The Best 3-Year Anniversary Gifts for Celebrating Another Year of Marriage

Good things come in threes, which hopefully means your third year of marriage will be the best one yet. Start it off right with a three-year anniversary gift. Whether you're shopping for your spouse or celebrating one of your favorite couples, these are the best traditional and modern anniversary gifts for the third anniversary. We've also curated a selection of ideas inspired by the anniversary's flower, gemstone and color so it's easier than ever to find a meaningful three-year anniversary present for him, her or them.

In this article:

• What is the 3-Year Anniversary Gift?
• Our Favorite Traditional 3-Year Anniversary Gifts
• Unique 3-Year Anniversary Gifts

What is the 3-Year Anniversary Gift?

The three-year wedding anniversary is associated with a traditional and modern material, as well as a flower, gemstone and color. The traditional third anniversary gift is leather. This material is strong, flexible and durable just like a couple after three years of marriage. It's also resilient, promising years of use and stability (AKA happiness and love).

For a more contemporary approach to third wedding anniversary presents, consider the year's modern gifting materials: crystal and glass. These translucent materials symbolize the clarity and honesty within a marriage after three years. Although beautiful, the fragility of crystal and glass reminds couples to continuously care for and nurture their relationship.

Beyond the traditional and modern gifts, three other symbols offer inspiration for a third wedding anniversary present: sunflowers, pearls and the colors white and jade. Sunflowers, the official three-year anniversary flower, perfectly express the joy and happiness of reaching this milestone. Pearls, the gemstone associated with this anniversary, represent love, commitment and enduring beauty. Lastly, the colors white and jade carry symbolic weight. Like pearls, white symbolizes beauty and purity, while jade often represents harmony and balance.

There is no shortage of inspiration for third anniversary presents, especially when you explore our curated selection of the best three-year anniversary gifts for him, her or them.

Our Favorite Traditional 3-Year Anniversary Gifts

Leather anniversary gifts offer a wide range of stylish options, including leather jackets, belts, wallets and bags. There are also unexpected ways to interpret the traditional third wedding anniversary gift like a musky scented candle, preserved roses and wall art. Intrigued? Here are our picks for three-year anniversary gifts related to the traditional theme.

Framed Sheet Music

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Married to a big music fan? We can't think of anything more fitting than a personalized throwback to your wedding first dance song. This engraved leather sheet music comes in a stylish wooden frame so it's fully display ready. It's a sweet third anniversary gift that'll remind your spouse of the romantic tunes of your wedding day.

Box of Preserved Roses

Photo: Rosepops

A rose for every year they've been your beloved spouse! Except these flowers are extra-special because they're preserved to last up to a year without any additional care. Better still, the heart-shaped box they pop out of is made of vegan crocodile leather to fit the three-year anniversary's traditional theme.

Engraved Beaded Bracelet

Photo: MYKA

Wearable anniversary gifts are always a good idea, particularly when you're working with a versatile material like leather. This braided black or brown leather bracelet features metallic beads (there are four finishes to choose from) engraved with personal details like your names, kids names, wedding year or a short romantic message. Best of all, it's available in both men's and women's sizes, making it a thoughtful (and on-theme) third anniversary gift for him, her or them.

Travel Jewelry Case

Photo: Mejuri

If your other half loves jewelry and travel, here's a three-year anniversary gift that checks all the right boxes. Stylish and compact, this leather jewelry case comes with compartments to keep rings and necklaces safe while they're on the go. You can even add your partner's monogram to the outside of the case to make it more personalized.

Hidden Message Belt

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If you think a belt can't be a romantic year-three anniversary present, think again. This luxe accessory can be personalized with your spouse's monogram and a sweet hidden message from you on the inside. Whether they wear it daily or only on special occasions, it'll remind them of your heartfelt love and appreciation (for them and their impeccable sense of style).

Made-To-Measure Jacket

Photo: The Jacket Maker

Your spouse will look and feel effortlessly cool in this gift idea for the third anniversary. Crafted from leather, this jacket is available in seven colors, including classic black, and features a quilted viscose lining, giving it a timeless appeal you'll both love. The best part is that it can be custom made to their exact measurements for a guaranteed perfect fit. Shopping for a last-minute gift? The Jacket Maker still has you covered. Their standard sizing (XS-4XL) is available with Prime delivery.

