25 Lingerie Shower Gift Ideas for the Bride-to-Be

Spice up her shower with these playful pieces.
Collage of lingerie pieces for bridal showers
Photos, from left to right: Lulus, Adore Me, Eberjey
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Alison Meehan
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Updated Jun 10, 2024
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If you're going to a bridal shower with a lingerie party theme, finding the right gift for the occasion can be tricky. To help you out, we've rounded up our favorite lingerie shower gift ideas, along with some tips to simplify your shopping. Unlike traditional bridal shower gift themes, a lingerie wedding shower focuses on giving the bride seductive and spicy gifts she can wear on her wedding day, honeymoon and throughout her married life. While the emphasis is usually on sexy bridal shower gifts, like lacy matching sets and silky slip dresses, you can also choose funny lingerie party gifts to make her giggle (or blush.)

Finding a lingerie gift for the bride doesn't always require knowledge of her exact size, as more and more brands are offering one-size-fits-most products or relaxed silhouettes to suit a variety of body shapes. Just remember that every bride is unique, so don't be afraid to ask her about her tastes and preferences for inspo. If in doubt, you can always gift her something small like a pair of slinky stockings and add a fun (and flirty) game to round out your present.

Ready to shop for lingerie party gifts? Find our favorite bridal lingerie presents below, from pretty panties to sexy slips and everything in between.

1. Lace Halter Bodysuit

Woman wear lacy white bodysuit with white robe
Photo: Lulus

Give your bestie an all-in-one fit that can peek underneath her robe on her wedding night or honeymoon. The elegant lace design features a flattering halter neckline, with a pretty bow and open back adding to the allure. Choose white for a classic bridal look or black for a more edgy aesthetic.

2. Bridal Panty Pack

Woman wearing bride white underwear with lace thrill
Photo: For Love and Lemons

Why have one spicy pair of wedding undies when you can have three? This pack of wedding-themed panties is so cheeky and whimsical, with lace, ruffles and tulle galore. The set includes one white panty and two white thong styles—each embroidered with the word "bride" for a thoughtful touch. We just know she'll love wearing these throughout her wedding weekend.

3. Pretty Blue Bodysuit

Woman showing the back of a blue bodysuit with a plunge backline
Photo: Anthropologie

Don't be afraid to deviate from white and ivory when choosing lingerie shower gifts for the bride. This backless bodysuit comes in a gorgeous cornflower hue, which is perfect if you're on the lookout for her "something blue." Traditional and modern brides alike will love the floaty mesh fabric and polka dot detailing, not to mention the pull-on fit that makes getting dressed super easy.

4. Long-Sleeved Corset

Woman wearing a sexy black bodysuit with sleeves
Photo: Lovehoney

How about upping the ante with a sexy corset? This steel-boned bodice is simply stunning and will make her feel like a glamorous movie star from a bygone era. The sweetheart neckline is pretty and supportive, while the structured design defines the waist for a sensual silhouette. It even comes with sheer detachable sleeves and garter straps so she can switch up her look. Bonus: It's available in a wide range of sizes, from S to 6X.

5. Personalized Bridal Robe

Bride and bridesmaids wearing personalized gowns
Photo: The Knot Shop

Add a sweet and sexy piece to her lineup with a boudoir robe that's perfect for using even after she says "I do." The Knot Shop has several options, each of which can be embroidered with the bride's name or monogram for a personal touch. We particularly love the lace kimono with fringed and scalloped edges for a lingerie bridal shower gift she'll wear regularly.

6. Kinky Truth or Dare

Kinky truth or dare from Uncommon Goods for the best lingerie shower
Photo: Uncommon Goods

If you're looking for something small to pair with the bride's spicy gift, consider a kinky game she can play with her partner. This flirty take on the truth-or-dare concept is filled with alluring prompts and seductive dares they can do together as a couple. It's a fun (and thoughtful) lingerie shower gift idea that's sure to spark plenty of romantic moments.

7. Lace Chemise with G-String

Lace Chemise with G-String from Revolve for the best lingerie shower gifts
Photo: Revolve

Ring in her married bliss era with a seductive set she'll be anxious to show off to her husband, wife or spouse. The set includes a white lace chemise and a sexy matching G-string she can wear on her wedding night or for future date nights with her partner. Choose from sizes S to L for a lingerie shower gift any future bride will adore.

8. Blue Bridal Garter

Blue garter with white lace
Photo: Amazon

Shopping for lingerie party gifts doesn't have to require a big budget or in-depth knowledge of the bride's style. If you're looking for a simple yet thoughtful gift to take to the shower, this blue bridal garter has you covered. It's made from stretchy cotton lace and is one-size-fits-most, so you won't have to worry about finding an exact size.

9. Short Satin Chemise

Short white satin dress with lace
Photo: Nordstrom

Surprise the bride with something she can easily slip into, like this short satin chemise. It's available in white or black and features lace details on the racerback and bodice for a flirty finish. Better yet, it's comfy enough for everyday sleepwear, so she'll get plenty of wear out of it after the honeymoon. Consider your question of "What to get for a lingerie party?" answered.

10. Custom Underwear Set

Woman wearing two piece short custom pajama set
Photo: 713Printed

The best lingerie shower gift ideas aren't always the spiciest ones—they can be downright funny, too. If the bride you're shopping for has a silly side, feel free to get creative with your gifting choices. This custom underwear set includes a bralette and shorts (both appliqued with photos of her partner) for a unique gift that's guaranteed to bring on the giggles.

11. Lace Two-Piece Set

Woman wearing two piece lace lingerie set
Photo: Adore Me

There's nothing more classic than a matching set she can sport on her wedding night or during the honeymoon. This one includes a bustier top and matching panties, both patterned with elegant lace and made of a silky material that feels comfy to wear. Bonus points for the inclusive size range.

