The 35 Most Ideal Gifts for Your Mother-in-Law Regardless of Your Relationship

Shopping for your in-laws can seem a little (okay, extremely) intimidating—and gifts for your mother-in-law (whether she's your best friend or Jane Fonda in Monster In Law) can feel particularly tricky. How do you show your gratitude for the woman who raised your true love? Well, don't stress: We're here to make finding the perfect gift for your MIL easy. Whether you're shopping for something special to hand over this holiday season or a birthday gift that'll wow, these gift ideas for your mother-in-law are sure to put a smile on her face.

When it comes to deciding what to gift your mother-in-law, there are three ways to source inspiration. To start, begin by reflecting on your relationship. If you're close, you may want to choose a personalized gift for your mother-in-law that represents how well you know her or harkens back to a favorite memory you share. If you're still getting to know your in-laws, opt for an activity you can both do together, like a cooking or art class. You can also take your MIL's interests into account. Is she an avid reader? Is she often tending to her garden? A gift for your MIL that reflects her hobbies will show that you're paying attention and that you've taken the time to choose something she'll truly enjoy. Finally, consider the occasion you're shopping for. For instance, winter accessories make thoughtful Christmas presents for your mom-in-law that help her stay cozy during the season, while self-care essentials make classic Mother's Day gifts that let her indulge in some well-deserved rest and relaxation.

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Don't forget, you can lean on your partner for help too! They can (hopefully) help select an ideal gift, or at least steer you in the right direction of something their mom will appreciate. If nothing comes to mind for either of you, keep scrolling for the best gifts for mother-in-laws suitable for any occasion, from her birthday to holidays or just because.

The Short List of the Best Mother-in-Law Gifts

Want to know what our editors are gifting? Start your shopping with some of our favorite mother-in-law gift ideas below.

• Christmas: Chappywrap Bayside Herringbone Shawl, $90
• Birthday: Made By Mary Birth Flower Necklace, $64
• Luxury: Leatherology Ciera Petite Hobo Bag, from $250
• Funny: Purr & Mutt Modern Custom Pet Phone Case, From $38
• Unique: Uncommon Goods Murder Mystery Jigsaw Puzzle, $19
• Jewelry: Mejuri Dôme Hoops, $88
• Personalized: Papier Monogrammed Wildflower Writing Paper Set, $40
• Sentimental: Uncommon Goods Recycled Glass Tree Globes, $58
• Last-Minute: Atlas Tea Club Monthly Subscription, from $55
• Mother's Day: BloomsyBox Premium Pink Blush Bouquet, $75

Your Complete Mother-in-Law Gift Guide

Not sure what to get your mother-in-law for Christmas, her birthday, Mother's Day or any other special occasion? Don't worry—keep scrolling for a little dose of inspiration!

1. Murder Mystery Jigsaw Puzzle

Photo: Uncommon Goods

This gift will transform your mother-in-law into Sherlock Holmes, while you take on the role of Dr. John Watson. Instead of relying on visuals, this jigsaw puzzle is guided by a narrative, gradually unveiling clues to a murder mystery. She'll piece it together until she uncovers the culprit and completes the puzzle. If you already know she's a skilled detective and puzzler, give her both crime games to solve.

2. A Signed Autobiography

Photo: Barnes & Noble

Your mother-in-law isn't just any mother-in-law—she's a cool mother-in-law! So why settle for a standard book when you can surprise her with an exclusive signed copy? Barnes & Noble has a fantastic selection of autographed books, making it easy to find the perfect hardcover she'll love. One standout choice? Stanley Tucci's What I Ate in One Year. This captivating memoir takes readers on a deliciously personal journey through a year of food, weaving in the stories, life lessons and memories tied to each meal.

3. Wooden Reading Valet

Photo: Uncommon Goods

If your MIL is always talking about her latest page-turner, this wooden valet will show her you're invested in her hobbies. The unique holder will save her spot (without breaking the book spine) as well as hold her reading glasses, beverage and phone. She can carry it around the house to all her favorite cozy nooks or leave it on the bedside table to organize all her reading essentials. You can make it an even more perfect gift for your mother-in-law who moonlights as a librarian by adding a steel bookplate.

4. Snug Wool Slippers

Photo: Nordstrom

No matter who you're shopping for, a quality pair of slippers is a good gift idea—after all, everyone loves some extra coziness. The soft wool lining and durable rubber soles of these water-resistant UGGs mean your MIL can sport them at home and on the go. Gift them for Hanukkah, Christmas or another winter holiday to keep her warm all season long.

