13 Year Anniversary Gift Ideas Your Spouse (or Favorite Couple) Will Love

Looking for the perfect 13 year anniversary gift for your spouse or favorite couples? These are the best 13 year anniversary gift options (and what they represent).
by The Knot

Congrats! You’ve made it to 13 years with your spouse (or have a loved one who has), and now comes the hard part: picking out that perfect 13 year anniversary gift.

When it comes to anniversary gifts, you might be familiar with the “anniversary materials.” Whether it’s paper for your first anniversary or aluminum for your tenth, every year signifies a new landmark and a new symbol of your love. As for 13 year anniversary gifts? The classic material is lace and a modern take includes faux fur and textile gifts, but you also have free range to get whatever you see fit. Read more about 13 year anniversary gifts, what they symbolize and some serious gift-spiration, below.

What Is the 13 Year Anniversary Gift?

Traditional: Lace

Traditionally speaking, the material that represents the 13 year anniversary gift is lace. It represents intricate beauty, and requires patience and care to foster, just like a relationship after 13 years together. While you can always go for lacy lingerie, we’ll provide plenty of 13 year anniversary gift options that work outside the bedroom too.

Modern: Faux Fur and Textiles

A more modern take on 13 year anniversary gift ideas is textiles (which is broad, and includes any sort of clothing or home goods made of cloth) and fur (but always of the faux variety).


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  1. 13 Year Anniversary Gift Ideas for Her

    When it comes to picking out a 13 year anniversary gift for your wife, you’re certainly not relegated to lace, faux fur or textile objects if that’s not what she’s into. It’s totally okay to think outside the box (and stick to classic gifts you know she’ll love) when looking for the perfect 13 year anniversary gift for her.

  2. 1. A chic, heart-shaped pair of earrings is the perfect way to tell your wife you love her after 13 years together.

    Christy Natsumi Tender Heart studs, $388, ChristyNatsumi.com

  4. 2. Need a 13 year anniversary gift for the jewelry lover? Get her a personalized gold necklace with her initial. 

    Jennier Meyer letter 18-karat gold diamond necklace, $1,800, Net-A-Porter.com

  5. 3. A mirrored jewelry box is a versatile 13 year anniversary gift that’ll help keep her organized for the next 13 years together. 

    Pottery Barn ultimate mirrored jewelry box, $199, PotteryBarn.com

  7. 4. A silk pillowcase is the perfect 13 year anniversary gift for a woman who loves her beauty sleep (and we promise she won’t judge you if you get one for yourself too). 

    Slip for Beauty Sleep Slipsilk pure silk pillowcase, $99, Nordstrom.com


  8. 5. Get her a pair of sleek black leather flats she’ll want to wear everywhere, no matter the season. 

    Modern Vice Jovi slide, $249, ModernVice.com

  9. 13 Year Anniversary Gift Ideas for Him

    The same idea goes for picking out a 13 year anniversary gift for your husband—you certainly don’t need to stick to lace, faux fur or textile gifts if you’re having trouble finding something he’ll like in those materials. Find the best 13 year anniversary gift ideas for him, below.

  11. 1. If your husband’s a music lover, get him a personalized LP record for your 13 year anniversary. (Just make sure he has a record player first.)

    Jeff Davis personalized LP record, $150, UncommonGoods.com

  12. 2. Your relationship has stood the test of time, so why not get him a sleek watch he’ll wear over and over again for your 13th anniversary? 

    Larsson & Jennings Lugano 40 mm watch, $245, Bloomingdales.com

  13. 3. A luxe leather party bucket is the perfect 13 year anniversary gift for the guy who loves to entertain. 

    Pottery Barn saddle leather party bucket, $139, PotteryBarn.com

  15. 4. Whether or not your husband’s a whiz in the kitchen, a smart waffle maker is a great 13 year anniversary gift that you’re bound to benefit from too. 

    Breville smart waffle, $200, SurLaTable.com

  16. 5. A luxurious silk pajama set is a 13 year anniversary gift he’ll thank you over and over again for (especially in the mornings). 

    Zimmerli silk pajama set, $570, MrPorter.com

  17. 13 Year Anniversary Gift Ideas for Them

    Know a couple whose 13 year anniversary is approaching? We have the perfect 13 year anniversary gift ideas for them. Below, check out some options to get for a couple who’s celebrating soon.

  19. 1. A “Test of Time” wedding clock that you can personalize is a sweet, cheeky 13 year anniversary gift for friends or family members. 

    Personal Creations Test of Time wedding clock, $80, Gifts.com

  20. 2. If your friends or family members happen to be caffeine addicts, a vintage, stylish stainless steel coffee maker will be a hit. 

    World Market vintage style stainless steel percolator coffee maker, $40, WorldMarket.com

  21. 3. An ice bucket is the perfect 13 year anniversary gift for the couple who loves to entertain. 

    Pottery Barn copper lidded ice bucket, $69, PotteryBarn.com

  22. 4. Have a couple of friends who know their way around a kitchen? Get them a highly sought-after mixer that they’ll cook and bake with for years to come. 

    KitchenAid Artisan stand mixer, $600, SurLaTable.com

  23. Lace Anniversary Gifts for Her

    If you’re interested in sticking to the traditional material—lace—for a 13 year anniversary gift for her, you have plenty of options (designer shoes, anyone?). Below, check out the best lace 13 year anniversary gifts, below.

  24. 1. A comfortable, silky robe with lace trim is a 13 year anniversary gift she’ll lounge in for years to come. 