12. Massage Candle

Massage candle for couples
Photo: maude

Inspire some physical intimacy between the soonlyweds with a mood-setting gift you can pair with sexy panties or a robe. Once this two-in-one candle is lit, the flame melts the wax into a smooth body oil they can use to give each other relaxing massages. Just tell the bride to ensure the wick is fully burned through before applying the hot wax to skin.

13. Personalized Lace Thong

Personalized lace thongs
Photo: GiftsMadeForYouShop

Searching for lingerie party gifts with a more personal touch? This custom lace thong is the perfect way to spoil the bride without going over budget. It comes in a variety of colors, including white, nude and navy, and features her name in glittered lettering for a sparkly finish. Cute, right?

14. Lace Panel Skirt

White lace panel skirt and top
Photo: Savage X Fenty

Shopping for wedding shower lingerie that stands out can be a big ask, but we've found something unique in this skirt from Savage X Fenty. Equal parts sexy and sporty, it features a striped waistband with branded logo details and lace panels on the side for a romantic touch. Snag the matching bustier and pat yourself on the back for scoring such a cool gift.

15. Fishnet Stockings

Black fishnet stockings with red bows
Photo: Nordstrom

What's more timeless (or seductive) than a pair of fishnet stockings? These thigh-high ones are adorned with red bows all down the back and look like they're straight out of a film like Moulin Rouge. The bride can wear them with a silky slip or a two-piece set to add extra spice to her lingerie collection.

16. Flirty Short Set

Woman wearing silk two piece pajama set
Photo: Lulus

When it's time to catch some Zzzs, have your bestie bride do it in style. This matching sleep set has a flirty silhouette and is made from soft satin to swaddle her in comfort. The scalloped lace edges add an elegant finish that's perfect for laid-back lounging and sleeping next to her new spouse. She'll definitely pack these in her suitcase to take on her honeymoon.

17. Washable Silk Robe

Woman wearing short silk robe
Photo: Quince

Stay on theme with a luxurious robe she can wear on the morning of her wedding. This gorgeous cover-up is made from 100% Mulberry silk that's naturally hypoallergenic and thermoregulating, helping her stay cool (and calm) while she's getting ready. Grab it in white or nude for a practical lingerie shower gift she'll reach for time and again.

18. Pretty Chemise

Woman wearing a light blue and lace night dress
Photo: Eberjey

Whether you're going in on a gift as a group or just want to splurge on your BFF, Eberjey has lots of pretty intimates that double as sleepwear. This sumptuously soft chemise has supportive lined cups and a fluid silhouette, making it a dream to wear. She'll love throwing this on for relaxed date nights with her spouse and catching up on beauty sleep during her honeymoon.

19. Intimate Date Ideas

The adventure challenge book
Photo: The Adventure Challenge

Don't be afraid to mix it up when choosing a lingerie party gift for the bride. If you're feeling overwhelmed at the variety of undies out there, opt for a fun (and spicy) book of date ideas instead. The Adventure Challenge's …In Bed edition is filled with sexy games and activities to help the couple build intimacy, which is super important for anyone settling into a new marriage.

20. Lingerie Bag

Lingerie bag from UsefulStitches for the best wedding shower gifts
Photo: UsefulStitches

Help the bride keep her panties pristine with a cute and handy bag she can pack in her suitcase. This lightweight bag is made from satin that's gentle on silk, satin and lace, ensuring her favorite pieces don't snag or tangle while traveling. Have it personalized with her name in a color of your choice for a practical (and creative) lingerie shower gift.

21. Crochet Bralette

Woman wearing lace bralet
Photo: Nordstrom

A bralette is a classic piece of lingerie any future bride will appreciate. This one is made from delicate crochet and features criss-cross straps with shirred lace detailing on the back. It offers light support for most A to C cup sizes and the cups are lined, so she can even wear it with jeans for a sexy date-night outfit. While white is always on-theme for a bride, we just love the romantic vibes of the soft pink shade.

22. Multi-Purpose Lip Gloss

Multi-purpose lipgloss lingerie gift
Photo: High on Love

Want to really surprise her? Give her this multi-purpose lipgloss as part of your bridal lingerie gift. While it provides all the results of a typical lip product (like plump and kissable lips), it can also be used on more intimate areas to stimulate sensation and increase sensitivity. It's a thoughtful and creative present both the bride and her partner can enjoy.

23. Embroidered Suspender Belt

Woman wearing white suspender belt and thong
Photo: Bluebella

Help the bride keep her stockings up in a graceful (yet seductive) way with this pretty suspender belt. With delicate embroidery and adjustable straps, it'll put the finishing touches to her wedding day lingerie without looking bulky under her gown. Keep it bridal by snapping it in a crisp ivory shade or dare to be different with a lively pink color.

24. Lingerie Gift Box

White mesh body suit dress and thong
Photo: Mentionables

Ensure she's honeymoon-ready by giving this box of romance-igniting supplies as a lingerie shower gift. Each bundle includes a mesh babydoll with a matching thong, bling wipes, a dice game and a bottle of bedroom-approved lubricant. Everything comes wrapped up with a customizable greeting card for easy gifting.

25. Furry Handcuffs

Colorful fuzzy handcuffs
Photo: EasybyBri

If your bestie likes funny gifts, surprise her with these fuzzy handcuffs at her lingerie party. Not only will they add some light-hearted fun to her bridal shower, but they'll encourage her to get intimate with her partner and try something new. Choose from red, pink or black for a cheeky gift that'll certainly grab her attention.

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