Classic Zippered Tote

Photo: Cuyana

A roomy tote bag is an essential wardrobe addition, especially if your spouse is always out and about. This stylish Italian leather option is unbelievably spacious so your spouse can carry their laptop and planner alongside their water bottle and gym clothes for after work. Best of all, the hidden zipper ensures nothing falls out while they're on the go.

Convenient Card Wallet

Photo: Ekster

If you're looking for a practical third anniversary gift for your partner, it's hard to go wrong with a wallet. This sleek design is made from environmentally certified leather and comes with smart technology that makes credit cards accessible at the push of a button. It's also compact enough to carry around in a pocket while still holding up to 12 cards (or plenty of cash). Best of all, this wallet boasts technology that protects against wireless card skimming to keep everything secure. What's not to love?

Anniversary Material Art

Photo: Uncommon Goods

When it comes to personalized anniversary gifts, Uncommon Goods has a ton of unique options to choose from. This framed art is inspired by the traditional three-year wedding anniversary gift and features a heart made from woven strips of vegan leather. Your names and wedding date appear underneath, along with a short message about the sentiment behind the material.

Monogrammed Drink Coasters

Photo: Mark & Graham

If you and your spouse enjoy your coffee, cocktails or carbonated drinks anywhere but the kitchen table, always having a coaster within reach is crucial. Sold as a set of four, these round coasters are made from Italian leather in brown, black or dark green and can be personalized with a gold foil monogram. They're a winning traditional third wedding anniversary gift for anyone who values practicality and style.

Unique Wine Carrier

Photo: Lux & Nyx

For the duo who love picnics, outdoor concerts or happy hour at a friend's house, this tote will ensure they never arrive anywhere parched and empty-handed. This chic wine carrier, made from upcycled, weather- and stain-resistant leather, allows couples to effortlessly transport up to a 1.5 liter bottle of wine or champagne. It'll be the never-forgotten addition to date nights and social gatherings.

Personalized Valet Tray

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If keeping track of their possessions isn't one of your spouse's many, many strengths, here's a beautiful keepsake they'll find really convenient. This handmade, premium vegan leather valet tray can hold all those small things that are so easily misplaced like their keys or earphones. They might not want to overfill it though. The base is laser engraved with their monogram or even a letter from you.

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Personalized Writing Journal

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For the spouse who loves to record everything on paper, a softbound leather notebook is a good three-year anniversary gift for her, him or them. Whether they use it for journaling, jotting down lists or planning for the future, this beautiful gift will make every note feel special. Have it personalized with their monogram, and leave a hand-written message inside for a sweet surprise.

Magnetic Bookmark

Photo: Uncommon Goods

If your spouse is a big reader—and a big sleeper—this is a small, yet charming present for the third wedding anniversary. The faux leather bookmark reads, "Fell asleep here." It's magnetic, allowing it to clip easily between pages, and shaped like an arrow, enabling your spouse to mark the exact sentence where they stopped reading. Of course, you'll probably still hear, "Just one more chapter, then I'll go to sleep."

Scented Candle

Photo: P.F. Chang Co.

Although this gift isn't made of leather, it still aligns with the theme of the third wedding anniversary. This soy wax candle features top notes of leather and citrus, with hints of tobacco leaf, sandalwood and teak for a rich, musky scent. Some playfully compare it to a boyfriend's aroma. It's P.F. Candle Co.'s signature fragrance, and we suggest opting for the larger size, as it's likely to be burned frequently.

Modern 3-Year Anniversary Gifts

Crystal anniversary gifts are guaranteed to dazzle—both literally and figuratively. So for a third anniversary gift for your wife, husband, spouse or couple friends, take inspiration from the modern material of crystal or glass.

