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33 Thoughtful 4-Year Anniversary Gifts for the One You Love

Celebrate four years of marriage with fruit, flowers and more.
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Alison Meehan
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  • Alison writes articles for The Knot Worldwide, specializing in shoppable roundups of anniversary gifts.
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  • Alison holds a master's degree in writing and a bachelor's in textile design.
Updated May 22, 2025
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Four years down, forever to go! While it probably feels like you exchanged vows just yesterday, your fourth wedding anniversary is already here. Wondering how to celebrate this special milestone? Start by picking a thoughtful 4-year anniversary gift for your spouse. If you need inspiration, we have lots of great ideas to share. From sentimental keepsakes that show off your romantic side to practical items they can use daily, we've rounded up the best fourth wedding anniversary presents. We'll also talk about the symbolism behind this year's traditional and modern themes so you can impress your partner with a meaningful gift.

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Traditional Four-Year Anniversary Gifts

What is the four-year anniversary gift? The fourth wedding anniversary has two traditional themes: fruit and flowers. These nature-inspired symbols represent a loving relationship that continues to flourish each year. While all blooms are on-theme, the geranium is the official anniversary flower. This pretty plant represents the happiness and commitment of a four-year marriage. Ready to shop for traditional four-year anniversary gifts for him, her or them? Beautiful bouquets, fresh produce and fruity glassware all make the cut.

Fresh Flower Subscription

Fresh flower bouquet
Photo: BloomsyBox

One bouquet is great, but why not take it a step further? BloomsyBox's subscription service will deliver fresh flowers to your partner every week or month, depending on the plan you choose. Anyone who loves displaying flowers in their home will adore this romantic fourth year anniversary gift.

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Personalized Bottle of Wine

Engraved bottled of wine
Photo: Mano's Wine

Here's a traditional four-year anniversary gift that ties both themes together: a personalized bottle of wine. The cabernet sauvignon is made from Californian grapes and the bottle is decorated with a hand-painted floral design. Add your names and wedding date for a personalized anniversary gift that feels celebratory. Cheers!

Gold-Dipped Forever Rose

Golden rose anniversary gift
Photo: The Forever Rose

Swap fresh flowers for a rose that lasts forever. The ultimate symbol of a love that never fades, the Forever Rose is a real flower picked at full bloom and preserved in 24K gold. Have the stem engraved with a short anniversary quote for a fourth wedding anniversary gift that's as sweet as your spouse.

Heart-Shaped Bamboo Plant

Cute heart-shape bamboo plant
Photo: Plants.com

Stretch the traditional four-year anniversary theme with this cool bamboo plant. The stalks are twisted into the shape of two hearts for a romantic touch. Bamboo is also said to bring good luck, adding another dimension to this creative four-year anniversary gift for your husband, wife or spouse.

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Fruit-Themed Glassware

Fruit inspired glassware
Photo: Maison Balzac

Shopping for a spouse who loves cute home accessories? These citrus-inspired glasses are a fun take on the traditional theme. Each tumbler features a glass orange wedge inside for an unexpected pop of color. It's a playful fourth year wedding anniversary gift that'll elevate any drink, from cocktails to sparkling water.

Birth Flower Necklace

Gold necklace with three flower engraved pendants
Photo: Made by Mary

If you're looking for a gift that's more permanent than fresh blooms, treat your spouse to floral-inspired jewelry. This beautiful necklace is available in 12 different designs: one flower for every month of the year. You can stack up to three gold discs to represent different months, like your birthdays or the month you got married.

Handmade Fruit Bowl

Green stone fruit bowl with personalization unique four-year anniversary gift
Photo: Uncommon Goods

This handmade fruit bowl is one of our favorite traditional fourth wedding anniversary gifts. It's made from stoneware and decorated with an intricate floral pattern. You can add your names and anniversary date to the design for a personalized finish.

Personalized Flower Pot

Personalized plant pot
Photo: Personalization Mall

Sometimes, the best four-year wedding anniversary gift ideas are simple. This personalized flower pot is a thoughtful tribute to your growing love and happy home. A sweet message is displayed on the front and your names are printed on the rim. Fill it with a new plant before handing it over.

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Fresh Fruit Subscription

Fresh fruit subscription
Photo: The Fruit Company

Level up your healthy eating regime with a monthly fresh fruit delivery. The Fruit Company will send you seasonal produce year round, like pineapples in May and peaches in September. Bonus: The options change regularly, so you won't feel stuck with your choices.

