The Best LGBTQIA+ Friendly Honeymoon Destinations, Vetted By Experts

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You've finished planning your wedding and now you're preparing the honeymoon of your dreams. If you're focused on finding the best LGBTQIA+ honeymoon destinations, we've done the research for you, along with the help of a few experts who specialize in LGBTQIA+ wedding planning and travel. So sit back, relax and read more about the must-see LGBTQIA+ friendly honeymoon destinations that you and your future spouse will never want to leave.

In this article:

• The Difference Between LGBTQIA+ Friendly and LGBTQIA+ Inclusive Honeymoons
• LGBTQIA+ Friendly Honeymoon Destinations in the United States
• LGBTQIA+ Friendly Honeymoon Destinations Abroad

The Difference Between LGBTQIA+ Friendly and LGBTQIA+ Inclusive Honeymoons

If you're aiming to find an LGBTQIA+ honeymoon destination, you may have noticed the phrase "LGBTQIA+ friendly" pop up during your search. But what does that phrase really mean, and is it different from "LGBTQIA+ inclusive?" Kirsten Palladino, co-founder and editorial director of Equally Wed and Equally Wed Pro, says there's a distinct difference between the two phrases. "LGBTQIA+ friendly has become a tired phrase used by businesses that simply mean, 'We will take your money without much of an attitude,'" says Palladino "It's transactional and it says nothing of how they feel about the LGBTQIA+ community, if the employees are trained in inclusive practices [or] if they are inclusive in their offerings."

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With that being said, do your research to determine if the city or country's policies for LGBTQIA+ couples line up with your values when searching for the perfect honeymoon destination. This will help you decide if the location is truly promoting inclusivity through action and not just verbally. If you're booking a resort or excursion, Palladino also recommends calling or emailing in advance to get a sense of whether or not their inclusivity is genuine. This piece of advice is also recommended by Yesenia Lopez, the Wedding Sales Manager for AIC Hotel Group, a collection of some of the most popular luxury properties around the world. "LGBTQIA+ couples should look for destinations that not only have a strong reputation for inclusivity but those who celebrate diversity," she says. "Couples should also do their research by reading reviews and ensuring the destinations offer safe romantic experiences for all communities."

LGBTQIA+ Friendly Honeymoon Destinations in the United States

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Going on your honeymoon is a beautiful, romantic experience you and your partner will never forget, but worrying about feeling unwelcome because of your sexuality shouldn't be on the itinerary. "[LGBTQIA+ couples] deserve safety like every other couple traveling anywhere in the world," says Brian A.M. Green, event planner and owner of By BrianGreen in Atlanta, Georgia. Additionally, Palladino adds that staying in the US for your honeymoon does have its perks: "Honeymooning in the US can be a lot of fun, as well as safer for the LGBTQIA+ community, since we have more rights in certain areas of the country and our marriages are legally recognized," says Palladino.

When it comes to LGBTQIA+ honeymoon destinations, there are a few that might come to mind right away. "Of course, everyone thinks immediately of San Francisco, New York City and Miami when they think of LGBTQIA+ locations, but there are some exciting under-the-radar ones as well," says Green. He recommends Charleston, South Carolina, Portland, Oregon and Austin, Texas as other LGBTQIA+ friendly cities that are great for a romantic getaway. Need even more ideas? Consider the following US-based destinations we recommend for same-sex honeymoons.

New York, New York

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The Big Apple has an abundance of LGBTQIA+ friendly neighborhoods, like Greenwich Village, Chelsea, West Village, Hell's Kitchen and many more. Of course, you can visit the classic tourist spots like Times Square, the Museum of Modern Art and the Empire State Building, but there are a lot of areas you can explore that are a little off the beaten path. Engross yourself in LGBTQIA+ history by visiting the Stonewall Inn, the bar where the 1969 Stonewall riots occurred, in Greenwich Village. Walk hand in hand at High Line, New York City's only elevated park built on old railroad tracks, to catch scenic views of the city in Chelsea. Enjoy some music at the historic Village Vanguard jazz club in West Village (legendary acts like John Coltrane and Miles Davis have played there). If you and your spouse are foodies, take a stroll down Restaurant Row in Hell's Kitchen and indulge in some of the most delicious food the city has to offer.

