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Updated May 05, 202540 Cute Bridesmaid Proposal Gift Ideas to Ask Them, "Will You Be In My Wedding?"
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Let's be honest: You knew the members of your wedding party before you even knew who you'd marry. And now, it's officially time to ask them, "Will you be my bridesmaid?" with a thoughtful proposal of your own. This could mean treating them to brunch, or surprising everyone with bridesmaid proposal gifts. From drinkware and bubbly to cosmetic cases filled with self-care goodies and sentimental jewelry, we rounded up thoughtful and cute bridesmaid proposal gift ideas that'll elicit a big "Yes!" from your crew.
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The Best Bridesmaid Proposal Gifts
Whether you're looking for a one-and-done bridesmaid proposal present or need ideas for what to put in your DIY bridesmaid proposal boxes, these practical, personal and non-cheesy "Will you by my bridesmaid?" gifts will instantly secure your wedding party.
1. Mini Eternity Rose
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Venus et Fleur's eternity roses make the perfect bridesmaid proposal gift, offering a beautiful, lasting reminder of your upcoming wedding and the special role your closest friends will play in it. Each mini hat box features a single preserved rose in your choice of color, designed to stay vibrant for a year (or longer) without any need for water. You can add a complimentary greeting card to personally ask, "Will you be my bridesmaid?" to add an extra personalized touch.
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2. Assorted Mini Cupcakes
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Baked by Melissa's irresistible mini cupcakes are the sweetest way to ask your crew to be part of your big day. With playful flavors like PB&J, Chocolate Chip Pancake and Marshmallow Hot Cocoa, these bite-sized treats are sure to leave a lasting impression… though they may not last long once your bridesmaids take a bite! You can send them to multiple addresses, ensuring each friend receives a personalized surprise, no matter where they are. Plus, you can add a gift card with a heartfelt note that asks, "Will you be in my wedding party?" With vegan and gluten-free options available, everyone can join in on the fun, making this a deliciously thoughtful and inclusive way to pop the question.
3. Pre-Measured Bubbly Mixes
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A mini bottle of champagne is a classic bridesmaid proposal gift for your friends who enjoy a little bubbly, but why not take it up a notch by adding a thoughtful twist with a pre-measured cocktail mixer. Thoughtfully Cocktails elevates the gesture with five delicious, ready-to-pour bubbly toppers, including tropical mango, zesty grapefruit, refreshing peach bellini, as well as mandarin and strawberry mimosas. It's a fun and festive way to celebrate your friendship while giving your bridesmaids the perfect excuse to pop the cork and toast to your upcoming wedding.
4. Insulated Champagne Flute
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If you're not sure how to ask someone to be your bridesmaid, cute drinkware is a great place to start. After all, what better way to welcome them to your wedding party than with a toast? This stemless champagne tumbler is adorably decorated with colorful florals that'll perfectly match your garden-themed wedding. Bonus: The stainless steel insulation means their bubbly will stay cool even while lounging by the pool during your bach party.
5. Bridesmaid Getting-Ready Robe
Photo: Birdy Grey
Here's a bridesmaid proposal gift they actually want: luxe bath robes for getting ready on the big day (and relaxing at home after). These satin wraps boast lace trim and are as pretty as they are comfy. Not only can they be embroidered with each of your bridesmaids' names on the back, but they also come in over a dozen different colors, so coordinating with your wedding palette is a cinch. Naturally, there's even a white for you, the bride.
6. Plush Bridal Party Slippers
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Make sure your besties don't get cold feet with this bridesmaid proposal gift idea. These plush slides with a trendy crossband aren't just cozy—they also celebrate each attendant's important bridesmaid role. There are even coordinating designs for your MOH and you, the bride.
7. Sentimental Bridesmaid Candle
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For the lights of your life, this handmade candle is a great way to pop the question. The label defines the title of "bridesmaid" as a "partner in crime, dream supporter, secrets keeper and someone a bride's big day would be incomplete without." Aww! It comes in a variety of scents, including thematic options like Champagne Toast (champagne with musk tones), Love Is In The Air (floral notes of jasmine, lily and green leaves) and Wedding Cake (strawberry, raspberry and vanilla). You can find a specific label for your maid of honor too.
8. "Will You Be My Bridesmaid" Personalized Matches
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Before you met your fiancé, your friends were your perfect match. Pair a sentimental candle (see above) with a personalized matchbox. This sunny option reads "Will you be my bridesmaid?" and is signed with your name and a heart.
9. Bath Bomb Set
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Pair a cozy lounge robe or pajamas with some indulgent spa essentials to help your bridesmaids truly unwind. This set of three tropical-scented bath bombs comes beautifully packaged in a tube that reads, "I couldn't say 'I do' without you." It's the perfect gift for your future bride squad to relax after a busy bachelorette weekend—or just to enjoy a little self-care after a long day at work.
