35 Thoughtful 13-Year Anniversary Gifts For Very Fortunate Couples

The number 13 is typically considered unlucky, but that's certainly not the case for a couple hitting their 13th wedding anniversary. Anyone who has shared this many years with a loving spouse likely feels nothing but fortune and gratitude. A 13-year anniversary gift is a thoughtful way to celebrate, whether it's for your own partner or a couple you care about. Every year of marriage is associated with a traditional and modern gift, as well as an official flower, gemstone and color. Choosing an anniversary gift inspired by these symbols is a beautiful way to add deeper meaning to your gesture. Below, you'll find 13th anniversary gift ideas that honor the milestone's themes. We've also included a few picks that may not follow tradition, but make up for it with charm, romance and serious crowd appeal.

In this article:

• Traditional 13-Year Anniversary Gifts
• Modern 13-Year Anniversary Gifts
• Unique 13-Year Anniversary Gift Ideas

Traditional 13-Year Anniversary Gifts

The traditional 13th anniversary gift is lace. This delicate fabric symbolizes the beauty and complexity of a long-lasting marriage, with its intricate patterns reflecting how two lives become entwined over time. Like lace, a strong relationship is crafted with care, patience and attention to detail. So, a lace anniversary gift for her, him or them isn't just a testament to your love and commitment, but a promise to continue nurturing that connection for years to come.

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Lace Heart Pendant

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If your spouse has a heart of gold, this sentimental piece of jewelry is sure to make them melt inside. The delicate heart pendant is handmade from real lace fabric dipped in copper and 24K gold, creating a piece of wearable art. This stands out as a truly unique and creative 13th anniversary present for your spouse, making it take the top spot on our list.

Lace Fabric Cuff Links

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Give your spouse's suit a thoughtful (and thematic!) touch with these lace cuff links. They're handmade from lace and inlaid in metal hardware for a stylish accessory that's sure to elevate any ensemble. Choose from four different colors of lace and five metallic finishes to tailor the look to your partner's favorite formalwear.

Lace Pedestal Jewelry Holder

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If your partner already has an impressive jewelry collection, why not give them a unique gift to store all their favorite baubles? This ceramic pedestal is made by hand and pressed with vintage lace to create a stunningly beautiful design that's right on theme. The deep dish offers plenty of space for sorting rings and bracelets, while the small holes along the edge are ideal for dangling delicate earrings. It's a 13-year anniversary gift for your wife, husband or spouse that's destined to delight (and organize their vanity).

Lace Slip

Photo: Victoria's Secret

The lace anniversary is a great occasion to upgrade your partner's lingerie collection with something that'll make them feel special and sexy. This slip from the iconic lingerie brand Victoria's Secret features a keyhole cutout with a tie at the bodice and a flattering flutter at the waist. It's made entirely of lace and comes in light pink, blue or black.

Lace Boxers

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You're going to be obsessed with your spouse when they step out wearing this 13-year anniversary present from you, which will really show off their package. The mid-rise trunk shorts are supportive, comfortable and very sultry thanks to the allover lace fabric. And they come in over a dozen colors!

Floral Lace Solar Lantern

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Add even more light to your partner's life with a charming outdoor chandelier. The lantern is made of synthetic all-weather lace fabric so it can decorate your backyard all year. Plus, it comes with a solar-powered rechargeable battery so you won't even need to take it down to change the LED light bulb.

Lace-Scrolled Butterfly Puddler

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If your spouse has a green thumb or if you're shopping for a couple who loves to garden, this heart-shaped stone will be a sweet addition to their backyard. And it's not just decorative: It has a shallow well to fill with sand and water to feed butterflies who crave the minerals and salts left behind as the water evaporates. True naturalists will love that once butterflies know where they can find these nutritious treats, they'll return regularly. The puddler's lace-scrolled design makes it the perfect fit for the 13-year anniversary's traditional gift theme.

