35 Gifts for Your Boyfriend's Mom for Every Occasion

She'll know you're a keeper with one of these editor-vetted pieces.

Collage of Gifts for Your Boyfriend's Mom

Photos, from clockwise: Uncommon Goods, Anthropologie, Plants.com, Bean Box

Updated Nov 07, 2024

When it comes to choosing gifts for your boyfriend's mother, you'll want to put your best foot forward. After all, she had a part in raising your special guy, so she'll appreciate a gift letting her know she's done a great job. Whether you're looking for a present for the holidays, her birthday or Mother's Day, we're here to help you find a meaningful gift for your future MIL.

Even if you've bought gifts for your boyfriend's parents before, it's normal to feel nervous about making a good impression. Just know that it's the thought that counts, so you're halfway there already. If it's your first time choosing a gift for your boyfriend's mom, ask him about her interests and hobbies to help you get started. Or, you can always opt for something simple, like a bottle of wine or a fancy candle to break the ice. Find our favorite presents for a boyfriend's mom below for the holidays, her birthday and beyond.

1. Birth Flower Glass

Birth flower glass for the best gift for your boyfriend's mom

If you're looking for a cute gift for your boyfriend's mom, consider something inspired by her birth month. This pretty tumbler is decorated with her birth month flowers, whether that's carnations for January or poppies for August. While it makes a great birthday present, you could also gift it to her for the holidays or another occasion.

$26 | Uncommon Goods

2. Custom Pet Portrait

Does your boyfriend's mother have an adorable pet? Then she'll love this unique gift (almost) as much as her furry friend. The custom artwork features a digital illustration of her pet presented in a black, white or oak frame. Play around with the various color schemes and customization options to create a memorable present for your boyfriend's mom.

From $50 | Purr & Mutt

3. Personalized Recipe Binder

Customized recipe binder for your boyfriend's mom

One way to find a good gift for your BF's mom is to take inspiration from her favorite hobby. If she loves to cook, she'll be thrilled to unwrap this wooden recipe binder on her birthday or Christmas morning. The cover is carved with food-inspired illustrations and can be engraved with her name in a cursive font. It even comes with a set of 70 pages (you can add more) and dividers for extra organization.

From $31 | Etsy

4. Birth Flower Necklace

Wondering what to get your boyfriend's mom for her birthday? Try this gorgeous necklace engraved with her birth month flower. It comes in three metallic finishes (14K gold, sterling silver or rose gold) and can be stacked with up to three floral discs for a personalized finish. Trust us, she'll be wearing it with every outfit from here on out.

$64 | Made By Mary

5. Engraved Bottle of Wine

Not all gift ideas for your boyfriend's mom have to feel personal. If you're still getting to know her, keep your gift small and simple. This engraved bottle of wine is a great way to extend your Christmas wishes to her, as it's etched with a tree and a festive message on the outside. As for the contents, it holds a California cabernet sauvignon that pairs well with cheese. Shopping for another occasion? Mano's Wine also has birthday designs that you can customize with her name.

$40 | Mano's Wine

6. Custom Holiday Ornament

Our top tip for finding an appropriate gift for your boyfriend's mom? Don't overthink it. If she loves the holidays, get her a new ornament to hang on the tree. This custom decoration is shaped like a snowflake and features her name hidden inside the intricate pattern. She'll think of you every time it catches her eye. (Psst: It also makes a nice gift for your boyfriend's dad or any other member of his family).

$35 | Uncommon Goods

7. Coffee Sampler Set

For a mom who loves her morning brew, this coffee sampler set from Bean Box will go down a treat. Featuring four of Bean Box's favorite specialty roasts, along with tasting notes and brewing tips, it's one of the best gifts for your boyfriend's mom for the holidays or her birthday. Pair it with a cute mug for the perfect finishing touch.

$24 | Bean Box

8. Cozy Heated Slippers

Stuck on what to get for your boyfriend's mom for Christmas? Give her a pair of cozy slippers she can wear over the holidays. These are made from plush faux fur and can be warmed in the microwave for toasty toes or placed in the freezer for a cooling effect. As if we didn't love them enough, they're also lightly scented with French lavender.

$30 | Warmies

9. Wooden Reading Valet

If her TBR pile gets bigger every time you see her, this thoughtful gift will help her get through it. The wooden reading valet is designed to save a place in her current book and keep her phone, coffee and reading glasses (if she wears them) close to hand. "Save My Spot" is engraved on the front, while the message "To Be Continued" appears on the back. It's one of our favorite present ideas for a boyfriend's mom who is book-obsessed.

$50 | Uncommon Goods

10. Silver Jar Candle

Perhaps the key to finding your boyfriend's mom's present lies in her shopping habits. If she's a dedicated Anthro fan, she likely adores the Capri Blue Volcano candle. With notes of tropical fruits, lemons, limes and mountain greens, it smells just like the store's iconic scent. It's available in four sizes and comes in a silver mercury jar.

