40 Thoughtful Thank-You Gifts for Friends and Family

At times, you may feel that a verbal "thanks" or a thank-you card falls short of expressing your gratitude. In those cases, consider the power of a thoughtful gift. (Of course, we still advocate for including a handwritten note to complement your gesture.) A thank-you gift for a friend or family member, no matter how big or small, goes beyond words to demonstrate your appreciation.

That's why we've sourced the top thank-you gift ideas to make anyone feel truly valued, regardless of who you're shopping for. Think: a relaxing bath set for your bestie who helped plan your proposal, an edible gift basket for a neighbor who house-sat while you were away on your honeymoon, or beautiful blooms for the coworker who inspires you. Like what you're hearing? Keep reading to shop the best thank-you gifts available online—and conveniently deliverable straight to the recipient's doorstep. (Rest assured, no thank-you gift is expected for our diligent research.)

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What's a Good Thank-You Gift?

Like with most gift-giving occasions, when it comes to the best thank-you gifts it's the thought that counts. Choose gifts that feel meaningful to the recipient. For example, ensure they have no allergies or dietary restrictions before presenting them with edible treats. And consider personalized or customized thank-you gifts to add an extra touch of thoughtfulness.

That said, don't feel the gift has to break the bank. There are lots of small and inexpensive thank-you gift ideas that still make a big impact. We recommend that you keep it proportional to the gesture you're reciprocating. Remember: Thank-you gifts are already going above and beyond, so as long as you think the recipient will enjoy it it'll be appreciated.

The Best Thank-You Gift Ideas

Whether you're shopping for thank-you gifts for friends, family or acquaintances, we've rounded up the most thoughtful thank-you gift ideas to show them your gratitude. From wine and chocolate to luxe self-care products, there's something for everyone on our list.

1. Custom Candle

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Personalized goodies make for an extra special thank-you gift. Take this candle, for instance—it offers complete customization, from the scent to the label. Simply select either a small black tin or a large frosted glass jar, then choose from 10 available scents. Finally, craft your thank-you note to be printed directly onto the label. (With this option, you don't even need a separate card to accompany it!)

2. Shortbread Cookies with a Message

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Edible gifts, especially sweets, are classic thank-you presents because they're instantly gratifying. (And everyone enjoys a little treat!) This one has the added bonus of being personalized, too: The vanilla shortbread cookies are stamped with a custom message.

3. Potted Succulent

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Let someone know they're plant-astic with this thank-you gift idea. A potted succulent is a beautiful and lasting gesture even if the recipient doesn't have a green thumb since succulents are notoriously low-maintenance. Choose from Lula Garden's wide selection of succulents—we love this one with vibrant red tips. Then have it gift-wrapped in their box that reads, "Thank you."

4. Personalized Charcuterie Board

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Thank someone who is always playing host with this gift that'll come in handy whenever they're entertaining. The Etsy seller can engrave the serving board with a range of beautiful designs, from a thank-you message to their initial surrounded by flowers. It's available in four wood types, four sizes and four shapes, offering even more customization options. It's so nice they might hesitate to cover it with cheese and meat and it'll find a permanent place as a decorative accent in their kitchen instead.

5. Chocolate and Wine Thank-You Gift Box

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The best thank-you gifts for friends are ones they'll want to share with you—like a box of chocolate and a bottle of wine. This particular gift set comes with 24(!) assorted truffles and either a red, white or sparkling rosé. Give it to a friend or family member to say, "Thanks for always being there for me."

6. Build Your Own Gift Set

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Why not build your own thank-you gift box? Start with Knack's Grateful For You gift set, which comes with Sugarfina's Champagne Bears, a candle and matches and a trinket tray. Then customize it with other goodies like a chocolate bar. You can also write your own message before it's shipped straight to the recipient.

7. Flower Delivery

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Flowers are traditional thank-you gift ideas that always go over well. Surprise your supportive friend or family member with a bouquet of beautiful blooms delivered right to their door. We're personal fans of this arrangement of sunflowers and roses since its vibrancy naturally sparks joy.