Where to Stay: The Standard, Highline | Read Reviews & Book Now; Ink 48 Hotel | Read Reviews & Book Now

Provincetown, Massachusetts

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This seaside town on the tip of Cape Cod is considered a longtime haven for people in the LGBTQIA+ community. You can relax on the beach, visit Commercial Street to go shopping or check out art galleries, go on a whale-watching tour or slurp down fresh local oysters. With so much to do, it's no wonder why Provincetown is one of our favorite LGBTQIA+ friendly honeymoon destinations.

Where to Stay: Somerset House Inn | Read Reviews & Book Now; Boatslip Resort & Beach Club | Read Reviews & Book Now

Chicago, Illinois

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Chi-town is brimming with incredible sights and activities, ideal for honeymooners who prefer a bustling cosmopolitan escape instead of something a bit more relaxed. Chicago is home to some of the biggest Pride events in the country, but there's so much more to get up to during your honeymoon here. Be sure to visit the Legacy Walk in Northalsted (formerly known as Boystown), which was the first officially-recognized gay village in the United States. Spend your days shopping and dining at LGBTQIA+-owned business in Andersonville, and at night venture over to Uptown for drinks, live music and vibrant nightlife. You may also want to schedule some time at the Pride Arts Center, where you can watch queer theatre, movie and comedy presentations.

Where to Stay: Hyatt Regency Chicago | Read Reviews & Book Now; Nobu Hotel Chicago | Read Reviews & Book Now

Austin, Texas

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Austin is one of the best gay honeymoon destinations, not only because of its prominent and diverse LGBTQIA+ population, but because of all of the infinite fun activities and yummy food it has to offer. Eat like a local and grab a bite of Tex-Mex before going to one of the many shows in the city known as the "Live Music Capital of the World." Take a romantic stroll through Zilker Botanical Garden, where you'll find multiple themed gardens and serene koi ponds. If you and your partner really want to spice things up, visit Hippie Hollow Park, the only clothing-optional public park in Texas.

Where to Stay: W Austin Hotel | Read Reviews & Book Now; Hotel San José | Read Reviews & Book Now

Key West, Florida

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This colorful island (literally—local architectural gems are painted yellow, pink and turquoise) is like an eclectic paradise for honeymooners, with avant-garde art, theater and live music that ranges from salsa to show tunes. A drag queen or two only adds to the funky, warmhearted charm of the Keys, whose official motto is "One Human Family." Choose from a variety of couple-friendly activities: Take the gay and lesbian historic trolley tour of Key West, visit Ernest Hemingway's former-home-turned-museum, snorkel above the coral reefs or sip mojitos on Duval Street, the palm-lined nightlife hub.

Where to Stay: Alexander's Guesthouse | Read Reviews & Book Now; Hyatt Centric Key West Resort & Spa | Read Reviews & Book Now

Atlanta, Georgia

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Considered the LGBTQIA+ capital of the South, Atlanta has plenty of entertainment for everyone to enjoy. If you love dolphins (because who doesn't?), make your way to the Georgia Aquarium, the largest aquarium in the United States, for some water-filled fun. Get lost in beautifully sculpted nature at the Atlanta Botanical Garden or go to a drag dining show for some nighttime excitement.

Where to Stay: Hyatt Regency Atlanta | Read Reviews & Book Now; Hotel Indigo Atlanta Downtown | Read Reviews & Book Now

Charleston, South Carolina

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This gay-friendly honeymoon destination has always attracted visitors with its rich history, delectable food and iconic European-inspired architecture. Enjoy this cobblestone city by going to the Historic Charleston City Market, a vibrant open-air market with over 300 artists and vendors. Once you're done shopping, spend some time in the ocean by visiting Folly Beach, just south of Charleston. And don't forget to get a picture of the Angel Oak tree before you go. It stands at 65 feet and is estimated to be 300 to 400 years old, one of the largest and oldest live oak trees east of the Mississippi. Our tip: Visit Charleston during the spring or fall, so you can enjoy the city without dealing with the (sometimes unbearable) humidity.

