The 35 Best 9-Year Anniversary Gifts for Celebrating Almost a Decade of Marriage

Whether you're following tradition or shopping off-theme, we'll help you find the perfect present.

Photos, from clockwise: Uncommon Goods, The Met Store, Uncommon Goods, Vincero

Updated May 20, 2025

Can you believe nine years of marriage have flown by already? Celebrate the milestone by picking a meaningful 9-year anniversary gift for your spouse. To help you get started, we've rounded up our favorite traditional and modern anniversary gifts that reflect the ninth anniversary themes. From practical items your partner can use daily to sentimental keepsakes as unique as your relationship, there are lots of ways to shop for the occasion. Want to break from tradition this year? We've also included alternative ninth anniversary gifts that'll truly surprise your partner. Keep scrolling to learn more about this year's themes, then shop our favorite gift ideas for the ninth wedding anniversary.

In this article:

Traditional Nine-Year Anniversary Gifts
Modern Nine-Year Anniversary Gifts
Unique Nine-Year Anniversary Gifts

Traditional Nine-Year Anniversary Gifts

What is the traditional ninth anniversary gift? This milestone actually has two: pottery and willow. Pottery was historically used to make drinking water vessels and was considered an important protector of this essential liquid. For this reason, pottery anniversary gifts make a fitting tribute to a marriage that nurtures love and trust. Willow is a pliable wood that represents the flexibility and strength of a successful relationship. Giving willow anniversary gifts to your partner is a thoughtful way to show you appreciate their ability to adapt to life's challenges. Now that you know what the traditional ninth wedding anniversary gifts are, you can jump straight to the fun part: shopping!

Cute Coffee Mugs

Two ceramic mugs with kissing faces 9 year anniversary gift

We're kicking off our list of traditional nine-year anniversary gifts with these cute mugs. They're made from porcelain and fit together to resemble two kissing faces. Choose from two color combos, then pair them with tea or coffee samplers to level up your morning ritual.

$50 | Uncommon Goods

Personalized Cutting Board

Cutting board with willow design 9 year anniversary gift

Looking for an on-theme ninth anniversary gift for a foodie? This personalized cutting board is perfect for prepping ingredients or presenting a cheese platter. It's made from wood and is engraved with a pretty willow tree illustration. Add your names and anniversary date for a thoughtful finish.

From $54 | Etsy

Ceramic Hummingbird Feeder

Here's a traditional ninth anniversary gift for a wife, husband or spouse who loves relaxing in the garden. This ceramic bird feeder is hand-painted with bright flowers to attract hummingbirds to the feeding holes. Now your spouse can enjoy the sweet sounds of birdsong while they potter about in the backyard.

$115 | Uncommon Goods

Willow Branch Necklace

Good news for accessory fans: The traditional ninth anniversary symbols can extend to jewelry. This statement necklace is made from shiny freshwater pearls, artfully arranged to look like willow tree branches. It's a creative take on the theme and a romantic gift that celebrates your growing love.

$205 | The Met Store

Embroidered Picnic Basket

Fancy a picnic? This canvas and wicker basket is a must. It comes with two ceramic plates, two sets of flatware and two stemless wine glasses, along with individual canvas pouches. Have it embroidered with your names, then fill it with picnic snacks for a romantic nine-year wedding anniversary gift.

Use the KNOT15PM to get 15% off your order.

$100 | Personalization Mall

Casserole Baking Dish

The ninth wedding anniversary is the perfect time to invest in new cookware, like this Le Creuset casserole dish. It's made from quality stoneware and can be used to cook hearty dishes and delicious desserts. The matching lid, which is decorated with olive leaf branches, adds a stylish touch while sealing in flavors. We're obsessed with the sunny yellow hue.

$140 | Le Creuset

$140 | Amazon

Anniversary Material Wall Art

If you're shopping for a sentimental spouse, this anniversary artwork is on point. It features a piece of terra-cotta clay wrapped in a wire heart, representing the deep love you share. Underneath, a heartfelt anniversary message reads, "Just like pottery, love is molded to be beautiful." Add your names and wedding date to complete this symbolic nine-year anniversary gift.

$65 | Uncommon Goods

Engraved Wooden Pen

Searching for small traditional ninth anniversary gifts for him, her or them? This stylish pen is a thoughtful idea. It's handcrafted from willow wood that can be engraved with your spouse's name or a short quote. Add a leather pouch or wooden box for a gift-worthy presentation.

From $45 | Etsy

Flower Pot

Surprise the gardener in your life with this personalized flower pot. The message "Love grows here" is etched onto the front, with room to add your names around the rim. Pair it with wildflower seeds so your spouse can use this traditional nine-year anniversary present right away.