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8. XO Porcelain Vases

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Why settle for an ordinary thanks when you can send hugs and kisses in style? This set of porcelain vases, shaped like an X and an O, adds a touch of charm to your gratitude game. Filled with buds or left empty, they'll look great on a bookshelf or mantel.

9. Glass Hummingbird Feeder

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For your favorite nature enthusiast, nothing beats a gift that celebrates the beauty of the outdoors. Crafted with durable materials and featuring a vintage-inspired design, this feeder not only attracts hummingbirds but its vibrant red color and flower-shaped feeding ports will add charm to their backyard. Perfect for spring and summer, this creative thank-you gift will be put to use immediately, providing endless joy as they watch these delightful creatures flutter about. (And don't forget to include some nectar to complete the gift!)

10. Cat Suncatcher

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If you're on the hunt for a thank-you gift for a loyal pet sitter, then look no further than this adorable suncatcher. The small stained glass window ornament showcases two cuddly cats amidst a backdrop of wildflowers. It'll cast vibrant colors wherever they decide to hang it, adding a touch of joy to any room.

11. Coffee Assortment

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Grounds & Hounds Coffee Co offers creative gifts to say thank you to a pet sitter or dog walker as well. All their blends are canine-themed and they even have cute drinkware and dog toys. Plus, they donate a portion of every sale to animal rescue organizations that provide safe havens for dogs between homes. Gift this set of three—a light, medium and dark roast—so they can sample a variety of blends. It's available as whole beans, ground coffee or single-serving pods.

12. Thank-You Cupcakes

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Wondering what a fun thank-you gift is? The answer is (always) cake! Hand over this assortment of 25 mini cupcakes to say thanks to a friend, family member, neighbor or coworker. Baked By Melissa has a host of delicious and creative flavors, like Chocolate Chip Pancake and Tie-Dye, and even offers gluten-free and vegan assortments.

13. Personalized Book for a Best Friend

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This thank-you gift for a best friend is sure to bring a smile to their face. The Ten Reasons You're My Best Friend custom book from Wonderbly is filled with personalized illustrations and heartwarming sentiments that capture the essence of what makes your relationship truly special. From shared adventures to inside jokes, each page celebrates the reasons why they hold a special place in your heart. Whether given on a special occasion or simply as a spontaneous gesture of appreciation, this personalized book is sure to be a treasured keepsake for years to come.

14. Charm Bracelet

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If you're looking for a really cute thank-you gift, check out Alex and Ani's gratitude charm bracelets. This silver-finished bangle comes with a flower bouquet charm that says "Thanks a bunch" on the front (so clever) and "You are appreciated" on the back. It'll go beautifully with any outfit.

15. Crochet Coffee Bean and Coffee Cup

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Gifts of gratitude don't have to be serious to convey heartfelt appreciation. A lil' crocheted figurine with words of encouragement will be a charming addition to their home. Choose between a coffee bean holding a "You are my favorite human bean" sign or a coffee cup that says "I can't espresso how much you mean to me." It's a clever thank-you gift for a friend or family member who's always there for you over a cup of coffee.

16. "You're Awesome" Mug

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Let them know how amazing they are for lending you a helping hand with this inexpensive and simple thank-you gift idea. This stoneware mug reads: "It's official. You're awesome." Pair it with a gift card to their favorite coffee shop or even a bag of beans for a little DIY thank-you gift set.

17. Chocolate Covered Strawberries

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Here's a berry clever appreciation gift idea: Chocolate-covered strawberries! Each plump strawberry is hand-dipped in rich Belgian chocolate and expertly decorated with alphabet-shaped Belgian white chocolate to spell out words of gratitude. The remaining four strawberries feature a gold glitter drizzle. It's as pretty as it's delicious.

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18. Daisy Grow Kit

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If a friend, family member or neighbor watered your plants while you were away on vacation—perhaps your honeymoon—gift them this daisy grow kit as a gesture of your gratitude. It comes with seeds, a terracotta planter and a coconut filter, so the plant can self-water and drain. In no time, they'll have white-and-yellow flowers popping up. The packaging even reads, "Thank you" to double down on the sentiment.