Custom Engraved Vase

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If your spouse loves to display fresh blooms in your home, they'll swoon over this elegant crystal vase from Vera Wang and Wedgwood. The pretty vessel features an intricate leaf motif pattern and can be etched with up to five lines of custom text. Add your names, wedding date or a romantic quote for a modern and meaningful three-year anniversary gift.

Swarovski Tennis Bracelet

Photo: Swarovski

It's hard to think of crystal without thinking of Swarovski. The luxury brand offers a wide array of stunning precision-cut crystals perfect for wowing your spouse, from jewelry and handbags to ornaments and figurines. One of our favorite pieces is this shimmering tennis bracelet. Whether the setting is rose gold, gold or silver-hued, or if you choose white or pink crystals, this timeless accessory will glisten in the light and make your spouse look even more fabulous.

Use the code Theknot10 for 10% off.

Round Ring Holder

Photo: Waterford

Waterford is another well-known brand for crystal goods, with a focus on elegant home and barware. This ring dish will be a beautiful and practical addition to your spouse's vanity. Whenever they need to remove their wedding ring, they can slip it on the central spike for safe keeping. The surrounding bowl is good for storing their necklaces or earrings, too. We especially love that the crystal is cut to resemble hearts to really emphasize your affection.

Statement Watch

Photo: Bulova

Because your spouse lights up your life, they deserve an accessory that shines just as bright. This striking watch features 447 genuine crystals, delivering exceptional sparkle. This timepiece is sure to become a cherished item they'll love to show off for years to come.

Use the code 10THEKNOT for 10% off your first purchase.

Personalized Watch Box

Photo: Personalization Mall

This third anniversary gift idea combines the traditional material (leather) and the modern material (glass), so you don't have to choose. The vegan leather watch box securely holds five or 10 timepieces in felt-lined compartments, keeping your spouse's valued accessories organized and safe. The standout feature is the glass lid, which can be engraved with a personalized message like, "Spending time with you is my happiness."

Use the code KNOT15PM for 15% off.

Hometown Map Drinking Glasses

Photo: Uncommon Goods

Celebrate your third anniversary in style with a modern set of whiskey glasses engraved with a map of the place you call home. This display-worthy duo will make sipping your favorite drinks all the more enjoyable, as well as add a fun decorative element to your bar cart. You can also add the name of the location or your shared last name to make this three-year anniversary gift feel even more special.

Glass Cocktail Smoking Kit

Photo: Bespoke Post

Shopping for a budding mixologist? Think outside the box with this cool cocktail smoking kit. It includes all the essentials for making the perfect signature drink, like an oak platform, a glass smoking dome, a butane torch, a cocktail glass and a pack of barrel-aged smoking chips. Want to take this modern-themed gift one step further? Buy them all the ingredients they need to create a special anniversary cocktail—with a smoky touch, of course.

Engraved Anniversary Hourglass

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Here's a sentimental gift that fits the modern three-year wedding anniversary theme: a beautiful hourglass engraved with your names and wedding date. It's filled with white sand and features a simple yet sweet message that reads, "Our Love is Timeless." As an added bonus, this meaningful keepsake arrives in a satin-lined box for an elegant presentation.

Use the code KNOT15PM for 15% off.

Swarovski Crystal Rose

Photo: Swarovski

Your love is crystal clear, so why not show it with a decadent gift from Swarovski? This dainty glass ornament features three pink roses that come together in a delicate bouquet for a magical and modern third anniversary gift. Whether or not they display these glass blossoms with the accompanying bell jar, your spouse is bound to be dazzled.

Custom Song Plaque

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Do you two have a special song you've both made your own throughout your relationship? This romantic glass plaque comes with an LED light that will display your chosen tune as it's shown on Spotify. Up the ante by adding a memorable snapshot (from your wedding or a more recent celebration) as the album cover. It's a charming and thoughtful gift that's clearly worthy of the three-year milestone.

Unique 3-Year Anniversary Gifts

Beyond leather, crystal and glass, there are additional traditions to consider when selecting a third-year anniversary gift for your wife, husband, spouse or friends. Explore more three-year anniversary gifts, featuring ideas inspired by the official flower and gemstone (sunflowers and pearls, respectively) alongside unique options your loved one will adore.

