The Best 23rd Anniversary Gifts to Surprise the One You Love

If you're marking 23 years of marriage with your spouse, then congratulations are in order. While you probably don't require much relationship advice at this stage, we can offer plenty of great 23rd anniversary gift ideas to help you thoughtfully celebrate the occasion. Whether you're looking for something symbolic that speaks to your partner's sentimental side or a surprise-inducing creative alternative, you'll most likely find a suitable 23rd wedding anniversary present on our list below. Read on to learn more about the milestone's traditional themes and modern symbols before shopping our favorite 23-year anniversary gifts for her, him or them.

In this article:

• Traditional 23rd Anniversary Themes
• Symbolic 23rd Anniversary Gifts
• Alternative 23rd Anniversary Gifts

Traditional 23rd Anniversary Themes

While wedding anniversaries are often associated with both traditional and modern gifts, the 23-year anniversary has one modern theme, two gemstones, a flower and a color. The modern symbol is a silver plate, representing clarity, strength and persistence, all arguably components of a long and successful marriage. Gifting this precious metal as serveware reminds couples to find joy in the small moments, like sharing a home-cooked meal or sitting down to reflect on the day together. You don't have to stick to just silver plates, though—expanding your search to anything made of this lustrous material is a great approach that opens up many gifting possibilities.

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The 23rd wedding anniversary color is silver, while sapphire and imperial topaz are the designated 23rd anniversary stones. Sapphire is a vibrant blue gem believed to attract gifts in abundance, and imperial topaz is a striking red-orange gem associated with self-confidence and emotional generosity. Finally, the official anniversary flower is nil, a type of morning glory that symbolizes love, thoughtfulness and gratitude.

Symbolic 23rd Anniversary Gifts

If a themed anniversary present is on your radar, there are lots of great ways to incorporate the 23-year anniversary symbols into your gift. From beautiful jewelry to elegant silver anniversary gifts to contemporary homewares, there's something for everyone in our round-up. Discover our favorite 23rd wedding anniversary gift ideas below.

Custom Engraved Tray

Photo: Personalization Mall

We couldn't start a round-up of symbolic 23rd anniversary gifts with anything but a silver plate. This decorative tray is custom-engraved with your shared last name and the date you walked down the aisle. Simple yet sweet, it's a sentimental gift that'll remind you and your spouse of all the time that has passed since your wedding day. Add a black standing easel so it's ready to display right away.

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Symbolic Bracelet

Photo: Uncommon Goods

Celebrate 23 years of marriage with this mixed metal bracelet from Uncommon Goods. The simple design has three interlocking circles that each represent a period in time: a muted, oxidized ring (the past), a sterling silver band wrapped in wire (the present) and a glimmering gold-filled ring (the future). It's a great way to remind your spouse that every moment you spend together is precious and that you can't wait to discover what the future holds.

Elegant Serving Bowl

Photo: Neiman Marcus

The 23rd anniversary's modern gift may technically be a silver plate, but we think a polished serving bowl is just as fitting. This one is made from an eight-metal alloy that perfectly matches the milestone's theme. Not only is it pretty to look at, but it can retain heat or cold for hours and can be used in the oven, refrigerator or freezer. Just be sure to avoid filling it with acidic foods (like citrus fruits or salad dressing), as these can tarnish the surface.

Intersection of Love Print

Photo: Uncommon Gooda

Surprise your spouse with a sentimental gift celebrating how your paths crossed for the first time. This personalized photo print features your names and the important dates you share (like your wedding or 23rd anniversary) on a signpost of intersecting paths. It's a thoughtful way to pay tribute to when your relationship began and how fate brought you two together. Have it framed in silver for a subtle (and stylish) take on the modern 23-year anniversary theme.

Photo Locket Necklace

Photo: LOVELOX

Jewelry is always a great idea, especially when it doubles up as a thoughtful photo gift. This pretty locket couldn't be any more thamtic—it's made from sterling silver and real sapphire for a gift that incorporates both the modern 23rd material and one of the year's gemstones. There's space for two tiny photos inside (like snapshots from your wedding day and your 23rd anniversary) for an extra personal touch.

Personalized Wine Chiller

Photo: Mark & Graham

Looking for a 23rd anniversary gift for a husband, wife or spouse who loves to host? This personalized wine chiller will definitely get them in the mood to celebrate. It's crafted from stainless steel wrapped in hand-woven wicker and can be engraved with both of your initials for a personalized finish. Fill it with a bottle of bubbly so you can toast your 23rd wedding anniversary right away.

Imperial Topaz Earrings

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These striking earrings are made from imperial topaz, the 23rd anniversary gemstone, and will delight any fashionable spouse. The beautiful pink-orange tones make a big style statement, whether worn alone or stacked with delicate studs. Choose from three different gold hardware options to contrast with this shining stone: yellow, rose or white gold.