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$30 | Personalization Mall

Personalized Vase

Combine both ninth anniversary gift themes with this personalized vase. It's made from ceramic clay and printed with a willow tree design on the front. Add your initials and wedding year before filling it with fresh flowers to give to your spouse.

From $52 | Etsy

Tequila Shot Set

We still have plenty of cool ninth anniversary gift ideas to share, like this tequila shot set. It includes six ceramic shot glasses and is perfect for entertaining at home. Each glass has its own distinctive glaze, so it's easy to tell them apart. Add a matching tray to complete the set.

From $65 | Uncommon Goods

Music-Inspired Poster

Framed willow watercolor print Taylor Swift song

Married to a Swiftie? They'll love this willow-themed poster inspired by the song from Evermore. The watercolor print combines soft pastels with green foliage, along with the track name and album title. Have it framed for a creative nine-year anniversary gift that Taylor herself would (probably) approve of.

From $41 | Etsy

Modern Nine-Year Anniversary Gifts

The traditional themes aren't your only options when choosing a gift for nine years of marriage. Leather anniversary gifts are the modern alternative, symbolizing the strength and flexibility required to build a successful partnership. Luckily, the modern nine-year anniversary gift is incredibly easy to work with. From chic accessories and jewelry to fancy notebooks and sentimental wall art, the gifting possibilities are endless. Here are the best nine-year anniversary gifts that champion this modern and luxurious material.

Compact Smart Wallet

If your partner needs a new wallet, the ninth wedding anniversary is a great time for an upgrade. This smart design is made from the milestone's modern material and comes with innovative features, like anti-skimming technology to protect against wireless theft. Next time they're out and about, they'll be glad to have some extra security.

$99 | Ekster

$99 | Amazon

Personalized Jewelry Case

The modern nine-year anniversary material offers lots of stylish gifting inspo. This personalized jewelry case is ideal for anyone who likes to accessorize. It's fitted with six earring holes, four necklace hooks and a metal zipper closure to keep their baubles secure while traveling. Have it monogrammed for a luxurious touch.

$88 | Mejuri

Beaded Bracelet

On the lookout for unique anniversary jewelry? This braided bracelet is chic and sentimental. The beads can be engraved with your names (and your kids') for an especially meaningful ninth anniversary present. Bonus: It comes in men's and women's sizes, so you'll find one that fits.

From $90 | Theograce

Crossbody Tote Bag

Your spouse's eyes will light up when they unwrap this modern nine-year anniversary gift. This Kate Spade tote is made from pebbled leather and has a crossbody strap for hands-free wear. The in-between size is roomy enough to hold essentials but not so large that it'll cause achy shoulders. Consider us sold.

$348 | Kate Spade

$348 | Amazon

Sheet Music Art

Your first dance will always be a special memory, so why not commemorate it with a nostalgic gift? Your spouse will happily reminisce smile with fond memories whenever they see this unique wall art. The sheet music from your wedding song is engraved onto leather and finished with a simple frame. Talk about a romantic nine-year wedding anniversary gift for your husband, wife or spouse.

From $59 | Etsy

Sleek Charging Tray

We're big fans of practical gifts, especially when they look as good as this charging tray. It's made from the modern ninth anniversary material and can be monogrammed for a touch of personalization. The left side can be used to power up their phone or earbuds, while the right side is ideal for stashing jewelry or keys.

From $175 | Mark & Graham

Vintage-Style Apron

Married to a talented chef or artist? A quality apron is a gift they'll use a lot. This vintage-inspired design is made from cowhide and features an adjustable neck with antique buckles. It also has a handy strap to hold their cooking utensils or paintbrushes. Have it personalized for a nine-year anniversary gift that'll make them feel like a pro.

From $145 | Farrar & Tanner

Magnetic Bookmark

If your spouse loves reading in bed, they'll covet this clever nine-year anniversary present. The magnetic bookmark is made from faux leather and is inscribed with the playful message, "Fell asleep here." The next time their eyelids droop halfway through a chapter, they can attach the bookmark to save their spot.

$20 | Uncommon Goods

Custom Handmade Belt

Personalized leather belt 9 year anniversary gift

This custom belt is one of our favorite gift ideas for the ninth wedding anniversary. It can be engraved with a personal message on the inside and your spouse's initials on the outside. Every time they wear it, they'll be reminded of your love and support. Choose from four colors and multiple sizes for the perfect fit.

From $53 | Etsy

Trendy Wine Tote

Planning to celebrate your ninth anniversary with a fancy bottle of wine? Present it in this trendy tote to earn extra brownie points. It's made from upcycled leather and features a sailor's knot detail to keep the contents secure. Your spouse can use it again to take to dinner parties or on a romantic picnic.

