31 Happy-Tears-Worthy Gifts for the Mother of the Groom

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Photo, left to right: Kate Spade, Homesick, Bergdorf Goodman | Graphic: Tiana Crispino

Updated Jul 01, 2024

As you're planning your wedding, don't forget about thank-you gifts for your parents. A thoughtful present is a lovely way to acknowledge all of their encouragement and support, especially if they've helped organize or finance any of the wedding festivities. Regarding mother-of-the-groom gifts, you'll want to choose something that shows her just how important she is to you—before, during and after this special occasion. That's why we've rounded up the best mother-of-the-groom gift ideas to make her feel appreciated and loved.

But first, some important wedding etiquette Qs: Who should buy a gift for the mother of the groom? And what exactly is the perfect gift? We'll get to it all, below.

In this article:

Who Buys the Mother of the Groom a Gift?
What To Gift the Mother of the Groom
Our Favorite Mother-of-the-Groom Gifts

Who Buys the Mother of the Groom a Gift?

It's common for the groom to buy a gift for his mother to present to her on or near the wedding day—one that's sentimental and special to their unique relationship. That said, the groom's partner may also feel inclined to give the MOG a present to thank her for raising the man they adore. Alternatively, the groom and his future spouse can give a gift of thanks together. There are truly no set etiquette rules when it comes to parental wedding thank-you gifts, but giving a little trinket to each individual parent is a super sweet gesture no matter the exact logistics.

A gift for the mother-of-the-groom from her friends or the couple's wedding party isn't traditionally expected, but they can certainly buy her a gift if they wish. A small, thoughtful gift can be a lovely gesture to show their support and celebrate the occasion with her. For example, a sibling or best friend could give the groom's mother a scrapbook-making kit with the first page already filled out, sharing wisdom from their own experiences as a MOG. Alternatively, the best man or maid of honor could give her matching bridal party swag to ensure she feels included.

What To Gift the Mother of the Groom

When deciding what to gift the mother of the groom, consider something personal and meaningful that acknowledges her role and celebrates her contribution to the wedding (and the groom's life overall). Popular options include jewelry to match her formalwear, sentimental photo albums, spa gift sets or simply a heartfelt handwritten letter. You can also think outside the box and choose something practical that aligns with her hobbies, filling the new downtime she has now that she's not focused on her son's wedding.

Regardless of what you choose as a gift for the mother of the groom, the best time to give your thank-you gift is at the rehearsal dinner on the evening before the nuptials. This timing allows for a quiet moment of appreciation before the busy wedding day activities begin. Plus, if you're opting for cute wedding day essentials like a personalized clutch or embroidered handkerchief for the MOG, she'll then have it for the big day.

To inspire you further, we've gathered various unique mother-of-the-groom gift ideas. Whether you're her son, the love of her son's life or a couple shopping together, there's something on this list that we're sure will impress her.

Our Favorite Mother-of-the-Groom Gifts

Finding the perfect gift for the mother of the groom can be a heartfelt way to show your appreciation and make her feel special on this joyous occasion. Here are some of the best mother-of-the-groom gifts to inspire your search.

1. Custom Photo Lining Clutch

Custom image lining clutch for mother of the groom gift

This groom's gift for his mother is unbearably sweet. Before the wedding, give your mom this fashionable lace clutch. The inside lining is a photo of the two of you. She'll not only have a stylish place to keep her things on the big day but also a lifelong keepsake.

From $74 | Etsy

2. Personalized Birthstone Bracelet

Birthstone bracelet mother of the groom gift

We've found the perfect finishing touch to the mother-of-the-groom's wedding day 'fit. This personalized birthstone bracelet features one of twelve gemstones related to each month of the year. Choose your (aka her son's birthstone) so she can really wear her heart on her sleeve.

$270 | Haverhill

3. Monogrammed Jewelry Box

Silver metal monogram jewelry box mother-of-the-groom gift

If you're looking for a mom or future mother-in-law gift for a woman who is already covered in the jewelry department, consider gifting an organizer for her accessories instead. This silver jewelry box is embossed with a vintage-inspired floral and vine design while the top is engraved with her initials. It's a beautiful wedding gift that she'll surely put to use.

$46 | The Knot Shop

4. Mother-of-the-Groom Hanger

If you're searching for getting-ready gifts for the mother of the groom, how about a fancy clothes hanger? This wooden hanger spells out her wedding party title in wire and it's finished with a pretty ribbon. She'll take extra care to hang up her wedding day outfit.

$47 | Etsy

5. Mother-of-Pearl Picture Frame

Pearl picture frame for mother of the groom gift

Photo presents are timeless mother-of-the-groom wedding gifts and this mother-of-pearl frame couldn't be more fitting. Fill it with your favorite mom and son photo—perhaps one from your childhood—to spark happy tears. Plus, it's wedding-appropriate white.