Where to Stay: Market Pavilion Hotel | Read Reviews & Book Now; Mills House Charleston | Read Reviews & Book Now

Manchester, Vermont

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If you're an outdoorsy couple, Manchester, Vermont is the perfect place for you. This small town is nestled in the beautiful Green Mountains with numerous hiking trails available for beginners and experts. You can also visit countless farms, antique stores and museums. The most popular must-see attraction is Hildene, The Lincoln Family Home, which is the gorgeous estate of Abraham Lincoln's son, Robert.

Where to Stay: Kimpton Taconic Hotel | Read Reviews & Book Now; Wilburton Inn | Read Reviews & Book Now

Portland, Oregon

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Portland, Oregon is one of the best LGBTQIA+ honeymoon destinations and has famously embraced the community for decades. Portland was the first major city to elect an openly gay mayor in 2008 and now has one of the five largest LGBTQIA+ communities in the United States. There's so much to do in this quirky city, like indulging in the food truck culture, seeing Mill Ends Park (the world's smallest park, which is only two feet across) and spending time at Portland's stunning Japanese Garden.

Where to Stay: Kimpton RiverPlace Hotel | Read Reviews & Book Now; Hotel Rose | Read Reviews & Book Now

Las Vegas, Nevada

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Whether it's Britney Spears, Celine Dion or J.Lo, Sin City has your favorite celebrity (or celeb impersonator) to serenade your new coupledom. Hit the jackpot at roulette, snag front-row seats to a Cirque du Soleil show, book the 16-course tasting menu at famed French spot Joel Robuchon or dance 'til dawn at Piranha Nightclub. The nonstop party atmosphere is perfect for celebrating your nuptials.

Where to Stay: The Cosmopolitan of Las Vegas | Read Reviews & Book Now; Westgate Las Vegas Resort & Casino | Read Reviews & Book Now

Napa Valley, California

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With more than 400 wineries, picturesque Napa Valley is the closest you can get to Tuscany sans passport. Considering San Francisco is known as a hub for LGBTQIA+ culture, we recommend starting your honeymoon there before venturing just over an hour north for an escape into the vines. Whether you're wine connoisseurs or vino virgins, you'll enjoy meandering through the breathtaking vineyards, funky farmhouses and charming wine cellars while sipping on a full-bodied cabernet. For a break from the pinot, indulge in some pampering in Calistoga, a town known for its mud baths, volcanic hot springs (including the famous geyser, Old Faithful) and world-class spas.

Where to Stay: Andaz Napa | Read Reviews & Book Now; Silverado Resort | Read Reviews & Book Now

Waikiki, Hawaii

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Honolulu's famous urban beach is the ideal place to unwind, especially if you're planning a same sex honeymoon. Take in the suntanned scene at Queen's Surf Beach in Kapiolani Park, arguably Hawaii's most popular gay beach, then head to the less crowded surfing haven of Diamond Head Beach. For the chance to celebrate and mingle with other couples, don't miss Hula's Bar & Lei Stand's weekly gay catamaran cruise.

Where to Stay: Hotel Renew | Read Reviews & Book Now; Hyatt Centric Waikiki Beach | Read Reviews & Book Now

Beaver Creek, Colorado

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Naturally, winter is the prime time to hit the slopes of this exclusive mountain enclave in Colorado, but it's also an idyllic honeymoon spot during the other three seasons. In the spring and summer, go hiking up Beaver Creek Mountain, plan a horseback riding excursion, try river rafting or check out local music festivals. In the mood to relax? Kick back in a mountain-view hot tub with a bottle of champagne.

