The Best 10-Year Anniversary Gift Ideas for Him, Her and Them

A couple that’s been hitched for 10 years has shown the world their marriage is stronger than metal and as indestructible as diamonds. Show them some love with one of these traditional or modern 10-year anniversary gift ideas.
by Elena Mauer
  1. 10 year anniversary gift ideas

    Ten years! How did the time go so fast? It seems like just yesterday you were a blushing bride, and now you’re celebrating the first major milestone anniversary with your life-long love. A decade of marriage is definitely something to celebrate, so you’re probably on the lookout for a gift that reflects your incredible journey. We’ve got 10-year anniversary gift ideas you’ll love, whether you’re a friend or relative looking for the perfect gift for the happy couple, or you’re a husband or wife looking for a present for your spouse.


    What is the 10-Year Anniversary Gift?

    According to etiquette, the traditional 10-year anniversary gift is tin or aluminum. That doesn’t exactly sound glamorous, right? The good news is, there are a ton of creative, fun and romantic gifts made of these silver-tone metals.

    The other good news is that the modern 10-year anniversary gift is diamond jewelry. And who doesn’t love that? Whether your 10th anniversary gift budget is big or small, we’ve got a variety of tenth anniversary gifts. Happy shopping!


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    10-Year Anniversary Gift Ideas for Her

    After ten years together, you probably know your lady love better than anyone. So keep her personality in mind when thinking about 10-year anniversary gift ideas for her. Does she love to decorate? Wear jewelry? Pamper herself? Travel? Here, you’re sure to find some 10-year anniversary gift ideas for her that speak to her unique taste.

  2. ID Necklace 10 year anniversary gift for her

    1. The beauty of this necklace lies not only in its simple design, but also in the personalization options. Have it engraved with your wedding date, both of your initials, and/or the initials of up to three kids for an extra special ten-year anniversary gift.

    Zahava Sarah Chloe Leigh ID Necklace, Family, $128, markandgraham.com

  3. Quote vase 10 year anniversary gift for her

    2. If she’s not a jewelry person, vow to give her fresh flowers more often this year. She can put them in this chic vase with the inspiring quote, “I'd rather have roses on my table than diamonds on my neck. With freedom, books, flowers, and the moon, who could not be happy?”

    Kate Spade Daisy Place Vase, $75, KateSpade.com

  4. Vows art print 10 year anniversary gift for her

    3. Have your wedding vows printed and framed as a sweet, everyday reminder of your commitment and love. She’ll swoon all over again when she receives this completely personalized, super-romantic 10-year anniversary gift.

    Minted Your Vows as an Art Print, $55 for unframed 11x11 print (prices vary based on size and framing options), minted.com

  5. Soft robes 10 year anniversary gift for her

    4. Admit it—she does a lot. Remind her to pamper herself a bit by giving her a soft robe emblazoned with her initials as a ten-year anniversary gift. Then, draw her a bath, play some soft music and give her some time to relax.

    Pottery Barn Organic Spa Robe, $119, potterybarn.com

  6. White polaroid camera 10 year anniversary gift for her

    5. This throwback camera works as a 10-year anniversary gift for her or for him. Attach a sweet note about all the memories you’ve made together—and how you want her to be able to capture many more over future decades.

    Polaroid Snap Instant Camera, $97,amazon.com


    10-Year Anniversary Gift Ideas for Him

    Gift your main man with something super meaningful on this important year! A 10-year anniversary gift for him can be stylish or sweet but remember: it should be something that reflects how well you know him. Whether he’s a techie, a sports fanatic, or just someone who loves to relax and unwind, we think there’s a winner among these 10-year anniversary gift ideas for him.

  7. Grey laptop cover 10 year anniversary gift for him

    1. For the guy on the go—who can’t leave home without his tech gear—is this sleek laptop sleeve. (Just double-check that he has a slim 15-inch computer before buying!) Add a personalized touch to this 10th anniversary gift with a monogram.

    Tumi Slim Solutions Laptop Cover, $90, tumi.com

  8. Bocce set 10 year anniversary gift for him

    2. If it’s all fun and games with your guy, give him a game with an upscale, nostalgic feel—bocce! This ten-year anniversary gift comes in a stylish canvas bag you can have embroidered with his initials. It’s so special it feels like a once-in-ten-years gift, yet it’s still as laid back as your man.

