12 Small Wedding Venues in Oklahoma to Make Your Dreams Come True

From weekend getaways to outdoor oases, we found the best cozy spots to tie the knot.
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Lauren Nowack
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Lauren Nowack
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  • Lauren is a freelance writer for The Knot Worldwide.
  • While Lauren has been writing her whole life, she began her career by travel writing and reviewing outdoor gear.
  • Lauren is passionate about encouraging people planning a wedding to make it exactly what they want and need it to be.
Updated Apr 12, 2024

Oklahoma has so much to offer, from rolling hills and farmland to the rich history of Native Americans and Wild West. If you're looking for the best small wedding venues in Oklahoma, it's likely there will be a nod to some of the state's history in the space. Of course, you'll want to make sure the intimate wedding venue's vibe goes with your theme, it has the amenities you want, like AC in the summer, and that it's close to major airports if you have guests coming from out of town. These are all aspects to planning a small wedding you'll have to keep in mind as you dive into this list.

Daffodil Hill Weddings & Events in Bethany, Oklahoma

How does the soft bubbling of water from a fountain sound as background noise during your ceremony or reception? What about an enchanting landscaped courtyard, complete with market lights, wisteria vines and a 100-year-old cottage? This is all part of the photo-ready ambiance at Daffodil Hill Weddings and Events. Designed for celebrations with 86 people and fewer, this is a truly small wedding venue that values beauty and intimacy in an event. The team here is highly experienced, knowing all the tips and tricks to planning a wedding in Oklahoma.

  • Guest Capacity: 86

The Farm on Norman in Enid, Oklahoma

The Farm on Norman pairs the charm of country life with modern amenities to ensure your wedding day goes off without a hitch. The property includes the original two-story barn from 1920, stunning gardens and five different ceremony locations. The large barn does have heating and air conditioning, making this one of our favorite year-round small rustic wedding venues in Oklahoma.

  • Guest Capacity: 100 in Metal Barn, 50 in Secret Garden, 20 in Patio Garden, 15 in Historic Barn

Frank Phillips Historic Home in Bartlesville, Oklahoma

Frank Phillips Historic Home in Bartlesville, Oklahoma
Photo: Frank Phillips Historic Home

The Frank Phillips Historic Home in Bartlesville has an iconic beauty difficult to find in small, Oklahoma wedding venues. Between the brickwork, tall columns, iron railings and art deco glass doors, this venue's grounds, gazebo and building need no decoration to bring your vision to life. With a low price point and unmatched elegance, this venue is a no-brainer to make our list of small, intimate wedding venues in Oklahoma.

  • Guest Capacity: 50 indoors

The Olie Gathering Place in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

Known by the locals as "The Electric Transformer House," the Olie Gathering Place has warmth, character and charm for all. With tall ceilings, exposed ductwork and other quirky touches, there's plenty of personality here for a spunky celebration. Another major advantage to hosting a wedding here is that it is pet-friendly, meaning little Fido can walk the rings down the aisle. Lastly, there's plenty of space on the patio to bring in food or beer trucks for easy, custom catering.

  • Guest Capacity: 50

The Historic Romantic Mountain Cabin in Medicine Park, Oklahoma

About an hour from Oklahoma City lies the Historic Romantic Mountain Cabin in the mountain town of Medicine Park. For weddings of up to 50 people, this quaint venue holds a peaceful outdoor oasis. Say your vows beneath two majestic oak trees and enjoy a reception afterwards where guests can relax in rocking chairs on the cabin's porch. After your friends and family have left, you can stay in the 114-year-old cabin, which may be the most private spot on the mountain. To top it all off, the venue is budget-friendly, making it one of the best small, inexpensive wedding venues in Oklahoma.

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  • Guest Capacity: 50

Lewcy Manor in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

If you want your wedding to be a weekend celebration with your closest friends and family, the Lewcy Manor at Lake Overholser is for you. Able to accommodate up to 16 people between the 8 bedrooms and seat 12 people in the private chapel, there's just enough space for all. The home's decor is equal parts exquisite and eclectic, and with a movie room, game room, gym, two and a half acres to explore and the lake nearby, there is plenty to do. Whether you get married in the chapel or on the lawn, the Lewcy Manor is a spot that is designed to create cherished memories.