Sunflower Bouquet Delivery

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Sunflowers represent positivity, love and loyalty—and since they're also the third wedding anniversary flower, this vibrant bouquet will feel even more meaningful. These cheery yellow blooms are paired with dreamy pink and orange blossoms for a color combination that really pops. Have them delivered to the door to surprise your spouse on the morning of your anniversary.

Use the code KNOT18F for 20% off.

Heart-Shaped Bamboo Plant

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Flowers not your partner's thing? Consider a cute plant instead, like this bamboo plant. The stalks are uniquely shaped to resemble two hearts for a sweet and creative gift representing your growing love. It's not just nice to look at, though—this low-maintenance plant also removes pollutants from the air to keep your home fresh. Cool, right?

Use code KNOT18F for 20% off sitewide.

Adventure Challenge Mini Dates

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After three happy years of marriage, it's totally normal if you're running out of great date night ideas. Not to worry, though—The Adventure Challenge Mini Dates pack will change all that. It includes 30 cards of fun date-night activities you can enjoy as a duo, from anything-but-the-kitchen-sink sundaes to painting each other's portraits. The best part? Each activity can be completed in a half-hour or less, so you can easily take some time out of your busy schedules to reconnect.

Use the code THEKNOT25 for 25% off sitewide.

Personal Pizza Maker

Photo: Uncommon Goods

If your spouse loves making homemade pizza, this miniature oven is a practical anniversary gift they'll appreciate. The compact cast iron oven can be used to make personal pizzas on the grill in less than 10 minutes. Best of all, it's portable—so you can easily bring it on your next camping trip or outdoor adventure.

Indoor Smart Garden

Photo: Click & Grow

Whether your love is a gardening novice or a green-thumbed pro, an indoor smart garden is sure to be a hit. Perfect for apartment living, this version from Click & Grow includes nine plant capsules for tomatoes, basil and lettuce. If you're worried they'll forget to water the plants, fear not—the kit comes with an automatic watering system, as well as timed lights that go on and off to deliver the perfect amount of "sun."

Use the code TKxCG22 for 22% off.

Wooden Reading Valet

Photo: Uncommon Goods

Taking inspiration from their favorite pastime is a great way to find a unique third anniversary gift they'll actually use. If you're married to an avid reader, this wooden valet will give them a designated spot to keep their latest page-turner. It also offers space for reading glasses, a cup of coffee and a phone, so they'll have all their essentials nearby when they finish a chapter.

Luxe Pajama Set

Photo: Lunya

If your other half hasn't already bought a pair of luxury pajamas, the third wedding anniversary is a perfect excuse to treat them. This cute set includes a ridiculously comfy tank top and shorts made from washable silk to make bedtime a dream. And it comes in white, one of the three-year anniversary's official colors! Trust us, they'll never want to take this pretty loungewear off—but when they do, it's machine washable.

Use the code FOR-TK for 15% off your first purchase.

Personalized Makeup Bag

Photo: Personalization Mall

If you're looking for something jade, the other third anniversary color, you're in luck. This pretty makeup bag comes in a dark green shade and can be personalized with your spouse's name for a thoughtful touch. Want to make this practical gift feel extra special? Hide a surprise inside, like a gift certificate to shop their favorite makeup brand.

Use the code KNOT15PM for 15% off.

Pearl Drop Earrings

Photo: Mejuri

Pearls, the official gemstone for the third anniversary, offer a classic and elegant way to celebrate. These gorgeous drop earrings, crafted with freshwater pearls and set in 18K gold vermeil are a great pick if you're shopping for anniversary jewelry. Whether they wear them for date night or brunch with friends, they'll be reminded of your love every time.

Heirloom Cookware

Photo: Le Creuset

If they regularly warm your heart (and your stomach) with delicious fresh-baked bread, your spouse's jaw will drop when they unwrap this gift. What could be better than a bread oven made by everyone's favorite luxury cookware brand, Le Creuset? If that's not enough to convince you, this hardy piece comes in lots of beautiful hues, including white, one of the third anniversary colors.

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