    Mark and Graham Canvas Bocce Ball Set, $199, markandgraham.com

  9. Striped hammock 10 year anniversary gift for him

    3. Give him the gift of ultimate relaxation with this hammock—the perfect excuse to give himself a little man-style R&R. This hammock is comfy, can be hung just about anywhere (with a separate stand), and is big enough for two—or more! So you can get in and cuddle too.

    Nags Head Hammocks Hampton Summer Pillowtop Hammock, $299, nagsheadhammocks.com

  10. Dime cufflinks 10 year anniversary gift for him

    4. Anyone who gets a close look at these cufflinks will notice they’re made of dimes, representing 10 years of wedded bliss. These are the perfect ten-year anniversary gift for your dapper guy who wears a suit like second skin.

    Worldcoincufflinks Dime Coin Cufflinks, $60, etsy.com

  11. Engraved tie clip 10 year anniversary gift for him

    5. Not all guys have the opportunity—or inclination—to wear a tie clip. But if yours is part of the finely dressed few, give him a personalized tie clip with your wedding date and a romantic message telling him “I still do.”

    PinkLemonDesign Personalized Tie Clip, $18, etsy.com


    10-Year Anniversary Gift Ideas for Them

    A ten-year anniversary gift for a couple should be either practical or sentimental—or ideally both! Consider customized 10th anniversary gifts that suit the couple’s tastes and feel like a once-in-a-decade treasure.

  12. Glasses and decanter ten year anniversary gift

    1. The happy couple can raise a glass to ten years together with this fun set of “mine” and “yours” glasses. And because they’ve proven they can share, you might want to spring for the “ours” decanter too.

    Kate Spade New York Two of a Kind “Mine” & “Yours” Double Old Fashioned Glasses, $50 for set of two, bedbathandbeyond.com, and “Ours” Decanter, $99, bedbathandbeyond.com

  13. Teal towels ten year anniversary gift

    2. What’s any married couple’s most common conversation about? Dinner, of course! This fun tea towel set pays tribute to their ability to work as a team to make mealtime (and cleanup) happen.

    Blackbirdsupply Tea Towel Set – You cook, I’ll clean, $38, etsy.com

  14. Initial mugs ten year anniversary gift

    3. We love the romance of these adorable initial mugs—these 10th anniversary gifts remind us of the sweetness of young lovebirds carving their initials into a tree.

    Gina DeSantis Personalized Porcelain Faux Bois Mug Set, $72, uncommongoods.com

  15. Doormat ten year anniversary gift

    4. Home is wherever they’re with each other. A personalized doormat makes a sophisticated accent to any home’s entryway and pays tribute to the home and life the couple has established together.

    Williams Sonoma Personalized Bay Leaf Coir Doormat, $75 for personalized 36” x 22” mat, williams-sonoma.com

  16. 10 print ten year anniversary gift

    5. Use words that are meaningful to the couple—their wedding date, their first date, their favorite places, their kids’ names and more—to create a printable “10” that’s perfect for framing and hanging in their home.

    Worldly Designs Printable Art – 10 Year Anniversary, $23 (for printable image), etsy.com


    Aluminum/Tin Anniversary Gifts

    Surprise! There are tons of tin or aluminum anniversary gifts that are totally on trend while keeping with the 10-year anniversary gift tradition. You’re sure to find the perfect aluminum or tin anniversary gift on our list.

  17. Aluminum pitcher 10th anniversary gift

    1. Both useful and a work of art, this ergonomic aluminum pitcher is a welcome addition to the wet bar or pantry. A perfect 10th anniversary gift for the couple that loves to entertain!

    Robert Foster Fink Pitcher Jug, $220, Store.MoMA.org

  18. Rectangular aluminum necklace 10th anniversary gift

    2. Not only is this necklace simply chic, but its rectangular pendant is made of aluminum, so it fits the 10-year anniversary gift theme perfectly. It hangs from an attractive sterling silver chain.

    Naturametallum Minimalist Necklace, $72, etsy.com

  19. Engraved aluminum family tree 10 year anniversary gift

    3. If your favorite couple has created a family over the past ten years, consider gifting them with this personalized family tree—the perfect tribute and a meaningful home décor piece. This 10th anniversary gift is made of recycled aluminum, hand stamped with the couple’s initials, wedding date and kids’ names.