Where to Stay: Park Hyatt Beaver Creek Resort & Spa | Read Reviews & Book Now; The Osprey | Read Reviews & Book Now

Sedona, Arizona

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Spiritual and serene, northern Arizona's breathtaking red-rock country is a romantic getaway for both the artsy and outdoorsy. Here, "relaxed" is the key word. Thanks to its high elevation, Sedona escapes the desert heat and serves as a year-round creative hub for dozens of galleries and festivals, not to mention its museum-quality sunsets. Feeling adventurous? Hop in a Jeep and take a day trip to the Grand Canyon, about 110 miles south. With so many ways to customize your stay, it's no wonder why this is one of our top LGBTQIA+ honeymoon destination recommendations.

Where to Stay: Sky Rock Inn of Sedona | Read Reviews & Book Now; Hilton Sedona at Bell Rock | Read Reviews & Book Now

LGBTQIA+ Friendly Honeymoon Destinations Abroad

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Although there are so many incredible honeymoon destinations within the US, some newlyweds may prefer to jet off abroad for their honeymoon. If you're considering doing the same, Palladino suggests you complete all your legal paperwork before marrying and make copies for the trip. "Should one or both of you need medical care, you'll be able to stay with each other in the hospital and make important decisions for each other," says Palladino. Once you get those logistics taken care of, you can start planning your honeymoon. Palladino recommends Toronto, Amsterdam and Lisbon as a few of the best honeymoon destinations for LGBTQIA+ couples. Want more options? Get inspired by our curation of international destinations that are great for LGBTQIA+ honeymoons.

Toronto, Canada

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Toronto has a thriving LGBTQIA+ community and holds one of the largest Pride events in the world, which is typically at the end of June. But don't worry if you can't make it to Canada that weekend, because there are a lot of other places and activities for you to take advantage of while you're there. Visit the top of the CN Tower, the world's tallest building for 32 years until 2007, and appreciate the gorgeous panoramic views. While you're there, make a reservation at the 360 Restaurant, where you can have the best fine dining experience while eating in the revolving space. Love art, food and beer? Take a trip to the Distillery District, where you'll find art galleries, numerous restaurants and a beer hall. Another must-see Toronto landmark is Casa Loma, a 98-room majestic castle built in the 1800s, where you can learn about its origins in the museum or listen to the Casa Loma Symphony Orchestra while sitting in the castle's gardens.

Where to Stay: The Anndore House | Read Reviews & Book Now; Fairmont Royal York | Read Reviews & Book Now

Puerto Vallarta, Mexico

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Puerto Vallarta is one of the top beach destinations in Mexico because of its bright blue water and white sandy beaches. This location is very accepting of the queer community, resulting in a large influx of LGBTQIA+ visitors every year. If you don't want to be a part of the party atmosphere, there are 27 miles of coastline, so you'll be able to find a private place for just you and your spouse. Make sure to book a tour to Islas Marietas, a group of exquisite uninhabited islands, where you can snorkel, kayak, paddleboard and scuba dive.

Where to Stay: Casa Cupula | Read Reviews & Book Now; UNICO 20°105° Hotel Vallarta | Read Reviews & Book Now

Saint Barthélemy (aka St. Barts)

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St. Barts' active night scene, along with its 22 mesmerizing beaches and delicious cuisine, solidifies why it's a playground for the rich and famous. When it's not the holiday season, the island—which is notorious for being a welcoming environment for the LGBTQIA+ community—is perfect for a newlywed romantic getaway. Bonus: The picturesque Dutch island of Saba is only 16 minutes away by helicopter.

Where to Stay: Christopher Hotel | Read Reviews & Book Now; Rosewood Le Guanahani St Barth | Read Reviews & Book Now

Curaçao

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This culture-rich Dutch Caribbean island has a laid-back "live and let live" philosophy, making it a welcome spot for LGBTQIA+ couples. Plus, its position below the hurricane belt means year-round sun. The island's charming capital, Willemstad, is a UNESCO World Heritage site that's worthy of an afternoon stroll. Go snorkeling or diving, or explore Curaçao's world-famous underwater life in the Curasub, a sleek mini-submarine that takes you down 1,000 feet below the sea's surface to reveal gorgeous coral, shipwrecks and exotic fish.