Anniversary Material Art

4th Anniversary Material Art from Uncommon Goods
Photo: Uncommon Goods

If your spouse appreciates the sentiment behind each anniversary theme, gift them this framed keepsake. It features a floral heart and a short message explaining the four-year anniversary gift tradition. Add your names and wedding date to make this symbolic artwork your own.

Geranium Suncatcher

Glass flower suncatcher
Photo: SiennaAura | Etsy

Searching for a four-year anniversary present that incorporates the milestone's official flower? This suncatcher is a beautiful representation of the geranium. It's made from colorful glass that casts streams of light when the sun's rays hit the surface. Your spouse can hang it in their favorite sunny spot.

Fresh Fruit Bouquet

Fresh fruit bouquet and chocolate
Photo: 1-800 Flowers

How about a fruit-and-flowers anniversary gift that combines both symbols? This fresh fruit arrangement looks just like a bouquet. Juicy pineapples are shaped into daisies and tulips, while strawberries and grapes look like buds. Chocolate-dipped apple wedges form the leaves of this tasty four-year anniversary gift that's (almost) too pretty to eat.

Tomato-Scented Candle

Tomato scented candle
Photo: Flamingo Estate

Good news: The traditional four-year anniversary theme can translate to candles. This fruity flame is inspired by juicy tomato vines and gives off a herbaceous, peppery aroma. Bonus: A matching room spray is available if you want to prolong the effects of this summery scent.

Flower Arranging Workshop

Flower arrangement class
Photo: Uncommon Goods

Married to a creative spouse? Inspire them to learn something new with this online flower arranging class. The 90-minute tutorial is led by expert Nsombi Woodson who will introduce them to the art of flower arranging through an immersive workshop. Who knows, this cool four-year anniversary gift may inspire their new favorite hobby.

Modern Four-Year Anniversary Gifts

The modern four-year anniversary gift of electrical appliances is a little different to the traditional theme. That's not to say it can't be just as sweet as a bouquet though. Practical presents represent how settled a couple feels after four years of married life. Giving your spouse a shiny new appliance is a thoughtful gesture that shows you appreciate the everyday moments you share. Want a sneak preview of what's on our list? There's something for everyone, from the gardening enthusiast to the wine connoisseur.

Indoor Smart Garden

Click & Grow gray smart garden on kitchen table four-year anniversary gift appliance
Photo: Click & Grow

Need help finding a modern fourth anniversary gift for your wife, husband or spouse? Take inspiration from their hobbies. If they've expressed interest in gardening, an indoor smart garden will help them get started. This clever device automates water and light for plants, allowing them to flourish with little maintenance. The kit comes with basil, tomato and lettuce plant pods, but you can also choose from over 75 pre-seeded plant pods.

Multi-Fuel Pizza Oven

Portable pizza oven
Photo: Ooni

Bring pizza night back by investing in an Ooni oven for your fourth wedding anniversary. The Karu 12 model can be fueled by wood, charcoal or gas and is perfect for backyard cooking. Once hot, it can make a delicious pizza in as little as 60 seconds. It's a fun and practical gift you'll wonder how you ever lived without.

Digital Picture Frame

Digital photo frame
Photo: Aura

Here's a modern four-year anniversary gift that spotlights the memories you've made since your wedding: a digital picture frame. This clever device connects to an app where your spouse can upload their favorite snapshots to display on a loop. Best of all, Aura offers unlimited storage, so they can keep adding to their collection.

Smart Water Bottle

Smart water bottle
Photo: LARQ

Okay, so a water bottle technically isn't an appliance, but hear us out. Does your partner procrastinate washing their "emotional support water bottle"? This smart design actually cleans the bottle and helps to eliminate bacteria at the touch of a button. Pretty clever, right? It's also double-wall insulated to keep water chilled for up to 24 hours.

Glass Air Fryer

Glass air fryer
Photo: Ninja

Do you have an air fryer yet? Your fourth wedding anniversary could be the time to invest. The Ninja Crispi glass air fryer has been blowing up our FYP recently and we can see why. The compact design won't take over your entire kitchen, and the glass containers can be switched out to make single-serve portions or larger meals. Consider us sold.

Towel Warmer

Towel warmer
Photo: Amazon

If you already have enough kitchen appliances, consider something for the bathroom like a towel warmer. This genius device warms towels quickly and keeps them heated for up to an hour. It has space for two large towels or two bathrobes, making it a super useful fourth year anniversary gift.

Electric Kettle

Designer kettle
Photo: Anthropologie

Bring some Parisian chic to your home with Anthro's bistro-inspired kettle. It's decorated with a tile pattern and the French word "Bonjour" in black and gold lettering. Perfect for coffee and tea lovers, it's a practical four-year anniversary gift you'll both use daily. (Psst: Snag the matching toaster to complete the look.)