10. Something Blue Scrunchie
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As the saying goes, "Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue." Ensure the best of luck for your marriage and friendships by giving your bridal party these something-blue scrunchies as part of their proposal gift. These come in four different shades of blue, as well as every other color of the rainbow. They're even tied with a tag that can say "To have and to hold your hair back" or "I can't tie the knot without you."
11. Illuminating Undereye Masks
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A must-add to any morning skincare routine: under-eye masks! These refreshing (something) blue masks from Grace & Stella are perfect for reducing puffiness and revitalizing tired eyes, leaving your bridesmaids feeling rejuvenated and ready to take on the day. The best part? At just a dollar each when bought in bulk, it's easy to treat all your pals to a little self-care without breaking the bank.
12. Friends Coffee Mug
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Here's a bridesmaid proposal gift inspired by pop culture: A Friends-themed coffee mug. Inspired by the show, the mug is entitled with the caption: "The one where you're my bridesmaid." It also includes your bridesmaid's name with the option to feature a date. It'll help them stay caffeinated while they help you make many tiny decisions ahead of your wedding day.
13. Herbal Tea
Photo: Leaves of Leisure
For the bridesmaid who prefers tea over coffee, Leave of Leisure offers the perfect gift: adorably packaged loose-leaf tea blends. Their bestselling Picnic in the Park blend, a refreshing mix of apple, hibiscus and pomegranate, is just as delicious hot as it's iced. With each sip, your bridesmaid will be transported to a sunny spring day, making it a delightful treat for any occasion.
14. Wildflower Tote Bag
Photo: Zazzle
PSA: Tote bags are totes back in fashion… and just in time for your bridal party proposals. This canvas bag is decorated with colorful wildflowers and can be personalized with each of your crew's names or wedding titles. Give it alone or fill it with other goodies for your squad. You'll definitely see these useful bridesmaid proposal gifts again at the bach party and during every weekend errand together.
15. Mini Succulent
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These mini succulents are a super-cute bridesmaid proposal idea, especially when paired with a punny card message, like "I prick you" or "My wedding would succ without you." Plus, the plants come in a rustic-chic box with the ever-important question "Will you be my bridesmaid?" printed on the front. It doesn't get any easier than that!
16. Lollipops With a Twist
Photo: Uncommon Goods
Edible (and drinkable) gifts are always a hit. So, if you're looking for a stellar bridesmaid proposal gift, look no further than these botanical lollies. With flavors like Strawberry & Basil, Lavender & Lemongrass and Sage & Marshmallow, they all taste amazing—but that's just part of the appeal. Once each bridesmaid finishes the candy, they can plant the stick to grow the flowers or herbs they just sampled. How fun and eco-friendly! They're the perfect finishing touch to your bridesmaid boxes to make your proposal really stand out.
17. Super Cute Disposable Camera
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Phone cameras are great, but film cameras are way more fun. Make sure your bridesmaids can capture the exact moment they become part of your wedding party by including a disposable camera in their bridesmaid proposal gift. Then ensure they pack it for every wedding festivity to really capture the mems.
18. Metal Lace Edge Frame
Photo: Amazon
Already have a photo you love together? Display it in a charming picture frame! It's a sweet way to remind your bridesmaid of your special bond. This sleek floating frame complements any décor style, and you can make it even more personal by adding a handwritten card on the reverse side with a heartfelt message asking them to be part of your wedding.
19. Botanical Wordplay Trinket Dishes
Photo: Uncommon Goods
The bride isn't the only one with important jewelry. Give your wedding party a place to store their own baubles with a cute trinket dish. The small, shallow stoneware bowls are stamped with either the phrase "Love you a bunch" or "Buds for life" with a handpainted flower.
20. Love Knot Ring
Photo: Made by Mary
Have you ever thought about actually proposing to your bridesmaids… like, with a ring? This dainty bauble is fittingly designed with a love knot to symbolize your friendship and commitment. It comes in sterling silver or gold-filled to match each member of your squad's accessory style.
21. Bridesmaid Beaded Bracelet
Photo: Little Words Project
As far as bridesmaid proposal ideas go, jewelry is a tried-and-true option. Present each member of your entourage with one of these dainty beaded bracelets—which say "bridesmaid," "maid of honor" or "I do crew"—and they'll instantly understand what you're asking. You can even add a gift box for an additional fee so each piece is presentation-ready.
22. Denim Bridesmaid Jacket
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Bridesmaid swag like T-shirts—or, in this case, jean jackets—is an ever-popular way to shower your crew with love. The back of this jacket can be printed with each of your friend's names—there's even a white one (with fringe) for the bride. They'll love sporting their new outerwear at the bachelorette party and beyond.
