The 30 Best Flower Girl Gifts to Help You Propose or Say Thanks

Shop cute gifts for your special helper.

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Updated Jul 29, 2024

There's much to consider when planning a wedding, like deciding who gets to join your crew. If you're having flower girls in your wedding party, finding suitable flower girl gifts is probably on your to-do list. To start, we're passing along some advice for how to choose a gift for your little attendant. As with ring bearer gifts, you'll want to pick something age-appropriate and thoughtful. You don't necessarily have to spend big to source great gifts for a flower girl though. The gesture is more about asking (or thanking) her to be involved in your celebration and building excitement around that. Whether you're looking for a flower girl proposal box or a thank-you gift for after the main event, you'll find the best flower girl gift ideas for every age, from toddlers to 10-year-olds, below.

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Flower Girl Proposal Boxes & Gifts
Flower Girl Thank-You Boxes & Gifts

The Cutest Flower Girl Proposal Boxes & Gifts

Just like your bridesmaids and groomsmen, it's customary to ask your flower girl to be part of your wedding party too. While you could simply pop the question, a flower girl proposal box or a small gift will really add to the experience. Shop our favorite proposal gift ideas for your little helper below.

Embellished Denim Jacket

Planning a fall or winter wedding? A personalized denim jacket is a stylish (and practical) flower girl proposal gift. This adorable option is embellished with pearls on the front and back, along with her wedding role title. She'll absolutely say yes when she sees her new swag.

From $40 | Etsy

Kid-Friendly Camera

If you're looking for cute flower girls, this kid-friendly digital camera takes the cake. Available in two adorable designs (a bear or a fox), this device features an impressive 32GB memory card and small buttons to accommodate tiny hands. It's the perfect gift for a flower girl, as she can use it to take her own photos on the big day.

$65 | Uncommon Goods

Flower Girl Tumbler

Need ideas for filling a flower girl proposal box? A personalized tumbler is a great place to start. This insulated cup has a secure, screw-top lid and will help her stay hydrated while she's getting ready. Choose from gold, copper, or silver for a useful gift that doubles as a cute photo prop.

From $15 | The Knot Shop

Flower Girl Proposal Box

If you don't have time to source individual goodies for your flower girl proposal box, you'll find plenty of pre-filled options on Etsy. This one has a wedding-themed coloring book, flower girl crayons and a custom greeting inside the box asking: "Will you be our flower girl?" It's guaranteed to get her excited about the wedding, and it'll keep her occupied at the reception.

From $20 | Etsy

Personalized Bracelet

You may already be familiar with BaubleBar's whimsical jewelry, but did you know they do kids' styles too? This beaded bracelet is a winning flower girl gift, as it can be customized to spell out her name for a personal touch. It also comes in adult sizes, so you can even get matching ones for your bridesmaids. Aww!

$32 | BaubleBar

Custom Sneakers

While you're certainly not expected to splurge on a flower girl gift, you may want to make an exception if she's your child or a close family member. These crystal-studded sneakers come with white satin laces and can be personalized with her name for added flair. They'll make a fabulous addition to her wedding attire and a unique keepsake she'll treasure for years to come.

From $85 | Etsy

Mirrored Jewelry Box

If you're shopping for an older flower girl, this elegant jewelry box will make her feel extra special—and she's sure to take very good care of it. The mirrored lid can be engraved with a flower girl proposal message, while the soft velvet interior will keep her trinkets safe. Fill it with accessories she can wear on the big day for a thoughtful touch.

$40 | Personalization Mall

Personalized Teddy Bear

While choosing flower girl gifts for toddlers can be challenging, it doesn't have to be complicated. This personalized teddy bear is a sweet (and age-appropriate) way to ask her to be involved in your wedding. The feet can be customized with her name, flower girl title and your wedding date for a cuddly keepsake she can snuggle with. Bonus: Ring bearer designs are also available.