Where to Stay: Avila Beach Hotel | Read Reviews & Book Now; [THUIS]HAVEN | Read Reviews & Book Now

Saba

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This romantic and secluded volcanic island is known as the "unspoiled queen" of the Caribbean. You won't get masses of sun-deprived tourists here—just welcoming locals and plenty of privacy. See pretty black-eyed Susans (the national flower) on a hike up Mount Scenery, explore the village's gingerbread-like houses and picnic on the black-sand coastline. Keep in mind that this is the smallest island in the Caribbean, with very few beaches.

Where to Stay: Juliana's Hotel | Read Reviews & Book Now; The Cottage Club Hotel | Read Reviews & Book Now

Gran Canaria, Spain

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Thousands of travelers flock to Gran Canaria, Spain, every year for their renowned Pride events. (Highlights include Gay Pride Maspalomas in May, Winter Pride in November, and their annual Drag Queen Gala.) Honeymooners will want to spend a day (or multiple) at Yumbo Centrum, which is an LGBTQIA+-centered shopping and leisure hub with bars, discos, nightclubs and drag cabarets. When you're ready to relax, this destination in the Canary Islands is home to plenty of gay-friendly beaches, like Maspalomas, Montaña de Arena, Las Canteras, Corralejo, Sotavento and Cofete. Truly immerse yourselves in the island's beautiful vistas by booking an excursion through Rainbow Gay Tours, which will help you experience the sights up close and personal.

Where to Stay: Vista Bonita | Read Reviews & Book Now; Fahana Maspalomas | Read Reviews & Book Now

Aruba

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Aruba is considered one of the most LGBTQIA+ friendly islands in the Caribbean. Locals have created (and continue to create) spaces for people in the community to have fun while feeling safe. The island has pleasant weather year-round and lies outside of the hurricane belt. So, you can relax on the beach, go on a submarine tour or hang out with flamingos without worrying too much about the weather.

Where to Stay: Hyatt Regency Aruba Resort Spa and Casino | Read Reviews & Book Now; Bucuti & Tara Beach Resort Aruba | Read Reviews & Book Now

Iguazu Falls, Argentina

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Considered one of the world's natural wonders, unspoiled Iguazu is among the most magnificent waterfalls on earth. Iguazu Falls is the largest waterfall in the world (twice as tall as Niagara Falls) and creates a natural border between Argentina and Brazil. Wind through twisting hiking trails with unbeatable vistas, or arrange a canopy tour to explore the surrounding subtropical rain forest. For a complete experience, explore the falls on both the Argentinean and Brazilian sides. Bonus: Buenos Aires is only a 90-minute flight south.

Where to Stay: Loi Suites Iguazu Hotel | Read Reviews & Book Now; Amérian Portal del Iguazú | Read Reviews & Book Now

Amsterdam, the Netherlands

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We bet you'll fall in love with this gay-friendly honeymoon destination as soon as you get off the plane. This eclectic Dutch capital with rich history, entertainment and unique food is the ideal place for newlyweds to celebrate. You can take a boat tour through Amsterdam's famous canals and if you want a more romantic feel, there are boats serving dinner and cocktails in the evenings. Feeling hungry but can't decide what cuisine to choose? Head to Foodhallen, an indoor food market that offers a plethora of options to satisfy any craving. We have to say our favorite attraction is A'dam Toren, a 22-story tower filled with restaurants, bars, a hotel and even a swing that hangs over the edge of the rooftop with the best city view.