5. Amazon Echo Show

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The best mother-in-law gift is more time together—even if it's virtual. An Amazon Echo Show can do nearly everything, from playing music and streaming shows to giving daily reminders, searching for recipes and, best of all, making video calls. Here's to more face time with her grandkids! The best part? Once the call is over, she can use the Echo Show as a digital frame to rotate through all her favorite family photos. It's a gift that can do it all… just like her!

6. Symbolic Glass Keepsake

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We've officially found the most thoughtful gift for your mother-in-law. This handmade recycled glass globe features a vibrant tree meant to symbolize family ties. The pink and yellow ornament represents motherhood to show her how much you value her support and guidance. You can also shop for a rainbow globe to represent family or a white, yellow and purple one for grandparents. Just make sure to pair whichever you choose with the iron display stand so she can show it off right away.

7. Birth Month Flower Pendant

Photo: Made by Mary

When it comes to good gifts for your mother-in-law, jewelry is a classic option—especially when it has a symbolic meaning. Each of these pendant necklaces is stamped with a birth flower for each month of the year. They come in sterling silver or a gold-filled or rose gold-filled finish and two chain-length options. You can even choose a smaller charm size, so you really get a piece that suits her style. We love this as a birthday gift for your mother-in-law, given the personalization.

8. Gold Hoop Earrings

Photo: Mejuri

Your mother-in-law is the kind of woman who exudes effortless elegance—like a timeless pair of gold hoop earrings. That's why these earrings from Mejuri are a good gift idea. Crafted from gold vermeil, these earrings combine classic appeal with a modern dome shape, making them a piece that'll elevate any outfit.

9. Monogrammed Zippered Pouch

Photo: Mark & Graham

If you're looking for a gift that's both chic and personal, this monogrammed pouch from Mark and Graham is the perfect choice for your mother-in-law. Crafted from premium leather, it features a playful tassel and can be customized with her initials in foil debossing or a stylish shadow print. It's ideal for storing makeup essentials for those long days out of the house, or for keeping her cards and loose change organized in style. To make it extra special, why not tuck a gift card to her favorite store or local restaurant inside?

10. Leather Hobo Bag

Photo: Leatherology

After dinners out and family vacations, if there's one thing you've noticed, it's that your mother-in-law could really use a new purse. Enter the Ciera Petite Hobo from Leatherology—perfectly versatile for both everyday use and special occasions. This chic bag features a full zip closure, interior pockets, a key leash and tan cotton twill lining, with light gold hardware adding a chic touch. Trendy yet roomy, it's ideal for all seasons and will easily become a go-to accessory. As a luxury gift for your mother-in-law, its elegance and quality ensure she'll reach for it time and time again.

11. Monogrammed Stationery

Photo: Papier

Still getting handwritten notes from your mother-in-law? (So sweet!) Gift her some personalized stationery to really take her letter writing to the next level. This paper set features wildflowers with her initials and return address, though Papier has dozens of other pretty designs to shop as well. Pair it with a luxe rollerball pen, then prepare to get a thank-you note using it all!

12. Reusable Candle Planter

Photo: Amazon

If your mother-in-law's go-to home decor is candles and plants, we can't think of a more perfect gift. This candle comes in a beautifully reusable vessel that transforms into a charming planter once the wax is burned away. As a thoughtful bonus, wildflower seeds are embedded in the label, so when the candle is finished, she can immediately plant them in the container. With 10 delightful scents to choose from, her home will smell amazing—and eventually look even better as she nurtures her new blooms.

13. Global Tea Subscription

Photo: Atlas Tea Club

Tell your mother-in-law she's tea-rific with a subscription to Atlas Tea Club. They'll send her two exclusive blends of loose-leaf tea from around the world every month for the duration of your choosing. With each delivery, she'll also receive a beautiful postcard from the featured country of the month and tasting notes to enhance her tea experience. You can even schedule a special email to surprise her with the gift, ensuring she feels celebrated right on time, even if you're shopping at the last minute. (Psst, does your mother-in-law prefer coffee? Choose an Atlas Coffee Club subscription instead!)

14. Wine Pairing Towel Set

Photo: Uncommon Goods

Does your MIL love a good glass of vino? Then she'll love these cotton dish towels. They're not only absorbent, but they also feature notes on pairing red and white wines with different foods. She'll simply select her main ingredient, like fish, and then follow the grid to find the best bottle. It's a clever mother-in-law gift whether she's an amateur or professional chef. Just make sure she unwraps it ahead of Christmas dinner so that she can start putting the recipe suggestions to the test.