From $15 | Etsy

Flower Girl Activity Book

If you're shopping for a young flower girl, this activity book ticks all the right boxes. It's filled with over 300 colorful stickers and pre-wedding activities—like designing invitations, selecting flowers and taking photos—to help her prepare for her upcoming role. Creative kids will love this fun and interactive gift.

$7 | Amazon

Disney Pearl Earrings

Does your flower girl already have her ears pierced? Then she'll love receiving these Disney-themed earrings as a flower girl gift. Made from 14K gold-plated brass, they're shaped like Mickey Mouse and are finished with freshwater pearls for a pretty (yet playful) touch. Trust us, she'll still wear these when she's all grown up.

$65 | Kendra Scott

Pretty Flower Crown

No matter how old your future flower girl is, she'll love dressing up for the role. Add this flower crown to her gift bag or give it on its own to ask her to be in your wedding. It's decorated with pink, lilac and white faux flowers, and finished with a stretchy elastic band for a comfortable fit. She won't want to take it off until the big day.

$15 | Claire's

Flower Girl Gift Box

Still wondering how to ask your flower girl to join your crew? Let this thoughtful gift box do all the talking. It's packed with treats for the big day, including a hair clip, a scrunchie, a pen, a foam rose, funky sunglasses and a flower girl proposal card. Choose from rose, champagne, blue or navy to suit your color scheme.

From $35 | Etsy

Personalized Toiletry Bag

She'll need a place to store her wedding day essentials, and this customized bag is just the spot. Perfect for stashing jewelry, lip balm, nail polish and tissues, it's a practical gift she'll use even after the big day. Choose from over 30 stylish colors and add her name to the outside for a personal touch.

$27 | Personalization Mall

Jewelry-Making Kit

Looking for a unique way to ask her to be your flower girl? This jewelry-making kit will certainly grab her attention. The unicorn-shaped box is filled with colorful beads, charms, tassels, clasps and fastenings to make up to 10 pieces of jewelry. It's a great option if she's into crafts and may even inspire her to make her own wedding jewelry.

$30 | Uncommon Goods

Personalized Clutch

Personalized flower girl gifts are always a win, especially when they're practical too. This box clutch is perfect for older flower girls or junior bridesmaids and will ensure they have everything to hand on the big day. We love the floral-inspired design and how it can be printed with any name for an extra touch of customization.

$30 | The Knot Shop

The Best Flower Girl Thank-You Boxes & Gifts

You can also give flower girl gifts on the wedding day or shortly after to say "thanks." From personalized robes and jewelry to photo frames and toys, here are our favorite thank-you gifts for flower girls.

Soft Pajama Set

If you're already buying pajamas for your bridesmaids, why not get some for your flower girl too? Eberjey's sleepwear is soft, breathable and gentle on skin, not to mention stylish and comfy. We suggest giving her these new PJs at the rehearsal dinner so she can have a good night's sleep before the wedding.

$72 | Eberjey

Photo Reel Viewer

Here's a sweet flower girl gift you can give her shortly after your wedding. It's a retro photo reel viewer filled with special snapshots of her from the big day. Simply pick the best pics to create a reel, then place it in the viewer for her to flick through and admire. She'll definitely love this cool gift and will likely appreciate it even more when she's older.

From $35 | Uncommon Goods

Thank You Bracelet

When you're picking out flower girl thank-you gifts, remember it's the thought that counts. This pearl bracelet is a simple token of your appreciation that you can give to her on the wedding day. It features a silver charm with her initial and comes in a white thank-you box for an elegant presentation.

$14 | Etsy

Lace Trimmed Robe

While bridesmaid robes are popular for the grown-ups, you can let your youngest attendant in on the fun too. This jersey knit features her initial and title in sparkly glitter and is trimmed with lace for a pretty finish. Be warned, though: Once she slips into her "big girl" robe, she might never want to take it off—even to put on her flower girl dress.