23. Large Personalized Makeup Bag
Photo: The Knot Shop
The perfect way to present luxe toiletries to your bridesmaids is in cosmetics bags. (Bonus points if it's personalized.) They'll be thankful to be well-stocked on self-care goodies as they navigate wedding planning with you. This spacious cotton waffle makeup bag has a genius water-resistant lining and can be personalized with their name, initials or role as a bridesmaid or maid of honor in gold glitter. Too fun!
24. Bespoke Perfume
Photo: Anthropologie
Each perfume in Anthropologie's Nostalgia collection is inspired by life's little (and big) moments. Golden Hour offers the warm scent of white almond, jasmine sambac and cashmere musk, to remind you of long days spent with loved ones; Cheers! smells like a celebratory cake thanks to lush berries, vanilla and marzipan cream; and I Do's floral peony aroma will remind you of romantic occasions. All in all, each fragrance will fit your friendship with each bridesmaid and the joyous occasion.
25. Press-On Nail Kit
Photo: Glamnetics
Press-on nails are the new secret to having a perfect manicure every day of the week. Gift each of your soon-to-be bridesmaids a set so they feel put together even when they can't make it to a salon. You'll see the nails at the wedding shower, bach party and even on the big day—that's right, they're reusable. And they last about two weeks every wear.
26. Funny Face Masks
Photo: Ulta
Here's a funny way to ask bridesmaids to be in your wedding that also fits the self-care theme: "Let's do this sheet" face masks! Each set comes with five sheets (all with punny names) that offer different benefits, including calming, brightening, firming and hydrating help. Thanks to this creative bridesmaid proposal gift, they'll all feel their best at every wedding-related activity.
27. Personalized Sweat Set
Photo: Birdy Grey
We're huge fans of matching loungewear and your bridesmaids will be too. After all, who doesn't want to look cute and feel comfortable? They'll want to pack these hoodies and sweat shorts or sweatpants for the bach party and wedding day getting-ready suite (assuming they're clean, since they'll also want to wear them every day prior). You can even have each embroidered with their name or wedding role.
28. Satin Sleep Mask
Photo: xo, Fetti
No bridesmaid matching sleep set is complete without a silk sleep mask. Make sure your wedding party is well-rested by gifting everyone a luxe eye cover to help them get their "ZZZ's" in before the big day. They're charmingly pink and red with a small heart.
29. Zodiac Sign Candle
Photo: Birthdate Co.
The internet's favorite astrology-themed candles can absolutely serve as a creative bridesmaid proposal idea. Birthdate Co. has specific candles for every day of the year, meaning you can choose the exact one that reflects each bridesmaid-to-be's birthday so they all get a one-of-a-kind gift that celebrates their individuality. Hand them out during a group hang so your wedding party can really learn about each other before all the planning and festivities begin.
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30. Custom Wine Label
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Of course, we can't talk about gifts to ask bridesmaids without mentioning wine. Get each squad member their favorite bottle, whether that's a sparkling Lambrusco or rich cabernet, then decorate it with a cute label. These ones are personalized with each recipient's name and read, "Will you be my bridesmaid? I can't say 'I do' without you." The winning touch? Custom illustrations of you fulfilling your wedding roles.
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31. Glittery Mimosa Cubes
Photo: Uncommon Goods
A bottle of celebratory champagne isn't complete without a bit of fruit juice and glitter. Give each of your bridesmaids peach, raspberry, strawberry, orange, grapefruit or lemon sugar cubes to create instant mimosas. Your girls will feel ultra glam toasting the good news.
32. "Will You Be My Bridesmaid" Gourmet Candy Box
Photo: Sugarfina
Send every bridesmaid a trio of Sugarfina gummies that together say "Will you," "Be my" and "Bridesmaid?" As if the packaging wasn't already cute enough, the flavors are also perfectly on-theme, with celebratory snacks like Champagne Bears, Champagne Bubbles and Pink Diamonds. They'll be saying "Yes!" while their mouth is full of candy.
33. Bridesmaid Proposal M&M's
Photo: My M&M's
As for chocolate lovers, you should absolutely design your very own M&M's. The site has on-theme clipart options such as "Team Bride" and "Will you be my bridesmaid?" If you really want to wow your wedding party, you can put a custom picture on each chocolate, like you and your fiancé's faces or each future attendant's. The candies come in plastic champagne bottles with fun gold packaging.
34. Bridesmaid Sweatshirt
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Whenever they sport this cute swag, everyone will know they're wedding VIPs. These crewneck sweatshirts can be customized with their wedding title and name over a big diamond ring. Choose from seven different colors—we recommend the blue as, well, your "something blue."
