel Cheese Board

Photo: Uncommon Goods

Here's a 30-year wedding anniversary gift any foodie will appreciate. This compact wooden board looks like a wedge of cheese when folded and opens up to reveal four tiered compartments for serving snacks. A built-in utensil drawer provides hidden storage for a cheese fork and knife.

Waxed Trucker Jacket

Photo: Huckberry

Wearable gifts are always welcome, especially if your spouse likes practical presents. This trucker jacket is made from waxed sailcloth and lined with soft flannel for added warmth. It looks great layered over shirts or with jeans, and will last for years to come. Choose from classic shades, including brown, black or green, the 30th anniversary color.

Wireless Earphones

Photo: Amazon

Treat your music-loving spouse to a tech upgrade with these wireless earphones. Their black marble design nods to the traditional 30-year anniversary stone, but they're not just pretty to look at. They offer crystal-clear sound with noise-canceling technology, perfect for tuning out noisy commutes (or even noisier office coworkers).

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