Where to Stay: The Dylan Amsterdam | Read Reviews & Book Now; Amistad Hotel | Read Reviews & Book Now

Mykonos, Greece

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Reportedly, Jackie Onassis and Grace Kelly's travels to this Greece hotspot in the 1970s made Mykonos internationally famous. Since then, people haven't stopped visiting this Mediterranean delight. There are numerous beaches, nightclubs and shops that will leave you and your spouse spoiled for choice. Mykonos is known for its white-washed buildings, but don't forget to take a picture of the 16 historic windmills sitting seaside, built around the 16th century.

Where to Stay: Hotel Rochari | Read Reviews & Book Now; Cavo Tagoo Mykonos | Read Reviews & Book Now

Lisbon, Portugal

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Truly a wine-lover's paradise, Portugal has a long list of world-class varietals available so you and your partner can quench your thirst. But sipping on vinho verde isn't the only thing to do; Check out almost 150 years of Portuguese art at The National Museum of Contemporary Art, or visit the Torre de Belém, which stands right on the Tagus River, for its mesmerizing mixture of architectural styles. And if you're interested in learning something new on your trip, take surf lessons at Caxias Beach, just west of central Lisbon.

Where to Stay: The Late Birds Lisbon | Read Reviews & Book Now; Altis Avenida Hotel | Read Reviews & Book Now

Ibiza, Spain

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If you really want to go all out after your wedding, celebrating in Ibiza is the best option for you. Known for its huge party scene, Ibiza will quench your thirst for nonstop luxurious nightlife. If you want to take a break from it all, visit some of the island's ancient villages, scenic beaches and hidden coves.

Where to Stay: The Purple Hotel | Read Reviews & Book Now; Axel Beach Ibiza | Read Reviews & Book Now

Tel Aviv, Israel

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Tel Aviv is known as one of the most gay-friendly cities in the world, resulting in it being one of the best LGBTQIA+ honeymoon destinations on our list. Take the time to go to Jaffa, an ancient port city with impressive architecture, meander through one of the city's museums or visit the sparkling coastline to have a dip in the Mediterranean Sea.

Where to Stay: INTA Hotel | Read Reviews & Book Now; The Rothschild Hotel | Read Reviews & Book Now

Cape Town, South Africa

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Cape Town is arguably the most welcoming city in Africa for LGBTQIA+ couples and is a great place for newlyweds to immerse themselves in African culture. Cape Town has slowly become one of the most frequented cities in the country and has blossomed into a bustling metropolis with plenty to do. Take a trip to the famous Table Mountain, where you can hike or go to the top by cable car, sunbathe on the beach or tour a vineyard in the Cape Winelands.

Where to Stay: Queen Victoria Hotel | Read Reviews & Book Now; The Glen Boutique Hotel & Spa | Read Reviews & Book Now

French Polynesia

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French Polynesia is made up of 118 islands that spread out among the South Pacific Ocean. Known for its volcanoes, piercing blue oceans and overwater bungalows, French Polynesia, or its capital island Tahiti (some people use the names interchangeably), is the perfect luxury honeymoon getaway. Bora Bora, another destination famous for its turquoise ocean waters, is a part of this French Polynesian island group. Its breathtaking scenery provides one of the best environments for you to bask in your marital bliss. No matter if you want to go island hopping with your spouse, snorkeling or stuff yourself with mouthwatering French Polynesian cuisine, you'll find something that you can check off your bucket list.

Where to Stay: InterContinental Bora Bora Resort Thalasso Spa | Read Reviews & Book Now; The St. Regis Bora Bora Resort | Read Reviews & Book Now

Phuket, Thailand

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Even though a flight from the US to Thailand is about 20 hours, we promise you it's worth the trip. According to Green, it's one of the most inclusive cities in the world and has some of the best food, nightlife and watersports too. Sail through Phang Nga Bay to see the famous "James Bond Islands," climb the Nakkerd Hill to see the 148-foot tall Big Buddha or walk through Bangla Night Market to try tasty street food. The options are truly endless in Phuket.

Where to Stay: The SIS Kata | Read Reviews & Book Now; The Naka Island | Read Reviews & Book Now

Additional reporting by Sarah Hanlon.