Smart Coffee Mug

Smart mug warmer
Photo: Amazon

If your partner treasures their morning brew, they'll covet this smart coffee mug. It comes with a matching lid and spoon and a charging coaster that keeps their drink hot. It's a practical fourth anniversary gift they'll be grateful for the next time a meeting runs over.

Wine Cooler

Wine cooler
Photo: Walmart

Finding it tricky to choose a modern fourth anniversary gift? Think about your lifestyle. If weekends are reserved for hosting friends and catching up over a glass of wine, you need a wine cooler. This freestanding fridge can hold up to 18 bottles and is perfect for entertaining.

Unique Four-Year Anniversary Gifts

The traditional and modern themes aren't the only route to finding a memorable four-year anniversary gift. The milestone also has a gemstone and two anniversary colors. Blue topaz is the fourth anniversary stone, representing love and loyalty, while green and blue are the designated hues. We've found great picks to honor these symbols, from luxe loungewear to elegant anniversary jewelry, along with alternatives if you're shopping off theme. Check out these unique fourth wedding anniversary gift ideas.

Blue Topaz Earrings

Topaz earrings
Photo: Blue Nile

Do you buy jewelry for your spouse every year? These blue topaz earrings are a real gem. They feature the fourth anniversary stone surrounded by sparkly white topaz jewels. Once you tell your spouse they represent love and loyalty, they'll be even more enamored with these stylish accessories.

Electronic Love Note

Electronic message box
Photo: Uncommon Goods

Here's some top-tier relationship advice: Keep looking for new ways to say, "I love you." This electronic messenger box is a good fourth wedding anniversary gift idea because it's so easy to personalize. Simply download an app on your phone to write a heartfelt note to your spouse. Once you press send, the heart on the box will spin and the message will appear on top.

Plush Cotton Robe

Plush robe gift
Photo: Brooklinen

Modern life is so hectic it can leave little room for self-care. Encourage your spouse to unwind with this plush bathrobe from Brooklinen. It's made from Turkish cotton and has an adjustable tie waist for extra comfort. Our suggestion? Snag one for yourself too, and add some sheet masks for a relaxing home spa day.

Custom Star Map

Star wall print
Photo: Mapiful

A custom star map is a sentimental anniversary gift to give your spouse four years on. This unique wall art features a constellation of the night sky from where and when you got married, along with your names and wedding date. Have it framed so it's ready to display right away.

Blue Topaz Pendant

Blue Topaz necklace from Brilliant Earth for your 4th wedding anniversary
Photo: Brilliant Earth

We love the fourth anniversary stone so much we've included another option on our list. This teardrop pendant is a great choice for anyone who wears understated jewelry. It features a blue topaz on an adjustable silver chain and is perfect for daily wear and special occasions alike.

Custom Four-Across Game

Custom four across game
Photo: Uncommon Goods

There's nothing like a bit of friendly competition to keep things exciting. If you and your spouse love old-school games, this personalized four-across frame will make a charming addition to your collection. It features your names and anniversary date, along with heart-shaped slots you can fill with circular counters.

Luxe Silk Pajamas

Green silk pajamas
Photo: SilkSilky

Who wouldn't love a pair of silk pajamas? This luxurious loungewear is made from 100% organic silk and is available in both women's and men's sizes. It's also machine-washable and can be cleaned on a cold cycle. Choose from an array of shades, including green and blue, the four-year anniversary colors.

Engraved Whiskey Tumbler

Engraved whiskey tumbler
Photo: HMGiftCollection | Etsy

Elevate your spouse's nightcap with this engraved whiskey tumbler. It's made from glass and can be personalized with your own handwritten message. Reference your vows or pick a romantic love quote; either way they'll be charmed by this one-of-a-kind fourth anniversary gift.

Personalized Anniversary Candle

Custom birthdate candles for anniversary
Photo: Birthdate Candles

We're simply obsessed with Birthdate Candles. Not only do their scented candles smell divine, but they're also decorated with astrology-themed labels. Their anniversary candle is tailored to your relationship, featuring tarot and numerology details from your wedding day.

Get 15% off sitewide on Birthdate.co with the KNOT15 code.

Dinner Date Ideas

Couple cooking together
Photo: The Adventure Challenge

If your date nights revolve around food, this gift idea is for you. This recipe book is packed with 30 tasty dishes, along with fun activities you can do together between prepping and eating. It's a creative four-year anniversary gift that'll shake up your routine and your palate.

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