$122 | Bergdorf Goodman

6. Custom Wedding Illustration

Custom wedding illustration for mother of the groom gift

We're completely obsessed with custom illustrations—and your mother will be, too. A portrait of you two in your wedding-day best will be a sweet way to remember the moment. Cue the tears.

From $18 | Etsy

7. Handblown Stemless Wine Glass

Stemless wine glass for mom from groom gift

This handblown stemless wine glass was specifically made for mothers. Benjamin Giguere's functional art celebrates all female role models with special glasses in their honor. This speckled red and white design is meant for moms to symbolize their fierce love for their kids. Raise a glass to the mother of the groom!

$50 | Uncommon Goods

8. Custom Etched Wine Bottle

Custom etched wine bottle mother of the groom gift

Show her how thankful you are for all her help with this etched wine bottle. Filled with a California cabernet sauvignon, it features the toast-worthy phrase, "Cheers to you, Mom." It's perfect for celebrating having her both as a mom and a built-in wedding planner. For a personal touch, you can have it signed with your and your future spouse's name.

$50 | Mano's Wine

9. "Heart of the Home" Cutting Board

Personalized The Heart Of The Home cutting board mother-of-the-groom gift

The mom who loves to cook and entertain will get plenty of use out of her very own engraved cutting board. This wooden cutting board is personalized with her name and reads, "The heart of the home." It's a practical and sincere mother-of-the-groom gift.

From $30 | Etsy

10. Pearly Floral Earrings

Pearly floral earrings mother of the groom gift

Wedding day earrings make a great gift for the mother of the groom. These floral earrings from Kate Spade feature mother-of-pearl accents. They're perfect for formal occasions but can also be dressed down to flaunt every day.

$78 | Kate Spade

11. Handmade Ring Dish

Personalized birth flower ring dish mother-of-the-groom gift

A ring dish is a small, useful gift for the mother of the groom. She can use it to lay out her jewelry on the big day and then display it on her vanity every day after. This ceramic trinket is stamped with her birth flower for a personalized touch. It can also include a name, date, monogram or meaningful word.

From $22 | Etsy

12. Embroidered Mom Handkerchief

White handkerchief embroidered with Mom, Thank You For Everything mother-of-the-groom gift

For the traditional mother of the groom, gift something simple yet still sentimental. This embroidered wedding handkerchief gets it right. With an antique-style crochet border, it reads, "Mom, thank you for everything."

$17 | The Knot Shop

13. Self-Watering Sunflower Kit

Self-watering sunflower kit mother-of-the-groom gift

If your mom always calls you her sunshine, she'll love this unique gift idea. This indoor sunflower grow kit requires no green thumb thanks to its hydroponic (i.e. soil-free) planter. In no time, she'll have beautiful blooms that'll remind her of you.

$38 | Uncommon Goods

14. Italian Herringbone Throw

Italian herringbone throw with monogram mother-of-the-groom gift

This super-soft throw is the ultimate multitasker. It's not just a travel blanket—it can also be worn as a scarf or shawl. Talk about a chic and practical mother-of-the-groom gift for a cold-weather wedding. Add her embroidered initials to make the gift extra special.

From $119 | Mark & Graham

15. Personalized Message Suncatcher

Personalized message suncatcher mother of the groom gift

A personalized suncatcher is a charming and thoughtful gift idea for the mother of the groom. This delicate floral-themed suncatcher allows you to customize a heartfelt message, making it a unique keepsake that she can cherish forever. When hung in a window, the suncatcher catches the sunlight, casting beautiful colors and reminding her daily of your appreciation and love. It's a perfect blend of beauty and sentimentality, ideal for celebrating her role and making her feel special on this momentous occasion.

$22 | Personalization Mall

16. Interlocking Heart Necklace

Gold chain with double heart clasp mother-of-the-groom necklace

Shopping for something a little more subtle? Made from 18K gold-plated brass, this mother-of-the-groom necklace features interlocking double hearts to represent the special connection between a mom and son.

$68 | Gorjana

17. Mother-of-the-Groom Cuff Bracelet

Monogrammed silver or gold cuff mother-of-the-groom bracelets

This pretty cuff comes in silver or gold and can be engraved with the mother of the groom's name on the outside and one of two thoughtful messages on the inside. For a gift from the groom himself, "All that I am I owe to you" sets the perfect tone; while "Thanks for making the best one" is a beautiful gift from his future spouse.

$189 | Mark & Graham

18. Cashmere Wrap

A luxurious shawl like this one from Naked Cashmere makes a perfect gift for the mother of the groom, especially if your wedding is in the fall or winter. Crafted from the finest cashmere, this elegant wrap offers both comfort and sophistication. Its versatile design ensures it can be worn on the wedding day to add a touch of warmth and style, and later cherished as a timeless accessory.

