21 Bridesmaid Proposal Boxes You Can Ship Right to Their Door

Ask "Will you be my bridesmaid?" with one of these cute gift boxes.
Bridesmaid proposal boxes
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Emily Rumsey
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Updated Nov 29, 2022
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There's nothing more fun than a surprise delivery—especially when it includes a super-important message like, "Will you be my bridesmaid?" (Cue the excited screams on FaceTime.) Bridesmaid boxes are a popular way to pop the question to your crew, but they can also be time consuming. From finding fun goodies to wrapping and delivery, DIY proposal boxes take a lot of commitment. That's why we've scoured the web to find prefilled bridesmaid proposal boxes—that's right, all you have to do is mail them (and some brands will even take care of shipping too). And don't worry, these wedding party gifts will still feel special even if you're not handmaking them. You can almost always add a gift message to the shipment; plus, some boxes offer personalization, like your squad's names printed on drinkware. So, what are you waiting for? Check off the next item on your wedding to-do list with one of these adorable bridesmaid proposal boxes!

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The Best Bridesmaid Proposal Boxes

Wondering where to buy bridesmaid proposal boxes? We've found lots of websites with creative options for asking your bridal squad. Here, shop some of our favorite bridesmaid box ideas.

1. Happy Box Bridesmaid Box

Will You Be My Bridesmaid box with Girl Gang patch

This bright and colorful bridesmaid proposal box from Happy Box is sure to impress your "I do" crew. Tucked inside each bridal party gift box is body butter, a bath bomb, a fuzzy pen and a "Girl Gang" patch. You can add even more goodies to the box for a small additional fee, like velvet scrunchies, gourmet snacks and scented candles. Best of all, it ships with a handwritten card. Just type your unique message before checking out and a real human will copy it to the stationery.

2. Homesick Bridesmaid Proposal Kit

Homesick, Studs and Loops luxury bridesmaid proposal box

Did you know your favorite candle brand also has wedding party gifts? Ask your besties if they'll be part of your big day with this box of goodies from Homesick (and Studs and Loops). It comes with a Team Bride candle (it's rosé scented), face and eye masks and gold-plated pavé hoop earrings—talk about a luxury bridesmaid proposal box. (Psst, Homesick sells smaller gift sets as well, so you can find something for every budget.)

3. Knack Girls' Night Gift Set

Girls' night bridesmaid box with alcohol-free rosé

This bridesmaid proposal box will make your crew say, "Yes way, rosé!" There's a beautiful floral wine tumbler from the Corkcicle x Rifle Paper Co. collection, Töst alcohol-free sparkling rosé, Patchology soothing eye gels, rosé-infused candy from Sugarfina and a fun trivia game. Pair it with a card for a super-special moment. (And if you're shopping for a bridesman or man of honor, check out this alternative box with bourbon gummy bears and a hip flask.)

4. Fcaylo Bridesmaid Proposal Gift Set

Amazon bridesmaid proposal gift set

This bridesmaid proposal box has all the classic gift ideas and then some. It's packed with a silver love knot necklace, a rose gold bangle, bridesmaid socks, a stemless champagne flute and self-care goodies including two silky scrunchies, two bath bombs and a lavender candle. It all comes wrapped in a "will you be my bridesmaid" gift box with raffia filling. It's a great last-minute option thanks to Prime's expedited shipping; send the boxes to yourself so you can handwrite personal messages in the matching cards, then deliver them to your soon-to-be wedding party in person.

5. David's Bridal Will You Be My Bridesmaid Gift Box

Will You Be My Bridesmaid premade proposal box

Searching for something super cute? Try sending this pink and gold box to ask your bridesmaids the burning question. It's filled with a mini heart-shaped picture frame, one pair of sunglasses, an "XOXO" trinket dish, four thematic magnets and a cute bridesmaid mug.

6. Uncommon Goods Be My Bridesmaid Gift Set

Uncommon Goods bridesmaid proposal box with edible glitter

This gift box for bridesmaids is filled with goodies handpicked by Uncommon Goods' experts. It comes with edible glitter and a champagne flute for the ultimate celebratory drink as well as a bath bar and sassy tea towel. Plus, you can add a gift message at check out for a personal touch.