From $20 | Anthropologie

11. Murder Mystery Puzzle

Does your boyfriend's mom get a kick out of solving puzzles? This murder mystery game will grab her attention. Part jigsaw, part thriller, it includes 500 pieces that she'll have to put together to reveal clues and ultimately crack the case. It's a thoughtful gift that's ideal for the festive season, especially because she'll have time to enjoy cozy activities at home.

$19 | Uncommon Goods

12. Crochet Craft Project

Watch your boyfriend's mom light up with excitement when you give her this cute holiday or birthday gift. This mini craft project comes with everything she needs to crochet a stuffed toy penguin, including colorful yarn, plastic eyes, stuffing, a yarn needle, a crochet hook, a stitch maker and a downloadable pattern. She'll also get access to step-by-step video tutorials to help her nail her technique. (Bonus: It's beginner-friendly so previous experience isn't required.)

$30 | The Woobles

13. Personalized Birthdate Book

If you're searching for personalized gifts for your boyfriend's mom's birthday, stop scrolling now. This made-to-order book illustrates her astrological birth chart, (AKA a map of the stars and planets from the day she was born), along with her name and details. There are over 70 pages of horoscope analysis inside that she can read to discover unique insights about her life and personality. It'll spark plenty of conversation the next time you see her.

Get 15% off sitewide with the code: KNOT15.

$95 | Birthdate Candles

14. Adjustable Sleep Hood

Choosing holiday gifts for your boyfriend's mom can be challenging, especially if she already has everything she needs. One thing that (almost) everyone wants more of is sleep. Help her nod off at home, on the plane or after the night shift with this blackout hood. Everything about it, from the anti-microbial fabric to the adjustable drawstring, is designed to induce sleep. It even comes with earplugs to muffle background noise. Don't be surprised if she uses it to snooze on the sofa.

$20 | Cabeau

15. Cashmere Beanie

This cozy beanie is the perfect Christmas gift for a stylish, outdoorsy mom. It's made from 100% Mongolian cashmere, with stretchy ribbed details and an adjustable folded cuff. Choose from an array of colors, like camel, ivory, charcoal and pale pink, for a classic accessory she can wear all winter long. And, thanks to Quince, you can get this luxurious gift at a more budget-friendly price. You're welcome!

$30 | Quince

16. Shower Steamer Set

Turn her morning shower into a spa-worthy experience with these scented steamers. The set features 12 individually wrapped cubes for every occasion, adding a playful touch to her self-care routine. Whether she needs some Monday motivation or a post-workout treat, there's an aromatherapy shower steamer to match her mood. We can't think of a better gift for your BF's mom to inspire some pampering.

$60 | Uncommon Goods

17. Monogrammed Mug

Your boyfriend's mom's Christmas gift doesn't have to be lavish to impress. If she enjoys sipping hot beverages (especially in winter), she'll be grateful for a new mug. This stoneware cup features a French bistro-inspired mosaic with her first initial trimmed in gold. Pair it with her favorite coffee beans or hot cocoa mix to bring all the cozy vibes.

$14 | Anthropologie

18. Personalized Garden Basket

Gardening gifts are always welcome, especially if your boyfriend's mom cultivates her own plants. This wood and wire mesh basket is perfect for carrying freshly picked produce and can be personalized with her name on the side. Even if she doesn't have a green thumb, she'll love toting this around at the local farmer's market.

From $62 | Uncommon Goods

19. Classic Hoop Earrings

If your boyfriend's mom loves accessorizing, an elegant jewelry gift could top her wishlist. These classic hoops from Mejuri look equally stylish worn alone or stacked with other ear candy for a layered look. While the gold vermeil gets our vote, they also come in sterling silver.

From $58 | Mejuri

20. Weighted Neck Wrap

Modern life can be overwhelming, which is why stress-busting gifts are always popular for the holidays. If your boyfriend's mom has a hectic schedule, help her unwind with this weighted neck wrap. It's made from soft fabric and can be heated in the microwave or chilled in the freezer to soothe achy muscles in her upper body. Warning: Your BF may want to take credit for this ingeniously thoughtful gift.

$69 | Bearaby

21. Body Care Gift Set

We'll never get tired of recommending self-care gifts, especially when they look (and smell) as good as this one. Flamingo Estate's Mini Garden Discovery Set is bursting with goodies inspired by horticultural scents, like sage and bergamot body lotion, rosemary-infused body wash, handmade soap and—of course—the brand's signature tomato candle. It's a good gift for your boyfriend's mother, whether she's new to the brand or a loyal fan.

$98 | Flamingo Estate

22. Funky Flower Vase

If doing the daily crossword puzzle is part of her routine, your BF's mom will love this whimsical gift. This newspaper-themed vase features a small crossword puzzle filled with uplifting words like "joy," "smile" and "optimism" in bright red lettering. Fill it with fresh flowers to make this gift for your boyfriend's mother even sweeter.

$29 | Ban.do

23. Plush Lounge Socks

Still searching for things to get your boyfriend's mom for the holidays? Surprise her with a set of plush lounge socks. Cozy Earth's superior stockings are made from soft bamboo viscose and have a textured ribbed design for added comfort. They come in packs of three and five muted color schemes, including blues, greens, grays, pinks and browns.