Lace Headscarf

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If they love to drive with the top down or dress with a bit of a bohemian flair, a lace headscarf could be a good 13th wedding anniversary gift. This delicate accessory adds a touch of vintage charm to any outfit while keeping their locks pulled back. It comes in ivory, for a classic lace look, or taupe, for a more understated appearance.

Lace Print Sunglasses

Photo: Lele Sadoughi

These sunglasses are a fashion-forward accessory that effortlessly combine the elegance of lace with a modern aesthetic. The frames are printed with a white lace pattern, while the oversized lenses offer 100% UVA/UVB protection. They're just what your spouse needs to add a touch of flair to their everyday outfits.

Lace Bottle Bag

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If you're cracking open a bottle of bubbly in honor of the 13th anniversary, you may as well do it style. This hand-knit lace bottle bag is beaded with a heart and the milestone year to remind you how far you've come as a married couple. You can also add a pair of coordinating coasters with the message "I still do" for an extra sweet touch. To up the ante, choose a bottle of anniversary-worthy wine to go with it and get ready to toast to another 13 years of wedded bliss.

Lace Midi Dress

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A slim-fitting dress with a delicate lace overlay and airy cutouts would make a lovely and versatile 13th wedding anniversary gift for your wife. It's available in four classic colors—black, navy, pink and white—and the elegant design is perfect for a romantic candlelit dinner. The recipient can also wear it for many special occasions to come, making it a thoughtful and practical gift.

Lace Pattern Tie

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When shopping for a spouse who enjoys dressing up, don't be afraid to have some fun. While a lace necktie may not be the gift they're expecting, we bet they'll be wowed when they see this one. It features a distinctive pattern inspired by vintage lace and comes in two fashionable color combinations. Our prediction? This 13th anniversary gift for him will draw plenty of compliments at the next office party or family gathering.

Irish Lace Tumblers

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These elegant crystal tumblers are a great way to commemorate the 13-year anniversary, especially if the one you're shopping for is partial to a whiskey or two. The overall pattern is inspired by traditional Irish lace, resulting in an intricate design of diamond, fan and wedge cuts. Don't be surprised if they immediately head to their bar cart to pour a celebratory cocktail.

Lace Porcelain Plate Set

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These embossed dinner plates are another creative way to stretch the lace anniversary gifts theme. They're made from porcelain and feature a vintage lace pattern with scalloped edges that'll bring a sophisticated touch to any tabletop setting. The plates come in a set of four and are the perfect gift for 13 years of marriage, especially for anyone who loves antique-inspired dishware.

Lace Trim Tablecloth

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LoveShackFancy teamed up with Pottery Barn to deliver a whimsical collection of home goods. This white tablecloth has a crocheted ruffle lace hem that'll make your dining table look extra fancy for at-home date nights. Plus, there are matching napkins to finish the table setting.

Modern 13-Year Anniversary Gifts

If you love luxurious fabrics and handcrafted pieces, you're in luck! The modern 13-year anniversary gift theme is represented by fur and textiles. Tactile and soft, fur (or faux fur) symbolizes the warm and fuzzy feelings of being deeply in love. Textiles (think: cotton, linen, wool or any other fabric) speak to the intertwining of two lives to form one strong bond. Faux fur and textile anniversary gifts come in all shapes and sizes, so it's easy to get creative when shopping. From practical, everyday items like blankets and sheets to luxurious loungewear, there are many ways to embrace the 13-year anniversary's modern gift.

Cotton and Linen Woven Duvet

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This duvet cover combines the 13-year anniversary gift's traditional and modern theme. Hand-woven with luxurious linen and cotton to represent textiles, it features a quilted white lace pattern to represent lace. We recommend adding the shams, which have a beautiful lace line to complete the bedspread. It comes in five sizes from twin to California king, so you can redecorate your primary bedroom or a guest room. Either way, your bed will look almost too beautiful to sleep in.