19. Location Scented Candle

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For the friends or family that showed their hospitality on your latest visit, gift them a candle of their home state as thanks. Each destination has a unique scent reminiscent of the location. For instance, New York smells like apple, nutmeg and cloves while Arizona blends musk, orange and lime. There are also candles for specific cities, too.

20. At-Home Wine Tasting

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Would you rather stay in and hang out? Host an at-home wine tasting to thank your family or friends for their kindness. In Good Taste sells assortments of six, eight or 12 wines in reds, whites or rosés. Just pick the mix that sounds best to you—or try all three with their Vine Voyage or California Wine Mixer collection.

21. Premium Snack Gift Basket

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If you're shopping for thank-you gifts for a family, it's understandable if you want to spend a bit more. Surprise the clan with a gift basket of premium snacks like popcorn, summer sausage, mixed nuts and chocolate truffles (just to name a few). It's an impressive statement of your gratitude.

22. Custom Beach Sand Bottle Stopper

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Oops! You've just returned home from an incredible vacation and realized you forgot to grab a souvenir for the friend who kindly looked after your house while you were away. Not to worry: Uncommon Goods has you covered with a variety of unique thank-you gifts to present instead. One standout option is this bottle stopper that displays real sand. Simply select the destination you visited, whether it's The Bahamas or Greece, and sand from its beaches will be added to the top of a stainless steel stopper. With over 1,800 shorelines worldwide to choose from, you're sure to create a special gift that will surprise them.

23. Desktop Notepad

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This nice thank-you gift idea is for the friend who kept you organized (and sane) during wedding planning. This desktop notepad has 200 tear-off sheets for them to jot down reminders and to-dos. The protective hardcover is decorated with vibrant florals, so they'll want to keep it out on their desk for everyone to see.

24. Inspiring Pen Set

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This pen set pairs really well with a notebook to make a cute thank-you gift for your type-A bestie. It comes with three colored pens—pink, blue and purple—each with affirmative sayings on them. It'll let them know you think they're a creative genius (as one pen says) and that you couldn't have planned your wedding without them.

25. Calming Body Lotion

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One of our favorite scents for stress relief has to be eucalyptus. Thank your best friend or parents for always being there for you with a soothing body cream. The brand is fittingly named "Beloved," and it also comes in a bath gel.

26. Jigsaw Puzzle

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If you're looking for a thank-you gift for a house sitter, leave them something to pass the time while they're there with a jigsaw puzzle. This 1,000-piece circular puzzle of a color wheel will be so challenging that they might want you to extend your vacation so they have time to finish. Thankfully, the back of the puzzle is labeled alphabetically to help them piece it together if they get stuck.

27. Sleep Gift Set

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Speaking of gifts for house sitters, consider giving them something to feel more comfortable in the space. This gift set comes with an ​​aromatic, tension-reducing bath soak and a moisturizing bath soak as well as a pillow mist and a headache relief roller. They'll relax instantly and your home will smell sweetly of lavender.

28. Salami Bouquet

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Do they have a savory tooth? Then say thanks with a salami bouquet! This arrangement of three comes with an Italian, French and Spanish salami. Hopefully, they'll invite you over for a charcuterie night to taste test.

29. Craft Beer Delivery

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If you're shopping for a zythophile, they'll love being subscribed to Craft Beer Club. The brand will send them a monthly, bimonthly or quarterly delivery of delicious brews from the country's best small, independent brewers. Depending on which plan you select, each box includes 12 or 24 beers of various styles that hail from different regions in the US. Plus, background info about the breweries, tasting notes and pairing recipes are also included. Choose a subscription length of three, six or 12 months. Talk about a refreshing thank-you gift idea.

30. DoorDash Gift Card

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We can't say it enough: Food gifts make great thank-you gifts for family, friends and everyone, really. Instead of handing over something perishable though, give a DoorDash gift card. Then, they can order themselves takeout either while they're house-sitting, during a late-night planning sesh for your bach party or the day after the wedding when they're too tired to cook.