Get 30% off your purchase with the code: THEKNOT.

$55 for 3 pairs | Cozy Earth

24. Essential Oil Diffuser Bracelet

Essential oil crystal lava stone bracelets gift for boyfriend's mom

Here's a fun birthday or holiday gift for your BF's mom that'll appeal to her spiritual side: a colorful aromatherapy bracelet. It's designed to inspire peace in the wearer and is made from porous lava rocks that emit essential oils throughout the day. She simply has to add her favorite fragrance to the gemstones before slipping it on her wrist. Choose from three styles—garnet and rose quartz, amazonite and rainbow chakra—to suit her preferences.

$32 | Uncommon Goods

25. Trendy Travel Mug

We haven't run out of cool gift ideas for your boyfriend's mom just yet. This trendy travel mug will brighten up her mornings, whether she's driving to work or enjoying a leisurely stroll outdoors. It's made from ceramic-coated stainless steel and comes with a snap-in splash guard to prevent spillages. We absolutely adore the chic black and white floral pattern.

$35 | Minted

26. Espresso Martini Set

Take inspiration from her favorite cocktail with this espresso martini set. It comes with two pre-mixed shots (one espresso martini and one signature blend) along with a gold stirrer and a pair of elegant glasses. It's a great gift for your boyfriend's mom that she can use to toast her birthday or the holidays. Bonus points for the display-worthy bottles.

$99 | Via Carota

27. Luxury Hot Chocolate

The best gift ideas for your boyfriend's mom can be as sweet and simple as hot chocolate. This luxury cocoa mix from Compartés will elevate her favorite winter warmer to the next level. It's presented in a tall green box sprinkled with gold stars for a festive finish. We suggest pairing it with the brand's bestselling s'mores chocolate bar for the ultimate sweet treat.

Use THEKNOT15 code to get 15% off sitewide.

$18 | Compartés

28. Mini Jewelry Case

This jewelry case may be small but it'll make a big impression on your boyfriend's mom. It's made from pebbled vegan leather and is lined with soft linen to protect her precious gems. The open interior is ideal for stashing bracelets and necklaces, while the side tabs can hold small rings and earrings. Choose from six colors and have her monogram printed or foil debossed on the outside for an extra touch of personalization.

From $49 | Mark & Graham

29. Vision Board Workshop

Whether it's for her birthday or the holidays, this Uncommon Experience will help your BF's mom start the next year on a good note. During the 90-minute online class, life coach Kristen Radden will guide her through every step to visualize her goals and dreams for the future. Instead of creating one large vision board, she'll get to make individual cards dedicated to each item on her wish list. There's even an option to have a candle sent to her in advance to help manifest her dreams.

From $30 | Uncommon Goods

30. Thoughtful Care Package

Cozy spa care package for your boyfriend's mom

Encourage your BF's mother to take some time for herself with this beautiful care package. It's filled with cozy things to help her relax, including a knit blanket, fuzzy socks and a scented candle. Choose from three different assortments for a thoughtful holiday, birthday or Mother's Day gift for your boyfriend's mom.

From $60 | Etsy

31. Embroidered Scarf

A cozy scarf is one of the best boyfriend's mom gifts for the holiday season. This chic accessory combines soft pink, beige and brown hues in a timeless plaid pattern, with textured fringing on the ends. The cherry on top? It's affordable and can be embroidered with her name or initials for no extra charge.

Get 15% off when you use this code: KNOT15PM.

$30 | Personalization Mall

32. Indoor Succulent Garden

If your boyfriend's mother is also a plant mom, she'll cherish this creative gift for the holidays or her birthday. The heart-shaped resin planter is packed with mini succulents and comes in two sizes (small or large) to fit her living space. Aside from looking utterly adorable, it's easy to care for and only needs to be watered every two weeks.

Want to save money? Use the PLANTSKNOT20 code to get 20% off sitewide.

From $50 | Plants.com

33. Water Bottle Bag

Here's one of the most practical gifts for your boyfriend's mother: a crossbody bag that holds her water bottle and credit cards. Available in four colors, it fits a 32-ounce bottle and is waterproof inside to prevent liquids from leaking on her essentials. It also has a separate pocket for her phone, keys and wallet, so it's perfect for the gym, traveling or running errands.

$59 | Uncommon Goods

34. Mindful Memory Journal

How about some fancy stationery for the new year? This unique journal is designed to include a one-line entry for each day, so she can jot down her memories in a few short words. It's the perfect gift for a boyfriend's mom who's too busy to write longer journal entries but wants to make every day count. And, with space for five successive years, she can look back and reflect on her written time capsule any time.

$17 | Amazon

35. Crystal Gemstone Set

If your boyfriend's mom is all about balancing her chakras (or likes collecting pretty things), she'll love these crystal gemstones. The set includes 19 naturally formed stones—like amethysts, rose quartz and pyrite—that are said to bring healing metaphysical properties to those who handle them. Add the wooden box for secure safekeeping.

From $33 | Etsy

Our team received [some of] these products as promotional samples in exchange for editorial consideration and independent review.