35. Customized Cold Brew Glass
Photo: Amazon
If you've got a coffee lover (or two) in your crew, swap the classic wine glass for cold brew cups. These can-shaped tumblers can be clear or frosted and are personalized with each person's name, their role as a bridesmaid (or MOH) and a wildflower. Each glass comes with a bamboo lid and reusable straw so your crew can use them on the big day without too much fear of spilling on their formalwear.
36. Personalized Jewelry Box
Photo: Amazon
A travel jewelry box makes an especially great bridesmaid invitation if you're planning a destination wedding. This square case comes in pink, white or teal faux leather and is personalized with each of your crew's names and a heart—so cute! Zip a personalized "Be my bridesmaid" note inside the case, along with a pretty bauble they can wear on the big day for a sweet surprise.
37. Leatherette Key Chain
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Looking for an inexpensive bridesmaid gift idea? Small tokens can go a long way. These leatherette key chains with gold foil writing are something they can use every day. They come in cute pastels or more neutral classic colors, so you can find the ones that best match each bridesmaid's sense of style.
38. Icon Juice Glasses
Photo: Anthropologie
Adorable glassware is the perfect cherry on top of any bridesmaid proposal gift. These hand-blown glass cups, featuring charming hand-pressed beaded glass icons like bows, fruits, hearts and rainbows, add a touch of whimsy to any drink. You can surprise her with a single, special glass or mix and match to give her a fun set (and ensure you have a cute glass to use at her place).
39. Experimental Cocktail Kit For Clear Spirits
Photo: Bespoke Post
Skip the champagne and go straight to the hard stuff with this cocktail kit, crafted specifically for clear spirits (and there's a version for dark liquor too!). Your bridesmaid will love the fresh, vibrant mixers paired with aromatic bitters, perfect for creating a signature cocktail at home. It's a fun, flavorful way for her to celebrate your upcoming wedding, and toast to your friendship!
40. Bubble Gift Box With Mini Cake Donuts
Photo: 1-800-Flowers
If you're looking to wow your bridesmaids with a sweet and bubbly surprise—sans alcohol—this is the ultimate "Will you be my bridesmaid?" present. The elegant box, designed to resemble a stained glass window adorned with roses, opens to reveal a delightful stream of bubbles floating into the air. Inside, your crew will discover a champagne-shaped bottle filled with delectable mini cake donuts, adding a delicious twist to the celebration.
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Bridesmaid Proposal Gift FAQ
Inviting friends and family to be part of your wedding party is an exciting milestone in your relationship and, as such, should be celebrated! While you could go with a simple bridesmaid proposal like a handwritten card, there are lots of easy-to-execute "Will you be my bridesmaid" gift ideas that'll make the occasion extra special. Here's what to know as you ponder bridal party proposal ideas.
Are bridesmaid proposal gifts necessary?
Bridesmaid proposal gifts aren't required, but they're a popular and thoughtful gesture to kick off wedding festivities with your loved ones. A bridal party asking gift, whether big or small, shows your squad how much you appreciate their support up to this point and how excited you are to have them be a part of your special day. Plus, it's a great chance to help them get ready for wedding festivities with picks like insulated drinkware and swag for the bach party or pretty jewelry for their formal attire.
How much should you spend on a bridesmaid proposal?
Since bridesmaid proposal gifts aren't mandatory, the amount you spend on them is completely up to you. That said, it's customary to spend the same amount on each of your bridesmaid's gifts, even if you get them all something different (maid of honor excluded). When deciding how much to spend on a proposal, think not only of your overall wedding budget but also if you'll be buying other gifts for your wedding crew—like bachelorette party favors and thank-you presents—and how much you want to spend on those. Regardless of how much you can and want to spend, remember it's the thought that counts.
When do you give bridesmaid proposal gifts?
Being a bridesmaid is no small responsibility, therefore, it's important to ask your loved ones well in advance so they have plenty of time to prepare for the wedding. The Knot's recent wedding party gifts survey showed that most couples asked their wedding party within two months of getting engaged. An average engagement is 15 months, so this gives your crew lots of leeway to budget money and vacation time for the celebration.
What should you put in a bridesmaid proposal box?
A bridesmaid proposal box is often filled with small gifts that go well together, like a makeup bag filled with brightening eye masks, bath bombs and hand lotion or a bottle of champagne with a personalized wine glass and chocolate. Picking a specific theme will help you consolidate your gift ideas and, thus, can also make it easier to stick to a budget. It's also common to have a filler like tissue paper, crinkle paper or confetti so everything is elegantly displayed together—and protected if you're transporting them. And don't forget your gift box isn't complete with a bridesmaid proposal card.
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