    Creationsbyingrid1 Hearts Family Tree, $45, etsy.com

  20. Slow cooker traditional 10 year anniversary gift

    4. With this essential kitchen gadget, a busy couple can prep a meal in the morning and be greeted by a fully cooked dinner when they arrive home in the evening. This model has an aluminum insert that can be used on the stovetop to brown foods before slow cooking, giving them one less pan to wash.

    All-Clad Deluxe Slow Cooker with Cast-Aluminum Insert, 4 Qt., $200, williams-sonoma.com

  21. Spa items 10 year anniversary gift

    5. Give a cute nod to their tenth with a tin filled with pampering products. This little kit comes complete with farm fresh lavender goat’s milk bath tea, bath truffle, Hint of Mint lip balm, and—so apropos—wedding cake whipped shea crème.

    1818 Farms Farm Fresh Spa Experience Tin, $32, uncommongoods.com

  22. Aluminum plates traditional 10 year anniversary gift

    6. Monogrammed gifts feel extra special and work well for anniversaries if the couple shares a last name (or just happen to share the same initial!). Marble paired with aluminum makes this posh cheese plate the perfect traditional 10-year anniversary gift.

    Lenox Stony Creek Monogram Script Letter Cheese Plate, $115, macys.com

  23. Tin colored cotton blanket traditional 10 year anniversary gift

    7. What couple wouldn’t love a new cozy, luxe blanket for their bed? Sure, it doesn’t seem like a traditional 10-year anniversary gift, but note the color. Yep, it’s “tin.”

    Calvin Klein Astara Cotton King Blanket, $275, macys.com


    Diamond Anniversary Gifts

    You can’t go wrong with diamond anniversary gifts for the 10th anniversary. And whether you’re buying on a budget or you want to splurge, there are a variety of diamond items that make a modern 10-year anniversary gift they’ll cherish for the next 10 years.

  24. Dangled diamond necklace ten year anniversary gift

    1. For this necklace, a sleek column of pave diamonds dangles from an 18K white-gold chain—a simple, elegant look that’s versatile enough for a night out to dinner or to her kid’s soccer game.

    Brilliant Earth, Pointe Diamond Pendant, $495, brilliantearth.com

  25. Diamond studded black watch ten year anniversary gift

    2. We’re big fans of Eco-Drive watches because they run on light. That means no winding and no battery changing. Not to mention, this watch is both masculine and accented with diamonds.

    Citizen Axiom, $350, citizenwatch.com

  26. Diamond quilt modern 10 year anniversary gift

    3. Not everyone can afford to give diamond gemstones as a 10-year anniversary gift. But remember: “diamond” is open to interpretation. We’re guessing the gift recipient won’t notice they’re not getting jewelry when they receive this beautiful diamond-motif quilt.

    Serena and Lily Diamond Quilt, $100, serenaandlily.com

  27. Diamond glasses modern 10 year anniversary gift

    4. The happy couple can toast to ten years together with this whimsical set of two glasses. They’re shaped like diamonds and sit slightly slanted to keep things interesting.

    Urban Outfitters Drink a Diamond Glass Set, $24, urbanoutfitters.com

  28. Diamond picture necklace ten year anniversary gift

    5. Give a nod to the modern 10-year anniversary gift of diamonds without breaking the bank with this whimsical diamond-design men’s necklace. It’s perfect if you’re on a tight budget but still want to gift your man with “diamonds.”

    Arizaga Spade Diamond 2 in 1 Necklace, $69, jackspade.com

  29. Diamond vase modern 10 year anniversary gift

    6. You can’t go wrong choosing a vase for a gift, and the diamond-inspired design of this luxe vase has 10-year wedding gift written all over it.

    Waterford Lismore Diamond 9-Inch Bud Vase, $135, bedbathandbeyond.com

  30. Diamond band modern 10 year anniversary gift

    7. Ready to splurge? Add a bit of bling to her finger with a micropave diamond ring. She can wear it stacked above her wedding ring or on a different finger. We guarantee this sparkle will make her smile.

    Blue Nile Trio Micropave Diamond Wedding Ring, $1,170 (in 18k gold), bluenile.com

  31. Black diamond necklace modern 10 year anniversary gift

    8. For the style-setting woman is this less-traditional, edgier jewelry choice: A bridge of rough black diamonds hangs from this gold-filled chain.

    Julia Szendrei Black Diamond Bridge Necklace, $48, juliaszendrei.com

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