7. DK Gifts Boutique Bridesmaid Gift Box With Champagne Label

Etsy bridesmaid box with wine tumbler, champagne flute and bottle label

Whether you're looking for wedding party or maid of honor gift ideas, you can never go wrong with some bubbly. Add a miniature bottle of their favorite sparkling wine to this Etsy bridesmaid box. Inside, your besties will find a personalized wine tumbler and a stemless champagne flute as well as a gold love knot bracelet. There's even a personalized label so you can decorate the champagne bottle.

8. Greetabl Be My Bridesmaid Print Box

Greetabl Will You Be My Bridesmaid? affordable bridesmaid proposal box

If proposal boxes are only the first of many gifts for your wedding party, you're probably looking for an affordable option. Insert Greetabl. This customizable bridesmaid proposal box is a special (and budget-friendly) way to ask your friends and family for their support. You can personalize the "Will you be my bridesmaid?" wrapping with photos and a heartfelt message. Then fill the box with a small-but-sweet gift, like this on-theme Minimergency kit for the wedding or a spa gift card that'll come in clutch after bach party festivities.

Cookie dough bridal party proposal gift box

As far as ideas for bridesmaid gift boxes go, we can definitely get behind one as tasty as this. Ask them to help you say "I dough" with cookie dough delivered right to their door. Choose six different flavors for your crew to savor—we especially love Cake Batter for this occasion—including gluten-free and vegan options. (Psst, this delightful cookie dough works for asking everyone in your wedding party, not just bridesmaids.)

10. Sugarfina Will You Be My Bridesmaid 3-Piece Candy Set

Will You Be My Bridesmaid Sugarfina candy box

This bridesmaid proposal box is seriously sweet! Send every future member of your wedding party a trio of celebratory Sugarfina gummies. Together, the three candy containers read, "will you," "be my" and "bridesmaid." The flavors—Champagne Bears, Champagne Bubbles and Pink Diamonds—are perfectly on theme.

11. Bean Box Coffee + Chocolate Tasting Box

Coffee and chocolate sample box bridesmaid proposal gift idea

If you're finding it tricky to score the perfect gift box for your squad, feel free to pick something that's not wedding-themed. This gift set contains a selection of gourmet coffee and chocolate—perfect for any member of your crew who enjoys the finer things in life. Simply add a card that conveys the message you want to send and you've got a thoughtful proposal box and caffeinated wedding party.

12. Lynwood Candle Company Bridesmaid Box

Spa and beauty gifts bridesmaid proposal box

This maid or matron of honor proposal gift box has everything they'll need for a relaxing night of self-care. It's filled to the brim with luxe products like bath salts, a clay face mask, body lotion, lip balm, a scented candle of your choice and more—all of which are made from natural ingredients! Personalize the inside of this box's lid with their name and the question: "Will you be my bridesmaid?" For a longer message, enter a personal note at checkout to be printed on a complimentary card so it's ready to ship from the seller to your long-distance BFF.

13. The Knot Shop Personalized Bridal Party Crystal Jewelry Gift Set

Will You Be My Bridesmaid jewelry proposal box

Less is more when it comes to this small bridesmaid gift box idea. Personalized with each of your crew's names, it asks them to be your bridesmaids (or maid of honor) alongside Swarovski crystal earrings and a matching solitaire necklace. Now they know exactly what baubles to wear on the wedding day.

14. Knack Can't Say I Do Without You Gift Box

Bridesmaid proposal box with candle

Surprise your wedding party with this luxe bridesmaid proposal box. It includes three bath bombs with the sentiment "I couldn't say 'I do' without you" on the packaging, a prosecco and rose petal scented candle and a vial of matches. It's everything they need for a relaxing soak after a day of running wedding errands or a night of celebrating you and your fiancé.

15. Homabachyco Store Will You Be My Bridesmaid Box

Will You Be My Bridesmaid prefilled proposal box

This bridesmaid or maid of honor proposal box doubles as a wedding day essentials kit. It comes with a floral makeup bag, coil hair ties and a silk scrunchie, a compact mirror and a drink tumbler for hot coffee to start the big day off right. It also comes with a love knot bangle, faux diamond-embellished pen and a sentimental keychain.

16. Giftbasket.com Jasmine & Lilac Calming Spa Gift Basket

Spa gift basket bridesmaid proposal idea

Remember, your wedding party proposal present doesn't have to explicitly pop the question. Anyone will feel lucky to receive this spa gift basket. It's overflowing with jasmine and lilac scented goods, including shower gel, a body scrub, lotion, bath salts, sponges and more for a full glam treatment. It even comes with fuzzy flippers and a robe. Simply add a gift message at checkout asking "will you be a part of my big day" so they know why they're being pampered.