15. Premade Charcuterie Board

Photo: Boarderie

Impress your mother-in-law with a delicious (and stunning) gift from Boarderie. Complete with 17 hand-selected artisan cheeses (shaped into a heart and letters to spell "Mom"), meats, dried fruits, nuts, chocolates and olives as well as rosemary and olive oil crackers, it offers a delectable tasting experience that she'll truly appreciate. And they have free overnight shipping!

16. Decorative Measuring Cups

Photo: Anthropologie

Does your mother-in-law love baking? Allow us to introduce you to these extra-beautiful measuring cups. With a colorful Persian-inspired design, these hand-painted ceramic tools look too good to hide away in a cupboard. The set includes four separate measures for 1 cup, 1/2 cup, 1/3 cup and 1/4 cup, each complete with a soaring butterfly and gold details. She'll put them to work right away for a batch of "thank you" cookies!

17. Pain au Chocolat Making Kit

Photo: Farm Steady

The best memories are priceless, but you can always "buy the ticket" to create them with an experience gift that brings you and your mother-in-law closer together. Imagine spending a cozy afternoon in her kitchen, baking fresh, buttery pain au chocolat. This kit includes all the dry ingredients you need, easy-to-follow instructions and even chocolate batons to create the perfect pastries. Whether it's for a holiday brunch or a sweet treat to enjoy with coffee, this gift not only brings you closer but also leaves you with sweet memories (and even sweeter pastries!) to share.

18. Extra-Durable Apron

Photo: Hedley & Bennett

An acclaimed chef like your mother-in-law (even if it's just her family and friends singing her praises) deserves an apron as luxe as this one. Worn by professionals around the world, Hedley & Bennett's Essential Apron combines durability, comfort and functionality. Check out the adjustable neck strap for a customizable, perfect fit, along with deep pockets and utility loops designed to keep utensils and towels easily accessible. With a variety of colors and patterns to choose from, this apron ensures she'll not only feel like a pro but look stylish while whipping up her next culinary masterpiece.

19. Infused Olive Oils

Photo: Brightland

Here's a flavorful gift idea: Brightland's extra virgin olive oils will effortlessly heighten any dish your mother-in-law is preparing. This set of minis will let her sample their chili-, garlic-, lemon- and basil-infused olive oils to find the one she likes the best—then you can get her a full bottle next gifting occasion. As a bonus, each bottle label is uniquely designed by indie artists for a beautiful addition to her pantry.

20. Smart Indoor Planter

Photo: Click & Grow

The Click and Grow smart garden is one of the most popular gift ideas for in-laws—and for a good reason. It makes growing veggies, herbs or flowers a supremely simple task by automating light, water and nutrient levels all on its own. (So convenient!) Each device includes three basil pods, so your MIL can start her indoor garden right away, but you can also shop over 75 different plant varieties to add on in case you know she's been dreaming of her own mint plant or loves to cook with chives.

21. Fun Learning Experience

Photo: Uncommon Goods

Looking for a gift for your mother-in-law who has everything? Sign her up for an "Uncommon Experience" by Uncommon Goods. There are lots of unique online activities to choose from, including flower arranging, painting and astrology chart reading. Our favorite: Decorative Focaccia Art Class. Not only will she learn how to make classic Italian flatbread and marinara dipping sauce, but she'll also use vegetables and cheese to decorate the top into edible art. If you're close, she may even let you sit in on a class with her. Hello, bonding!

22. Fresh Flower Delivery

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If you're wondering what to get your mother-in-law for her birthday or Mother's Day, a bouquet of brightly colored blooms is sure to put a smile on her face. She'll be overjoyed when she opens the door to receive this thoughtful surprise from BloomsyBox. The bouquet includes cheerful flowers in all shades like yellow gerberas, peach roses and lavender stocks. Pro tip: Select the gift button before adding it to your cart so you can include a personal message.

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23. Herringbone Shawl

Photo: Chappywrap

Shawls are a great addition to anyone's wardrobe, especially if your mother-in-law enjoys comfort and style. This lightweight wrap is made from a soft cotton blend and features a timeless herringbone design to go with her whole closet. Best of all, it's machine-washable (and dryable), as well as pilling and fuzzing-resistant.

24. Radiant Skincare Gift Set

Photo: Origins

We love this Origins bundle—and your mother-in-law will too. The included three-step skincare regimen will give her noticeably radiant skin, making her the star of every family photo. It's complete with a brightening serum, a refreshing eye cream and an energizing gel cream, which she'll apply in that order for glowing skin.