$215 | Naked Cashmere

19. Monogrammed Travel Pouch

Monogrammed travel pouch mother of the groom gift

The Block Print Travel Pouch from Mark and Graham is an excellent gift for the mother of the groom. This stylish and practical pouch is perfect for keeping her essentials organized, whether she's traveling for the wedding or simply running daily errands. Made from high-quality materials with a chic block print design, it adds a touch of elegance to her accessories. You can personalize it with her initials to make it even more special, ensuring she feels loved on this momentous occasion.

From $39 | Mark & Graham

20. Engraved Luxury Perfume

Engraved luxury perfume mother of the groom gift

This personalized cologne not only offers a delightful sensory experience but also serves as a cherished keepsake, making her feel truly valued. This exquisite fragrance from Jo Malone London has a delicate blend of peony and suede notes. The bottle and top can be engraved with a short message and her initials, adding a personal touch that shows your appreciation and thoughtfulness.

$115 | Jo Malone

21. Preserved Rose Bouquet

Preserved roses for mother of the groom gift

Show your mom you'll adore her forever with this bouquet of everlasting roses. Choose from a slew of gorgeous shades and she'll receive 13 to 15 individual blooms, each flash frozen so they'll last for years—no water required. She'll think of your special bond each time she sees them.

$299 | Venus ET Fleur

22. Mother and Son Figurine

Mother and son figurine mother of the groom gift

This delicate figurine depicts a loving embrace between a mother and her son, capturing the deep affection and connection they share. Hand-painted and crafted with exquisite detail, it serves as a meaningful keepsake that she can cherish forever. Its timeless design and emotional resonance make it a perfect memento of this special milestone in their lives.

$45 | Amazon

23. What I Love About Mom Book

What I Love About Mom book mother of the groom gift idea

Here's a sentimental and affordable mother-of-the-groom gift: It's a fill-in-the-blank prompt book that helps you verbalize all the reasons you love your mom. After opening this, she'll definitely wrap you in the biggest hug.

$10 | Amazon

24. Leather Carry-All Tote

Leather tote bag for mother of the groom gift

Looking for a tried-and-true gift for the groom's mother? A chic tote bag is a go-to idea for any woman in your life. This leather option is sleek and spacious and goes with everything.

$178 | Madewell

25. Personalized Stationery

Custom stationery for mother of the groom gift

How lovely are these stationery sets? Each card features a colored border along with her name and address. It's an elegant, personalized mother-of-the-groom gift that's also wholly practical. She can use it for all her correspondence and thank-you notes throughout the year.

From $38 for 20 | Papier

26. Mother-of-the-Groom T-Shirt

If you want a fun and celebratory gift for the mother of the groom, how about a T-shirt that lets her proudly wear her role? This one is best given early in the engagement so she can sport it at all the pre-wedding events. It comes in lots of fun hues, so you can be sure to snag her favorite or coordinate with your wedding colors.

From $32 | Etsy

27. Home Spa Set

You can't go wrong with an at-home spa gift set. This one includes body oil, a shower steamer and a soap bar infused with lavender essential oils for a fragrant and calming spa experience. It also comes with soothing lip balm and a soy candle. It's a great gift to pamper the MOG before or after the wedding.

$44 | Uncommon Goods

28. "Thank You, Mom" Candle

Mother-of-the-groom soy candle with Thank You, Mom label

With top notes of bergamot, lavender and sage, this candle not only smells amazing, but clearly expresses your gratitude. The label puts it simply: "Thank you, Mom." It's a sweet and useful gift for the mother of the groom. (There's even a spot for a handwritten note on the back of the box.)

$30 | Homesick

29. Mother-of-the-Groom Mug

Custom glass mug for mother of the groom gift

Planning a breakfast for your VIPs on the wedding day? Present the mother of the groom with this cute glass mug to thank her for all she's done. It features her name and a pretty floral illustration.

From $31 | Etsy

30. Fancy Tea Sampler

Tea sampler for mother of the groom gift

How lovely is this set of six loose-leaf teas from woman-owned tea brand Magic Hour? With 90 cups worth of tea and flavors that include almond matcha and raspberry earl black, she's sure to discover a new favorite. Bonus: It comes with a strainer and mini tea pot.

$77 | Magic Hour

31. Herbal Warming Slippers

Herbal slippers for mother of the groom gift

How sweet are these cozy slippers? They feature removable insoles filled with flax seeds, which are known for holding their temperature, so they can go in the fridge or microwave to warm or cool her toes. The best part is that they smell like soothing lavender!

$48 | Uncommon Goods