The 25 Best Wedding Shower Host and Hostess Gifts

We're going to say it outright: Your wedding shower planner likely deserves a spot on the Salonnière 100—a list of top party hosts in the US, featuring names like Oprah Winfrey and Reese Witherspoon—but if not that, they should at least receive a wedding shower hostess gift.

After all, they've accomplished the feat of gathering all your loved ones, arranging food and drinks, and planning fun activities. Not to mention: the decorations were oh-so-cute! It's not just proper bridal shower hostess gift etiquette though; a thank-you gift for your couple's shower or bridal shower host will let them know they were the real MVP of the event. Whether it's instant gratification with an edible arrangement, a classic self-care gift to help them unwind after party planning, or something more personal like a jewelry gift, we've rounded up the best bridal shower hostess gift ideas to suit any talented party planner and your budget below!

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1. Daisies Grow Kit

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While your friends or family aren't expecting a gift for hosting a bridal shower, they'll be excited to receive one nonetheless. Especially when it's a gorgeous, low maintenance plant. This daisy grow kit comes with seeds, a terracotta planter and a coconut filter, so the plant can self-water and drain. In no time, they'll have white-and-yellow flowers popping up. The packaging even says "thank you" to double down on the sentiment.

2. "Best Shower Ever" Candle

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A simple token of your gratitude is all you really need. This soy wax candle is labeled with the phrase "best shower ever" with space underneath for custom text—AKA no card needed. It comes in 17 different scents, so you're sure to find a fragrance your host will love.

3. Mood-Matching Botanical Bath Bombs

Photo: Sprig

Your planner deserves some serious relaxation after all the effort they put into your party. This set of six bath bombs is infused with essential oils, delivering a spa-like experience right at home. With a blend of shea butter, coconut oil and kaolin clay, these bath bombs also leave their skin feeling extra soft and pampered.

4. Extra-Soft Throw Blanket

Photo: Barefoot Dreams

For the host who toes the line between extrovert and introvert and will crave some relaxing me-time after the festivities, this throw blanket from Barefoot Dreams will make it oh-so-much cozier and restorative. Known for its ultra-soft fabric and luxurious feel, this blanket is the perfect way for them to unwind after pulling off the perfect party. Whether they use it for a quick nap or a movie marathon, it's a gift that wraps them in comfort and shows your appreciation in the most soothing way possible. It comes in 14 colorways, and you can even have it embroidered with their name.

5. Astrology Tea Set

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If you're looking for astrology gifts for friends, this set is perfect—it's a thoughtful way to show your appreciation while tapping into their love for the stars. It includes an apothecary jar filled with loose-leaf tea, featuring herbs and botanicals blended specifically for each astrology sign, and a tea strainer adorned with an opalite moon charm. It's both a practical and whimsy gift that adds a touch of celestial magic to their daily tea-brewing routine.

6. Custom Message Shortbread Cookies

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Made with buttery, melt-in-your-mouth goodness, these cookies are not only a treat for the taste buds but also a charming way to express your gratitude. Each vanilla shortbread cookie is stamped with a custom message like "You baked the day amazing" and "You're the sweetest host." They're almost too charming to eat; luckily, the box comes with 24 cookies, so they can indulge and show off your creative thank-you gesture at the same time.

7. Beautiful Serving Tray

Photo: Rifle Paper Co.

Have you ever seen such an eye-catching dish? This laminated melamine serving tray is covered in an allover floral print characteristic of Rifle Paper Co.'s vibrant designs. It'll seriously up their hosting game for whatever the next event may be. Or, it can just add a fun touch to their everyday dining experience. They'll never want to put it away.

8. Mini Dutch Oven

Photo: Le Creuset

Cookware is a great hostess gift idea for a bridal shower, especially if menu planning is their favorite responsibility. This mini Dutch oven comes from the beloved brand Le Creuset. The eight- or 14-ounce size makes it great for serving sides and whipping up fast bakes. Plus, who doesn't love colorful pots and pans?

9. Mini Infused Olive Oils & Vinegars

Photo: Brightland

Forget the olive oil canister—these mini bottles are way too cute to hide away! Taste-tested and editor-approved, Brightland's Mini Infused Olive Oils & Vinegars are a kitchen must-have. Perfect for a hostess who thrives in the kitchen, this set of two extra virgin olive oils, a balsamic vinegar, and a champagne vinegar will be enjoyed both literally and figuratively.

10. Heart-Shaped Serving Spoon

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This couple's shower or bridal shower host gift idea is as sweet as it's practical. Who wouldn't want to add a hand-carved, heart-shaped spoon to their serving utensil drawer? It'll look just as good on the countertop when it's not in use as it will as part of their table spread. This unique spoon brings a whole new meaning to the words "made with love."

11. Unique Spoon Rest

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How about kitchenware that is colorful and uniquely shaped? A spoon rest in the shape of their home state is sure to be a conversation starter among guests, especially when it's made from mesmerizing glazed stoneware. We'd be more than happy with this one-of-a-kind keepsake as a thank-you gift for hosting.

12. Etched Bottle of Wine

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A bottle of wine is a classic host or hostess gift, no matter the occasion. But this bottle of wine goes the extra mile. It's engraved with the words "thank you" in fancy lettering surrounded by a sunburst—and it's all brushed with gold. What's inside of the bottle is just as delightful: a full-bodied California cabernet sauvignon.