Morning Glory Puddler

Photo: Uncommon Goods

Does your spouse spend hours tending to their garden? Add this enchanting stone among the plants to attract butterflies to their flower patches and mixed borders. It's etched with morning glories (the 23rd anniversary flower) and features a puddler's well of recycled glass, which you can fill with sand or rock salt mixed with water. As these materials evaporate, butterflies are drawn to the remaining minerals—and once they know where to find them, they'll come back regularly!

The Forever Rose

Photo: The Forever Rose

Fresh blooms are a popular gift for any anniversary, but the downside is they only last a little while. Our suggestion? Gift your spouse an eternal flower instead. The Forever Rose is a real rose picked at full bloom and dipped in genuine silver to preserve its natural beauty. Add your partner's name to the stem for a super romantic (and symbolic) 23rd anniversary gift for her, him or them.

Metal Soundwave Art

Photo: VoiceAndSound

The modern 23rd anniversary theme is open to interpretation, so don't be afraid to get creative. Whether your spouse is a talented musician or just constantly has a new playlist, they'll love this metal soundwave art. It's made from shiny aluminum and is etched with a soundwave of your chosen song (like your first dance tune or another meaningful melody.) You can even add a QR code that they can scan to play the track on their phone.

Engravable Compact Mirror

Photo: Personalization Mall

If your spouse always likes to be well groomed, here's a practical 23rd anniversary gift to help them look their best. This square metal compact has a two-sided mirror with one magnified size, which is great for quick makeup touches on the go. The fine beaded detail adds elegance to the overall design, while the engraving option means you can personalize it with a romantic anniversary quote for a thoughtful touch.

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Sapphire Blue Tumbler

Photo: Saks Fifth Avenue

Married to a whiskey enthusiast? Here's a thoughtful anniversary gift that'll give their favorite sip a sophisticated edge. This sapphire glass tumbler is handcrafted from stained glass and is a really creative take on the 23rd anniversary gemstone. Our advice? Snag two and pair them with your spouse's favorite bourbon so you can join them for a celebratory nightcap. Cheers!

Pea Pod Necklace

Photo: RachelShrievesDesign

If you and your spouse are like two peas in a pod, this unique necklace is the perfect way to acknowledge how close you are after 23 years of marriage. It features a "pod" made from recycled silver with two "peas" inside made from your two birthstones for a thoughtful touch. Have the spine of the pod engraved with your names for an adorable 23-year anniversary gift that may bring on a few happy tears.

Weighted Knit Blanket

Photo: Bearaby

Take inspiration from the 23rd anniversary color, silver, with this luxurious knit blanket. It's made from organic cotton and is gently weighted to stimulate serotonin production in the body, which will help you and your spouse relax while cuddling on the sofa. It's guaranteed to make movie nights at home much more zen which sounds like a winning gift idea to us.

Personalized Photo Album

Photo: Personalization Mall

A silver plate isn't your only option when searching for a symbolic 23rd anniversary gift. You can choose anything made from this lustrous metal, like this shiny photo album. It's beautifully decorated with two hearts and can be engraved with your names, anniversary date and a short message for a uniquely personalized anniversary gift. There's space for up to 80 photos inside, allowing you to showcase your favorite snapshots from the last 23 years.

Alternative 23rd Anniversary Gifts

Themed presents aren't the only option when it comes to celebrating your 23rd wedding anniversary. Whether you want to take inspiration from your partner's hobbies or gift a fun experience you can enjoy together, breaking from tradition can certainly pay off. Discover our favorite alternative anniversary gifts for your wife, husband or spouse below, from romantic getaways and thoughtful keepsakes to quality wine and more.

Faux Bois Mugs

Photo: Uncommon Goods

Married life isn't just about big milestones—it's also about celebrating everyday moments in between, like enjoying a cup of coffee together before work. These porcelain mugs will make your morning ritual feel more special and remind you why you fell in love in the first place. Cute and quirky, they feature a faux bois pattern resembling the bark of a tree with your initials and anniversary date "carved" into the surface. We can't think of a better 23rd anniversary gift to give the coffee lover in your life.

Gold Knot Earrings

Photo: Blue Nile

When it comes to choosing jewelry for your spouse, silver, sapphire and topaz aren't the only options. These gold stud earrings are an excellent choice for anyone who loves adding classic accessories to their outfit. They're beautifully crafted from 14K yellow gold and are shaped like intricate knots for a subtle nod to your wedding day 23 years ago.

Date Night Journal

Photo: The Adventure Challenge

The silver plate anniversary is all about making time for small, intimate moments, like eating a meal or trying new things together. If you're running out of date night ideas (and after 23 years, we can't blame you), The Adventure Challenge will inspire you to have fun with your spouse. Their date night journal is crammed with scratch-off activities you can do together, like baking a cake or recreating your grandparents' first date. It may not be made of silver, but this unique 23rd anniversary gift will help you improve your relationship, which is just as precious.