17. Plantmymessage Succulent Bridesmaid Proposal Box

Personalized plant pot with succulent bridesmaid proposal box

Let your besties know you prick them! This simple bridesmaid proposal box comes with a custom pot filled with a small succulent. The rustic gift box asks "will you be my bridesmaid" and is accompanied by a personalized card. For just $20 per box, this affordable idea can't be beat.

18. Brook & York Bridesmaid Proposal Mini Gift Box Set

Earrings and beauty products bridesmaid proposal box

We'd be pretty darn chuffed to receive this bridesmaid package in the post, and we bet your best friends will be too. Each gift box is complete with dainty pearl hoop earrings, tinted lip balm, wedding day-ready nail polish, an essential oil towelette and Beauty Bar chocolate. Best of all, shipping is free!

19. Sweet Shop Design Bridesmaid Cookies Gift Box

Will You Be My Bridesmaid cookies

You can't go wrong with an edible bridesmaid proposal, and this delicious delivery option costs just $15 per person. These sugar cookies are intricately frosted to ask "will you be my bridesmaid," with one even shaped like a diamond ring. You can personalize the desserts with your squad's names so they know these are their sweets.

20. LovinBox Bridesman Proposal Gift Box

Bridesman proposal idea with pin

Shopping for a bridesman? This small, yet super sentimental proposal gift is a great way to ask "Will you be in my wedding?" The box folds out to reveal five photos of the two of you and a special brideman or man of honor pin that he can flaunt on the big day so everyone knows he's a VIP.

21. Happily Chic Designs Bridesmaid Proposal Box With Robe

Bridesmaid proposal box with satin robe, wine tumbler and a hair tie

These custom bridesmaid boxes are a favorite amongst couples and their wedding party thanks to the satin lace robes printed with each person's name or role on the back. That's not all though. This box is also packed with a personalized stemless wine tumbler (and straw), a ribbon hair tie and a faux rose. Need a rush order? This seller offers expedited processing!

Bridesmaid Proposal Box FAQ

What goes in a bridesmaid proposal box?

What to put in a bridesmaid proposal box is entirely up to you. While it's common to include wedding-related essentials like customized sunnies for the bachelorette party or getting-ready robes for the big day, nothing is required or expected and not everyone has to get the same thing. Feel free to think about each recipient's interest and hobbies for something extra personal and thoughtful.

When it comes to prefilled bridesmaid proposal boxes, common goodies include candles, luxe cosmetics and toiletries, drinkware and jewelry. Some gift sets even include edible favors like candy or chocolate. Celebratory wine or bubbly is also a popular proposal gift, however, due to different laws in each state, alcohol isn't always shippable. If you want to put beverages in your asking bridesmaids boxes, you may have to add them (and hand-deliver them) yourself.

How do you mail a bridesmaid proposal box?

If your besties live out of state, a long-distance bridesmaid proposal may be necessary—which means you have to think about the shipping cost, time and feasibility when shopping. Before you stress out though, lots of shops can actually ship your present right to your chosen recipient. Look for brands that offer gifting such as special wrapping or a custom message you can write before checking out. This will help your proposal look nice, personal and complete. Of course, if you need to send bridesmaid invitation boxes yourself, make sure to use bubble wrap or decorative filler so items don't shift around or break during transport. And you can always ask your local post office for help so you know everything will arrive safely.

When should you ship your bridesmaid boxes?

So, you've decided who to invite to your wedding party and you've chosen the perfect gifts—now you just have to deliver the bridal party's proposal boxes. Whether you want to ship directly to the recipients or mail the goods yourself, it's important to get them out in a timely manner. According to The Knot's recent wedding party gifts survey, most couples asked their wedding party within two months of getting engaged. This is because it's important to give your squad ample time to plan for such a big event. With that in mind, check shipping times before purchasing a proposal box online and remember, personalized gift boxes often require more lead time. If the box you want has a weeks-long processing time, you may need to pay extra for expedited delivery or choose another option. Alternatively, ask your friends and family if they'll be part of the big day in person or on the phone, then let them know a gift is coming.

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