Eucalyptus Sheet Set

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Further embrace the modern 13th wedding anniversary gift in the bedroom with some luxe bed sheets. This silky sheet set from Eucalypso includes a fitted sheet, a top sheet and two pillowcases, all made from sustainably sourced TENCEL lyocell fibers. This unique material is temperature-regulating, cool to the touch and ultra-soft, so you and your spouse can have a really comfy night's sleep. Because sometimes, a sweet and restful slumber is the best gift of all.

Weighted Faux Fur Blanket

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This blanket will help your partner or loved ones achieve the zen state they deserve after a busy day. Unlike ordinary throw blankets, this one is lightly weighted, which is ultra-comforting and can also help reduce anxiety. It's made to feel just like chinchilla, except it's crafted with recycled, cruelty-free materials. It comes in a dozen colors and three sizes, so you can find the perfect fit for your loved one.

Mongolian Lamb Pillow Cover

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These fabulously fluffy pillow covers turn any room into a soft, stylish sanctuary. They're crafted from 100% authentic Mongolian lamb fur, offering a soft touch and fun texture that'll elevate any living space. The pillow covers come in four neutral colors, and we recommend snagging a set of two for a harmonious pairing. For the couple that's anything but ordinary, they make a unique and luxurious 13th-anniversary gift.

Textile Wall Hanging

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If your partner or favorite pair appreciates artsy designs, we think they'll love this boho-inspired wall hanging. The handcrafted tassels are made from cotton rope using a macrame knotting technique looped on a wooden dowel for easy hanging. It's a tactile piece of art they'll be proud to display in their bedroom or living area.

Plush Bathrobe

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A plush bathrobe is a no-brainer if your partner likes to lounge after a shower or swim. This one from Parachute is made from 100% long-staple Turkish cotton and comes with roomy pockets and a tie waist to keep them cozy. Whether they wear it straight out of bed or for an evening of self-care, we bet they'll never want to take it off.

Faux Fur Slippers

Photo: Nordstrom

Thirteen years in, there's no reason for cold feet to set in now. With these knitted faux fur slippers, you'll nail the 13th anniversary theme and earn brownie points for your thoughtfulness. They feature a rustic Nordic-inspired design and are lined with super-soft faux fur and cushioned memory foam for supreme comfort.

Silk and Lace Pajama Set

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If your partner likes to chill out on the weekends, a set of silk loungewear is a gift they'll use and love. With delicate lace trim, it doubles as a good traditional 13-year anniversary present too. This cami and shorts combo is made from 100% Mulberry silk for supreme coziness they'll never want to take off. There are a few different color combinations, including this elegant blue print.

Flannel Trucker Jacket

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Wearable gifts are always welcome, especially if your spouse has a distinct sense of style. This trucker jacket from Flint and Tinder has a waxy canvas exterior designed to lighten over time in the creases created by the wearer, making it a truly personal piece. The best part? It's fully lined with soft flannel for a 13th anniversary present that'll warm more than just their heart.

Embroidered Apron Kit

Photo: Chasing Threads

If you're shopping for a creative couple, we've found the perfect textile-themed gift to help them get crafting. This embroidery kit includes a cotton canvas apron and all the essentials to stitch on cute and colorful vegetable-inspired motifs. It comes with brightly colored embroidery threads, a metal needle, a faux-suede pocket and apron straps, plus a canvas printed with light gray illustrations, so the sewing process is simple and super fun.

Unique 13-Year Anniversary Gift Ideas

Not every anniversary gift has to stick to tradition. Sometimes, the most meaningful surprise is simply something your partner truly wants. (Maybe they've even dropped a hint or two!) Still, if you're looking for a little symbolic inspiration, the 13th anniversary is also tied to a flower, a gemstone and a color: the chrysanthemum, citrine and white. Chrysanthemums symbolize love, longevity and happiness—perfect for celebrating a relationship that's still thriving. For jewelry lovers, citrine's warm golden hue is said to bring joy, prosperity and positive energy. And white, the official color of the 13th anniversary, represents purity, innocence and enduring love. In this round-up, you'll find thoughtful gifts inspired by each of these meaningful symbols, plus a few unexpected picks for couples who prefer to celebrate in their own unique style.