13. Freezable Wine Tumblers

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Searching for a unique gift for the bridal shower hostess with the mostest? These freezable wine tumblers are a wine lover's dream. Each stemless glass is filled with proprietary cooling gel, so you can chill white wines to perfection or keep reds at the ideal cellar temperature. Simply pop them in the freezer for a frosty treat or in the fridge for a refreshing cool. Made from BPA-free plastic with insulated silicone bands, these tumblers are even sturdy enough for outdoor use when the sun tries to warm up your wine.

14. Premade Cheese & Charcuterie Board Delivery

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If they were too busy hosting to enjoy their own appetizers, send this delicious snack board right to their door after the festivities. It's all for them—no sharing or small talk required. This gourmet spread includes 17 hand-selected artisan cheeses, meats, dried fruits, nuts, chocolates, olives, and a box of rosemary and olive oil crackers. Boarderie crafts each board daily and ships it overnight in custom insulated packaging to keep it chilled all day. It stays fresh in the refrigerator for up to a week.

15. Thank You Cactus Gift

Photo: Lula's Garden

This couples shower hostess gift idea is sure to "succ"ceed in making them smile! The mini garden features two fresh succulents, including a sunny yellow cacti to liven their windowsill. It all comes beautifully packaged in a gift box that says "Thank You," and you can even add a sweet, personalized note at checkout to make it extra special.

16. Personalized Trinket Dish

Photo: Mark & Graham

Personalized gifts take a little extra effort, giving them that perfect oomph to show your gratitude. This gorgeous trinket dish would add a decorative touch to any part of their home, whether it's their nightstand, console table or coffee table. The pastel hues are overlaid with their monogram in a font of your choosing. The best thing about trinket dishes is that they're practical as well as pretty. Your host can use it to store precious possessions such as jewelry or for everyday items like their keys.

17. Custom Gold Bracelet

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Nameplate jewelry is trending. A meaningful piece of jewelry is one of the sweetest hostess gifts for your wedding shower, especially if you're shopping for a sister or best friend who will need pretty baubles to wear to other prewedding events. This dainty bracelet shows off their name in 18K-gold letter beads with elegant negative space in between each character.

18. Interlocking Heart Necklace

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Your search for the perfect gift for your bridal shower hostess and best friend ends here. This friendship necklace features two interlocking hearts, symbolizing your bond and love. Crafted with care, it's a timeless accessory that your hostess will cherish. Whether they're dressing up for your wedding day or adding a touch of elegance to their everyday look, this gold- or silver-plated necklace is a beautiful way to show your appreciation and make them feel truly special.

19. Birthflower Ring

Photo: Made By Mary

Just one more thoughtful jewelry gift idea for your bridal shower hostess: a fashion ring featuring their birth flower. Crafted with care, this ring highlights the beauty of their birth month's bloom, making it a personal and versatile accessory for everyday wear or special occasions. We especially love the symbolism of rings in weddings, representing not just commitment to your future spouse but also to your cherished friends.

20. Delicious Cupcake Assortment

Photo: Baked by Melissa

Who doesn't love cupcakes? They're fun, easy to snack on and incredibly tasty—especially when they're Baked by Melissa cupcakes. These bite-size beauties come in a colorful "thank you" box that makes them easy to gift. Choose a 25-pack of the site's "latest and greatest" cupcake flavors or opt for nut-free, gluten-free or vegan options.

21. Premade Thank-You Gift Box

Photo: Knack

If you're short on time or don't feel creative, a premade thank-you gift box for your wedding shower host is just the way to go. This set includes a luxurious "gratitude" candle, two cute bento boxes of Sugarfina candy (Peach Bellini gummies and cherry-flavored rose gummies) and mini matches all wrapped up in Knack's premium gift packaging. You also have the choice to swap or add items to your host's gift box for the perfect present.

22. Monogrammed Coffee Mug

Photo: Anthropologie

Planning a party takes serious energy, so your host will definitely need a caffeine boost! This adorable mug is their new go-to for sipping coffee in style. Glazed with a funky retro pattern and their initial, it's as charming as it is practical. And guess what? There's a matching canapé plate to complete the set.

23. Custom-Engraved Marble Coasters

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Shopping for a couple's shower or bridal shower gifts for multiple hosts? These wedding shower host gifts are just the thing. They're personalized with each person's initial or name, so each one feels truly special. The coasters are made from marble and wood engraved with your customization selection.

24. Bread-Making Kit

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If their interests include baking, trying new hobbies and all things adorable, this is a good host or hostess gift for a bridal or wedding shower. It's a flower pot bread-making kit (otherwise known as a super-fun way to spend an afternoon). The set includes four mini terracotta pots and the dry ingredients needed to make delicious bread and lavender butter.

25. Colorful Bouquet Delivery

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For the final contender on our list of shower hostess gift ideas, consider a stunning bouquet. It's a classic gesture of love and appreciation. This vibrant arrangement features a burst of cheerful colors from Delphinium, Lisianthus, Roses, Veronica, Aster and Ruscus, guaranteed to instantly brighten any room. And don't worry if you're shipping last-minute—UrbanStems offers next-day delivery to ensure your gift arrives just in time!

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