25. Pearl Bracelet

Photo: Gorjana

Help your mother-in-law accessorize with a trendy but timeless pearl bracelet. This beaded strand comes with an 18K gold-plated clasp and is compatible with charms for a thoughtful extra touch (think: her initials, her family monogram or a heart). This sweet and luxurious gift for your mother-in-law will be just the finishing touch her birthday 'fit needs.

26. Floral Keepsake Box

Photo: Kate Spade

No gift wrapping is necessary for this cute lil' box! Everyone can use a keepsake box, especially your MIL who has lots of gorgeous jewelry and treasured trinkets to store. Made from enamelware and stainless steel, this colorful floral box from Kate Spade will be a welcome gift, whether you're shopping for a holiday or her birthday.

27. Ancestry DNA Kit

Photo: Ancestry

If she has unanswered questions about her heritage, an AncestryDNA kit will help her better understand her roots. This great gift for your mother-in-law can help her trace her lineage so she can learn more about—and even see pictures of—her great, great, great grandparents. We bet she'll have a family tree prepared by the next gathering.

28. Custom Pet Phone Case

Photo: Purr & Mutt

If she considers the family pup or kitty another one of her children, this funny mother-in-law gift is a fun and quirky way to honor just that. Just upload a picture of her pet to turn it into a custom portrait printed on a colorful phone case. Warning: She's going to show off her furry friend even more now.

29. Customized Stanley Cup

Photo: Stanley

Earn yourself "In-Law of the Year" with this mother-in-law gift idea. While others may not think she needs another water bottle, you know that every HydroFlask, CamelBak and Nalgeen in her cabinets has a specific use. And she definitely needs to add a Stanley Cup to her collection—particularly a personalized one. This 40-ounce Quencher tumbler will keep her hydrated all day. Plus, with a special color and engraved design like her monogram, hers will stand out from the rest of her friends.

30. Personalized Leather Glasses Case

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Whether it's sunglasses clattering around in her car or reading glasses disappearing into the depths of her purse, your MIL always seems to misplace her spectacles. Help her keep them safe and easily accessible with this stylish leather case. Adorned with a charming floral pattern that matches her sunny personality, and personalized with gold embossing of her name, it's the perfect solution. Available in white or purple, and with a variety of other vibrant designs offered by the Etsy seller, there's something to suit every taste!

31. Weighted Eye Mask

Photo: Lunya

There's nothing like the gift of a better night's sleep. This restorative eye mask by Lunya is made from the brand's signature washable silk for a lavish feel and it boasts added weight for extra relaxation and, thus, deeper sleep. Plus, it's filled with sustainable glass beads, so she can store the mask in the freezer for a cooling and depuffing treatment. Now that's a top gift idea for your mother-in-law that you're going to want to get one for yourself too.

Psst, if you're a new Lunya customer, you can use the code FOR-TK to receive 15% off your first purchase.

32. Cable Knit Throw Blanket

Photo: Boll & Branch

A quality blanket like this cable knit throw is a household staple for anyone who loves their downtown cuddling up with a good book or lounging in front of the TV. This cozy design is made from 100% organic cotton for a feather-soft and breathable blanket. We totally understand if you want to get one for yourself too.

33. Hand Care Gift Set

Photo: Aēsop

While hand soap might not initially strike you as a luxury gift for your mother-in-law, this set from Aēsop will certainly change that perception. This thoughtful gift combines the sustainable brand's top-selling hand soap and hand balm, creating a nourishing duo that she'll absolutely adore. The amazing citrus, woodsy and herbaceous scent are just the bubbles on top.

34. Wine Tasting Experience

Photo: In Good Taste

What's the next best thing to taking your MIL on a wine-tasting trip? Bringing wine country to her home. In Good Taste offers curated gift boxes of reds, whites and rosés to choose from, including a selection of California favorites that'll transport her to the Golden State with every sip. Each set includes four to 16 different wines bottled in convenient 187-milliliter quantities that allow her to enjoy one glass at a time. Fingers crossed she shares!

35. Wine Preservation System

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You know how easy it is to go through a bottle (or two) of wine when you're with family, but on those nights when your mother-in-law is the only one sipping a glass of red, Coravin's wine preservation system is a game changer. It lets her pour a glass without pulling the cork, keeping the rest of the bottle fresh for weeks. With the system, she can savor her favorite wine without worrying about it going to waste, enjoying it at her own pace. It's the kind of thoughtful, practical gift that truly elevates her wine experience.

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