Custom Wooden Sign

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Personalized anniversary gifts are always popular, and it's easy to see why: they show the extra care and effort you've put into making the present even more special. Make the happy couple feel all the love with a custom wooden sign they can display in their kitchen, living room or mudroom. Choose from a variety of gorgeous finishes, from dark walnut to antique white, and add their names and wedding date for a 13-year wedding anniversary gift they'll treasure for a long time.

Matching Underwear

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If you and your other half love to laugh together, a funny anniversary gift could be the way to go. Matching underwear is guaranteed to make them giggle, especially when the patterns are as fun and colorful as these. If you want these novelty undergarments to be more than a one-off, you can even buy a membership to receive new undies each month.

Oatmeal Bowl

Photo: Uncommon Goods

Sometimes noticing the little things about your spouse (like what they eat for breakfast) is a sweet way to show them you care. This clever bowl doubles as a hand warmer, allowing your partner to heat their mitts while enjoying their freshly made oatmeal. It even has an extra-wide handle and a little notch for their spoon to rest on. It's a year-13 anniversary gift that'll bring them comfort and joy on even the coldest of mornings.

Citrine Hoop Earrings

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Citrine, the 13th anniversary gemstone, is meant to bring prosperity and joy to the receiver. Who doesn't want that? If your spouse is into dainty jewelry, they'll adore these huggie drop earrings. The delicate hoops are made from your choice of metal with pear-shaped stones for a stylish 13th-anniversary gift for her.

Fill-in-the-Blank Book

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Love letters are a classic, romantic gift for a reason—but after 13 years of marriage, it's okay if you're running out of creative anniversary presents that say, "I love you." Luckily, we've found a really thoughtful gift that can help. This fill-in-the-blank book gives you prompts to help you pen a heartfelt note to your other half. (Be warned: This gift is so sweet, it may even provoke a few happy tears.)

Handheld Massager

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This Theragun massager is one of the most popular gifts out there, and for a good reason. It was originally designed as a recovery tool for elite athletes before it became a self-care sensation for everyone. If your spouse suffers from sore muscles—whether from the gym or WFH—this handy tool will be a lifesaver. It provides a deep muscle treatment to loosen knots and soothe stiffness in minutes.

Chrysanthemum Tea

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Honor the 13th anniversary flower, the chrysanthemum, with this delicious (and cheery!) blend of organic tea. Each dried chrysanthemum flower can steep up to three cups of tea, lending a sweet herbal flavor to each batch. This wonder bloom is also known for its calming effects on the body and mind and is even said to reduce inflammation, making it the ideal brew for relaxing self-care days at home.

Coffee Mugs

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A set of classic coffee mugs is a fail-safe option, especially if you're shopping for someone who loves their morning brew. These sturdy stoneware mugs from Le Creuset are made for stylish sipping at any time of the day. Whether they use them to serve tea, lattes or hot chocolate, these cups will make a practical addition to their kitchen. Best of all, they come in a wide range of colors, including white, the 13th anniversary hue.

Pampering Kit

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If your partner is always on the go, encourage them to take some time to relax and pamper themselves. This tin of goodies is filled with everything they need to enjoy a relaxing at-home spa experience, including farm-fresh bath truffles, soothing lip balm and even wedding-cake scented shea butter. Once they've used everything inside, they can repurpose the tin to store other beauty essentials.

Outdoor Garden Shelf

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Does your partner or favorite duo love gardening in their downtime? This three-tier shelf is perfect for showing off all their hard work. It's crafted from solid fir wood that's both durable and nice to look at and will keep their potted plants secure all day. The slatted shelves allow for proper water drainage, so there's no need to worry about any puddles forming after watering time. It's a thoughtful 13th wedding anniversary gift they can use long after the big day has passed.