31. Thank-You Pop-Up Card

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A handwritten card is a classic way to express gratitude. Instead of using just any stationery you have on hand though, browse Lovepops's 3D thank-you cards. Upon opening this particular design, recipients will be greeted with an orange-striped thank-you sculpture. And there's plenty of space on the warm beige background to pen your own additional message.

32. Tea Subscription

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Subscription services are great thank-you gifts since the recipient gets a delivery every month for as long as you decide. One of our favorite subscription gifts has to be Atlas Tea Club—or Atlas Coffee Club if they prefer a cup of joe. Each month, they'll get two delicious, loose-leaf teas from places around the world like, Nepal, Indonesia or Colombia, with tasting notes and steeping recommendations. Too fun!

33. Spa Gift Card

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Treat your loved one to the ultimate relaxation experience with a spa gift card that's good at hundreds of salons or spas around the US. Whether it's a luxurious massage, rejuvenating facial or pampering manicure, this thoughtful thank-you gift allows them to indulge in self-care and unwind from the stresses of everyday life. With a variety of treatments and services to choose from, they can tailor their experience to exactly what they need most. It's the perfect way to say thank you and show appreciation for all the hard work they do.

34. Dried Flower Bouquet

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As aforementioned, flowers are popular thank-you gifts. If you're looking for something a little longer lasting, but with the same sentiment, try a dried bouquet. This arrangement features natural grasses of bunny tail, Gypso and Limonium as well as eucalyptus. This idea brings a touch of luxury to a traditional thank-you gift.

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35. Angel Wing Necklace

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Let them know they're an absolute angel for being there for you with this darling necklace. It comes with a 14K gold-filled or sterling silver chain and an angel wing charm. They'll love the hidden meaning and will think of your friendship whenever they wear it. It's a favorite when it comes to cute thank-you gifts.

36. Thank-You Candy Bento Box

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The best way to tell someone they're sweet for helping you out is with candy. This bento box by Sugarfina is adorned with a thank you on the lid and then opens up to reveal three of their gourmet candies: Long-Stem Roses (strawberry-flavored gummies), Peach Bellinis (peach gummies dusted in sweet and sour crystals) and Heavenly Sours (assorted sour gummies). Fair warning: these are addictive! Once you gift Sugarfina, it's all anyone will ever want.

37. Gratitude Chocolate Bars

Sweeter Cards is—as the name suggests—an even sweeter way to give someone a handwritten note, thanks to the addition of a gourmet chocolate bar. This set of two dark chocolate caramel bars says, "You're a gem" and "Words can't describe how grateful I am." Once you get them in the mail, you can write on the inside before giving them to the recipient.

38. Customizable Tile Mat

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Here's a great thank-you gift for a neighbor (since you might be able to see it in action when you're out walking the dog or checking the mail). This is no ordinary welcome mat. It's made from flexible vinyl and comes with removable black tiles so recipients can create an infinite amount of patterns and designs. It's an especially thoughtful gift idea for the one who loves to change up their stoop decor frequently. Now instead of getting a new doormat, they can just rearrange the tiles. They can even purchase more colors to make some really creative designs.

39. Mailable Gift Box

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This thank-you-for-your-friendship gift may be small, but it's bound to make a big impact. Each side of this gift cube is customizable with either a personal picture, cute clip art or a heartfelt note, allowing you to create a cherished keepsake of your time as besties. Even better, it can hold a small gift like chocolate, socks or a candle along with a gift card.

40. Cozy Gift Box

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This Etsy seller knows exactly what makes a good thank-you gift and to prove it, they've carefully curated the perfect selection of thoughtful presents and conveniently packaged them all in a ready-to-ship box. What an effortless way to express your gratitude to a friend, family member or even a supportive coworker! Simply choose from eight different boxes, each containing items like blankets, socks, candles, tea, chocolate and more delightful gifts of gratitude. Then, select a greeting card option to complete the package.