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Engraved Wine Bottle

Photo: Mano's Wine

If opening a bottle of wine is your favorite way to mark a special occasion with your spouse, you'll definitely want to check out Mano's Wine. Their personalized bottles can be engraved with your names, wedding date and a short anniversary message for a thoughtful keepsake they'll want to hold onto. As for the wine inside, it's a full-bodied cabernet sauvignon that pairs well with crackers and cheese.

Luxurious Silk Pajamas

Photo: Lunya

Sometimes, only a really luxurious gift will do. If you want to spoil your spouse on your 23rd wedding anniversary, look to Lunya for the ultimate splurge-worthy loungewear. Their mulberry silk pajamas are soft, comfy and thermoregulating and are even machine washable for easy laundering. While this tulip-back top-and-shorts set gets our vote, other gorgeous options—like t-shirts, pants, rompers, and robes—are available, too.

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Custom Story Book

Photo: Wonderbly

You don't always have to spend a ton to find thoughtful 23rd wedding anniversary gifts for him, her or them. This custom storybook is an adorable way to relive your love story, from the moment you said "I do" through to the present day. It's filled with photos from your wedding day, along with ten customizable love poems and colorful illustrations for an fun touch. Add a loving dedication to the first page for a sentimental gift that'll give your spouse all the feels.

Vintage-Style Watch

Photo: Citizen

Looking for a 23rd anniversary jewelry gift for a spouse who wears vintage-style accessories? This retro watch is a great gift to compliment their taste and honor all the great times you've spent together so far. It features an elegant champagne dial in a gold-tone case and a brown leather strap, but there's even more to love about it. The timepiece is powered solely by light (both natural and artificial), so it'll never require a battery replacement. Cool, right?

Historic Recipe Subscription

Photo: Uncommon Goods

Whether you're married to a talented chef or a history buff, here's a creative gift that'll grab your spouse's attention. This monthly subscription gift offers a selection of historical recipes from famous figures like Thomas Jefferson and Rosa Parks. Each month (for six months or up to a year), your spouse will receive replicas of handwritten recipes, along with printed transcripts explaining the history behind each one. It's a really clever 23rd anniversary gift for someone who loves learning something new.

Heart-Shaped Succulent

Photo: Plants.com

If you're searching for a gift for someone who loves plants, this heart-shaped succulent is a winner. Available as a single or double heart, it comes with a white ceramic planter and a set of care instructions to ensure it thrives. Succulents are known for being pretty low maintenance, so all your spouse has to do is keep it at an ambient temperature and water it occasionally.

Newspaper Art Print

Photo: nushprints

Take your partner down memory lane with some nostalgic wall art. This newspaper-style print is fully customizable and can be personalized with a special headline, short articles written in your own words and photographs from your wedding day. Whether you want to wax poetic about the day you said "I do" or include a timeline of your marriage so far, the choice is yours. Opt for an unframed print for convenience or choose a digital file if you'd prefer to print and frame the piece yourself.

Personalized Wind Chime

Photo: Personalization Mall

If your partner is bright and breezy in nature, here's a unique 23rd anniversary gift they'll appreciate. Made from a combination of wood and metal, this rustic wind chime jingles every time a gentle wind passes through it. Have the diamond-shaped hanging feather engraved with your titles, shared last name and wedding date for a personalized keepsake that'll bring tinkly tunes to your backyard.

Linen Sheet Set

Photo: Quince

The only thing dreamier than your love is this light and airy linen sheet set. It comes with a fitted sheet, flat sheet and one or two pillowcases (depending on the size), all made from 100% European flax that only gets softer with every wash. Choose from an array of colors and stripe patterns to suit your bedroom decor scheme, and prepare to sleep like a baby.

Romantic Cabin Getaway

Photo: Postcard Cabins

Modern life can get very hectic, whether you're busy with your career, raising a family or caring for a loved one. Help your spouse unwind from life's daily stresses by escaping to a romantic cabin for a few nights to recharge their batteries. Postcard Cabins offers cozy, intimate cabins just a few hours outside of major cities, so you've no excuse not to book a weekend away for your 23-year wedding anniversary.

Origami Crossbody Bag

Photo: Lux & Nyx

Phone, wallet and keys: what else do you need when you leave the house? If your spouse likes to travel light, this compact crossbody bag is a practical (and chic) 23rd anniversary gift they'll appreciate. It's thoughtfully designed to hold all their essentials and even has room for sunglasses in an origami-style pocket on the outside. Better yet, it comes with a detachable crossbody strap, water bottle pouch and key strap for easy (and stylish) toting.

Cupcake Jars

Photo: Wicked Good Cupcakes

We simply cannot resist an edible anniversary gift, especially if it includes cake. These cupcake jars from Wicked Good Cupcakes will certainly satisfy your spouse's sweet tooth, while adding to the sense of occasion. Sold as a set of four, each one holds a different delicious flavor, like vanilla sprinkles, chocolate ganache and cookies and cream.

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