$48 | Lux & Nyx

$48 | Amazon

Pro-Worthy Golf Journal

Finding nine-year anniversary gifts is easy when you take inspiration from your spouse's hobbies. If their Sundays are reserved for trips to the green, they'll love this golf journal. The outside boasts a faux leather cover, while the inside is filled with scorecards, guided charts, practice logs and pro-worthy advice.

$20 | Uncommon Goods

Statement Watch

Wearable gifts are welcome for any occasion, like celebrating nine happy years of marriage. This Vincero watch allows you to spoil your spouse while nodding to the modern theme. With a round stainless steel dial and a full-grain leather strap, it'll add a touch of sophistication to their outfit without being flashy. Choose from a selection of colors to suit their style.

From $199 | Vincero

Unique Nine-Year Anniversary Gifts

Want to explore gifts beyond the traditional and modern themes? The ninth wedding anniversary also has a gemstone, flower and color. Blue lapis lazuli is the nine-year anniversary stone, symbolizing harmony and friendship. Two bright and bold blooms are tied to the ninth anniversary: poppies and the bird of paradise. Poppies denote remembrance and imagination, while the bird of paradise represents joy, freedom and positivity. Finally, the milestone has three anniversary colors: terra-cotta, purple and green. We've rounded up gifts that incorporate these symbols, along with creative alternatives you can personalize. Check out these unique ninth anniversary gifts for him, her or them.

Blue Lapis Earrings

How pretty are these blue lapis earrings? They'll add a pop of color to casual and formal outfits alike. We love the contrast between the yellow gold hardware and the ninth anniversary gemstone, and we think your spouse will too.

$60 | Kendra Scott

Personalized World Map

After almost a decade together, you and your spouse have probably had plenty of adventures. Highlight your favorite travel memories with this personalized map. It comes with pins you can use to mark where you've been and what's next on your travel bucket list.

$165 | Uncommon Goods

Luxurious Silk Pajamas

Luxurious sleepwear will always be on our wishlist. If your spouse likes the finer things, they'll treasure a pair of silk pajamas. This Eberjey set is made from 100% mulberry silk, which is hypoallergenic and thermoregulating for a comfy night's sleep. Have them monogrammed for a stylish nine-year anniversary gift they'll want to lounge in all day.

From $258 | Eberjey

The Forever Rose

A fresh bouquet is a great gift idea, but a rose that lasts forever is even better. This unique keepsake is a real flower picked at full bloom and preserved in silver. You can engrave the stem with your spouse's name or a love quote to woo them all over again.

From $110 | The Forever Rose

$110 | Amazon

Multi-Purpose Cookware

This ninth anniversary gift makes a perfect pair, just like you and your spouse. Our Place's Perfect Pot and Always Pan are designed to replace multiple pieces of cookware and can be used to boil, bake, steam and sauté. Choose from various colors, including green, one of the nine-year anniversary colors.

$240 | Our Place

$240 | Amazon

Elegant Tennis Bracelet

Jewelry is an anniversary gift you can always rely on, no matter how long you've been married. This sparkly tennis bracelet is a classic accessory your spouse will reach for time and again. It's embellished with Swarovski crystals and comes in four colors. We love the simplicity of the clear white stones and rhodium hardware.

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$229 | Swarovski

Calming Peace Lily Floor Plant

This peace lily floor plant will bring calm and serenity to any space. With its lush leaves and fragrant flowers, it makes a beautiful nine-year anniversary gift.

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From $140 | 1-800-Flowers

Monthly Coffee Subscription

If your spouse already has everything you can think of, consider a monthly coffee subscription. It's a thoughtful way to ensure they never run out of their favorite brew on busy mornings. Each month, Atlas Coffee Club will send them fresh grounds from all over the world, along with tasting notes and postcards from each country of origin. Cool, right?

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From $60 | Atlas Coffee Club

Poppy Grow Kit

Take inspiration from the poppy (the other nine-year anniversary flower) with this grow kit. It comes with everything your spouse needs to grow these vibrant blooms, including seeds, a planter and a coconut filter that allows the plant to self-water. What a fun way to honor tradition and add some color to your home.

$13 | Uncommon Goods

Love Letter Pillow

What could be more romantic than writing a love letter to your spouse? Having your sweet musings printed onto a pillow, of course! This square cushion can be personalized with your partner's name and a message that looks like it's handwritten on lined paper. Whether you quote their favorite rom-com or write a short (and silly) poem, they'll adore this sentimental nine-year anniversary gift.

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$45 | Personalization Mall

Music-Inspired Necklace

Here's a piece of jewelry your partner almost certainly doesn't have: a bar necklace engraved with the notes of your wedding song. Available in silver, gold or rose gold, it can be customized with a stanza from your chosen tune. The result is a one-of-a-kind accessory that's as unique as your spouse.

$99 | Canvas Vows

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