  • Guest Capacity: 16

Buffalo Point Retreat in Waukomis, Oklahoma

Buffalo Point Retreat holds nothing back when it comes to meticulous details that make your special day come to life. The grounds of this spectacular retreat space include curated gardens, a gazebo, custom pond, pool, waterfalls and a gas fire pit. Pair this glorious setting with some complimentary wine from Buffalo Point Winery and you have an unrivaled getaway for yourself and your guests. The seven guest rooms across three guest houses can hold your wedding party for the weekend, while a ceremony and reception can be held in various locations around the property, including in the barn, for up to 85 guests. The outdoor space here makes this one of our favorite small outdoor wedding venues in Oklahoma.

  • Guest Capacity: 85

The Clare Michael in Tulsa, Oklahoma

The Clare Michael is a blank-slate venue ready to help bring your dreams to life as one of the top small wedding venues in Tulsa, OK. With black tables and chiavari chairs included in the already budget-friendly price, the high ceilings, brick accent walls and tall windows bring charm without boxing you into a certain theme. With an AV engineer and event coordinator at the ready, the team here is prepared to make intimate events flow smoothly.

  • Guest Capacity: 90

Myriad Botanical Gardens in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

The Myriad Botanical Gardens can be dressed up for a black tie affair or kept casual with an easygoing garden party. Along with this versatility comes numerous venues, from small to large, to choose from for a ceremony and reception. Each has beautiful elements, be it artful landscaping, picture-perfect bridges over water or a terrace overlooking a stunning garden. Being in the heart of OKC, it is easy for guests to get to with an abundance of places to stay nearby. All in all, these gardens are an excellent choice as far as small, intimate wedding venues in Oklahoma City go.

  • Guest Capacity: 120 ceremony/80 dinner in Meinders Garden Terrace, 50 in Secret Garden, 65 in Crystal Bridge Conservatory, 100 in Terrace Room, 30 in Tanenbaum Reflection Gardens

Whispering Pines Inn Bed & Breakfast in Norman, Oklahoma

The Whispering Pines Inn Bed & Breakfast pairs the best of Oklahoma's natural beauty with classic hospitality and delicious American fare. The grounds include a vineyard, pond, gardens, patio and lawn, while the Bed and Breakfast has eight rooms, suites and cottages for guests to enjoy. Everyone will be fed at the restaurant, which can hold 50 in its main rooms or 35 in the dining room. The outdoor gazebo can easily be an intimate space for a ceremony, but it can expand to hold up to 300 guests. Between the accommodations, natural beauty and scrumptious meals here, it's an easy "yes" from us to call this one of our favorite small wedding venues in Norman, OK.

  • Guest Capacity: 35 in small dining room, 50 in restaurant, 300 in outdoor gazebo

The Burnett Mansion in Sapulpa, Oklahoma

The Burnett Mansion is a historic home built in 1911 that is full of intricate details, from Philippine mahogany to the original stained and cut glass windows. The majestic home can fit 22 people in its dining rooms, but larger groups can mingle throughout the whole house. An intimate garden ceremony can be held for up to 100 guests, while small gatherings can occur on the grand staircase or covered porch. Run by the Make Sense Foundation, a group committed to supporting women and children in need, you know the proceeds from your special day will help provide a better life for others.

  • Guest Capacity: 22 seated in dining rooms, 100 in garden or as cocktail reception in the whole house.

The Little Chapel of Lawton in Lawton, Oklahoma

The Little Chapel of Lawton in Lawton, Oklahoma
Photo: The Little Chapel of Lawton

Built in the early 1900s, the Little Chapel of Lawton has hosted multitudes of weddings underneath its cathedral ceilings and stained glass windows. With a reception hall downstairs and a few modern conveniences, this incredibly affordable venue is a darling spot to tie the knot in southern Oklahoma. The grand piano and organ can also provide a traditional sound for those desiring it. If the couples who already got married here had their way, they would name it one of the best wedding venues in all of Oklahoma.

  • Guest Capacity: 80

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