    Gilligan & O’Malley women’s robe with lace, $25, Target.com

  25. 2. Lace statement jewelry—like this cuff bracelet—is a brilliant way to incorporate the traditional anniversary material. 

    EdenLuxeBridal lace cuff bracelet, $63, Etsy.com

  26. 3. A chic, feminine dress rendered in lace is the perfect 13 year anniversary gift for the fashion lover. 

    Temperley London Wondering lace dress, $1,395, ShopBop.com

  27. 4. Let’s just say a pair of these lace pumps is a 13 year anniversary gift she’ll never forget. 

    Manolo Blahnik Hangisi satin lace pumps, $1,025, BergdorfGoodman.com

  28. 5. Get her a lace bangle that she can stack with her other favorite jewelry pieces. 

    Tuliana and Alejandra Garces simplicity lace bangle, $85, UncommonGoods.com

  29. Lace Anniversary Gifts for Him

    Surprisingly, there are lots of lace anniversary gift ideas for him. Below, check out the best lace 13 year anniversary gift ideas for him.

  30. 1. You can incorporate the traditional 13 year anniversary material with a lace silk necktie. 

    Cyberoptix lace necktie, $36, Etsy.com

  31. 2. These sweatpants technically have a lace waistband, so that counts as a 13 year anniversary gift material. 

    Element men’s Mesa pants, $45, Amazon.com

  32. 3. For the guy who loves to work out, a pair of running shoes (with laces!) is the perfect 13 year anniversary gift. 

    Nike Air Max Sequent 2 running shoes, $100, Nike.com

  33. 4. A faux ivory letter opener with a lace motif is a unique 13 year anniversary gift for the guy who collects vintage. 

    JoAnntiques vintage faux ivory letter opener, $8, Etsy.com

  34. 5. He’ll wear this lace-up pullover hooded sweatshirt again and again—we guarantee it. 

    Sport-Tek lace-up pullover hooded sweatshirt, $29, NYFifth.com

  35. Lace Anniversary Gifts for Them

    If you have a close friend or family members whose 13 year anniversary is coming up, give them a classic, on-theme lace gift to commemorate their love. Below, find our favorite lace 13 year anniversary gifts for them, below.

  36. 1. Get your friends or family members a floral crystal lace throw blanket, personalized with their names and wedding date. 

    Things Remembered floral crystal lace throw, $50, ThingsRemembered.com

  37. 2. Trendy tealight holders are the perfect 13 year anniversary gifts for the stylish couple. 

    Kate Aspen lace glass tealight holders, $6, BedBathAndBeyond.com

  38. 3. A crochet lace sham pillow is a piece that’s guaranteed to look good in any room in their house. 

    Vera Wang crochet lace euro sham, $75, Bloomingdales.com

  39. 4. Get an elegant lace table runner for a couple’s 13 year anniversary—if they love to entertain, they’ll use it again and again. 

    Qees elegant lace table runner, $17, Amazon.com

  40. 5. A lace throw blanket is a cozy 13 year anniversary gift that’ll look chic on their living room couch or on the end of their bed. 

    Jillian Audrey throw blanket, $50, Society6.com

  41. Textiles/Faux Fur Anniversary Gifts

    Like we previously mentioned, a modern take on the 13 year anniversary gifts includes textiles and faux fur. Below, find our favorite textile and faux fur items to either gift to your loved one or your favorite couple for a 13 year anniversary.

  42. 1. Perfect for winter, a faux fur infinity scarf is a 13 year anniversary gift she’ll get tons of use out of. 

    Anthropologie mixed faux fur infinity scarf, $68, Anthropologie.com

  43. 2. We promise, nothing in the world is cozier, softer or more luxurious than this faux fur robe. 

    Pottery Barn faux fur robe, $129, PotteryBarn.com

  44. 3. Is your spouse in need of a new desk chair? Get this soft faux fur one that matches any interior décor. 

    Urban Shop faux fur task chair, $79, Jet.com

  45. 4. A faux fur throw blanket is the cozy, elegant touch your living room needs. 

    Wild Mannered long hair faux fur throw blanket, $77, Houzz.com

  46. 5. A stylish faux fur cowhide rug is the perfect 13 year anniversary rug for the man, woman or couple who loves to interior decorate. 

    World Market ivory printed faux cowhide area rug, $250, WorldMarket.com

  47. 6. Want to incorporate the “textile” material in your 13 year anniversary gift? Get a pair of chic jacquard curtains. 

    West Elm Trellis Ogee clipped jacquard curtain, $89, WestElm.com

  48. 7. A neutral rug is guaranteed to be a crowd-pleasing 13 year anniversary gift. 

    Crate and Barrel Exclusive Presley neutral heathered rug, $699, CrateAndBarrel.com

  49. 8. You can customize this textile throw pillow with a sweet message to your spouse for your 13 year anniversary gift. 

    Hillary Mason Designs custom pillow, $20, Etsy.com

  50. 9. Of course, you can’t go wrong with a classic faux fur coat for the stylish woman in your life. 

    J. Crew The Teddy coat in plush fleece, $248, JCrew.com

  51. 10. This rug can go anywhere, outdoor or indoor—making it the perfect 13 year anniversary gift for your husband, wife or loved ones. 

    Celia by Beachcrest Home checkered field natural indoor/outdoor area rug, $31, Wayfair.com


    For more of the best anniversary gift ideas for all the major milestones, check out our comprehensive guide to anniversary gifts by year. 


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