$25 | The Knot Shop

Soft Toy Assortment

Sometimes, the best flower girl gifts aren't wedding-themed… they're plain fun in a child's eyes. If your flower girl is a dedicated Squishmallow collector, she'll love this mystery box of soft toys. It's filled with five miniature stuffed animals picked randomly to add to the surprise. Expect some major excitement when you hand this over.

$40 | Walmart

Forever Flower

Toys and trinkets aren't the only way to thank your flower girl for being part of your wedding. If you're looking for a thoughtful gift she'll cherish as she grows up, the Forever Rose offers something unique. This eternal bloom is actually a real flower preserved in lacquer, with a silver stem you can engrave with her name, your wedding date or a thank-you note.

From $110 | The Forever Rose

Personalized Photo Frame

Photo frames are one of our favorite thank-you gifts for a flower girl, especially when they showcase a snapshot from the big day. This personalized frame comes in three different styles (wood, black or white) and is etched with the words "Flower girl" with her name appearing underneath. Gift it to her after the wedding once you've printed off all your pics.

$17 | The Knot Shop

Light-Up T-Shirt

If your flower girl is into arty projects, she'll definitely be drawn to this creative gift. The cotton T-shirt features a luminescent ink panel that she can doodle on with the included light wand. After a few minutes, the lines fade to create a blank canvas that she can draw on over and over again. How clever is that?

$25 | Uncommon Goods

Embroidered Handkerchief

A delicate hankie with lace edges and personalized embroidery is an heirloom your flower girl will always treasure. You can write your own message or stick with the seller's suggestion that reads: "To use today and stow away until you need something blue on your wedding day." Add your flower girl's name and your wedding date for the perfect finishing touch.

From $29 | Etsy

Personalized Wooden Hanger

Like the bride, your little helper deserves her own special spot to hang her flower girl dress. This hanger comes in white or natural wood and is personalized with her role, name and a rose motif. It's a thoughtful thank-you gift that'll make her feel extra special, and she can use it after the big day too.

$10 | The Knot Shop

Kids Adventure Book

Kids looking at the adventure challenge book

One of the best ways to find a flower girl thank-you gift is to take inspiration from her interests. If she's always up for learning something new, The Adventure Challenge's Kids Edition will pique her interest. Suitable for ages 6-12, it's filled with 30 fun scratch-off activities, like building a house out of snacks or making small presents for friends. Bonus: Each activity is repeatable and requires minimal supplies or adult supervision.

$40 | The Adventure Challenge

Cake Pop Baking Kit

Who doesn't love cake pops? This flower girl gift idea is ideal for the little baker in your wedding party. The cake pop baking kit includes easy recipes and pre-measured ingredients so your flower girl can bake delicious cake pops at home. She'll definitely be craving these after tasting wedding cake—good thing you thought ahead.

$37 | Amazon

Floral Tea Set

This floral tea set is a gorgeous flower girl gift to give her after the wedding. It includes four teacups with matching saucers, four spoons and one teapot—each made from ceramic with hand-painted gold trimmings. She'll definitely love taking this out to play with her friends.

$89 | Pottery Barn Kids

Classic LEGO Set

If she's a LEGO kind of girl, give her a box of blocks as a thank-you gift. This set comes with over 300 pieces in six pastel colors and instructions to help her build dinosaurs, cats, robots and more. Best of all, it's suitable for kids aged five and up, so it'll work pretty well for most flower girls.

$20 | Amazon

Candy Thank-You Box

For the flower girl with a sweet tooth, an edible thank-you gift is a surefire way to her heart. This gift set includes a week's worth of goodies, including salted caramel popcorn, chocolate graham crackers, pretzels, truffles and chocolate-covered fruit. Everything comes packaged in small boxes that spell out "Thank You" when put together. Just get her parents' approval beforehand for an added sweet touch.

$60 | 1-800 Baskets